What are his intentions??
This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Moodz2468 on Thursday, May 23, 2013 and has 9 replies.
OK I have been dealing with a cancer man and its been one hell of an emotional ride. We only been talking for a few months, its long distance. We have had complications and pretty much ended things becuase the relationship was not moving forward in a way it should be. Miscommunications, misunderstandings, disappearing acts, etc... I have expressed to him on numerous occasions that I was unhappy and asked would it be better for us to see other people. I am guessing he does not like for me to tell him whats bothering him. I thought in a relationship you have to open about your feelings in order to make things work. He chose not to make an effort to try to make it right between us. so I decided what was best for me and try to move on. he was confused on what he wanted out of the relationship or where he wanted the relationship to go. I was always left in a state of confusion not knowing anything thing about his feelings. Its only been a couple of days since i told him I was done with games. He keeps sending me pictures of us together and my little love notes and poems I wrote to him. Why is he doing that? I did ask him what he is trying to say when he sends me these things and I have yet to recieve an answer. I just dont get it. I am a cancer too and I dislike when somebody is trying to play mind games. Either he wants me or not plain and simple. I have told him this also. I am so tired.
If a man sends mixed messages it means he's not in love with you. A man whose in love would not risk losing you over playing these kinds of games. This man is immature and won't make you happy. Don't settle for half a banana. Hold out for a man who really digs you.
Well said este8 that is do true x
When men do this they do not want to be with you. I had a cancer man do this to me and it was years of back and forth. Yes years. Cut him off and dont ever give in.
The past couple of days I havn't contacted him. He is the one that keeps sending me these stupid messages. Its almost like he wants me to feel sorry that I walked away or something. This whole thing is so frustrating.
Posted by Moodz2468
The past couple of days I havn't contacted him. He is the one that keeps sending me these stupid messages. Its almost like he wants me to feel sorry that I walked away or something. This whole thing is so frustrating.
It means he likes knowing you're waiting in the wings for him. You might even graduate from "wing girl" to "fallback girl" but how long would that last and would it make you happy? If he really dug you, he'd be consistent and clear. I'm not trying to rain on your parade but women can waste an amazing amount of time & energy on men whose aren't "in it to win it" and aren't worth the effort. When it is right, you won't be asking these questions.
I plan on staying away. I threw in the towel I am done. I already ended it. I just don't like games he playing.
You could tell him that you don't want to have contact with him anymore.
Lol hahaha thumps up for BikerCh1ck haha
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