What is my cancer man thinking?

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GeminiSuvi
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11 Years

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I recently met a cancer man, he is new to the town where I live. I was asked to show him around as he is about my age (I'm 26, he 29). I wasn't expecting much... But we went to dinner and got along amazingly, he had me in stitches constantly and I left with this unusual feeling of being very comfortable with a man I had just met.

We have since caught up twice. Dinner again, then lunch and a wine tour. Each meeting better than the last. After the second time we caught up he messaged me about how unusual it is for him to feel so comfortable with someone straight away, so I know he feels something we well.

The last two times we have been out he's always insisted on paying for me (which leans towards more date then just friends?). He won't make a move though, which from what I've been reading is classics "cancer". I am worried though that maybe he doesn't see me in a romantic way and is just spending time with me because he doesn't know anyone else in town?

Can anyone share any insight into this situation or offer advice about how I should move forward? I really really like him and haven't ever felt so connected with someone.

After the last time we saw him I pretty much inmediately asked him out again for dinner a few nights later (tomorrow night) in hopes that it may show him I'm keen as last two times he's asked me out.

Ps. I'm a gemini if that helps 🙂

Thanks in advance for any advice
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2BlackIndian3
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11 Years1,000+ PostsCancer

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Well you should talk to him if you really like him. You two hanged out twice, dinner each time (Which he payed). He even messaged you telling you how you made him feel. He may be afraid you won't feel the same if he asked you to be his lady. We Cancers may not tell you we like you at 1st, BUT we'll definitely show you with actions. Our actions tell you everything. His actions definitely shows interests. So just tell him you like him. We Cancers like direct partners in terms of attracting us. You got nothing to lose by asking.
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GeminiSuvi
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11 Years

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Thanks for the advice 🙂

He has asked me out to the movies tomorrow night - and whilst I'm still torn between if its a date or if its just hanging out because he doesn't have friends here yet, I know that I need to make a move. Or at least signal to him some how that he should?

I am not normally the one who makes the first move (it's never been an issue before, to be honest) and I think that is one of the reasons I'm second guessing his feelings so much. Also, I think he's possibly too attractive for me... Which makes me guarded to make an ass out of myself.

Any cancer man have advice on what "signals" they pick up on from woman? Because at the moment I'm just considering turning up in a short that says "kiss me you fool"!!