testing your partner to see how they would react to certain things
you do that, right?
tell me about some of the times youve done that.
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Feb 20, 2016Comments: 6 · Posts: 1783 · Topics: 79
Hi yes ..I'm a Capricorn woman and I test my partners. BUT I only do it if I - for example - think they are Controlling and I want to see if I'm right.
So let's say I'm doing some housework with my partner. And my partner tells me to do something His way but I say 5hank you but no. If he starts getting arsey and insists I do it his way then I start to feel a bit controlled rather than free to be myself.
If this behaviour continues to the point that he is starting arguments over it then I definitely feel controlled.
So I start to test him by deliberately doing what he says - even though I don't want to or have to - just to test his reaction.
If he starts being really nice to me then I now for sure he is controlling.
I test to make sure I'm right about what I think is going on when I'm not happy with how I'm being treated.