What do Cancerians Dislike about Librans

In your Experience what do you cancerians feel won't work when it comes to a relationship with a Libran?

well first things, we'll fall head over heels in love with librans when we meet one or we'll wanna kill them ripping their heart out trust me there is no median in this combination.

Things we'll dislike will be their fickleness, flakiness and their tendency to lie like their life depended on it! but when they sense a trouble for them they're never to be seen! they'll disappear into thin air on spotting a trouble miles away and you'll be left to weep on their own shoulders. they cannot make up their minds, heck you try asking if your dating one, a question like, "do you really like me?" and see what happens and that is a stability issue cancerians can just nottttt everrrr live with! they always think you're a sidekick and they can swap you with someone better any given time and they have like close to 0% loyalty rate. If something goes right, even if it's your idea they publicise it's theirs and if something goes wrong even if it's their mistake they'll blame it on you. serial heart breakers and they'll worm out all our secrets until bare and blackmail us with the same. oh and they'll try to get even for something you might have done like a year ago. wow i must've really known them too well lol

BUT mind you they're very good for cancerians because they can save us out of any pickle we get in and it's like our designation to get in pickles! also their gift of gab is out of the world we won't know what hit us! they are also very generous and kind and typical sweetheart types when they like us! it's easy to make them like us 😉

Me either. I'm not a cancer but I love libras. I think cancers get in good with libras.

Posted by princessacancersagittaire
well first things, we'll fall head over heels in love with librans when we meet one or we'll wanna kill them ripping their heart out trust me there is no median in this combination.

Things we'll dislike will be their fickleness, flakiness and their tendency to lie like their life depended on it! but when they sense a trouble for them they're never to be seen! they'll disappear into thin air on spotting a trouble miles away and you'll be left to weep on their own shoulders. they cannot make up their minds, heck you try asking if your dating one, a question like, "do you really like me?" and see what happens and that is a stability issue cancerians can just nottttt everrrr live with! they always think you're a sidekick and they can swap you with someone better any given time and they have like close to 0% loyalty rate. If something goes right, even if it's your idea they publicise it's theirs and if something goes wrong even if it's their mistake they'll blame it on you. serial heart breakers and they'll worm out all our secrets until bare and blackmail us with the same. oh and they'll try to get even for something you might have done like a year ago. wow i must've really known them too well lol

BUT mind you they're very good for cancerians because they can save us out of any pickle we get in and it's like our designation to get in pickles! also their gift of gab is out of the world we won't know what hit us! they are also very generous and kind and typical sweetheart types when they like us! it's easy to make them like us 😉

LOL Cancers disappear too though. As soon as they get a little upset with you, they won't talk about anything. How are things supposed to get resolved?

Im a Female Libra Sun/Sag Moon/Scorpio Venus, And She (Lol Yes She) Is a Cancer Sun/Leo Moon/Leo Venus.

Do they like the "sweetheart types" because she seems to respond more when Im a bit of a smart@ss. When Im sweet she is just not as responsive.

Posted by Arielle83
I've never met a masculine libra.

I've known four masculine Librans, but two of them were chicks.

I think cancers like you to be yourself whatever you are. I think anything fake or masked makes them nervous. But preference could be a little bit of sweet and sour

My ex-husband is a Libra. What drew me to him initially was the attention he gave me. In the beginning he was all about me and made me feel like the most beautiful and precious jewel on earth. Of course the problems started almost immediately and never ended. Not a good match at all. I like them as friends, but I'm done dating air signs.

Libra men are very charming. They are so social, total gentlemen. But they don't provide the security and stability I need. And I am probably too moody for them.

As a cancer male, I have found libra women to be charming, adorable and generally attractive. But they are the only sign (imo) that can rival us as being clingy and needy. This is not a bad thing per se, after all, crabs are similar, however the way a libran will deal with it is to pick fights with their mates and friends to blow off steam. This is even worse if they are highly stressed, while the crab will hide away to process his or her feelings the libra will want to argue and will manufacture something to argue. Talking is their way of processing. This manufacturing is also one of the reasons why they are called passive aggressive (the other reasons are much worse). I think that is the fundamental reasons why crabs and librans generally dont prosper together.

Libras gossip more than almost any other sign and many times they tell half truths sometimes innocently, other times with a purpose. The only other signs I've notice to come close to this is Leo who will also tell half truths but for the purpose of making themselves seem grand or to pump up the story.
Crabs (along with Scorps, Caps and Taureans) are more close to the vest so this is another big difference between the signs.

Finally, the work ethic can be high in a libra but it is not sustained and in a partnership, I've found, like princessacancersagittaire mentioned, that they will either disappear or try to negotiate an easier deal for themselves at your expense. It isn't that they dont see it as fair, it is just their accountability of things is different from how the crab will value it. The crab will weigh feelings and security are weighed much more valuable than how the libra will see it.

I believe those are the fundamental differences, but the way things go wrong with libras and crabs is when the crab needs to disappear to process or recharge. The libra will view this as an emergency disaster situation and demand attention, to alleviate insecurity. If the crab likes the libra, he will give her the attention she craves but eventually the crab will run out of his emotional reserves and will absolutely require alone time to recharge. If the libra decides to force the situation with an argument or situation to demand a response, then this will mark the beginning of the end. The libra will rationalize "After all, why doesnt he want to talk out his feelings like I would when I'm stressed and need to recharge?" This will push the libra to keep poking at the crab not realizing that each poke results in more and more emotional energy being lost until there is a breaking point and he will disappear for good.

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Posted by princessacancersagittaire
well first things, we'll fall head over heels in love with librans when we meet one or we'll wanna kill them ripping their heart out trust me there is no median in this combination.

Things we'll dislike will be their fickleness, flakiness and their tendency to lie like their life depended on it! but when they sense a trouble for them they're never to be seen! they'll disappear into thin air on spotting a trouble miles away and you'll be left to weep on their own shoulders. they cannot make up their minds, heck you try asking if your dating one, a question like, "do you really like me?" and see what happens and that is a stability issue cancerians can just nottttt everrrr live with! they always think you're a sidekick and they can swap you with someone better any given time and they have like close to 0% loyalty rate. If something goes right, even if it's your idea they publicise it's theirs and if something goes wrong even if it's their mistake they'll blame it on you. serial heart breakers and they'll worm out all our secrets until bare and blackmail us with the same. oh and they'll try to get even for something you might have done like a year ago. wow i must've really known them too well lol

BUT mind you they're very good for cancerians because they can save us out of any pickle we get in and it's like our designation to get in pickles! also their gift of gab is out of the world we won't know what hit us! they are also very generous and kind and typical sweetheart types when they like us! it's easy to make them like us 😉

LOL Cancers disappear too though. As soon as they get a little upset with you, they won't talk about anything. How are things supposed to get resolved?

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hehe it's a slippery slope, what can i say lol. despite all of it, seems I know too many cancer girl libra guy couple doing fairly well. oh and in every case the cancerian woman wears the pants 🙂

Posted by rabidtalker
I believe those are the fundamental differences, but the way things go wrong with libras and crabs is when the crab needs to disappear to process or recharge. The libra will view this as an emergency disaster situation and demand attention, to alleviate insecurity. If the crab likes the libra, he will give her the attention she craves but eventually the crab will run out of his emotional reserves and will absolutely require alone time to recharge. If the libra decides to force the situation with an argument or situation to demand a response, then this will mark the beginning of the end. The libra will rationalize "After all, why doesnt he want to talk out his feelings like I would when I'm stressed and need to recharge?" This will push the libra to keep poking at the crab not realizing that each poke results in more and more emotional energy being lost until there is a breaking point and he will disappear for good.

here is your answer! totally! disappearing act all other signs wonder regarding cancerians? it's exactly this - to recharge. he spoke the pov of every cancerian!

Posted by Gemican01
My hubby is a libra we have been together a long time and even have an Aquarius son together.

Coming from my cancer self, he is something else...I love him to death but the things that bother me about him:
He is sooooo slow he can take all day to do something and I have little patients and when he gets into a rut he is soooo self centered and probably the worst of all he never takes responsibility for his wrong doings and just plays stupid and ditsy instead.


Overall he is extremely submissive and sweet and I can't get enough of him, he makes me wear the pants and I really don't mind. He calms my crazy cancer storms. And when I asking him if he really loves me he always says yes of course with out a doubt and then tells me how he wouldn't even know what to do if anything ever happened to me. My Leo Venus just eats this all up.

How does he calm you? I always wonder how to calm a cancer. And as a leo venus Do you flirt with others a lot?

I adore Librans! I'm crushing on one but I just wish I knew where I stood. You don't just invite someone to a baseball game a few days before then go exclusive with someone else. That person is out of the picture now but why would I try again? Most of us need a steady brain of decisions because we're so unsure ourselves. Our inner gut is constantly throwing red flags at us. We need people to reassure us not prove us right.

Other than that funny, very cute and charming. And especially great at conversation.

Yea libras are cool people. To get a cancer back just be real and mean what you say and say what you mean. Really at the end of the day that's all they want. I think they like to know what to expect know what's going on and they want to love you without barriers and want you to love them without barriers. I think they like down to earth people who don't play games. I think that's why their disappearing act feels like a game when really it's a ok I'm done dealing with your fake ass front in dropping this and you until you get your shit together and on the meantime I'm going to go recharge and balance myself and find happiness in myself or other things or people.

I want cancer feedback on this. Really. You ever see the best cancer relationships where the cancer is openly affectionate in private or public and never "shells" on them and practically has no insecurity or limits to their love? It's because both people are real as shit and don't play games. When one wants the other they say so. When one hurts the other they say so and fix it immediately.

Posted by StarChild63
I want cancer feedback on this. Really. You ever see the best cancer relationships where the cancer is openly affectionate in private or public and never "shells" on them and practically has no insecurity or limits to their love? It's because both people are real as shit and don't play games. When one wants the other they say so. When one hurts the other they say so and fix it immediately.

Sorry, what do you want feedback on? More info on the need to "shell?" Unfortunately, we will always shell.......It's just a matter of how long and how the other person handles it. When things go well, it doesnt last more than a day, maybe less.