Whats the big idea

...when cancers tell you they don't love you? Now, I'm thinking they're saying that because you've done something to 'hurt' them or that they really don't love you. I have reasons to believe its NOT the latter because of two reasons:
a)cancers will NOT spend time on you if they DIDN'T love you.
b) if they've ALREADY , indirectly, confessed their love to you they will NOT go back, especially if someone has NOT gone out their way to intentionally cause hurt.

Now for the part where it gets personal. I was having a conversation with this cancer and I asked her if she was having conversations with 'guy x'. She in return asked me y I didnt bring this up with her earlier and that why it should matter to me. I hate when they turn the questions around and put them on you! Oh and as soon as I started to get a teensy bit emotional and maybe a little jealous, she totally was trying to change the subject and when that didnt work she told me she had a headache and left! I think the best move here is to, wait it out for when she comes back, I believe I had done something, probably being too confrontational, to make her retreat into her shell. Its like pulling teeth trying to get things out of them!I knew that but I still went for it anyway JUST to see if I could prove what I knew about cancers wrong. Okay and thats where my cancer adventure for the week ends. lol.

Crudemoon,

If someone tells you that they don't love you, guess what happens? You become more attracted to that person. LOL! Saying I don't love you will make you want her even more, think about it.

heya krobe, seems like all that advice was in vain. she said she totally wasnt interested and will never be. well this was one of those cancers who like attention.. damn it! i should have known ;P

Oh, don't feel bad, mines loves attention too. LOL! But, if I would of constantly feed him attention while I am in a current relationship, he would have only been after me for revenge. SO I had to let him go until I get my act together. It is a good thing he told me I move to slow for him. If I would have rushed, we would have only lived a lie. I would not let her tell me that she was not interested because that will make you even more interested. Read some of these posts again. If you constantly feed her attention, then she would want more attention and more until you were not able to give her more and then it would have been on to the next one anyways. Mixed signals, dang it.

I think she really meant it. I asked her one simple question and she went off! She said I was the one playing mind games.. oh god. Said I got off on the mind games. Seriously. Three words: What the HELL.