I'm a cancer woman & about a month ago I started talking to this cancer guy, we met through a friend. The first time I met him he was really sweet, & kind, but super shy. We really didn't talk much that night because I figured he wasn't really into me, but as the night went on and I had a couple of drinks in me I got up the guts 2 ask him for his number. We exchanged numbers & the very next day he texted me. From that moment on we were talking all the time, I don't know if its a cancer thing or not but we both has so much in common it kinda scared us both but in a good way. We have this crazy connection & its something I have never felt before with any guy. That following weekend I went over his house to hang out and we just had the best time ever, I felt so comfortable with him like I could be myself, It didn't seem like I known him for a week but maybe even a yr ! Talking tho over the phone n text he told me that he doesn't open up easy n express his feelings n fear of getting hurt. Which I understand, me being a cancer n all but I am little more aggressive then him and more open with my feelings. He said he gave up on trying to hard because in the end he just ended up getting hurt, so now hes just lets things go with the flow. A couple weeks after that I ended up spending the night, and we did hook up, but it was the best experience ever & he told me that hes not the type of guy to sleep around & that he respects us & what we do. The next day after I met all his family and they were really nice 2. Things are going good now and normal but Im scared Im going to end up falling for him to hard. I know he likes me but its so hard to tell if he would want a relationship with me later down the line cause he keeps his feelings inside & he can be a bit shy at times. I just wanna make sure that this doesn't end up floating 2 no where because I really do like him but at the same time I don't want to play the whole cat and mouse game. He is 26 and Im 22 so its not like we are kids. But at the same time we only been talking for a month so I don't wanna out right ask him since is so fresh and new and don't want to scare him away.
