what is sex to a cancer...
This topic was created in the Cancer forum by mine2u on Thursday, March 1, 2007 and has 19 replies.
how do cancers value sex? Why is it important or not important in a relationship?
in what circumstances would u without it, but give the rest
in what circumstances would u without it, but give the rest
I value sex a lot in a relationship. If it's bad I'll probably stick around a little longer than other signs but eventually be drawn to somebody else. Cancers do like to cuddle afterward though.
I love cuddling. More so than nearly every other man I've been with except for my virgo bf. He was lovely and cuddly.
us cancers are very sexual people...
but, we also tend to equate sex with love, so we are also very passionate when we have sex with someone...
but, we also tend to equate sex with love, so we are also very passionate when we have sex with someone...
oh, and for the record...i do NOT like to cuddle after sex!!!
Cancers are highly sexual but everything has to be 'right'. The right man, the right time, the right place. We need to feel really comfortable and trusting of the man and situation. Also, for me, there needs to be a connection with the person I am having sex with. I think sex is EXTREMELY IMPORTANT in a relationship. It's how I express my love and desire and my need to be one with the person I love. I also like to cuddle after sex...and before sex...and any other time of the day or night LOL!
"I value sex a lot in a relationship. If it's bad I'll probably stick around a little longer than other signs but eventually be drawn to somebody else. Cancers do like to cuddle afterward though."
That was golden....sex is VERY important to a cancer in a relationship....the only excuse for not having it is if someone is physically impaired. We will truly feel unloved without it...and will eventually get with someone else unless there is a DAMN GOOD reason why we aren't having it....
That was golden....sex is VERY important to a cancer in a relationship....the only excuse for not having it is if someone is physically impaired. We will truly feel unloved without it...and will eventually get with someone else unless there is a DAMN GOOD reason why we aren't having it....
So...I'm guessing this only applies to the Cancer Women. Cancer Men don't care who they sleep with right? What I mean by that is that they are not as easily attached.
Cancer man right here....we care the MOST.....believe it.
cancer women- "we also tend to equate sex with love"
yep...
yep...
yeah this is true.
My cancer told me early in our relationship that he can only make love to someone he really loved. Even though the physical attraction and chemistry between us was verryyy strong when we first met each other in person, we didn't sleep together. I wanted him very much but I knew it would have potentially ruined any hope for anything stronger between us and I'm glad I did.
Hey, is this true- will men, no matter what they say to a woman afterward, automatically lose respect for a woman if she sleeps with him the very first time they meet or go out? I was watching this show on tv the other day where men were having a discussion about dating and when asked this question, ALL the men said yes they lose respect for the woman if she does this even though they may tell her differently.
My cancer told me early in our relationship that he can only make love to someone he really loved. Even though the physical attraction and chemistry between us was verryyy strong when we first met each other in person, we didn't sleep together. I wanted him very much but I knew it would have potentially ruined any hope for anything stronger between us and I'm glad I did.
Hey, is this true- will men, no matter what they say to a woman afterward, automatically lose respect for a woman if she sleeps with him the very first time they meet or go out? I was watching this show on tv the other day where men were having a discussion about dating and when asked this question, ALL the men said yes they lose respect for the woman if she does this even though they may tell her differently.
If were a man I wouldn't base my opinion of/ respect for a woman on whether she slept with me on the first night. My opinion of her would be based on a number of factors of which sleeping together on the first date might be one. But I wouldn't simply write her off because we slept together on the first date.
Besides men like strong women with minds and opinions of their own. Not sheep who all follow a certain code of behavior. A woman who might end up sleeping with a man on the first date does not necessarily mean she is a slut.
Besides men like strong women with minds and opinions of their own. Not sheep who all follow a certain code of behavior. A woman who might end up sleeping with a man on the first date does not necessarily mean she is a slut.
"If were a man I wouldn't base my opinion of/ respect for a woman on whether she slept with me on the first night. "
but MellowDee that's because you are a woman so you are looking at it from a woman's perspective of not wanting to be judged.
but MellowDee that's because you are a woman so you are looking at it from a woman's perspective of not wanting to be judged.
Kate is right...make a man at least put a down payment on the cow before giving him free access to the milk. This will weed out a lot of jerks who just want to screw you and run. As a man I would be irritated with being made to wait but I would do it for someone who I REALLY thought could be the one.
"but MellowDee that's because you are a woman so you are looking at it from a woman's perspective of not wanting to be judged."
And don't men not want to be judged just as much??!!
Anyway I don't happen to think that my opinion depends on my gender. Maybe two people really click and it just happens. On the other hand there are types of men and women who sleep around as a matter of course and yes these people I guess are not to be taken seriously in what they say....and these men are pretty obvious from the outset as gigolo types. But there are lots of other types of guys out there whp are not gigolos...who don't even sleep aorund much if at all and then might just meet a woman and feel something for her and they have sex. Why should this automatically mean they are not the real thing.
And don't men not want to be judged just as much??!!
Anyway I don't happen to think that my opinion depends on my gender. Maybe two people really click and it just happens. On the other hand there are types of men and women who sleep around as a matter of course and yes these people I guess are not to be taken seriously in what they say....and these men are pretty obvious from the outset as gigolo types. But there are lots of other types of guys out there whp are not gigolos...who don't even sleep aorund much if at all and then might just meet a woman and feel something for her and they have sex. Why should this automatically mean they are not the real thing.
Thank you everyone
That was golden....sex is VERY important to a cancer in a relationship....the only excuse for not having it is if someone is physically impaired. We will truly feel unloved without it...and will eventually get with someone else unless there is a DAMN GOOD reason why we aren't having it....
He is somewhat physically impaired, oral and manual work for me too, but his desire is not there, although he loves it when i do him,
i may be guilty of not giving enough sexual attention now, i got so used to the rejection i dont touch it, well i try. But i am starting to see that may the problem, healthy for me is not being able to keep my hands of of him, we were clingy together. Maybe he felt unloved I gave up for a longtime, figured it to be pain or meds, but when the doc said he was cleared to go, I waited for him, and still none i asked we make a doc appointment again, is it the stress, i am putting effort into being sexy for him, trying to use porn as a couplem he said doc said we need counselling so we are waiting for the free clinic...meds to treat problem are expensive he says we can't afford get quicker counselling, we are in limbo, awaiting claim ok
That was golden....sex is VERY important to a cancer in a relationship....the only excuse for not having it is if someone is physically impaired. We will truly feel unloved without it...and will eventually get with someone else unless there is a DAMN GOOD reason why we aren't having it....
He is somewhat physically impaired, oral and manual work for me too, but his desire is not there, although he loves it when i do him,
i may be guilty of not giving enough sexual attention now, i got so used to the rejection i dont touch it, well i try. But i am starting to see that may the problem, healthy for me is not being able to keep my hands of of him, we were clingy together. Maybe he felt unloved I gave up for a longtime, figured it to be pain or meds, but when the doc said he was cleared to go, I waited for him, and still none i asked we make a doc appointment again, is it the stress, i am putting effort into being sexy for him, trying to use porn as a couplem he said doc said we need counselling so we are waiting for the free clinic...meds to treat problem are expensive he says we can't afford get quicker counselling, we are in limbo, awaiting claim ok
oh good lord Moon
yea i noticed hun
LOL...this place is too funny!
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