What is sign that cancer is inlove?

What is sign that cancer is inlove?

He'll be nice to you, he won't be the one ending a conversation, will help you out with whatever you have to do, will stalk you, give you meaningful little things, will want to stay away from you for a while, will be more moody when you're around. He'll want you to meet his friends.

He looks you straight in the eye and always feels confortable being with you.

We're not good at hiding our discomfort so he'll be easy to read.

SJ

Damn, this guy says he misses me like crazy & stuff like that, but I don't know, something feels cold. I had to communicate with him through email since he's been outta town for the last 2 months. Maybe when he calls he's just not as good as in person, but something feels fake & on the surface & it's freaking me out. He comes back tommorow & I'm not sure if I want to go through heartache again if he is being hesitant. Not sure. ahhhhh can't read this guy. Says something good, but- ok i will shut up. Just wanted some Cancer men opinion.

Hey Mr. Crabby tell us all about you. Go all out.
What do you like in a girl?
your likes and dislikes?
how you act around that special someone?
what do you say?
how do you react to what she does?
what do you worry about in a relationship?
why do you like to stay away?
do you like for girls to be expressive about how they feel towards you?
what turns you on?
off?
Please feel free to add more 😛

Hey tauruschic, what boat are you in? You involved with a cancer too? Keep in touch!

Sounds like so much trouble...

I feel for you. Just don't forget one thing, there are a lot of other men (even cancers) out there. You deserve to be treated right, just like all of us. If he treats you right, stay. If he doens't, leave. It's so simple isn't it =p?

I like femininity, like long hair and nails, elegance, etc...Someone who is up front, that will never lie to me, doesn't smoke, no drugs, no kids, doesn't use certain words and expressions, not bigger than me. Isn't afraid of intimacy, very respectful of me, doesn't waste stuff, doesn't try to convinve me or influence me if i say no, classiness.
I act like she's the only person to have ever existed (or at least the only person in the room), i'll take hours of my time to go have lunch with her because i feel like it.
I'll be interested in what she likes, will want to exchange ideas about everything, i don't think i would stalk now, i'm over that.
I worry about her disappointing me and love to fade, that's always how it happens. I'll try to endure and make it work until it's too much and it's over. I become in love quickly but it also fades quickly.
I might keep my distance some of the time, because i'll often be thinking that while this is so great, it will not last, and i might lose that person anyday.
They can be as expressive as they want, as long as the feelings are all true.
My turn-ons: makes me feel special, scratches me with her nails, subtle grinding, smart discussions, easygoing.
Turn-offs: public touching, lies, yelling, blame.

I'm a level 2 cancer, though, I'm still awkward but not as much.

The thing is, if there has been crap before, i'll never forget it, so even if i try to get back with someone, it's always gonna be delicate because most people dig dirt when they're angry, and i'm not willing to tolerate that. I don't tolerate much, usually. You have to be at your best or we'll see each other tomorrow. But the ideal situation is the "us two against the world" approach, something really close and deep.

Good luck, we're a handful.

I agree with mr.crabby

I like femininity too, i think thats why im drawn to many Libra women, thier so often very beautiful, i love female curves, the backside, hips and thighs.

If im in love i will dedicate a lot of my time to making sure things are just right, if im buying a gift for a woman im in love with i will take quite some time to make sure that the gift is right and of good quality, no expense spared for a woman that i love, with my last girfriend i was buying her christmas presents 4 months before christmas and was still spending on her till the last week before the holidays.

A woman i love can expect genuine attention and regular kisses, but if i feel that shes done something to hurt me i may turn oddly cold on her very quickly, also if shes upset me in some way it may take at least the rest of the day for me to feel normal again ( find it hard to just forgive in a few minutes )
i will dedicate myself to a woman that i love, i can resist the whole eyeing up other women thing, if im in love she will know as i will keep better eye contact with her and she will naturally be able to make me smile and give me that feel good factor that i will usually generate back to her, i will be happy to be alone with her, ready to help and assist her.

If i love her and there was only a single bed in a room, i would suggest she take the comfortable bed while i take the floor, of course not meaning that i would not want to share the bed with her but i think you know what i mean.

For a girl that i love i will also want to make sure that im looking good for her, my appearance to her is very important to me, i want to stand out to the woman that i love and to keep her attention.

If im in love with you, you will know it.

Ever notice how pretty libra arms are?

"Ever notice how pretty libra arms are?"

And others arms are curvative?

🙂

Damn sexy descriptions, guys. I'm getting so nervous now to see how things will go tonight. Damn two months can change a person but we'll see just how much he misses me. He did treat me like a queen when things were good, so what you said matches my man a lot. I'm cooking dinner and he's a sucker for my cooking so I just hope that he still sees me the same way. hmmmm maybe show a few of my curves while I'm at it? hehe sounds like all you crabs love that!

Whatever he does, you have to show your appreciation, though, don't forget that, or he'll stop caring fast.

lol, yeah seeing those nice womanly curves is definately a start, i dont mean it crudely either, for me a woman dosnt have to be in a skimpy skirt or dress, a nice pair of fugure hugging trousers still impresses me, the best of luck for tonight taurusgoddess, regarding the time that you both have been apart, i must say that if i hadnt seen my partner/potential partner for 2 months i would be a little nervous too, even if it had been on good terms when you last met, yeah and showing your appreciation as mr.crabby said is something too remember, he may return the favour soon and coou, im always reading how us cancers like to cook for others and to entertain guests, sincerely i hope it goes really nice for you both.

Next time i see the Libra woman i will check her arms 🙂

Oh Oh Oh

TG you better be on here 8am to give us ALL the details...you know I am living vicariously through the people on this board and I really hope this works out for you.

Wear something that reveals the breast/cleavage area...Cancer men LOVE LOVE LOVE boobs! Also you should fare well cooking...we love good home cooked meals.

Good Luck, Good Luck, GOOD LUCK! I hope you get some booty tonight!

CL/CM2

Thanks sweetie! It has been a damn dry spell!!!! lol
I'll let ya know tommorow how it went.

TG and Cancer Man....Ha Ha HAAAAA!!!

You go girl! Get the booty first, THEN discuss any problems...works better that way LOL

Tell me about it...It's the freakin Sahara desert over here!

Oh gawd! Let's not start counting the days CL! haha, OUCH!

Sweet dreams with cancer cuddled up beside me. 🙂

Never could thought that a woman could face soo big difficulity when she want to get laid.

Ya, but apparently cancerboy is worth it. 😉

ps. There is other things than getting laid that make a persona a bonus. But you're right, is it worth it?

So what happened, what happened?

Was everything cool, what did you eat? Do you mean he ended up spending the night? If so Whoooo-Hoooo!

Well he called to say he couldn't make it for dinner. I was soooooo mad. But really, he just got back 2am that day so, hmmmm, trying not to be selfish. It's tough with this guy, we're really always on the line, everything is so debateable to whether it's right or fair to each other.

So anyways,he came down not much later and well yeppers we missed each other lots!
And CL, I don't kiss & tell. 😉

Seriously though, I kinda think we're always going to have to really be patient because we are SOOOO different & I think miscommunication / misunderstanding will be common with us which sucks, which is why I posted the question - How far will we go for someone?

Thanx Mr. Crabby for answering my questions, they were very helpful. How true about Cancers liking the backside, both cancer boyfriends I've had have had a thing for my backside 🙂 Pretty much I think I fit the description, I like to look good for him, I'm not loud or vulgar in any way, very easygoing, very respectful and he knows that my feelings are sincere. Oh and who said something about scratching? that is also very true, he likes to be scratched.

I am facing a dilenma though... is it really important that a woman know how to cook? because he has asked me if I can cook and he keeps telling me to ask my mom to teach me how to cook traditional meals. Oh boy, I can count the times I've cooked with the fingers on one of my hands and I have fingers to spare.

Tauruschic! C'mon cooking is fun! Being a taurus you must've tackled the food department?!! Ok, well if he is typical cancer then he should like cooking so suggest doing it together with him. Make it romantic instead of being trained by his mother! eeek This is about LOVE, baby!

I agree with TG, I mean I LOVE LOVE LOVE cooking...but if you really hate it, turn up the heat & make it fun.

COOK NAKED! That'll DRIVE HIM WILD Listen to TG...but between you & me, Cancer men & women really appreciate a partner who can cook, even if they only do it once in a while. I suggest 30 min meals (Food Network hosted by Rachel Ray) Quick, Easy, Tasty!

BTW TG, details would have been nice, but I understand everyone is not as graphic as I am LOL

I'm a pretty good cook and i like it, but doing it together is always fun. You have to be able to cook "something", you know?

The only kind of cooking I like is throwing some meat on the grill while camping. I really hate the kitchen, I love food though, I guess I'll give it a go and maybe surprise him, although I don't like cooking the times I have cooked I noticed that I'm a natural- it was pretty good actually. I thought about it because his mom is the all-around traditional wife who cooks everyday and not just anything, real meals! oh and she's a taurus too! she is lovely. how funny because i'm a taurus like his mom and he's a cancer like his dad 🙂

Hey how about some recipes on here? what do you guys suggest?