Why do cancerian men dissappear

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by cappygirl11 on Sunday, July 26, 2015 and has 16 replies.

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When my bf/ex - bf decided to talk to me with terms and conditions after dissappearing for 2 weeks about a dream. I thought I'd play along so I could just tell him how horrible and miserable he was and how he made me feelðŸ˜ ðŸ˜ˆ

So when I told him... He was a dumb ass for acting like a dumb ass. .... yes yes I wanted to tell him how I felt. He's reaction was....If him talking and telling me the truth doesn't work.... then he might as well not waste him time and breath......

So maybe this will Help understand the silence.... stupid emotional.... yet emotional less people....

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Posted by cappygirl11
When my bf/ex - bf decided to talk to me with terms and conditions after dissappearing for 2 weeks about a dream. I thought I'd play along so I could just tell him how horrible and miserable he was and how he made me feelðŸ˜ ðŸ˜ˆ

So when I told him... He was a dumb ass for acting like a dumb ass. .... yes yes I wanted to tell him how I felt. He's reaction was....If him talking and telling me the truth doesn't work.... then he might as well not waste him time and breath......

So maybe this will Help understand the silence.... stupid emotional.... yet emotional less people....

None of what you said makes any sense :/ It was all very contradictory...and I read this twice lol

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You again? Just go dream up another relationship. Also get committed. Also get a brain. Also get bent.

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Posted by kissmygrits
You again? Just go dream up another relationship. Also get committed. Also get a brain. Also get bent.

@kissmygrits, who are you referring to?

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Posted by Forren
Moonbutter, grits is referring to OP, since it isn't first time she brought this up.

Oh, ok thanks for clearing that up Forren

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Yes sorry Moonbutter that wasn't to you.You're all right. â™¡

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Posted by kissmygrits
Yes sorry Moonbutter that wasn't to you.You're all right. â™¡

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She's still going on about that dude she dreamed cheated on her. Now she wants us to believe he tried to get her to agree to a FWB but I think she suggested it. Orrr he won't have anything to do with her deluded crazy ass and she's hiding in his bushes while she posts these bull crap threads pretending to be a victim.

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Pretty sure the story goes, he dumped her the dumbest reason humanly possible....and was cold to her for like a month after...he's the one that sounds crazy.

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Nope. She even admits in the original post a stupid dream she had that he cheated caused this. Look up her posts. Who am I kidding? You're psycho too. Ya'll feed each other bullshit and consider it validation.

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Posted by kissmygrits
Ya'll feed each other bullshit and consider it validation.

so true

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Posted by cappygirl11
When my bf/ex - bf decided to talk to me with terms and conditions after dissappearing for 2 weeks about a dream. I thought I'd play along so I could just tell him how horrible and miserable he was and how he made me feelðŸ˜ ðŸ˜ˆ

So when I told him... He was a dumb ass for acting like a dumb ass. .... yes yes I wanted to tell him how I felt. He's reaction was....If him talking and telling me the truth doesn't work.... then he might as well not waste him time and breath......

So maybe this will Help understand the silence.... stupid emotional.... yet emotional less people....

Your approached is quite harsh. Cancer men are sensitive. Maybe you have to offer him kindness regardless of his disappearing that caused you pain. You don't even know why he disappear maybe he had some problems too and he needs to deal it.. or maybe I missed some of your post what's going on.

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Kiss my grits: Seriously you are the only psycho around, I know all her posts we've talked quite a bunch the guy was a shit..one second yr nice the next yr a fucking asshole. Get a goddamn grip and stop exploding on complete strangers, dude. It's embarrassing.

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Also I'm dating a cancer and absolutely the furthest thing from needy or insecure..im extremely stable, which I'm assuming is why my cancer likes me cuz hes a fucking mess, but I can handle it.

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I'm just going to leave this here.

http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/cancer/do-cancerians-realise-how-they-effect-others-5515959.asp?p=3
4 years.

I said I had a dream about him cheating. But not in this polite a manner.

But we had issues in the past of me being jealous and issues happening between us

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That's great you're dating again. Still though you're bitter and repetitive. You haven't seen asshole yet.

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