WHAT'S UP WITH CANCERS ?

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by flygyrllchi on Tuesday, June 3, 2008 and has 251 replies.
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WHY DOES IT SEEM LIKE CANCERS CAN'T ADMIT TO SOMEONE WHOSE REALLY GREAT , LIKE MYSELF. WHY DOES IT SEEM LIKE CANCERS CONSTANTLY HATE ON OTHERS FOR WHAT THEY HAVE OR FOR WHO THEY ARE. WHY DO THEY HAVE SUCH EGOS, THAT DOESN'T ALLOW THEM TO SHOW THEIR ADMIRATION FOR OTHERS, NO!!! AND I'M NOT TALKING ABOUT THEM AS LOVERS OR PARENTS, THEY'RE GOOD IN THAT AREA....
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Flygrl,
It's all very well to be disappointed when somebody can't tell you they like you or admire you in some way...
But,
Two small questions for you: Do you ever admire anyone? And, if so, would you end up telling them?
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They will not let down their guard - Unless they Really trust you and love you.
They do possess a jealous streak that makes them 'me me me' quite a lot of the time. When they are confronted with someone 'better' than them - they feel slightly threatened and jealous (even though they wont show it).
They have to be the 'special' one. ''All eyes on me''.
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ouch Scorp. little touch of the "hate" there too??
and Flyg. why are you yelling- that's no way to approach a Cancer.
agree w/ Mgirl...its a defense mechanism in regard to telling someone how wonderful they are...most folks that are genuine will make sure that the comment IS directed to a genuine person. we dont need to butter someone up for the sake of it-leave that to the Libras and Gem's (smooth talkers)
you are interpreting YOUR need for self assurance on someone else's actions??? AS someone else's EGO problem?? hmmmmm.
one finger pointing out...4 pointing at ????
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No hate - Im rather blunt.

I know a few Cancerians and my partner is a Cancer male.
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Just to add - I adore the little crabbies :-)
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ok Scorp.
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i have to agree with all of the posts. it is one of our defense mechanisms and we will not confess anything to anyone unless we are sure you feel the same way..we have to trust you before we confide in you..
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has no one here realized that this moron is going around posting hate messages about all the signs? Really you shouldn't take this seriously....don't encourage her....don't believe me? go check out the taurus board....nothing but nasty anger and aggression from this one.....
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thanks angel for the heads up..i am bored today so i don't mind amusing her and her hateful ways..lol
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flygyrl when are you going to get to the virgo board? can't wait to see what you have to say about them :-)
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angel...ya, I just posted the same thing you did on the Taurus site. I responded to this early and then got back on...went into Taurus and found the same thing there...
what a wierdo eh?
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she also did it on the Pisces one.
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yeah well... I have little patience for this kind of nastiness and stupidity.....
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WELL THANKS FOR THE WISE ONE'S THAT UNDERSTOOD THE POST AND COULD ADMIT TO IT AND ANSWER IT.
BIG UPS.. THAT ALL MAKES SENSE
AND ONE FINGER, THE MIDDLE ONE, TO THE FANS FOLLOWING ME AROUND.... XANGLEFISH, AND MOONMADNESS. WHO CARES I MEAN , YOU DON'T KNOW MY MOTIVE... THANKS , YOUR REVEALING SO MUCH ABOUT YOUR OWN INSECURITIES. WHY SO WORRIED ABOUT WHAT I POST AND HOW I POST. LEAVE ME ALONE, YOU MESSING WITH MY VIBES. LEAVE ME AT PEACE... DUMMIES... BESIDES MOONMADDNESS, KEEP YOUR DUMB DESPERATE AZZ IN YOUR OWN FORUM, INSTEAD OF FOLLOWING ME AROUND... I'M NOT HIRING RIGHT NOW.... LOL U CAN'T FLIP IT , BECAUSE UNLIKE YOU, I DON'T NEED SELF ASSURANCE FROM NOBODY... THE ACTION IS ON YOU. U R RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR OWN ACTIONS... IF THE SHOE FITS , WEAR IT... NICE WAY TO TRY AND FLIP IT THOUGH, I THINK THAT;S WHAT WEAK COPE OUTS DO. DON'T LISTEN TO THESE IDIOTS GUYS, THEY ARE INSECURE , HUNGRY AND THIRSTY....
I'M GATHERING INFO FOR A REASON....
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GreatBull. AND WHAT DO YOU NEED... HUH, YOUR ON A WEBSITE BLOG, TELLING SOMEONE ELSE SOMETHING UBSURD ABOUT WHAT YOU THINK THEY NEED! SOUNDS LIKE A PROJECTION OF WHAT YOU NEED... IGNORANCE IS BLISS....

NASTY AZZ GIRL... GO PICK UP YOUR FACE , AND THERE YOU WILL FIND THE MANY IMAGES OF YOUR SOUL BEING SOLD TO THE MANY GUYS YOU SEXED... BY THE WAY, WHAT'S YOUR PURPOSE AND WHAT ARE YOU DOING WITH YOUR LIFE???

-= NOTHING
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WELL, Mgirl, I TRUELY ADMIRE MYSELF. ON THE REAL.. I LOVE IT. I DO HOWEVER ADORE SOME PEOPLE AND I DON'T HAVE TO SAY IT I SHOW IT AND THEY KNOW IT. AND HELLS NO , I DON'T HAVE A PROBLEM WITH IT. MY TELLING SOMEONE OR LOVING SOMEONE, DOESN'T MEAN YOU HAVE TO GIVE UP YOURSELF.
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go home little girlchi
your mama is calling you
she need you to lite up da crack pipe one mo' time baby girl
just one mo' time for yo' mama
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dis is my forum you azz
now go pick up your welfare check
and get yo' babies some mo' govt. cheese
or did yo' big mama eat it all???
shoot. you dont know what yo' unschooled azz b talkin' 'bout all drunk from your baby daddies "40"
get on which yo' bad self and stop frontin' like you gotta purpose
get off the computer at yo' local library and get a job like you promised yo' daddy you would so dat he can lay on da' couch and wait for yo' big assed mama to come home from makin' $ $ on da corner
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go on n' get yo' nappy assed unschooled think you got some sense (which you dont) and go get some mo' weave cuz' dat shit aint hangin' right you know what I'm sayin' girl???
shoot no you didnt...
you iz sofa king wetawded
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moonmadness you so crazzzyyy..lol
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Whoa @ moonmadness.
That seems like some racist stereotype stuff that racist people say about black people. Not cool at all. I can't believe that some of you find this amusing. Sickening...
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oh puhhleaseeee, stop with the racist card...just the typical bs someone will hold up when someone needs to be checked...so sorry I thought I was in Rome, er, the projects so I was temporarily slooping to a level the little girl would understand...
she def. dont need defending with the perpetrations she be frontin' on all sorts of levels.
but thanks for the invitation, uh, imitation....
chill dude.
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she front on all levels she has a Masters and is on her way to a Doctorate and couldnt spell the McDonalds Menu without looking at it...
Imitation on a general level you maybe correct on a "this wasnt your business level" youre all wrong.
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Umm I have nothing to gain by playing the race card, as you call it. I have no horse in this race & was just simply commenting on what I feel was racist banter from you. And by your reaction I can tell I struck a nerve. It's not my business? Well this is a public forum if you wanted only flygirl to read it you should have sent her a private message.
In effort to "check" someone else you may have offended other people.
And don't insult my intelligence, with your references to "nappy"... "weave"..."baby daddie"..."40 ounce"..."welfare" and "gov't cheese"...and just by the way you were typing anyone can tell you are talking about black people. This is typical talk of a racist person.

So you chill, dude.
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and by the way. I'm not defending her. Other people commented on this girl without going the route you did.
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and....
It's not my business but you didn't tell cansir and 25thdecan that when they were giving you your little e-kudos.
Again...sickening...
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its a public forum as you stated so one person(s) gives 'e-kudos' your words not mine- I didnt choose to comment as I was allowing sleeping dogs to lie...why dont you? but you you take offense...how the heck am I insulting your intelligence...? If the comments were directed at one, then it applies to one and not all...a better form of intelligence would be to be aware of the big picture with its numerous degrees not hone in on one string of comments and act like that is a generalization for all Africans. including myself, did you ever consider that I may be black as well?? no, I suppose not.
you proceed to comment on my comments...as is your right, but if this is truly a public forum than you need to make allowances for all comments whether you agree or not, and if someone is going to dish out the butter then I got some toast for you to spread it on-
you struck no nerve with me...I am only responding to your nervous system in a public forum...I dont need to send private emails, others did not take my route, so what...she addressed me personally on several occasions as well as harrassing other innocent commentors in regard to her foolishness...I made comments to her alone.
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If in fact you are black (which I SERIOUSLY doubt) your comments are even worse...
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But yeah...
Humor me.... Are you black?
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humoring you is not the point...again you miss the mark...
what does Carlos Mencia do for work?? He's a comedian, and a funny one at that. what does he do? he makes fun of Mexicans, So. Cal. Mexicans...if youre not from the area than you havent a clue...people find him funny...and he's been doing it for years...
oh the horror a Mexican making fun of Mexicans- close the house down...get him off the air!!
who the hell is Chris Rock anyway...??? who IS that guy? and why do people laugh their asses off at him?
honkey, calm down...
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Yeah... But you're not even funny....and you're not carlos mencia or chris rock....and you're not black.
Or are you? I searched your diatribe but never found an answer to that question.
Are.you.black?
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And again, don't insult my intelligence. Racial jokes done by a person of the same race is sometimes funny. But you and I both know you were not joking with flygirl. You were "checking" her.
You were trying to be offensive and you were. I don't know why you're so up in arms about proclaiming your innocence now. You got the result you were aiming for.
And all that defending yourself bringing up carlos mencia and chris rock (irrelevant)... lets me furrrther know. You are racist & You.are.not.black.
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"If the comments were directed at one, then it applies to one and not all...a better form of intelligence would be to be aware of the big picture with its numerous degrees not hone in on one string of comments and act like that is a generalization for all Africans. including myself, did you ever consider that I may be black as well?? no, I suppose not. "

And as if I needed any more "proof" that you're racist/prejudiced....
In this little speil you admit that you are talking about "Africans" (wtf?..it's African American)BUT not all Africans.
Am I missing something...when did flygirl say she was African or black? How did you come up with this?
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*sits back and waits for answers*
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I've never had that experience with cancers. The ones I know always give credit where credit is due.
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imitation that is what is wrong with society. we have been brainwashed to think everything is wrong. so what if moonmandess decided to express herself. yeah i gave her kudos because i thought it was funny. i have a lot of black friends but it is pretentious people like you who make this world a sick place to live in. to find someone elses humor sickening is so shallow minded and judgemental. if you found it offensive then ignore what moodmaness wrote and move on. this polically correct bs is such crap. everyone makes everyone elses their business their own and takes everything so personal. get over it and go hire your lawyer like everyone else in this country does.
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Fly: "WELL, Mgirl, I TRUELY ADMIRE MYSELF. ON THE REAL.. I LOVE IT. I DO HOWEVER ADORE SOME PEOPLE AND I DON'T HAVE TO SAY IT I SHOW IT AND THEY KNOW IT. AND HELLS NO , I DON'T HAVE A PROBLEM WITH IT. MY TELLING SOMEONE OR LOVING SOMEONE, DOESN'T MEAN YOU HAVE TO GIVE UP YOURSELF."
It's great that you admire yourself. Hell, there are enough people out there willing to put others down, why do it yourself?! I totally believe in that.
I'm not sure why cancers can't show when they really admire someone? I think it's got something to do with the fact that they like to feel really secure with you before they truelly reveal themselves to you... Perhaps, unlike you, they feel they are losing a part of themselves if they do this too soon.
You may have to be patient with this particular cancer... Cancerians are really an interesting bunch. They are an ever-evolving complex puzzle.
By the way, i am a FAN of cancers Winking
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racist=judgmental...
so imitationcrab, I suppose your racist too? Seeing how you jumped on the bandwagon of hurt feelings for whatever reason- maybe keeping to yourself is not your forte. Maybe for you ignorance is bliss.
Cancers will give credit where credit is due...roll the credits...
Imitation, if I am black or not black so what AGAIN, SO WHAT!!! I could be Jewish, Chinese, Mexican, Caucasian, so what- the comments were not directed at you, move on with your bad self...how did I know Fly was black? Nigga' please... I dont need to explain myself to you...you are just as judgmental and more of a threat as you drag your unrecognized self into someone elses battle and have no clue what you are fighting for.
IMI. your commenting on the fact that chick was black how 'bout I commented more so on the ignorance of her persona that she laid out there...above all- ignorance goes beyond the boundaries of color

may the BEST candidate win at the presidency regardless of race although I would have a hard time w. a woman being in that position (just my opinion)
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You answered none of the questions I gave you...which again lets me furrrther know...
Are you afraid of answering them? You have been exposed. I see that there's a lot of racists on this board. This person comes in here and spews stereotypical racist talk about Africans (wtf), has said nigga & honkey...and because I pointed out things for what they were I'm what's wrong in america?!? Riiiight. I'm what's right with america. I won't stand by and watch ANYBODY be belittled because of their race. I hate that.
Obama will not start the race war in america. The race war has always been here. So what if having a black president will force us to have some serious talks with ourselves about how we veiw race in this country. If you don't vote for someone because they are black that speaks volumes about you. Where's the growth in that? A lot of people (some are in this thread) want to sweep things under the rug that are clearly not right. The problem doesn't go away just because you have ur head in the sand. Hopefully when obama wins that will force a lot of race issues forward. Then and only then will REAL healing begin.
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Everything you typed so far has been an attempt to rationalize your obvious racist views. Then you throw diversions in to try to deflect from the point by throwing anything out there. Good thing I'm not so easily distracted.
You went from this is not my business to fly girl is annoying and needed to be checked to I may be black so I can say what I want about black people to I was not talking about all Africans (???)to I was just joking ala chris rock and carlos menci to I am the racist because I'm judgemental (lol).
If in fact you were just joking and it was all in fun, then why all the back peddling? A hit dog will holler and you have been typing and typing to try and drum up some type of defense for yourself.
Fact is you meant to be offensive and you were. So interesting that out of all the things you could say to flygirl (you two have obvious history) you immediately attack the one thing about her that could offend so many other people, her race. Then get this, you don't even know for sure if she is black!!!!!!!!!! So you just spewed racist stereotypes about an African.....WHO MAY NOT EVEN BE BLACK!
Then expect everyone to be okay with it? Wow.
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Obama BETTER win because if gas jumps up to $ 10 a gallon, America will have more to deal with than just racist issues!
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Cansir,
You too sound like a racist. And how ironic that you were one of the first people to find her comments amusing. Coincidence? I think not. Your post was loaded so allow me to break it up and respond.
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"imitation that is what is wrong with society. we have been brainwashed to think everything is wrong. so what if moonmandess decided to express herself. yeah i gave her kudos because i thought it was funny."
Sounds like someone is tired of being politically correct and wants to let it all hang out. What is what's wrong with society? Am I in this post saying everything is wrong? No. Expressing herself? So "pick up your welfare check
and get yo' babies some mo' govt. cheese.....go on n' get yo' nappy assed unschooled.." is funny to you? Why would a white person find her rant funny? I have an offbeat sense of humor myself, I laugh at alot of things I probably shouldn't but this just takes the cake. This is racism. If she's not racist, she sure "expressed herself" like a racist, point blank. She probably doesn't talk like this offline a lot of racist use the internet to finally say the things they want while remaining anonymous.
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"i have a lot of black friends but it is pretentious people like you who make this world a sick place to live in."
What does you having black friends have to do with anything? You have black friends, good for you! What does this give you license to say anything about black people? If someone said what moon said to one of your black friends would you find it funny then? So pretentious people like me huh? lol. How am I pretentious? I make the world a sick place to live in huh? Silly me I was thinking people like murderers, child molesters, & RACISTS made the world a sick place to live in.
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"to find someone elses humor sickening is so shallow minded and judgemental. if you found it offensive then ignore what moodmaness wrote and move on. this polically correct bs is such crap. everyone makes everyone elses their business their own and takes everything so personal. get over it and go hire your lawyer like everyone else in this country does."
Why can't you take your own advice? Why is she free to express her self, but when I express myself I'm pretentious and making the world a sick place to live in? If you found what I wrote offensive then why couldn't you ignore & move on? No you came in here and stated you had black friends, I was pretentious, shallow minded and judgemental.
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How ironic. You are judging me, while callling me judgemental.
But again...what did you mean by "i have a lot of black friends but it is pretentious people like you who make this world a sick place to live in."

You have a lot of black friends BUT.... But what? This is a weird sentence.
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Imi. no, I never said that I was joking in regard to bringing up comedians that make fun of their own race.
the point that you clearly missed and still do as you try and validate your intelligence by pin pointing my race in regard to my remarks which were none of your business to begin with I addressed Flys intelligence with comments that you jumped all over as being racist. no one else did- just you .
and wtf??
I didnt see you yelling at her in regard to her rants and raves to pratically every sign on the post...why dont you do that next...go play Joan of Arc to the Cancers and Taurus' and others that she bashed and pretend that each sign is a race not a SUN SIGN. My race is Cancer- she belittled me and general traits that I may or may not portray...she insulted by Leo brothers and sisters; Taurus' and so forth...put on the Team Leo jersey and go to battle. Fly is a racist too.
Ya, i am such a racist...
what is your freaking beef??? I am not answering your ignorant question: which the only one is "am I black?" which was a statement I initiated based on YOUR assumption in the beginning that I was white dogging on a black chick....maybe YOUR the racist as you play all over your "JUMP TO CONCLUSION" MATT.
you want answered so BADLY so that you can continue that this was all about racist remarks and boo hoo hoo. AND SOMEHOW VALIDATE YOURSELF. seeing as how it will make your racist rantings all the more valid. Sorry, YOU MISS THE MARK.
get over yourself.
and for the record, how many yellow/red/white people do you know that get weaves? which she has made comment to in previous posts; the "HAIR". apparently i know a little bit more about the race that you claim I belittle than you do. AND to what degree??? YOU DONT KNOW DO YOU???
Furthermore, the more you comment on this crap, the more you bring this post to the forefront and if offending other people was really your motivation for commenting YOU WOULDNT COMMENT BUTTER HEAScared
I would simply shut up (make your sofa king we todd it comments and move on sister...and let it go as clearly you are the only gladiator in the arena....

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furthermore, the term racist is used far to frequently and has seriously lost its definition so much so that you seem to use it as a some sort of "belittling" process yourself to counter-attack the terms "govt. cheese" "crack pipe" "yo' mama" "unschooled"
where oh where is the hatred in any of those stereotypical rantings????
nowhere...stereotyping is not racism...
telling someone they seem unschooled or nappy has nothing to do with racism.
look up the freakin' term...read
if you really read, please start reading-it will be beneficial to you, if you concentrate on the term and definition...
and as I reiterate...you are supporting the SUN SIGN RACIST as she asks people "why are so and so like that?" and then continues on paragraphs of bashing certain kinds of people...
seriously, all your friends told you we were 'shirts' today and you showed up 'skins'
how embarrasing.
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how many yellow/red/white people do you know that get weaves?
you'd be surprised...
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alright Gem...but, I was generalizing in regard to the weave...they were specific comments in regard to hair, salon, "getting it done" + her language and usage of grammar= no doubt...
Let's just say it wasnt spoken of in terms of hair extensions...different than the weave...but similiar concept.
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imitationoflyfe 6/6/2008 5:13:31 PM | ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.xxx
"I wonder where all this "arguementative" stuff is coming from. Aries...yes..virgo..yes.... but cancer? Arguementative? I and every cancer I know try to avoid arguements and drama like the plague. But I do like debates and stuff like that. Sometimes I can be so passionate in my approach to conversations and debates it can make people feel like I'm arguing with them."

so good to know...that we're not arguing or anything...


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Are you serious? So she mentions weave, getting her hair done, and because of her language and use of grammer there's no doubt that she's black. And because you "know" this you know a lot about black people?
Wow. U...u really don't get it do you?
I could really care less about what race you claim to be. You bought that up. My intial post said, that sounds like something a racist person would say. Never mentioned your race, because there are a lot of self haters in every race. You could've been black but that wouldn't make it sound any less like something a racist would say. Por ejemplo, a black woman could say to another black woman "go get your nappy hair done and go get your govt cheese because your daddy is lazy and your big assed mama is on crack and you are on welfare". And it would STILL sound like something a racist would say, which was my initial point.
You introduced all these variables that you seem to think would some how give you license to say these things to a black person or a person you assume is black or "african". I said go ahead & humor me & tell me your race because I already know you're not black. You make that more and more evident everytime you post.
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