What do Cancer men want?

What is it that Cancer men truly want?

I'm confused because your moods change so much, and sometimes you move way too fast, and retreat right away when you don't get the response you want.

Some more details would be nice.

I am not dating him, we're fwb, but thanks for asking.

Asking in general. In particular Cancer men even as friends get super moody on me for no noticeable reason or perceived slights. For example, my friend and I went to a restaurant he recommended. He said there would be live music, it was over by the time we got there. No big deal to me, I said it's ok, let's just eat then. He got all quiet and moody, AND cut the evening short after that.

I've met 3 Cancer male friends in my life and it seems like each one can get super moody in an instant. What gives, and how can I be a good friend to these Cancers?

More details would be nice. But generally, Cancers are very loving creatures, but they are also very selective about who they choose to pursue. So if this Cancer man decided to pursue you, then he has probably thought long and hard about building a relationship with you and has probably put a lot of time and energy into you (and has probably showed you nothing but deep, deep unconditional love from the depths of his soul, giving you all of him). And Cancers don't move fast (we come out of our shells, then go back in...rinse, lather and repeat for quite some time until we're sure that you're worth our time) So if he moved fast, then I'm almost sure he was ready to make you his queen. And if you rejected him (thereby rejecting his love, sincerity and effort, he probably was deeply deeply hurt and ran directly in his shell). If we give you the world and figure out you wouldnt do the same or that you don't feel the same way about us, then we will cut you off in an instant and give no more.

And if you guys are FWB, and he tried to initiate a relationship with you and you denied him then he probably feels like you are bullshitting him, stringing him along for your selfish purposes...BIG, BIG MISTAKE.

well yes, I see why this cancer cut her off. But the moods swings get better with evolution and growth.

Wow..talk about jumping to conclusions. Who cut me off from what?

First of all, I have only ONE FWB, the Cap.

This Cancer is just a friend, and we went for dinner BEFORE I met the Cap. Even if I went for dinner with him after, so what?

Btw, it was the FIRST dinner I ever went with him, and he pulled that moody crap, so that's just rude. We're just getting to know each other as friends, so that's a bad impression to make. In fact, every cancer guy I've known has pulled some moody shi* on me the first time we hang out. Maybe I just don't get along with them because I'm not used to walking on eggshells.

But anyway, thanks for your answer just the same.

I'll be more careful with Cancers from now on.

*clears throat* I quote: "I am not dating him, we're fwb, but thanks for asking." Sounds like you were saying you have a FWB relationship to me. If he retreated, I assume he cut you off (or may soon).

But, yeah, I know what you mean by walking on eggshells when it comes to Cancer moodswings. Usually when we're moody, something internal is going on, but that's still no excuse.

he is good as gone,mwwww ha ha ha ha,lol.....*clears throat for the last ha* ahem .ha!And there are many details u missin out.

Posted by cancerlady33
*clears throat* I quote: "I am not dating him, we're fwb, but thanks for asking." Sounds like you were saying you have a FWB relationship to me. If he retreated, I assume he cut you off (or may soon).

But, yeah, I know what you mean by walking on eggshells when it comes to Cancer moodswings. Usually when we're moody, something internal is going on, but that's still no excuse.

No no, she's fucking the Goat and friends with the Crab.

I honestly don't like moody men.
Ignoring their moods is the best course of action.
If they look really funky I will ask just once, if they are okay.
Depending on my mood; I may or may not stick around to hear the reason for their mood.