What's up with this Cancer male?
This topic was created in the Cancer forum by renee2000 on Tuesday, June 18, 2013 and has 7 replies.
I'm a Pisces female, I'm sixteen years old.. So what's up with this Cancer guy?
He treats me different to every other girl - he talks to me like I'm nothing by only talking to me when he wants something and being really blunt, he appears to use me like he made me give him some weed and said if I didn't then he wouldn't let me into this party, yet he still shows signs that he cares - he asked me who I was with the other day, I said "A friend.. I'm cold" and so he says "Go **** your friend. That will keep you warm. :-)". He treats other girls different to me, when I tell him I miss him he tells me not to miss him, then when others say it to him they get a "awww". But the way he is around me is different to how he is with others - he talks to me, he asks me questions as if he thinks I'm intelligent and his humor changes like it's more present. He says we're just friends yet he always cuddles me when ever we're watching movies HE DOES THAT TO EVERY OTHER GIRL TOO and says it's just because he's friendly.. He tells me I'm moody but I'm just depressed and he doesn't understand that. When he's drunk he told me I'm pretty. I think I'm always available to him - is that something I should stop? Why does he appear to use me and how does it seem like he feels about me?
He treats me different to every other girl - he talks to me like I'm nothing by only talking to me when he wants something and being really blunt, he appears to use me like he made me give him some weed and said if I didn't then he wouldn't let me into this party, yet he still shows signs that he cares - he asked me who I was with the other day, I said "A friend.. I'm cold" and so he says "Go **** your friend. That will keep you warm. :-)". He treats other girls different to me, when I tell him I miss him he tells me not to miss him, then when others say it to him they get a "awww". But the way he is around me is different to how he is with others - he talks to me, he asks me questions as if he thinks I'm intelligent and his humor changes like it's more present. He says we're just friends yet he always cuddles me when ever we're watching movies HE DOES THAT TO EVERY OTHER GIRL TOO and says it's just because he's friendly.. He tells me I'm moody but I'm just depressed and he doesn't understand that. When he's drunk he told me I'm pretty. I think I'm always available to him - is that something I should stop? Why does he appear to use me and how does it seem like he feels about me?
It definitely seems like hes playing games... I'd stay away from him. Don't you want to be with someone that doesn't give you any doubts?
Yeah I do. I feel pretty attached to him though. It sucks. :p
aww, I know it sucks. trust me I've been there!!
He could just be really insecure/scared to show his feelings, but just know that if things don't turn out the way you want them to it is ok and I believe you meet people for a reason. good luck!
He could just be really insecure/scared to show his feelings, but just know that if things don't turn out the way you want them to it is ok and I believe you meet people for a reason. good luck!
Posted by Poisson
He's using and disrespecting you.
**** your friend. That will keep you warm." ... That's no way to speak to anyone you care about.
definitely agree with this.
Yeah he is rather disrespectful which isn't a trait I look for at all. Yeah I've read quite often that Cancer's are scared of rejection or getting hurt, every time I say something slightly offensive or critical to him he strikes back with sarcasm.. That is so true. Thank you both! 
He's seems to lack any redeeming qualities. You can do better
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