When it's over is it over for cancer ?

Posted by CuteGem
I am so sorry to hear that things are over with your cancer. Break ups hurt.
You sound like you are still in shock with the break up. I don't think that seeing him for the last time to say goodbye will make any difference in how you will cope with the break up.
It is painful to take the decision but this is the only thing you need to do at the moment.
He only avoids to see you to avoid unnecessary drama.
I am sorry to say this but when a break up happens at the heat of the moment ( on an argument) might not be permanent.. but if it is a calm and thought decision it is unlikely the relationship to resume.
I know right now there must be thoughts in your mind on how to get this man back.. Well best thing to do is to agree with the break up and let him go. The sooner you do this the better. Also don't EVER be his friend. If you see each other say a typical hello. Don't engage into a conversation. Take care of yourself and make sure to be as happy as possible. If there is a chance for this man to return back to you that's the way... set him free and if he comes back .. well you know the rest!
Now is the tough part. Stay at home a day or two and cry your heart out. Get some ice scream and then surround yourself with friends.
It might hurt but it won't last forever this feeling.
I send you lots of hugs and hope things turn out as you wish.

Posted by ScorpioFish
I am also sorry to hear of your broken heart.
You really should stay firm with him.
He will not respect you if you act wimpy about this, so insist that he give you your things back (if he has anything of yours).
Also, do not call or text him for a while. If he texts or calls you, keep your statements to him very brief.
Stay busy, stay active and stay on your game.
Work out, do yoga, join a church, get some new and mature friends, stay busy!
Do not, under any circumstances, sit in your home and cry all night.