“Testing your partner”

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by user7 on Sunday, April 14, 2019 and has 2 replies.
testing your partner to see how they would react to certain things

you do that, right?

tell me about some of the times youve done that.
Hi yes ..I'm a Capricorn woman and I test my partners. BUT I only do it if I - for example - think they are Controlling and I want to see if I'm right.

So let's say I'm doing some housework with my partner. And my partner tells me to do something His way but I say 5hank you but no. If he starts getting arsey and insists I do it his way then I start to feel a bit controlled rather than free to be myself.

If this behaviour continues to the point that he is starting arguments over it then I definitely feel controlled.

So I start to test him by deliberately doing what he says - even though I don't want to or have to - just to test his reaction.

If he starts being really nice to me then I now for sure he is controlling.

I test to make sure I'm right about what I think is going on when I'm not happy with how I'm being treated.