what pushes your buttons?
This topic was created in the Cancer forum by ecent on Friday, October 19, 2012 and has 2 replies.
What pushes your buttons? And how do u get back on track when your buttons have been push?
Ok have been strongly trying to work on my self to be a better me. I have been trying to break old habits and also just being close to god just really looking act what god have been teaching me because I no I'm moving in a different stage in my life. Overall I'm learning that I am reacting the wronge way when people are pushing my buttons. I'm processing my sistuation wronge and I'm not dealing with these issue correctly .I am sure of this.
The recent sistuation. I'm act work and a leo coworker for yrs have been really irriating me for yrs off and on. She is 18 yrs older then me and always having issues, she comes the work late and her excuse is I have kids I go to bed late act night. Her comment to me when one day she's rushing to work late and snatch the keys out my hand she says I have kids u wouldn't understand because u have no kids, OMG I had to pray. How the hell u going to blame or complain to someone about your sistuation this is a job no one cares about you having kids that your problem not mine. Let me add y she said something to me because when she snatch the keys out my hand she can see that I was frustrate because she was late for work .
Another situation same girl,first of all she come to work late again. She rushing thru the door. Late or not when she come in the door that's when I suppose to finish my paper work,so I wait for her to get in to complete my paper work and leave,then she start her own paperwork. Well she comes thu the door rushing and grabs the keyboard to start her paper work because now she's behide schelude. So I said to her be4 she grabs the keyboard ,wait a min and let me finsh off my worksheet then she can get it cause I about to leave,t suppose to be off 30 mins ago. She grabs the keyboard real slow off the desk ,face looking straight then look down and started writing. OMG in my head I could have whip this bitch ass. So I said what your problem, she started talking about its to early for this mess and then she called me stuckup. After she made it seem like I am the one with the problem,I had to wait 5 mins for her ass to complete the begiinig of her forms so I can end mines and leave.... bottom line the bitch was being smart. This shit been going on with her ass for yrs.
Continue .......
Ok have been strongly trying to work on my self to be a better me. I have been trying to break old habits and also just being close to god just really looking act what god have been teaching me because I no I'm moving in a different stage in my life. Overall I'm learning that I am reacting the wronge way when people are pushing my buttons. I'm processing my sistuation wronge and I'm not dealing with these issue correctly .I am sure of this.
The recent sistuation. I'm act work and a leo coworker for yrs have been really irriating me for yrs off and on. She is 18 yrs older then me and always having issues, she comes the work late and her excuse is I have kids I go to bed late act night. Her comment to me when one day she's rushing to work late and snatch the keys out my hand she says I have kids u wouldn't understand because u have no kids, OMG I had to pray. How the hell u going to blame or complain to someone about your sistuation this is a job no one cares about you having kids that your problem not mine. Let me add y she said something to me because when she snatch the keys out my hand she can see that I was frustrate because she was late for work .
Another situation same girl,first of all she come to work late again. She rushing thru the door. Late or not when she come in the door that's when I suppose to finish my paper work,so I wait for her to get in to complete my paper work and leave,then she start her own paperwork. Well she comes thu the door rushing and grabs the keyboard to start her paper work because now she's behide schelude. So I said to her be4 she grabs the keyboard ,wait a min and let me finsh off my worksheet then she can get it cause I about to leave,t suppose to be off 30 mins ago. She grabs the keyboard real slow off the desk ,face looking straight then look down and started writing. OMG in my head I could have whip this bitch ass. So I said what your problem, she started talking about its to early for this mess and then she called me stuckup. After she made it seem like I am the one with the problem,I had to wait 5 mins for her ass to complete the begiinig of her forms so I can end mines and leave.... bottom line the bitch was being smart. This shit been going on with her ass for yrs.
Continue .......
Cont'd ..... so I talk about god at the beginning of my post because I no I need to learn how to deal with things and let it go. I have a problem with consuming shit in my mind and not letting it go because shit don't make since to me or just not right in my opinon. I been going thru this for awhile . Although I don't come out and say what's in my mine ,thank god for that, I have a habit of over thinking about people shit that don't make since.
Ok ..... so what pushes your buttons and how do u deal with it?
Ok ..... so what pushes your buttons and how do u deal with it?
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