Why Cancers are so misunderstood?
This topic was created in the Cancer forum by looneybird on Saturday, November 25, 2006 and has 33 replies.
Yes guys, it has happened again. Being misunderstood .. completely by a close friend. I am shocked. I want to know what shud I do to prevent being misunderstood again and again and again.
Direct...yes I can take that advice..but about being honest...whatever opinion may people have i knwo i am honest.
I'm also honest, and I try to be direct MORE (and it helps).
I used to protect to many people, and it simply is impossible! So now, whatever they want, whenever they want it, they can get it FROM ME!
I used to protect to many people, and it simply is impossible! So now, whatever they want, whenever they want it, they can get it FROM ME!
take it from another 24th of june 
hey hey hey, I wasn't talking to you I was talking Looneybird, Mr. Virgo.
Right said Cancimini. We try to protect people. I have noticed people actually cringing whenever i am direct. So i try to save their face. At the same time i wont pretend a feeling...that is what i call honesty.
"I have noticed people actually cringing whenever i am direct. So i try to save their face"
SO TRUE!! If I'm not direct, I'm too soft and if I'm direct, I'm too harsh, whatthe****??
But hey, if they accuse me of being dishonest, I'd rather not safe their faces and just spit it out..
SO TRUE!! If I'm not direct, I'm too soft and if I'm direct, I'm too harsh, whatthe****??
But hey, if they accuse me of being dishonest, I'd rather not safe their faces and just spit it out..
"YOU CAN NOT BE EVERYBODYS CUP OF TEA"
Nice, I like this
Nice, I like this
yes, actually, you can. i do it quite easily.
Well you can try to prove your rightness with a gun aimed at their headz.
what a brilliant idea!!
June 24th is such a lovely day to be born on
June 24th is such a lovely day to be born on
Hi Pushit
welcome to the 24th Juen birthday club...one of the most charmng and most enterprising people on this earth.
welcome to the 24th Juen birthday club...one of the most charmng and most enterprising people on this earth.
Geez PuSh!t the dxpnet censorship is on I meant
Once again....Hi P-u-s-h-!-t
Vow did it
I don't mind having gemini in me..
shallow??
gemini???? SHALLOW???
never noticed
I'm shallow.. sometimes
I'm shallow.. sometimes
Naaa, I'm not shallow in the sense of dumb (if I may say so), but I'm quickly distracted and it's sometimes hard for me to stay focussed. And if can't focus, I get bored.. It's a bad thing I know
Message posted by: cancimini on 11/27/2006 9:44:35 AM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.162
gemini???? SHALLOW???
never noticed
(I was a bit sarcastic)
gemini???? SHALLOW???
never noticed
(I was a bit sarcastic
)
do taurus-folks ever get misunderstood?
we're misunderstood because we let our imaginations infer what we mean, but since we're the only ones that see our imaginations, our meanings behind our actions lose their definition once translated into reality. we look at things like a story, with its own narration, etc.. so, when we do something, we end up looking at it purely from this perspective and forget that others see will see it differently since they don't have the same narration and frame of reference from which to call upon.
"baby, we dont even understood, yet alone misunderstood."
ROFL! ... *that* is a bull for ya lol
ROFL! ... *that* is a bull for ya
lol"yes, actually, you can. i do it quite easily."
- I take it this applies to ppl *you* like yourself...? lol
"Why Cancers are so misunderstood?"
I've never felt like I didn't 'get' a cancer. But I can see where there would be legroom for misunderstanding. I notice that some beat around the bush, would rather avoid conflict by bottling things up or even tell you something indirectly *after* the fact. If you don't pay attention you would think these creatures don't have any complaints! Woopty! NOT! Wait a minute... where'd he go?!
LOL
- I take it this applies to ppl *you* like yourself...? lol
"Why Cancers are so misunderstood?"
I've never felt like I didn't 'get' a cancer. But I can see where there would be legroom for misunderstanding. I notice that some beat around the bush, would rather avoid conflict by bottling things up or even tell you something indirectly *after* the fact. If you don't pay attention you would think these creatures don't have any complaints! Woopty! NOT! Wait a minute... where'd he go?!
LOL
I am a Scorpio and my love my husband a loving Cancerian. does he get misunderstood? Not by me. You cannot hide anything from a scorp even if you are stuffy like a stuffed crab. But he is misunderstood by others. I have to huskily remind him that everybody out there doesnt have the intuitive understanding that his dear wife, thats me, is gifted with. So if he may, can he help those poor less intuitive and maginative beings to peep into his heart; so that they can make him happy?
works like a magic, this.:X
is gifted with. So if he may, can he help those poor less intuitive and maginative beings to peep into his heart; so that they can make him happy? works like a magic, this.:X
what in the world? a scorp female that likes cancer males?
that's strange in these parts
that's strange in these parts
Many of the Cancers I know are misunderstood because they want to project a certain image then get offended that you didn't know what was really going AND/OR they don't understand how you might not like that they were less than forthright with you.
I've told the ones that I'm close to, to just be themselves. You don't have to lie or cover up to make people like you. Not everyone is gonna like you anyway.
At least if you're "REAL" you will know that people really like you for YOU, not the image you put on. And if they don't like you, forget em. They don't matter to you anyway.
I've told the ones that I'm close to, to just be themselves. You don't have to lie or cover up to make people like you. Not everyone is gonna like you anyway.
At least if you're "REAL" you will know that people really like you for YOU, not the image you put on. And if they don't like you, forget em. They don't matter to you anyway.
leo/virgo75
like ur wisdom.
like ur wisdom.
leo/virgo75
like ur wisdom.
like ur wisdom.
Aww, thank you looneybird.
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