You hurt so much

Remember what I said about your friend? I think she used you. That kind of person doesn't deserve that kind of devotion or attention.

~hugs~ I know you're hurting.

As for Cancers hurting people....I certainly hope so, when it comes to my ex, and my ex friend! If my coldly and cruelly cutting them out of my life hurts them, then they deserve every bit of suffering and pain they might feel from it.

@fullwaterpisces. OMG I can relate to every word you just said. I endured the same shit a while ago but we are in a different plane now (still a hurtful / painful one). It is terrible how he lured me in with all magic and then suddenly a biting ice cold attitude which stays on perpetually. Nothing will ever make him change his mind. How I wish you have an iron will (in this matter) and not give in to all the love and jazz. Gosh! I feel you deep down my heart. You poor thing. *hugs*

I really wish to know what outcome will be in such cases.. wont the cancer feel any remorse at all? what happens to all the love they had? Just what happens in that silence / void where the other party doesn't have a glimpse of whats going on??

It is one thing to return the same treatment but nothing ever comes out of mirroring that quality. It makes matters worse in fact. One could go on and live life and wish let them come running back. But with the kind of sudden sharp pain inflicted, it becomes difficult to just have a great attitude towards this and "move on"

I guess cancers should come with a disclaimer in the beginning of a relationship that reads something like this: warning, once interested and the feeling is mutual, I will love, respect and dignify you like royalty, but if you don't reassure me that you love me in the same magnitude or if you break my heart, I will break your legs, your heart and poof disappear and leave you with a never ending yearning that only I can fill, I will put some type of magical love spell on you that you can't escape from. I will ALWAYS be the one you compare everyone else to. :/ sucks!

No, the warning should be this (and my mom did warn my ex): treat with love and respect, and above all, be loyal. If you backstab, betray and habitually abuse or take advantage of, you will have your heart ripped out and crushed before your eyes, then left alone in your own sad misery with no backward glance.

As for what happens to the love? Well, if someone I love betrays me, abuses me, and otherwise shows that I have no reason to trust or love that person, I'll simply burn it to ash, turn it to hate, and not give one flying fuck about that person ever again.

Yes Moonartist! Lol. The thing is, cancers don't make this sort of rule with them verbally known, they may throw out hints but they will never beg for the type of love they need. They expect their partner to just naturally get it (as they do with their partner). Most people don't realize this until they're gone, after the cancer has dissed you (then they can realize their wrong doings).

Posted by MoonArtist
No, the warning should be this: treat with love and respect, and above all, be loyal. If you backstab, betray and habitually abuse or take advantage of, you will have your heart ripped out and crushed before your eyes, then left alone in your own sad misery with no backward glance.

A Cancer will take a LOT from someone they love. We will give hints and/or directly tell the love that their behaviour sucks and we don't like it. Unfortunately, many times people don't take these comments seriously, thinking how can this loving, caring person really be that mad? They'll forgive me... they are so empathic and understanding.

It only goes so far... then it's cut off with such speed and precision it makes the head spin and the heart ache.

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Posted by MoonArtist
No, the warning should be this: treat with love and respect, and above all, be loyal. If you backstab, betray and habitually abuse or take advantage of, you will have your heart ripped out and crushed before your eyes, then left alone in your own sad misery with no backward glance.

A Cancer will take a LOT from someone they love. We will give hints and/or directly tell the love that their behaviour sucks and we don't like it. Unfortunately, many times people don't take these comments seriously, thinking how can this loving, caring person really be that mad? They'll forgive me... they are so empathic and understanding.

It only goes so far... then it's cut off with such speed and precision it makes the head spin and the heart ache.

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Yep! We love hard and fast, and when we FINALLY see that it was for naught, that we mean nothing, and it won't change, we shut it all down. I think it seems fast to everyone because they don't know the behind the scenes agonizing we do for months and years. We catalog the rights and wrongs, and if the wrongs get too big to overlook, or to forgive, or too habitual so that it's not about being imperfect, that's when we decide to cut the line and head for deeper water. Oops, is the asshole drowning? Too bad! Bye bye!

^this is so true. I think cancers can be easily abused because they take so much shit from the people they love or try to please so much (sometimes too much) and this trait is seen as a weakness not really a strength...and people easily can take advantage of this (because they see it as a weakness). It's not until the cancer gives us the steel toe that we realize how strong they are and how much effort they were putting in and how much strength they showed by putting up with us for so long. But I guess it's easy to get a cancers motives confused because sometimes you don't realize they care that deeply because it seems like they are nice to everyone and just enjoy being nice. It's not until you see their tough side that you realize they're just as vicious as the rest if us (and by this point it's too late).

Yes!!! Because it will be a clear and distinct difference between when we were in your good graces vs not. When in good graces, everything is magical and amazing and when not, it's depressing. In the not phase, we can finally get a clear picture of why we took you for granted (because everything is totally different). And that's also the point where we regret doing the thing(s) that made you cut us off and we believe we can get you back based on how loving you were to us when together (with the addition of us changing or fixing what caused the problen). I'm tired but I hope I made sense.

Yes Cancers can be a little cold I had an eye opener when I hurt my Aries friend's feelings she said to me you can be really cruel she never thought I would be like that. She was getting under my skin it was building up and I got some emotional jabs in I felt bad and apologized an hour later.

But why do all this when the person is very accommodating, understanding, extremely loving and loyal and gives the undivided attention that one craves for? At least in my case the reasons are more to do with the practical day to day life challenges and he still loves me, and has made it clear. Except that he will never be that sweet because he doesn't want me soaking in a love that is just a fiction. But boi oh boi before he chose to tell me this, out and open, and when he was making a one-sided decision to move on when I was oblivious of such a thing coming up, God did he fry me in hell? His transition from being a partner to now an acquaintance was a walk on thorns and coal. We are still talking but like bloody zombies though. 😢

@StarMooney OMG I am shivering reading your post. That sounds just like it. "leave you with a never ending yearning that only I can fill, I will put some type of magical love spell on you that you can't escape from. I will ALWAYS be the one you compare everyone else to" - This is it !! Such an apt description of the torture they can inflict. 😢

Fullwater? Did you ever express this? (Sorry if you've already mentioned it, I'm just in and out and can't rwmber the details). I'm sorry about all this and I totally understand what you're going through. This is the downside.

Thanks moonman...

Starmooney.. Short anwser no, i didnt... I've tried too many times to talk to her, and she kept giving me excuses and reject me until... I just decide to take what was left from my dignity and walk away...

I want this xMoon all for myself. Thank you for that lovely song. I didnt know such a soulful song existed on the planet. It stirred my soul deep. The singing, the lyrics, the voice damn!!! how impactful it was..

Posted by fullwaterpisces
Thanks for all the virtual hugs... I wish they were real... This shit sucks!!! As i believe that cancers have all the right to be protective and act the way they do when someone have hurt them continiusly is very understandable...

For me i felt like i been judge and condemned for someone elses mistakes, because the only thing i did wrong was caring too much... If that is not enough reassurance i dont know what else... I was supportive, i went above and beyond, i was there when needed, i say i love you too many times... I did things that show love and care... And the minute i fuck it up (im a human being) out of being hurt (im a water sign too), out being mistreated, i dont get a second chance—?

After all this long, after i got perspective out of all situations we when though, what happen was stupid... It didnt even deserved this outcome... It sucks.... I was there when her motherfucker husband cheat on her twice... I give her a shelter when he kick her out of their own house... And now she is fucking cool with him, like nothing ever happen—... But i did something stupid out of a moment of weakness... And none of all other things i did are relevant? or count? she just fucking treat me like trash... Use me and dispose me...

Too selfcentered... I connected, i emphasize, i reciprocate... And im hurt.... Seriously some
Cancers ask for too much and give little in return... But let all others treat you like crap and there you are clingling and moping like little
Bitches... Sorry if i generalize i know not all of you are like that, but is just that I been hurt and im still am

She used you! This has nothing to do with her sign, it has to do with her lack of character. My ex friend (Virgo) did similar (her husband cheated, she was a mess, I kept her head above water when she was talking about driving her truck with her and her kids in it off a cliff), but in the end she chose my ex when I left him. Found out that they've been emailing for a few years before I left him, they currently meet up together (in the guise of for the sake of my kids and hers). If I had a PI on them I'm sure I'd find a lot more, but I really don't care what they do because they're both not a part of my life anymore. The difference between your messed up friendship and mine is that I saw her for what she really is and I'm the one who cut her out of my life an

It does hurt. I was friends with the virgo since 1985. What makes it hurt less is knowing that it must not have been that true of a friendship, because friends don't do that to each other. Your friend has problems with loyalty, and with using people. Be glad it didn't last longer, and don't be dwelling on how to keep a creep like that around.

Fullwater, I remember bits of your story and I do remember that you did something wrong to her (in response to her doing something wrong to you). If you really care, you may just have to pull some major confidence together and boldly call her up or something and tell her how you feel. She might be pissed at you and not really understand how wrong she was in all of that too. She may look at the situation differently than you. COMMUNICATION IS KEY!

I'm putting a Virgo through the same hurt and I couldn't care less. As others have stated, we give you chance after chance to write your wrongs and when you don't and continue to do butter then you force us no other choice but to cut you out our lives. I'm going to enjoy watching her suffer because she should have known better than to F with me!

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I'm putting a Virgo through the same hurt and I couldn't care less. As others have stated, we give you chance after chance to write your wrongs and when you don't and continue to do butter then you force us no other choice but to cut you out our lives. I'm going to enjoy watching her suffer because she should have known better than to F with me!

This is exactly what I meant at the beginning of my post... you do it on purpose, and you
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enjoy the power trip, because deep down probably you feel so unloved and too busy making stories in your pretty little heads that are not true...

Don't get me wrong... I stated some people deserve worst, after many chances there is no choice that cut them loose, but sometimes and some cancer are more into self preservation mode, and apply this cruel technique to people who doesn't deserved it, you need to be able to see the difference.

I agree with StarMooney... communication is the key... only if both parties are willing to listen and communicate... ignoring people, stumping the ground, covering their ears, looking up and start singing la, la, la... AKA the shell... or fortress of solitude or wherever you want to call it, and refusing to come out... is impossible...

if after talking there is not fix, at least both parties were able to know what when really wrong...

My Cancer actually just told me he's mentally logging all my perceived wrong doings aka bad moods that I take out on him, albeit jokingly (this was once my mood had passed), but I know he's still doing it lol.

Fullwater, you forget that some people are not capable of listening, or of being honest with themselves. My ex virgo friend and ex husband are perfect examples. They would try to argue, try to defend themselves with lies, and when I pointed out the lies, they would act as if I didn't say a thing, act as if the lie hadn't been pointed out. When faced with this kind of crazy making gaslighting behavior there's no choice but to cut them out. Enjoying the fact that they don't like it isn't really a power trip, it's all about a good dose of just rewards, and revenge. I'll fully admit that when I plunged the proverbial dagger into her heart and twisted, that I fully enjoyed utterly destroying every nice moment we had once had as friends. When I burn a bridge, I do it most thoroughly. Why? Because when you know who the enemy is, you don't want to give them future access. Any person with a bit of military minded thinking would agree.

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My Cancer actually just told me he's mentally logging all my perceived wrong doings aka bad moods that I take out on him, albeit jokingly (this was once my mood had passed), but I know he's still doing it lol.

We most certainly do catalog and keep track of the wrongs. We'll forgive numerous goofs, human mistakes, etc. But if a person starts to show a pattern of repeating bad behavior, it's no longer a mistake, you're looking at the person's true character. We keep track of it, because if down the line it gets worse and worse, we'll jump ship.....and sink the ship as we're jumping. Yay for being able to swim!

Exactly! I caught the Virgo red handed and she tried to act all innocent as if I just didn't see what she did. People get upset when we put our foot down and no longer allow them to take advantage of us. There's nothing for her and I to talk about because there's no explanation to explain why she did the unjust things she's did. If she was a true friend, she would have never done them in the first place. I have accepted who and what she is and it's not someone I want in me life and that's that.

Yep! That's how it went down for me, too. But how horrible, how cruel, how "unjust" of us to dare toss them aside! Poop on that nonsense! I'm big hearted enough to give most people who pass the initial gut reaction a chance. I genuinely like people. I do not, however, want disloyal people in my life. There's a huge difference between being human, and being an asshole. There's the door, assholes of the world...use it (and do expect the door to hit you on the ass on your way out).

lol! Yep it always amazes me how all of a sudden "we're" the bad guys when we finally decide to stand up for ourselves. Yet they'll happily kiss the ground the person walks on that treats them like butter then will turn around and be a marker to the person who actually treats them as an equal.

Maybe it's all about being delusional, and thus part of why their character isn't so good. My ex friend, who's husband cheated on her, who told me that she was staying until her kids were older so she could have time to get his business, etc. under her control and take him for everything when she leaves, is fooling around with my ex (I'm sure it started before I left him), and also claiming that all is well and good in her marriage, that her husband saw the light of the situation and his misdeeds and they're living the good life. So much bullshit, it's unreal.

Oh I know he's tracking, and so am I. It goes both ways. I just thought it was cute that he said it out loud. 😉

Perhaps one day soon, one of us will level up based on who's score is the highest. Haha

I actually wouldn't take it lightly that he told you that. He's probably warning you that you need to get a handle on you taking things out on him that are uncalled for. You took it as him joking but we don't joke about things that deal with the way we feel as a result of how you're treating us. That's the start of preparing for your sinking ship, so I wouldn't just brush off what he said.

Which is why I think people are so shocked when we do jump ship because they claimed they didn't see it coming, yet we indeed did warm them many times before they just didn't take the warnings seriously.

I'm laughing at the leveling up thing (hits my gamer's funny bone). 🙂

Cancer Lady is exactly right, though. Don't take it as a joke that he told you that. It's a warning shot, so to speak. I've lost count of how many times I tried to make my husband see what he was doing to me so that he could stop it, and fix it. The discussions, the hints, those eventually turn to ultimatums, and if those get ignored, that's it. Once the ultimatums start, we already have one foot out the door, ready and prepared to end it. Heck, even my mom warned my ex before we got married (don't hurt her or betray her, it won't be pretty and she won't forgive you). But SURPRISE!! Here's the divorce papers served while you're at work, sweety, because I'm bolting while I have the chance, and am not getting caught long enough to end up potentially dead.

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Perhaps one day soon, one of us will level up based on who's score is the highest. Haha

yeah good luck with that... they'll keep track of your doings, but when you mimic the behavior... you are being an ungrateful mofo... LOL

Posted by MoonArtist
Fullwater, you forget that some people are not capable of listening, or of being honest with themselves. My ex virgo friend and ex husband are perfect examples. They would try to argue, try to defend themselves with lies, and when I pointed out the lies, they would act as if I didn't say a thing, act as if the lie hadn't been pointed out. When faced with this kind of crazy making gaslighting behavior there's no choice but to cut them out. Enjoying the fact that they don't like it isn't really a power trip, it's all about a good dose of just rewards, and revenge. I'll fully admit that when I plunged the proverbial dagger into her heart and twisted, that I fully enjoyed utterly destroying every nice moment we had once had as friends. When I burn a bridge, I do it most thoroughly. Why? Because when you know who the enemy is, you don't want to give them future access. Any person with a bit of military minded thinking would agree.

Agree! 100%

Posted by Cancer Lady
I actually wouldn't take it lightly that he told you that. He's probably warning you that you need to get a handle on you taking things out on him that are uncalled for. You took it as him joking but we don't joke about things that deal with the way we feel as a result of how you're treating us. That's the start of preparing for your sinking ship, so I wouldn't just brush off what he said.

Which is why I think people are so shocked when we do jump ship because they claimed they didn't see it coming, yet we indeed did warm them many times before they just didn't take the warnings seriously.

Agreed.
Think of it as a sugar coating on a bitter pill, or the castenet shake of a diamondback.
Don't take what I just said as dire-he's letting you know there's something not quite right.

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Posted by phEnyxBull876
Perhaps one day soon, one of us will level up based on who's score is the highest. Haha

yeah good luck with that... they'll keep track of your doings, but when you mimic the behavior... you are being an ungrateful mofo... LOL

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Oh trust me, I know, I hear that all the time. They have selective memory when it comes to that. But I do the same exact thing! I will not go down without a fight! Lol

Oh I totally understand he's giving me warning shots, and I've done the same. Like i said, it's not a one way street. Cancers aren't the only who play dirty and turn cold as ice.

He is also incredibly aware that he is a lot to handle and that the pool of people wbo can accept him unconditionally is small. And we ate both aware that the caveat to being so close is that our moods affect each other, for better or worse. So his ups and my ups, and his downs can be my downs, and vice versa.

That said, we always talk it through. I think I said it on another post, its the differencr between an evolved and self aware Cancer, and one who is not. Choosing to not make the same mistakes, and understanding we're going to make new mistakes after we've mastered the old ones. 😉

Posted by MoonArtist
I'm laughing at the leveling up thing (hits my gamer's funny bone). 🙂

I'm glad you liked it 😉

Honestly you should just move on because his feelings of not trusting you are not going to change despite what you do or say. Once our minds are made up, that's it. He didn't think enough of you to make you his girlfriend and as you stated, you were good enough to play with but that's as far as he wanted things to progress with you.

When we talk about our exs or people we're interested in, it means we don't want anything serious with you. That is our way of letting you know you're in the friend zone and we have no plans of getting serious with you. Move on cos you're not going to progress with him as the damage is already done.

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Posted by phEnyxBull876
Perhaps one day soon, one of us will level up based on who's score is the highest. Haha

yeah good luck with that... they'll keep track of your doings, but when you mimic their behavior... you are being an ungrateful mofo... LOL

Yeah, and I'm thinking you are exceptional at mirroring your Crabette, fullwaterpisces 🙂

There are times in life when a Crab needs a mirror held up in front of them, done by a person with good intent, motivation and heart, it can be a valuable lesson for us.

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Truth!

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Posted by phEnyxBull876
Perhaps one day soon, one of us will level up based on who's score is the highest. Haha

yeah good luck with that... they'll keep track of your doings, but when you mimic their behavior... you are being an ungrateful mofo... LOL

Yeah, and I'm thinking you are exceptional at mirroring your Crabette, fullwaterpisces 🙂

There are times in life when a Crab needs a mirror held up in front of them, done by a person with good intent, motivation and heart, it can be a valuable lesson for us.

Truth!

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Hahahah I have not tried that one yet... because i thought it will make things worst, but how worst can they be at this point right?

I wish my ex was man enough to even let me know we can be friends (or not!) .. It is still a good thing u called her even of u didnt get the outcome expected. It is just much better to know where u both stand I guess

continuation...

I've told her that I don't like when people see me as a pester, or an annoyance, simply because I'm not that person... I told her that I don't expect our friendship to go back to the point we left, because I honestly don't want to go back to that point, where we were arguing and disappointing each other so much, so for me is just like I just meet her and we are starting all over...

not great, but at least I'm out of the "you are dead to me" phase (she looked me in the eyes again). will see...

I'm a good person, and I mean well, I consider myself an evolved Pisces, I fucked up things every now an then, I'm only human, but I trust my gut and this time, there was something beyond me that refused to give up, maybe is the end with a nice closure or just the beginning of a better deal, only time will tell...

Fullwater, AWESOMEEEEEE!!! I'm glad to hear that! The real healing process has begun! And I didn't expect her to take you with open arms. But where you are is actually a GREAT (re)start! Take it slow, give her space, don't pressure her, keep ALL communication lines open. With cancers and really anybody, the level of communication plays a big factor in the success of the relationship. No one can read minds or passive aggressive signals or body language correctly 100% of the time. Now leave the past in the past, and move forward with gusto! Don't repeat your mistakes (one big one being to let her walk all over you and not stand up for yourself when you should and then doing something silly to her back at her). New day!

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Posted by phEnyxBull876
Perhaps one day soon, one of us will level up based on who's score is the highest. Haha

yeah good luck with that... they'll keep track of your doings, but when you mimic the behavior... you are being an ungrateful mofo... LOL

Oh trust me, I know, I hear that all the time. They have selective memory when it comes to that. But I do the same exact thing! I will not go down without a fight! Lol

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Selective memory is the right term!!

they don't forget, that's one of my strongest cancer rising trails, almost photographic... but just wait to revert that same feature and they are, like "hmmm I don't remember well" LOL

Funny your update is basically the same as what went down with the Virgo and I today. Virgo sent me an e-mail saying she just wants me to know if I feel betrayed I shouldn't feel that way because she didn't mean to do that and she cares for me blah blah blah.

I didn't e-mail her back but we work together so we see each other often and I was cordial to her as in not ignoring her like I was before but I won't be going back to that 2 peas in a pod, besties, type friendship we had going on before. I know she's hurt but she hurt me and I don't feel sorry for her at all because I warned her time and time again to not try and cross me. So she's lucky I'm at least being cordial to her instead of her being dead to me.

Posted by Cancer Lady
Funny your update is basically the same as what went down with the Virgo and I today. Virgo sent me an e-mail saying she just wants me to know if I feel betrayed I shouldn't feel that way because she didn't mean to do that and she cares for me blah blah blah.

I didn't e-mail her back but we work together so we see each other often and I was cordial to her as in not ignoring her like I was before but I won't be going back to that 2 peas in a pod, besties, type friendship we had going on before. I know she's hurt but she hurt me and I don't feel sorry for her at all because I warned her time and time again to not try and cross me. So she's lucky I'm at least being cordial to her instead of her being dead to me.

It is ironic now that you mention that, the case is similar we also work together too, I see her daily... Although betreyal is not precisely the case of this fall out between us... Although she see is that way... Non of the things she shared with me while we where exposed to anyone (and oh lord! the things I know), I believe in loyalty and even If we never talk again I will never use that agains her... Is just simply because is not who I am.... It was more like I hurt her feelings as she hurt mine....

In any case i don't know if my cancer friend is thinking as you do... All I know is that for my spirit and peace I needed closure if this is it..., I'm a good person, I care for her, but if she has made the decision to disregard all the things I did for her while we where friends... Instead of weight all the good and the bad... is her choise... All I know is I loved her sincerely, I took responsibility for my wrongs, when above and beyond to fix it and make amends... If that is not enough... Is nothing else I can do, I have to love myself first and foremost and if her ego is bigger than the value of our friendship is nothing I can do... If you love something let it free... True love is not about posses the person is more about knowing that person is happy even if is not with you...

Posted by Cancer Lady
Funny your update is basically the same as what went down with the Virgo and I today. Virgo sent me an e-mail saying she just wants me to know if I feel betrayed I shouldn't feel that way because she didn't mean to do that and she cares for me blah blah blah.

I didn't e-mail her back but we work together so we see each other often and I was cordial to her as in not ignoring her like I was before but I won't be going back to that 2 peas in a pod, besties, type friendship we had going on before. I know she's hurt but she hurt me and I don't feel sorry for her at all because I warned her time and time again to not try and cross me. So she's lucky I'm at least being cordial to her instead of her being dead to me.

My ex friend (virgo) has stayed blissfully out of my hair. If she has any working brain cells in her head she'll stay that way, because I have no problem telling her for the 3rd or 4th time to go fuck herself, she's not my friend, and I want nothing to do with her back stabbing, lying shitty self for the rest of our lives. Forget being cordial. I tried that and she wouldn't take the "we're not friends" seriously, because she "cares" about me, and she "never" betrayed me. I basically had to get down right mean for her to get the message. Then my ex, who always supposedly didn't like her as my friend, tries to guilt me about how I've "hurt" her. He's soooo protective of her, isn't it sweet? Nothing is going on there, though, nooooo sir! It's all innocent and supportive and christian like. Note extreme sarcasm. 😛

Posted by fullwaterpisces
From now on I will avoid this kind of connection like the plague... It feels so freaking awesome while in there... And now im just a freaking shadow of who i where used and disposed...

And this are the people who are supposy more aware of emotions and empathetic... I dont want to even think what will be with those who dont event feel those things.

But please cancers you need to learn to difference between a imperfect human being that loves you vs all those fuckers who treat you like crap...

I wouldn't be so quick to blame yourself.

Iirc, this person was a user of people, due to her own enormous

insecurities.

Hopefully one day you'll be able to see that.

I'm sorry you had to go through that, but unfortunately

toxic people are everywhere.

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Posted by Cancer Lady
Funny your update is basically the same as what went down with the Virgo and I today. Virgo sent me an e-mail saying she just wants me to know if I feel betrayed I shouldn't feel that way because she didn't mean to do that and she cares for me blah blah blah.

I didn't e-mail her back but we work together so we see each other often and I was cordial to her as in not ignoring her like I was before but I won't be going back to that 2 peas in a pod, besties, type friendship we had going on before. I know she's hurt but she hurt me and I don't feel sorry for her at all because I warned her time and time again to not try and cross me. So she's lucky I'm at least being cordial to her instead of her being dead to me.

My ex friend (virgo) has stayed blissfully out of my hair. If she has any working brain cells in her head she'll stay that way, because I have no problem telling her for the 3rd or 4th time to go fuck herself, she's not my friend, and I want nothing to do with her back stabbing, lying shitty self for the rest of our lives. Forget being cordial. I tried that and she wouldn't take the "we're not friends" seriously, because she "cares" about me, and she "never" betrayed me. I basically had to get down right mean for her to get the message. Then my ex, who always supposedly didn't like her as my friend, tries to guilt me about how I've "hurt" her. He's soooo protective of her, isn't it sweet? Nothing is going on there, though, nooooo sir! It's all innocent and supportive and christian like. Note extreme sarcasm. 😛

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