...who else but cancer man?

Is it me or is some of his characteristics seem parallel to a leo's, to which i find odd..


- very charming but can be borderline obnoxious...overconfident but he sees it as him being.. (next point)
- at times, he's *too* proud and he knows it and he lets you know abt it
- he likes doing things his way
- he likes being in charge, in control; I let him think he is but also, Im happy he is in charge, gives my cappy
energy a break from being in control all the time
- likes being taken care of, almost like mothered...is that healthy? eg he prefers to have me cook for him when he is
capable of doing so himself
- likes coming home (his) to find me there


About the last one, I realised something last night when we were on our way home (ie his place) from our first trip together on a coach - that when he sleeps, he likes laying on my lap, almost like a child. and he went quiet like a baby when I stroked his head/hair..an image came to mind: mother with child lol how would this go then? I DONT want to be his mother~

Also, the other day I was rushing out to meet up with a friend - he just got home (lately ive been spending a hellova lot of time at his place) and was hungry, wanted me to cook for him - even when he knew i was on my way out;ended up had a short meeting w friend, rushed home to cook for him. maybe the cap in me is just so in tune to the 'traditional way' (cue Bree Van de Kamp of Desperate Housewives), I didnt find this annoying at first but im not so sure in the long run.


Sometimes I feel suffocated by being together all the time and doing stuff for him so I like my space,a me-time but unlike me, he doesnt like not seeing me for a long time (ie 2 days or more) lol and Im going away on a trip soon, will be gone for more than a week - he's being "cool" abt it but said: "I wont see you for a week and a half? that's bad"



Sigh.. is this typical cancer behaviour ive somehow missed with other cancers?

Good for you Dora,

I am glad you are having a successful relationship with a Cancer man. Don't say it to loud.

Hej firefly19! Ive healed and living life to the fullest again, thanks for asking and yourself?

About cancer being overconfident, what is he trying to do? at times, i wonder why i put up with his 'obnoxiousness'.


thanks krobe03 - lesson well learnt last time, and with this one I totally took my time and told him what's what and he seems to respect that I put it out there - something like what a leo girl would do, at least thats what I read somewhere in the forum.

anyway, its just been over a month,and a long way to go but so far am enjoying the ride=) I finally understood why people have been raving abt them!


another thing: how are cancer men with fidelity? what make them stray and go for other girls? why have a girlfriend when girls want to hang out with them all the time? etc

mooneyes - its just that i read somewhere that men dont want their mothers lol

Now that i think abt it, the last cancer i was with was a bit proud but he showed it differently. and in no way is this current guy sensitive..

quote "IM the only one who can make me sad"


[I think cancer men like women to cook for the Its that typical household where the man is the male and the female is the housewife. But not ideally since cancer men like women to be strong, who can fend for themselves and be independant. Its kinda like both worlds in one.]

Lol not sure how im gonna do that but so far just following my gut=)

I think I want a cancer man again ... just one more time 😉

...sounds like his b-day is in JULY. No?

Broken shell, He's born late june=)