What's the good, bad & ugly on Aries?

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by cancerlovestaurus on Friday, March 23, 2012 and has 4 replies.
What's the good, bad & ugly on Aries?
Well, my dad and my son are both Aries. They are generous, can be charming, highly intelligent and have a good head on their shoulders and know how to make money. The negative is they are single-minded, bossy, arrogant, and have a my-way-or-the-highway attitude. My dad will go overboard to help someone who is willing to help themself; but, if someone is just wanting a hand out and not willing to put out effort on their own he is pretty cold and brutal towards them. They both sometimes have ways that will chill you to the bone -- could be words, attitude or actions. They think to get ahead in life (especially business) you have to squash the system or competitors. No qualms with lying or cheating the system -- just whatever it takes to get ahead in business. On the flipside, they are protective, strong, and will most of the time do the right thing because its the right thing to do. Tempers flare, yet, once its flared, everything is calm, no grudges and things are back to normal. After all I've said, I love them. You always want an Aries in your corner. They got your back!!!! Ain't no BS happening on their watch. I tell ya though, they are trustworthy and can keep a secret, help you cover a crime, won't tell your business - you name it. They are NOT gossips. In fact, getting information out them is like pulling teeth.
Now, women Aries (and I only know just one) is the kindest, most thoughtful person I know. Of course, I've never lived with her either. lol!
No expert on Aries, just my experience witnessing two of them.
I'm a total expert on Aries! Many of my best friends are Aries women and being around them has given me SO much insight.
>First of all, most Aries rams tend to be very blunt about everything. They're direct and clear cut. Its rare that they'll side step something. That bluntness can only be rivaled by Sagittarius. Second of all, they're EXTREMELY passionate and competitive. They'll always want to make their mark on something and someone that has a lot of Aries in them can be prone to getting severe headaches or migraines as a side effect. They're also natural leaders and unlike Leo, they don't really need to declare that they're the right job for something. Aries are doers -- They'll prove that they're right for a given job or situation simply by doing or expressing what's needed.
>What can be negative about these rams are that their bluntness can accidentally offend people and if they DO want to offend someone, their comments or actions can be extremely scarring. When they're angry about something, their tempers can be EXPLOSIVE and their wild sex drives can intimidate quieter lovers. They also might have a tendency to dominate conversations because they're so passionate about their opinions. That might even come off as being arrogant or egotistical to other people.
You probably won't be left hanging or wondering - you will either be basking in the glowlamp of Aries love or you don't exist.
Diplomacy not our strong point, but from an Aries point of view we are just telling it like it is.
We aren't here to tell you what we think you want to hear in order that we can get what we want out of you - if this is what you are after may I suggest you find a nice "diplomatic" Gemini.
A ram will stick by you when times are tough.
When you feel all is lost and no one in the world cares about you look over your shoulder - that warm breath you feel on the back of your neck is your Aries friend come to hold your hand.
I have a DREADFUL habit of interrupting. I am not trying to be rude, I just want to keep the conversation cracking at 100 miles an hour. I am trying to get better.
We aren't perfect. But we will give you 100% everytime.
Some will try to tell you we are all ME ME ME ME, conveniently forgetting we only look to ourselves AFTER we have taken care of our friends and loved ones. Just because we don't make a song and dance about doing it people tend to gloss over it.
I cannot tell you how much we love our friends and how deeply betrayal shatters us.

This message has been bought to you by Aries.
Aries. Go On! Jump over the fence - the grass is greener and the sex is better on our sidesmile

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