Posted by ArticleL
Negatives? O-O
Posted by BlazingGoat
I always assume the worst so I'm never disappointed.
Posted by 24capgal18
HELL, I am good at damn near everything I do, if I cant do it I will research until I can go do it but I will not start until i have read over the plans inside of my head and mentally walked them out.
Posted by leilaxxlovezPosted by ArticleL
Negatives? O-O
we had the topic of caps and certain problems they have...like worrying too much and apethy, so its time we look at what we do right,what we love abt ourselves and so on.click to expand
Posted by M
I'm a really reasonable person and an excellent friend. I'm also a lightning in a bottle
Leila's always spreading positive energy
Posted by leilaxxlovezPosted by 24capgal18
HELL, I am good at damn near everything I do, if I cant do it I will research until I can go do it but I will not start until i have read over the plans inside of my head and mentally walked them out.
+1
I know exactly what you mean...there's just no point to doing something if you're gonna do it halfway*click to expand
Posted by BlazingGoatPosted by leilaxxlovezPosted by BlazingGoat
I always assume the worst so I'm never disappointed.
where's the fun in that...? :-/ and what is the point of even doing anything if you're always gonna assume the worst...? Why try,why even bother...? I don't get it...
Because when I once again, again, again prove myself wrong and things turn out just fine, then I feel so flutteringly good.It actually takes very little to keep me content or even happy. I'm amused and impressed by the smallest things in the world and every day life. I'm very much an every-day-person...now I need to have that morning coffee.
Despite my outlook on life, I'm mainly known as a smiley and laughing person. I know lots of people who keep telling others how positive and optimistic they are yet they always have a defeated and disappointed look on their faces. I hope looks are deceiving in their cases or perhaps it's a matter of them subconsciously hoping they can convince others and then believe themselves?! I don't laugh at others misfortune but I tend to take a humoristic point of view on most of the things that worry me and the things I see negativity.
The only time I lose my sense of humor is if I worry about the health and well being of those close to me. Oh, I take that back. When some subconsciously drama seeking Pisces I know, fell on a trip and hurt his bad knee, I laughed out hard and cracked some joke others would consider insensitive but it really brightened his mood and he quickly elaborated on my unintentional joke/brain detached comment. I wouldn't have done this to anyone else but I've known him all his life so I know what he wants and that's certainly not pity.click to expand
Posted by BlazingGoatPosted by leilaxxlovezPosted by BlazingGoat
Despite my outlook on life, I'm mainly known as a smiley and laughing person. I know lots of people who keep telling others how positive and optimistic they are yet they always have a defeated and disappointed look on their faces. I hope looks are deceiving in their cases or perhaps it's a matter of them subconsciously hoping they can convince others and then believe themselves?!
There's one thing I cannot do. When I go out into the world...I cannot, no matter how many problems I've got, look sad and stuff. Even when something is bothering me so much...I forget about it the minute I'm around people,because I get so hyped up on their energy...is that weird? Another part of me is always whispering how imma get through it, if I take a moment to power up,and tackle the problem once I've really thought it through. Even when I'm sad inside...which last happened when I forget to hand in an assignment that counted for 30% so I got a zero,i was stressed inside and I wanted to literally scream!! But I kept smiling. :-/ I feel like I'm letting myself and the people down once I show im down infron of them because it's like I've literally given up. I've never,unless it's a funeral,seen my mom upset or down... she's taurus. maybe I learned this from her...? :-/ to always be strong and work your issues like a man!lolclick to expand
Posted by 24capgal18
I love how kool we remain around everyone in the world but understand each other enough to know that we get emotional, releasing it in private is the only place we 'd do this, or in front of someone to show them we have these things lol
Posted by BlazingGoatPosted by leilaxxlovezPosted by BlazingGoatPosted by leilaxxlovezPosted by BlazingGoat
Despite my outlook on life, I'm mainly known as a smiley and laughing person. I know lots of people who keep telling others how positive and optimistic they are yet they always have a defeated and disappointed look on their faces. I hope looks are deceiving in their cases or perhaps it's a matter of them subconsciously hoping they can convince others and then believe themselves?!
There's one thing I cannot do. When I go out into the world...I cannot, no matter how many problems I've got, look sad and stuff. Even when something is bothering me so much...I forget about it the minute I'm around people,because I get so hyped up on their energy...is that weird? Another part of me is always whispering how imma get through it, if I take a moment to power up,and tackle the problem once I've really thought it through. Even when I'm sad inside...which last happened when I forget to hand in an assignment that counted for 30% so I got a zero,i was stressed inside and I wanted to literally scream!! But I kept smiling. :-/ I feel like I'm letting myself and the people down once I show im down infron of them because it's like I've literally given up. I've never,unless it's a funeral,seen my mom upset or down... she's taurus. maybe I learned this from her...? :-/ to always be strong and work your issues like a man!lol
I don't think it's weird. I'm an emotional sponge so it can go either way for me. Like my blazing row in public with Pisces dad or coming away from a "therapeutic" girl chat with Gemini SIL and feeling neurotic and much worse than before I talked to her! Then the company of Leo hub reinstates my self confidence,or deception of self-confidence???
I can understand just what you mean . my lil cuz just was pronounced dead from a headon collision..we all have been down, this is one time when everyone has seen me really cry seein as how i tend to get off the subject if i am gettiin emotional durin a conversation and i dont want to be seen thisclick to expand
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