Winning over Cancer Man

I'm quite new to this (16yo), I have only been in 1 long term r'ship with a Scorpio man before and I have my sights set on that Cancer! Any suggestions on how to woo this guy? Do I act aloof or interested? I have read that they generally want what they can't have.

Since you're a Scorp.. you don't really have to do anything.. but don't try to be anyone but yourself.

What if he's not even aware she's interested? All you have to do is make your intentions clear - but in a subtle way.

He is aware I like him, and he is quite happy about that (from what i've heard), so now do i just wait for him to woo me??

Wait, happy as in just knowing someone likes him or happy that specifically YOU like him and that he likes you back? It's really simple.. just try to spend some 1 on 1 time together. The last Scorpio I met it took only about 30 minutes or so after introducing ourselves that we couldn't keep our hands off each other.

He's definitly happy that it's me who likes him. But in that scenario, where you couldn't keep your hands off each other, would that ruin things or start an awesome relationship?

No, there's no way it could have ruined anything. Once you reach that point, a relationship is pretty much guaranteed. Read some commentary here:

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I think you can be his pal and not get overly excited or come on too strong and he will eventually want more and more and more. that is wat im doing to win over this cancer male. i made the mistake of coming on toooo strong and i scared him off. but then again im an aries...fire sign...hot baby. anyway.....they like girls who can be one of the guys.

"I think you can be his pal and not get overly excited or come on too strong and he will eventually want more and more and more."

- I agree with this.

"He's definitly happy that it's me who likes him. But in that scenario, where you couldn't keep your hands off each other, would that ruin things or start an awesome relationship?"

- How old is he? You should probably have him keep his hands to himself for now. Just go with the flow and don't rush into anything. Show your interest in subtle but consistent ways. Test the waters before you dive right in. He likes you, he'll come around.

i want to add they get real hurt when they are trying to woo you and you are to preoccupied with doing something that you dont pay attention

Is forcing a crabby to come to bed after they fall asleepon the chair;( when they say they want to be alone) bad?
should i leave him wake with pain?been there b4 and let him make up his own mind?

It's so confusing..! I didn't think Cancer's could have 'casual' flings- they want security, right? But this guy seems crazy about cuddling and kissing me and sends the sweetest msgs (all within 2 weeks of getting together) but then doesn't seem affected when I ignore him..! erm I also think he secretly craves to be the one I choose. Is he being indirect?