Why won't Cancer man let me go?

He doesn't love me!

Ok so this is the guy that I was saying broke my heart a million times over about a 10 year span on and off. Even though he sounds so sincere when he said he loved me, I finally came to the realization that I would never have him the way that I wanted him so I backed off for good and I refused to speak with him. It has been about 6 months since I have had any contact with him. I knew that it wouldn't last because I guess he thinks that its safe to reach out to me again.

He said that he will be in my city, Orlando, next month and wanted to know if we could hang out. I don't want to fall back into the way I used to be with him because I feel so weak like I don't have any control when I'm around him. So I told him that I may be out of town and I would have to check back with him later. Even though I'm not going to check back with him at all.

Here is the deal. He has a great life going for himself. He is on tour with a major recording artist, they travel all over the world, he gets plenty of attention from females groupies, singers, actresses alike! So why is it that he always manages to try and swoop and and fuck up my life. It's like as soon as I'm getting over him he keeps trying to come back. I feel like an addict thats trying to get over a drug. I know he is wrong for me and I really don't want him back because of the way he makes me feel because he constantly lets me know through his actions that we can never be. He knows how I feel about him but he won't leave me alone.

I can be strong but he has a way of wearing me down. Why won't he leave me alone for good? I want to be civil to him because if he thinks that I hate him its like saying I love him to him!? Because you have to love someone in order to hate them so much right? So I don't show any emotions to him anymore. That is the only way I feel to get through it. His birthday is 7/18/68 if that helps.

so typical of immature cancer.He will not leave you alone ever as he knows that you want to move on(especially), he will always wnat you more when you don't want him(i hope that makes sense).Please do yourself a favour and cut any communication with him if you want to be happy and move on with your life, if he loved you he would show it 24/7, no doubt about it.He keeps coming back because he knows it worked every time, that is so unfair, taking advantage of someone's weakness!!!!A cancer that loves you will not even dream of trying to break your heart, on the contrary he will reassure you and make you feel loved all the time!!!Be strong, get yourself a mature person, you seem like a nice caring person, you deserve it!!!Good luck.

Wow! My Cancer has the same birthdate as yours (7/18/68). His Moon in in Taurus...yep the stubborn one. I think for your peace of mind that you should cut off all contact with him. I had a male friend who had Sun in Taurus and it wasn't until I totally stopped answering his calls that he stopped calling. No contact is the way to go. It sends a message much louder than yelling at him to leave you alone. The proof is in the actions.

Alright. I'm a cancer and I understand what he's probably doing. He is always thinking of the past and what he used to have with you and wants to feel it again. Even tho there are other girls around it's not the same. To him you're a dime a dozen. Most of us cancers got to understand the fact that the past is the past we cannot go back to it and even tho I do this a bit as well (tho I never do what he does) I force myself to move on by flirting with other women. He needs to do this to understand there are more fishes in the sea. Tho we hate moving on and would rather not and get the girl we lust over. We cant always get what we want. Must be his Taurus moon?
Please don't go on thinking every cancer is like this. It's normal for everyone tho mostly water and earth signs do this. Hope this helps.

Thanks you guys! I love hearing your point of view! Shisno, I'm also a cancer so I have to admit that I'm having a difficult time getting over him. It's like I can't forget about him either. I don't let him know for my sake or he would definitely try to use it to his advantage. I still love him so much but I have learned to love myself alot more. I wish that somehow we could be just friends but we tried and we just cant leave those freaking damn feelings out of it!

He says he really really wants to be friends with me but I just can't see it happening, EVER because I feel so much for him which is why I avoid him. You are all right about what I need to do. I have to cut him off for good but it's very hard to do.

Cancer men are so golden! Except when they play with your emotions! :

anytime MeMe, it seems that you're on the right track, stay strong. i wish you very good luck!"the one"will come when you least expect.....