
enlightenedlibra78
@confusedlibra78
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Posted by KoniuchaaOnly for respect to your sign...Posted by GemitatiI'm going to have to ask you slowly step away from the keyboard
Are you really hurt?click to expand

Posted by GemitatiI will take that as you are genuinely asking and not being a dick. Yes, I'm fucking hurt. Not being important to someone that you care about hurts, a lot
Are you really hurt?


Posted by KoniuchaaI am still laughing though but you can't control that even being a Scorpio! ?Posted by GemitatiThank you my dear ?Posted by KoniuchaaOnly for respect to your sign...Posted by GemitatiI'm going to have to ask you slowly step away from the keyboard
Are you really hurt?
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Posted by KoniuchaaI am still laughing though but you can't control that even being a Scorpio! ?Posted by GemitatiThank you my dear ?Posted by KoniuchaaOnly for respect to your sign...Posted by GemitatiI'm going to have to ask you slowly step away from the keyboard
Are you really hurt?
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Posted by confusedlibra78
Let me start by saying I'm a huge NY Giants fan. My Cancer boyfriend was going to take me to a game for my bday but decided not to at the last minute because it was too expensive. That was in Sept.
A week ago, he said that he had a ticket through his family to go to the game in Green Bay but the flights were too expensive so he wasn't going. Fast forward to last night, I couldn't go to see him because we had some ice on my road and I didn't feel safe.
Imagine my surprise when I wake up to a text this morning saying... I have some good news and some bad news. I ask him what it is and he says he's on the road to Green Bay to see the game and he's sad I'm not with him. I said you could have asked and his response was all these decisions were made at 3 am and he was with his friend.
I am furious. Not even that I'm not going to the game but that he didn't even bother to ask me. He's called me many, many times at 3 am just to say hi but I was clearly not who he wanted to be with. I really think this is over. I'm tired of not being a priority to him. Sorry, needed to vent.

Posted by DivaCanLeoHe spends an inordinate amount of time bragging about how much money he has. He also knows that I just got a bunch of money because my car was totaled. That's not it. It's something else.
That would piss me off
That game is going to be a classic
But maybe he just couldn't afford a ticket for you and his friend is paying for his own ticket.

Posted by KoniuchaaOk! Done!Posted by GemitatiOr can I....dun dun dunnnnPosted by KoniuchaaI am still laughing though but you can't control that even being a Scorpio! ?Posted by GemitatiThank you my dear ?Posted by KoniuchaaOnly for respect to your sign...Posted by GemitatiI'm going to have to ask you slowly step away from the keyboard
Are you really hurt?
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Posted by DivaCanLeoIf this is the same guy, he literally treats her like dirt and therefore I'd say he doesn't respect her. She needs to command respect from him or have enough respect for herself to leave a self absorbed personality like him. I don't think basic manners/courtesy start to slip. He's just a disrespectful asshole.Posted by aquarius09This just sounds so bad
Isn't this the same guy who didn't get you anything for Christmas and then you were wondering if you should give him the presents you got him?click to expand

Posted by DivaCanLeoI love your and Arielle's Leo Mercury
To the Op ask him to send a picture of him and his friend


Posted by DivaCanLeoThis is not really a Cancer thing. This is a passive aggressive people thing. Passive aggressive people behave this way because they are too cowardly to say things as they are. Thank the universe for being fire dominant. I'm curious to know what this dude's Moon and venus is.Posted by aquarius09I hate when crabs act up. Plus I'm curious.Posted by DivaCanLeoI love your and Arielle's Leo Mercury
To the Op ask him to send a picture of him and his friend
I like us to remain sweet, loyal, and good.
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Posted by DMVI thought that was more a Scorpio thing?
Cancer and Capricorn have a few things in common.
One being, they both like to even the score with people. Good or bad.
If a cancer feels slighted, real or imagined, they have a desire to make you feel the same.


Posted by DivaCanLeo
Giants are getting spanked.

Posted by MoonbutterCould bePosted by DMVI thought that was more a Scorpio thing?
Cancer and Capricorn have a few things in common.
One being, they both like to even the score with people. Good or bad.
If a cancer feels slighted, real or imagined, they have a desire to make you feel the same.click to expand

Posted by confusedlibra78He sounds completely immature and thinks you will put up with his shenanigans. I say get him back..start doing things without him. Ps. Try not to be too hurt, these aholes really don't care. Until it's over...Posted by GemitatiI will take that as you are genuinely asking and not being a dick. Yes, I'm fucking hurt. Not being important to someone that you care about hurts, a lot
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Posted by confusedlibra78
Let me start by saying I'm a huge NY Giants fan. My Cancer boyfriend was going to take me to a game for my bday but decided not to at the last minute because it was too expensive. That was in Sept.
A week ago, he said that he had a ticket through his family to go to the game in Green Bay but the flights were too expensive so he wasn't going. Fast forward to last night, I couldn't go to see him because we had some ice on my road and I didn't feel safe.
Imagine my surprise when I wake up to a text this morning saying... I have some good news and some bad news. I ask him what it is and he says he's on the road to Green Bay to see the game and he's sad I'm not with him. I said you could have asked and his response was all these decisions were made at 3 am and he was with his friend.
I am furious. Not even that I'm not going to the game but that he didn't even bother to ask me. He's called me many, many times at 3 am just to say hi but I was clearly not who he wanted to be with. I really think this is over. I'm tired of not being a priority to him. Sorry, needed to vent.


Posted by DivaCanLeololz I've seen more "My Cancer man hurt me" threads than any other sign, lmao. Dxp as a whole seems to put up with them quite a bitPosted by OphiuchusThis isn't a fair assessment.
Cause they're cancer.
I think a better question would be, why do people like to get hurt by Cancers?
The OP has been playing with fire for awhile.
Ignoring red flags.. this could be any sign manclick to expand

Posted by DivaCanLeoYou are kididng right CC? LOLPosted by DonJohnThis is a possibility. I didn't think a crab could be cruel.
i'll speak for the cancer man.
dude's going with another girl. you are not his priority.
cancer men are passive aggressive in relationships. we don't really want you anymore, we will forget bday gifts and to call you.
the fact is cancer men have great memories. he is passive aggressively letting you know it's over from my perspective.
btw my advice is to always salvage a relationship. you can see my history of relationship advice here. but when he is that careless and clearly does not put you as a priority, then it's over. in his mind already.
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Posted by DivaCanLeoI wasn't saying anything about another female...Posted by justagirlNo. I'm a different crab. I just leave a relationship. I don't think he would just take another woman to the game. That's cold.Posted by DivaCanLeoYou are kididng right CC? LOLPosted by DonJohnThis is a possibility. I didn't think a crab could be cruel.
i'll speak for the cancer man.
dude's going with another girl. you are not his priority.
cancer men are passive aggressive in relationships. we don't really want you anymore, we will forget bday gifts and to call you.
the fact is cancer men have great memories. he is passive aggressively letting you know it's over from my perspective.
btw my advice is to always salvage a relationship. you can see my history of relationship advice here. but when he is that careless and clearly does not put you as a priority, then it's over. in his mind already.
Smh
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Posted by DonJohnHe definitely didn't go with another girl. The guy who he went with, whom I've met, posted a pic on FB.
i'll speak for the cancer man.
dude's going with another girl. you are not his priority.
cancer men are passive aggressive in relationships. we don't really want you anymore, we will forget bday gifts and to call you.
the fact is cancer men have great memories. he is passive aggressively letting you know it's over from my perspective.
btw my advice is to always salvage a relationship. you can see my history of relationship advice here. but when he is that careless and clearly does not put you as a priority, then it's over. in his mind already.

Posted by DivaCanLeoI have one kid and he's with his dad every weekend, all weekend so it wouldn't have been an issue. My boyfriend knows that because we spend EVERY weekend together. Except this one due to the ice.Posted by confusedlibra78Well I see you're 38.Posted by DivaCanLeoHe spends an inordinate amount of time bragging about how much money he has. He also knows that I just got a bunch of money because my car was totaled. That's not it. It's something else.
That would piss me off
That game is going to be a classic
But maybe he just couldn't afford a ticket for you and his friend is paying for his own ticket.
Goodbye to fukboys.
Don't you have kids? Would it have been easy to find babysitters in short time?
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Posted by Bricks195Haha! It's funny, we went to a Knicks game recently and he said I was his good luck charm because every game he's taken me to, our team has either won or come close. Guess he should have taken me to this one, lol.Posted by DivaCanLeo
Giants are getting spanked.
It's the Cancer guy. He's a jinx. A passive-aggressive jinx.click to expand

Posted by DivaCanLeoThe friend posted a pic on FB
To the Op ask him to send a picture of him and his friend

Posted by rabidtalkerHe didn't have to be convinced. He's always been the one who asked me to see him and got mad at me when I didn't go to see him once. He said I never made time for him and I nicely pointed out that unless I was at work or with my son, I was with him. However, it took him 5 months or so, maybe 6, before he called me his girlfriend and someone had to ask him and he joked about it before saying it seriously. Everything is a joke with him. I've never seen someone more avoidant of life. He's so smart and funny but wastes his life drinking, smoking and getting high on weed. For the record, I have no problem with any of those things but he's an addict and I do have an issue with that
Is this the guy who owns the bar who didnt want the relationship but had to be convinced from the very beginning?

Posted by DivaCanLeoHaha! I'll second you on that ?
This thread should be titled why are Libra women so delusional...

Posted by TheCanBullYeah, I just mentioned to another poster that he's so funny and smart but spends his life drinking, smoking and getting high. He's 33. At some point you have to grow up.
This guy is just a cunt... nothing to do with being a Cancerian.
One thing you will come to find with Cancer men is that a lot of them have not evolved, are living a delusional life style because they are what they are.
Cancer is feminine energy, they don't know yet how to use it or channel it correctly, and just act like dicks and try to follow some vision of a male.
A Cancerian male can be an ultimate Alpha male too, but people these days follow a stereotype and it leads them nowhere.

Posted by LibrajeanI agree. And you can't change people. Best to cut out and be alone and happy until you meet someone that will treat you like he wants to be with you and that you are special to him.Posted by confusedlibra78He sounds completely immature and thinks you will put up with his shenanigans. I say get him back..start doing things without him. Ps. Try not to be too hurt, these aholes really don't care. Until it's over...Posted by GemitatiI will take that as you are genuinely asking and not being a dick. Yes, I'm fucking hurt. Not being important to someone that you care about hurts, a lot
Are you really hurt?
They are like children.
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Posted by confusedlibra78not right - you can find better ... ghost him and don't give in when he comes whining - cause they always do ...Posted by TheCanBullYeah, I just mentioned to another poster that he's so funny and smart but spends his life drinking, smoking and getting high. He's 33. At some point you have to grow up.
This guy is just a cunt... nothing to do with being a Cancerian.
One thing you will come to find with Cancer men is that a lot of them have not evolved, are living a delusional life style because they are what they are.
Cancer is feminine energy, they don't know yet how to use it or channel it correctly, and just act like dicks and try to follow some vision of a male.
A Cancerian male can be an ultimate Alpha male too, but people these days follow a stereotype and it leads them nowhere.
He also pulls the dominant male crap all the time. He threatened a guy at the bar who was talking to me. That's all the guy was doing but he loudly, in front of the whole bar, told the guy to stop talking to his girlfriend and get the fuck outclick to expand

Posted by TheCanBullwell whatever he is, he is not "alpha" ... the behavior that she describes is not "alpha"Posted by AdmiraIAn Alpha is the right guy in the woman's eyes.. Alpha is not a fixed thing, and meh to being too Alpha.. that's shit.Posted by TheCanBullThe word Alpha male is redundant and completely meaningless, especially for humans. Well at least modern humans.
This guy is just a cunt... nothing to do with being a Cancerian.
One thing you will come to find with Cancer men is that a lot of them have not evolved, are living a delusional life style because they are what they are.
Cancer is feminine energy, they don't know yet how to use it or channel it correctly, and just act like dicks and try to follow some vision of a male.
A Cancerian male can be an ultimate Alpha male too, but people these days follow a stereotype and it leads them nowhere.
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Posted by confusedlibra78You are now saying he spends every weekend with you, but now you are pissed off that he decided to go to a game last minute with a friend without asking you? But he only made these plans AFTER you canceled. To me, he has nothing to apologize for. Him and his friend last minute decided to drive up to see the game, instead of wasting the weekend and the free ticket. You already said you couldn't come up, so why should he ask you to go? All of his plans didn't happen, so he made new ones. You aren't his mom, and you shouldn't require him to ask permission. Especially given it isn't even a big deal, its him going to a game with his friend. He was probably super excited about actually being able to attend when he thought he couldn't. Now he had someone willing to drive, and to half his expenses to boot, since he is very conscious about money.
I have one kid and he's with his dad every weekend, all weekend so it wouldn't have been an issue. My boyfriend knows that because we spend EVERY weekend together. Except this one due to the ice.

Posted by DivaCanLeoHis exact words were...I wish you hadn't gotten iced in. I said...you could have asked. He said...these plans all came together at 3 am. I told him to have fun and he said he would and he was going to buy a cheese head hat
So what was his excuse for not taking you? Have you had that conversation yet?

Posted by nikkistarBecause this is a pattern with him. He's done similar things multiple times before. He's told me that he's going to take me to his favorite restaurant multiple times, never has but has taken other people. He told me he was taking me to a baseball game and that we'd go into the dugout. He made a point to tell me he always keeps his promises. Never happened. He was going to take me to a Giants game for my birthday, backed out 2 weeks before. He didn't get me anything for Christmas, didn't even acknowledge it with a card. When we were in NY we had made plans to go to a really nice restaurant for lunch and he slept through it. We spend 98% of the time at his bar or at his place hanging out. Then other day I asked him to go somewhere with me because I was uncomfortable going alone (I felt unsafe). Got to his place and he was asleep.
Man, I don't know if its because I am less sensitive about stuff, but I don't understand why you are so mad.Posted by confusedlibra78You are now saying he spends every weekend with you, but now you are pissed off that he decided to go to a game last minute with a friend without asking you? But he only made these plans AFTER you canceled. To me, he has nothing to apologize for. Him and his friend last minute decided to drive up to see the game, instead of wasting the weekend and the free ticket. You already said you couldn't come up, so why should he ask you to go? All of his plans didn't happen, so he made new ones. You aren't his mom, and you shouldn't require him to ask permission. Especially given it isn't even a big deal, its him going to a game with his friend. He was probably super excited about actually being able to attend when he thought he couldn't. Now he had someone willing to drive, and to half his expenses to boot, since he is very conscious about money.
I have one kid and he's with his dad every weekend, all weekend so it wouldn't have been an issue. My boyfriend knows that because we spend EVERY weekend together. Except this one due to the ice.
I don't logically comprehend how him going to a game equates to him not making you a priority.
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Posted by tnmntNo, it's all about him. I thought my ex Sag husband was selfish...this guy takes the cake.Posted by confusedlibra78From what you say, it's not that he doesn't make you a priority, he doesn't consider you at all...Posted by nikkistarBecause this is a pattern with him. He's done similar things multiple times before. He's told me that he's going to take me to his favorite restaurant multiple times, never has but has taken other people. He told me he was taking me to a baseball game and that we'd go into the dugout. He made a point to tell me he always keeps his promises. Never happened. He was going to take me to a Giants game for my birthday, backed out 2 weeks before. He didn't get me anything for Christmas, didn't even acknowledge it with a card. When we were in NY we had made plans to go to a really nice restaurant for lunch and he slept through it. We spend 98% of the time at his bar or at his place hanging out. Then other day I asked him to go somewhere with me because I was uncomfortable going alone (I felt unsafe). Got to his place and he was asleep.
Man, I don't know if its because I am less sensitive about stuff, but I don't understand why you are so mad.Posted by confusedlibra78You are now saying he spends every weekend with you, but now you are pissed off that he decided to go to a game last minute with a friend without asking you? But he only made these plans AFTER you canceled. To me, he has nothing to apologize for. Him and his friend last minute decided to drive up to see the game, instead of wasting the weekend and the free ticket. You already said you couldn't come up, so why should he ask you to go? All of his plans didn't happen, so he made new ones. You aren't his mom, and you shouldn't require him to ask permission. Especially given it isn't even a big deal, its him going to a game with his friend. He was probably super excited about actually being able to attend when he thought he couldn't. Now he had someone willing to drive, and to half his expenses to boot, since he is very conscious about money.
I have one kid and he's with his dad every weekend, all weekend so it wouldn't have been an issue. My boyfriend knows that because we spend EVERY weekend together. Except this one due to the ice.
I don't logically comprehend how him going to a game equates to him not making you a priority.
After being with a husband for 18 years who didn't make me a priority, it's just tiresome behavior. And no man ever has to ask me permission for anything. I'm not that woman. However, the Giants are my absolute favorite team, he knows that, he didn't even bother to call to tell me. Again, it's not that I couldn't go it's that he didn't even let me know. He could have just called to say hey I've got some great news I'm going with a friend, something. Instead he waited till he was on the road and then told me.
If you can't see why this doesn't show how he doesn't make me a priority, maybe you should date him. Sounds like you'd be perfect for each other.
It's funny because I dated a Libra who was doing the same exact things to me.
He's just not that into you and he's taking advantage of your availability.
The way you feel now will be a frequent visitor.
Either you respect yourself enough to leave, or you learn to accept this feeling and compromise.click to expand
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A week ago, he said that he had a ticket through his family to go to the game in Green Bay but the flights were too expensive so he wasn't going. Fast forward to last night, I couldn't go to see him because we had some ice on my road and I didn't feel safe.
Imagine my surprise when I wake up to a text this morning saying... I have some good news and some bad news. I ask him what it is and he says he's on the road to Green Bay to see the game and he's sad I'm not with him. I said you could have asked and his response was all these decisions were made at 3 am and he was with his friend.
I am furious. Not even that I'm not going to the game but that he didn't even bother to ask me. He's called me many, many times at 3 am just to say hi but I was clearly not who he wanted to be with. I really think this is over. I'm tired of not being a priority to him. Sorry, needed to vent.