When Cancers go off in the deep end

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When Cancers go off in the deep end, they _________________.
Due to a break up, some life altering event, trauma, feeling lost, etc.

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Posted by rockyroadicecream
When Cancers go off in the deep end, they _________________.
Due to a break up, some life altering event, trauma, feeling lost, etc.




Are you asking??
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Posted by Ssasy
Posted by rockyroadicecream
When Cancers go off in the deep end, they _________________.
Due to a break up, some life altering event, trauma, feeling lost, etc.




Are you asking??
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It's fill in the blank, honey. If you can't understand that, gtfo. What's so hard to get, here?
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Boiling hot or ice cold bath.
I have physical responses to emotional trauma so depending on what my body temperature does I sit in those for hours on and off all day and night.
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Posted by Kim31
Boiling hot or ice cold bath.
I have physical responses to emotional trauma so depending on what my body temperature does I sit in those for hours on and off all day and night.


Really? Interesting.
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Depends on the actual event and some other parts of the circumstances.
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So you don't want to answer what your reaction would be to these events or parts of circumstances?
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Well, it really is dependent on the events and the circumstances. I don't react the same to everything. Most of the time I go extremely quiet and take myself away from everyone. If I'm pushed, harried or otherwise hit a breaking point then I'll go a bit nuclear. If I'm pissed off and go nuclear I go cold, ruthless, and vicious. If I'm
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Posted by Ssasy
Posted by rockyroadicecream
When Cancers go off in the deep end, they _________________.
Due to a break up, some life altering event, trauma, feeling lost, etc.




Are you asking??


It's fill in the blank, honey. If you can't understand that, gtfo. What's so hard to get, here?
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Lmfao Really? haha Someone needs to get laid!
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In my experience, they make an effort to make people around them just as miserable and feel no ounce of guilt for taking their frustrations on the people they love. Either that or a cancer really hated me and was miserable at the same time.
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a) they cry and whine you (the innocent bystander) to death about whatever or whoever hurt them;
b) they immerse themselves into really reckless/life threatening behavior like doing drugs, car racing/ careless driving, pointless/empty sex just to feel loved or fill a void left by their ex and or attempt suicide;
c) silent calls to the person who is responsible for their heartbreak; or if they aren't silent on the phone, then they're begging the person to take them back;
d) they start buying the person who hurt them things to emotionally manipulate them
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e) they go in absolute isolation
* I think they should stick to this one. It's much safer.
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
When Cancers go off in the deep end, they _________________.
Due to a break up, some life altering event, trauma, feeling lost, etc.




I don't.
But others do, and end up posting questions like the above on astrological sites.
And I really appreciate non-Cancers answering the question. Saves me the effort of typing an honest response.
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Posted by Ssasy
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Posted by Ssasy
Posted by rockyroadicecream
When Cancers go off in the deep end, they _________________.
Due to a break up, some life altering event, trauma, feeling lost, etc.




Are you asking??


It's fill in the blank, honey. If you can't understand that, gtfo. What's so hard to get, here?



Lmfao Really? haha Someone needs to get laid!
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Get an education, you ignorant twat. It's annoying that I made this clear and your dumb ass is "OMGZ IS THIS A QUESTION? I'M SO LOST. I DON'T KNOW HOW TO WORK A FORUM. WHY AM I SO DUMB??" I'm tired of people like you wasting space on this site. Nobody gets anything answered or accomplished because of shit like yours. It's gotten SO old around here, really.
And lol at your oh so intelligent comeback of "someone needs to get laid."
...which I already am, but thanks for the stupid suggestion. smile
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Posted by MoonArtist
Well, it really is dependent on the events and the circumstances. I don't react the same to everything. Most of the time I go extremely quiet and take myself away from everyone. If I'm pushed, harried or otherwise hit a breaking point then I'll go a bit nuclear. If I'm pissed off and go nuclear I go cold, ruthless, and vicious. If I'm


Ah, gotcha.
I can relate a tiny bit since I have a Cancer moon, but I haven't dealt directly with a lot of Cancers when it comes to things like break ups/major shit fests happening in life. I had a Cancer friend who went through his father's death, but I didn't see much of him. I do know he's currently in a shitty relationship and ended up cheating, but other than that, no experience with the afte effects of other situations.
Posted by RollergirlOrc
In my experience, they make an effort to make people around them just as miserable and feel no ounce of guilt for taking their frustrations on the people they love. Either that or a cancer really hated me and was miserable at the same time.


Posted by Gemican01
The cancer really hated you.
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Posted by aquarius09
a) they cry and whine you (the innocent bystander) to death about whatever or whoever hurt them;
b) they immerse themselves into really reckless/life threatening behavior like doing drugs, car racing/ careless driving, pointless/empty sex just to feel loved or fill a void left by their ex and or attempt suicide;
c) silent calls to the person who is responsible for their heartbreak; or if they aren't silent on the phone, then they're begging the person to take them back;
d) they start buying the person who hurt them things to emotionally manipulate them



A friend of mine is exhibiting both of these post break up. Along with that, her ex stole practically all of her things out of her house. So she's dealing with that.
We're concerned for her because it's like she's gone off on the deep end. I know Cancers can be kind of deep end when it comes to emotional shit, but I wasn't aware it went as far as hardcore drug use. She doesn't seem to know how to be alone and is running away from learning to deal with being alone generally.
Along with the drug use, she's all about wanting to travel the world, quit work and/or go on disability or some sort of leave in order to do so. She's constantly reaching out to everyone around her to help her hide as a way of coping.
Some are keeping an eye on her to make sure she doesn't go too far. The hardcore drugs and new druggie friends have us kinda wtf. She needs to make better life choices if she doesn't want to be in situations like this. :/
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Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
Posted by rockyroadicecream
When Cancers go off in the deep end, they _________________.
Due to a break up, some life altering event, trauma, feeling lost, etc.




I don't.
But others do, and end up posting questions like the above on astrological sites.
And I really appreciate non-Cancers answering the question. Saves me the effort of typing an honest response.
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So far I'm noticing some of you are too freaking lazy to even give an appropriate response other than some vague, mysterious, lazy bs in what you may or may not do.
"Depends."
"Saves me time."
"We don't want to help."
No wonder people hate on you guys. :/
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
Posted by aquarius09
a) they cry and whine you (the innocent bystander) to death about whatever or whoever hurt them;
b) they immerse themselves into really reckless/life threatening behavior like doing drugs, car racing/ careless driving, pointless/empty sex just to feel loved or fill a void left by their ex and or attempt suicide;
c) silent calls to the person who is responsible for their heartbreak; or if they aren't silent on the phone, then they're begging the person to take them back;
d) they start buying the person who hurt them things to emotionally manipulate them



A friend of mine is exhibiting both of these post break up. Along with that, her ex stole practically all of her things out of her house. So she's dealing with that.
We're concerned for her because it's like she's gone off on the deep end. I know Cancers can be kind of deep end when it comes to emotional shit, but I wasn't aware it went as far as hardcore drug use. She doesn't seem to know how to be alone and is running away from learning to deal with being alone generally.
Along with the drug use, she's all about wanting to travel the world, quit work and/or go on disability or some sort of leave in order to do so. She's constantly reaching out to everyone around her to help her hide as a way of coping.
Some are keeping an eye on her to make sure she doesn't go too far. The hardcore drugs and new druggie friends have us kinda wtf. She needs to make better life choices if she doesn't want to be in situations like this. :/
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Yep! That sounds about right! Keep an eye on her. Suicide attempts are usually on the agenda.
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
Posted by rockyroadicecream
When Cancers go off in the deep end, they _________________.
Due to a break up, some life altering event, trauma, feeling lost, etc.




I don't.
But others do, and end up posting questions like the above on astrological sites.
And I really appreciate non-Cancers answering the question. Saves me the effort of typing an honest response.


So far I'm noticing some of you are too freaking lazy to even give an appropriate response other than some vague, mysterious, lazy bs in what you may or may not do.
"Depends."
"Saves me time."
"We don't want to help."
No wonder people hate on you guys. :/
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People hate on them because they are the least self-aware sign. I've never seen a cancer admit their weakness (I'm gonna get butchered on this forum for calling it weakness, which their post breakup behavior really is).
For example, they will never acknowledge that they'll beg or have begged an ex who doesn't want them to take them back. Meanwhile, everyone around them will call their behavior begging. They will see it as "you're a hater out to get me".
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I'm generally indifferent as, like I mentioned, I don't have a ton of experience dealing with many directly with some of this stuff. I am well aware of the emo mess that they can be, though.
But some of the responses are kind of annoying and not all that insightful. :/
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I always admit my weaknesses. I've never begged an ex for anything except to leave me alone. Though I admit I'd put a fucked up fight to win back a man I loved and lost.
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
When Cancers go off in the deep end, they _________________.
Due to a break up, some life altering event, trauma, feeling lost, etc.




Depending on mood and circumstances:
A. Cuss you out
B. Punch you out
C. Throw something
D. Throw a tantrum in the comfort of my car or home.
E. Start making mistakes in judgment
F. Become so emotionally overwhelmed that I injure myself because I wasn't careful.
G. Cry
H. Take it out on someone close to me by being curt with them.
This doesn't really sound like deep end stuff though. Straight Face
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I'm not opening up to anyone who can't help.
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I mainly keep to myself. I just isolate myself from the world in my hermit cave because I have great movies and others just don't get it or don't care so why waste my time? Exactly. I also will lose weight because I'm usually not able to eat because everything gives me the poos. I can't sleep either because my mind is usually in John Nash mode. But after a week I get back up and start exercising and stuff because I'm finally able to eat something, rest a little. I will then have my energy back and I'm pissed off at the world for hurting me and giving me exposive diarrhea.
This isn't every time but when it's a devastating moment of heart ache that's the routine. It doesn't happen often.
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Posted by aquarius09
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
Posted by rockyroadicecream
When Cancers go off in the deep end, they _________________.
Due to a break up, some life altering event, trauma, feeling lost, etc.




I don't.
But others do, and end up posting questions like the above on astrological sites.
And I really appreciate non-Cancers answering the question. Saves me the effort of typing an honest response.


So far I'm noticing some of you are too freaking lazy to even give an appropriate response other than some vague, mysterious, lazy bs in what you may or may not do.
"Depends."
"Saves me time."
"We don't want to help."
No wonder people hate on you guys. :/


People hate on them because they are the least self-aware sign. I've never seen a cancer admit their weakness (I'm gonna get butchered on this forum for calling it weakness, which their post breakup behavior really is).
For example, they will never acknowledge that they'll beg or have begged an ex who doesn't want them to take them back. Meanwhile, everyone around them will call their behavior begging. They will see it as "you're a hater out to get me".


If a Cancerian isn't being open with you, it's because they don't trust you or they don't feel comfortable for some reason. I will acknowledge my own downfalls and low points, for example, but not to a group of random vultures and certainly not to someone who expects such a thing to happen during a blaz? conversation lacking any expression of sensitivity and understanding.
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Yea, that's about right. With cancers there's always an excuse for everything and it usually has to do with "we don't trust you enough to open up" or "you're just vultures so we didn't feel comfortable sharing".
This is an anonymous board. Even if you get judged, who gives a shit. I don't know you and you don't know me. It really doesn't matter what Rocky or I or anyone on this board thinks about whatever you share. I understand that you guys get clam
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clammed up with real life friends because you have trust issues with them (which is usually the reason for secrecy with cancers), but there is no need to get secretive on an anonymous board.
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Posted by TachiMichi
show their hidden
psycho side....
and stalk you.


lol
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+1+1+1+1 Me too and aquarius09 must have had a Cancer pee in her shampoo or something. Get over it.
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Nothing hidden about the psycho stalker side. Get it right! *rolls eyes*
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they are UBER emotional
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
Posted by rockyroadicecream
When Cancers go off in the deep end, they _________________.
Due to a break up, some life altering event, trauma, feeling lost, etc.




I don't.
But others do, and end up posting questions like the above on astrological sites.
And I really appreciate non-Cancers answering the question. Saves me the effort of typing an honest response.


So far I'm noticing some of you are too freaking lazy to even give an appropriate response other than some vague, mysterious, lazy bs in what you may or may not do.
"Depends."
"Saves me time."
"We don't want to help."
No wonder people hate on you guys. :/
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No, not lazy. I wasn't treating this topic seriously because it was a rant in the guise of a question.
Gave the thread a few days to see how it played out, and I was not disappointed in my original assessment.
Reflects more on the psyche of the ranters than their targets.
Have a nice day smile
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Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
Posted by rockyroadicecream
When Cancers go off in the deep end, they _________________.
Due to a break up, some life altering event, trauma, feeling lost, etc.




I don't.
But others do, and end up posting questions like the above on astrological sites.
And I really appreciate non-Cancers answering the question. Saves me the effort of typing an honest response.


So far I'm noticing some of you are too freaking lazy to even give an appropriate response other than some vague, mysterious, lazy bs in what you may or may not do.
"Depends."
"Saves me time."
"We don't want to help."
No wonder people hate on you guys. :/


No, not lazy. I wasn't treating this topic seriously because it was a rant in the guise of a question.
Gave the thread a few days to see how it played out, and I was not disappointed in my original assessment.
Reflects more on the psyche of the ranters than their targets.
Have a nice day smile
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No, honey no.
Glad to see that your reading comprehension is up to par.
Now kindly fuck off, moron.
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
When Cancers go off in the deep end, they _________________.
Due to a break up, some life altering event, trauma, feeling lost, etc.




KILL ALL HUMANS...just kidding Big Grin
Seriously e) they go in absolute isolation ..sometimes.
I see it as handling my own and not wanting to burden anyone.
I will go into battle if I feel i am justified. I don't care if I win or lose it is my conviction that matters to me.
I try to admit when I am wrong. But i am cancer do we ever think we are wrong?
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Posted by kissmygrits
+1+1+1+1 Me too and aquarius09 must have had a Cancer pee in her shampoo or something. Get over it.


Oh so you guys do that too eh?! Lol. I'll include that on my list as F) pee in your shampoo when they're butthurt
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Oh for fuck sake. When you say you and your I'm guessing you mean them?
I've only ever openly admitted to being an absolute loon, capable of all kinds of crazy behavior. Never denied it never tried to hide it.
In fact, immediately after asking out I inform men of all this. Straight faced. You think that stops their pursuit? Nope...
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Posted by aquarius09
a) they cry and whine you (the innocent bystander) to death about whatever or whoever hurt them;
b) they immerse themselves into really reckless/life threatening behavior like doing drugs, car racing/ careless driving, pointless/empty sex just to feel loved or fill a void left by their ex and or attempt suicide;
c) silent calls to the person who is responsible for their heartbreak; or if they aren't silent on the phone, then they're begging the person to take them back;
d) they start buying the person who hurt them things to emotionally manipulate them



In the past, I've isolated myself, but I'm acting out more so like the one bolded. Especially, this year.
I know I have a psycho stalker side in me, too. So, I need to keep my emotions in check. Otherwise, I'll be a totally different person than who I even thought I was.
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RELAX? WTF IS THAT?!?
*crazy eyes*
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lol@DSG so then who is the nuttier? The crazy crabs or the men chasing us?
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Posted by aquarius09
Posted by kissmygrits
+1+1+1+1 Me too and aquarius09 must have had a Cancer pee in her shampoo or something. Get over it.


Oh so you guys do that too eh?! Lol. I'll include that on my list as F) pee in your shampoo when they're butthurt
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BAHAHAHA! Big Grin Big Grin Big Grin
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Female Cancers(the healthy ones) Isolate, get very quiet- DO NOT TALK and seek solace in many thing-my dtrs case animals
Males-the positive-one friend I have seen cry-chase, send love music
Male negative=pouts, puts his self down, acts like his life is ending-then LONG SILENT TREATMENT-returns cranky and bitchy, if you dont take the bait the insults hurl. If you laugh or ignore, then come threats or worse.
Cancers with heavy water in their charts change moods like the moon, but the positive one just need space-if they have someone they can trust they will talk-when ready. Many times what they think in their mind is totally wrong to.
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OJ simpson is a cancer....need I say more.
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Most cancers are crazy as hell and loonier than a looney tune...but not in a Scorpio, I'm literally scared for my life type if way but more of a...This cancer is so fucking bizarre that I'm beginning to like this crazy and want more. Cancers crazy will make you laugh and feel uninhibited. Scorpios crazy will make you feel like changing your number and address.
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Posted by aquarius09
a) they cry and whine you (the innocent bystander) to death about whatever or whoever hurt them;
b) they immerse themselves into really reckless/life threatening behavior like doing drugs, car racing/ careless driving, pointless/empty sex just to feel loved or fill a void left by their ex and or attempt suicide;
c) silent calls to the person who is responsible for their heartbreak; or if they aren't silent on the phone, then they're begging the person to take them back;
d) they start buying the person who hurt them things to emotionally manipulate them



In the past, I've isolated myself, but I'm acting out more so like the one bolded. Especially, this year.
I know I have a psycho stalker side in me, too. So, I need to keep my emotions in check. Otherwise, I'll be a totally different person than who I even thought I was.

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Aww! *hugs* Don't you ever let anyone do option B to you!!! No one should be more precious to you than YOU! Take care of yourself and be safe!
I'm sure there are lots of people that love you and need you.
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Cancers with heavy water in their charts change moods like the moon, but the positive one just need space-if they have someone they can trust they will talk-when ready. Many times what they think in their mind is totally wrong to.


This is me; 3 major planets in Cancer alone, Saturn and Pluto in Scorpio. My moods change so quickly, family, friends and lovers think I'm bipolar (From my understanding, I'm not because I haven't been diagnosed with it). I don't like isolation anymore; I think too much on my own and I just want something to occupy it or erase it...even if it's for a short time period.
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Posted by Fenyx215
Posted by aquarius09
a) they cry and whine you (the innocent bystander) to death about whatever or whoever hurt them;
b) they immerse themselves into really reckless/life threatening behavior like doing drugs, car racing/ careless driving, pointless/empty sex just to feel loved or fill a void left by their ex and or attempt suicide;
c) silent calls to the person who is responsible for their heartbreak; or if they aren't silent on the phone, then they're begging the person to take them back;
d) they start buying the person who hurt them things to emotionally manipulate them



In the past, I've isolated myself, but I'm acting out more so like the one bolded. Especially, this year.
I know I have a psycho stalker side in me, too. So, I need to keep my emotions in check. Otherwise, I'll be a totally different person than who I even thought I was.



Aww! *hugs* Don't you ever let anyone do option B to you!!! No one should be more precious to you than YOU! Take care of yourself and be safe!
I'm sure there are lots of people that love you and need you.
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Thanks for the love. It's greatly appreciated. I haven't gone to the bottom of the pit just yet. It's more so me making moves towards having meaningless sex and smoking weed/drinking lean. I've only done it a few times (both things) and yes, after my 'high' comes down, I feel awful, but you're right, I do need to take better care of myself. Love myself first.
It's just easier said than done.
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Posted by Fenyx215
Posted by aquarius09
a) they cry and whine you (the innocent bystander) to death about whatever or whoever hurt them;
b) they immerse themselves into really reckless/life threatening behavior like doing drugs, car racing/ careless driving, pointless/empty sex just to feel loved or fill a void left by their ex and or attempt suicide;
c) silent calls to the person who is responsible for their heartbreak; or if they aren't silent on the phone, then they're begging the person to take them back;
d) they start buying the person who hurt them things to emotionally manipulate them



In the past, I've isolated myself, but I'm acting out more so like the one bolded. Especially, this year.
I know I have a psycho stalker side in me, too. So, I need to keep my emotions in check. Otherwise, I'll be a totally different person than who I even thought I was.



Aww! *hugs* Don't you ever let anyone do option B to you!!! No one should be more precious to you than YOU! Take care of yourself and be safe!
I'm sure there are lots of people that love you and need you.



Thanks for the love. It's greatly appreciated. I haven't gone to the bottom of the pit just yet. It's more so me making moves towards having meaningless sex and smoking weed/drinking lean. I've only done it a few times (both things) and yes, after my 'high' comes down, I feel awful, but you're right, I do need to take better care of myself. Love myself first.
It's just easier said than done.
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You're absolutely right! It is easier said than done. We all face difficult times, but it's all about how we handle those times and rise again. I'll tell you what helped me every time I faced hardships. I initially used to write all my thoughts in a book. Kind of like keeping a diary. I did that for two reasons: to keep track of my progress as I rose from the ashes like a Phoenix; and secondly, as a reminder and source of comparison for my upcoming hardships. It served as a reminder in the sense that I would look back on my entries and think "if I can overcome the last
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setback, then I can definitely conquer this new challenge of life".
^That method really helped and continues to. I also write on dxp because I always get perspective from third persons who are usually neutral anonymously. Also, it's nice to talk to people who have been through the same thing or are going through it.
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@Aquarius09, I used to write. I accumulated 4 journals or so in the 3.5 years I was writing in weekly. I wrote everything from the dreams that I had while sleeping to the dreams that I wanted to accomplish. I wrote about what pissed me off about myself, my circle of people and society itself. I even got into writing poems/lyrics and fanfiction.
After awhile, it didn't seem to help though. Everytime, i would look back on what I wrote; no matter how recent or not it was, I would get angry and depressed because to me, it seemed like little to no change was happening.
I burned my journals on the solar eclipse last year as like a purging...I still get the urge to write again and maybe I should. I just don't want my wings to burn out again so soon.
I am learning more about myself and how I operate on here though.
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