a few questions about the cap male

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by cooperative_cancer on Tuesday, May 13, 2008 and has 3 replies.
I've only posted on here a couple of times and always regarding my CAP. We've been together since January and have become quite close. We speak everyday and see each other about 4 times a week. He's not said that he loves me yet, but has said that i'm pretty much a perfect girlfriend and there's nothing he'd rather do than be with me. The problem is that i feel there's an emotional barrier between us and and because of this i'm just a little confused about where we are in the relationship. We often talk about OUR future (he has said on a few occasions " our child won't be like that" or "in 15 years time will we....". I've never felt so secure in a relationship and feel its unlikely that he'll leave but at the same time I need to know he's not just with me as a safe option. I love him and i need to be loved back.
Question 1- Do caps have difficulties in expressing their emotions?
Question 2- Do caps tend to favour relationships that work practically without actually loving the person their with?
Question 3- I often feel like he doesn't need me and i need to be needed! Just how independent are caps in love?
Question 4- He's always stressed about work and i'm always there to listen and offer suggestions but he's still really tense.
Any suggestions on how to relax a cap other than making love (sorry to be crude but everything is absolutely
fine in that area Winking
p.s He's 10 years older than me and i'm a typical cancer. I know its difficult to get the gist of my situation with a couple of lines. All i'm looking for is a general insight into the cap male to help me with my situation.
Thanks guys x


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for me.....
1)Yes, I tend to do opposite things sometimes. Or I can't use the words so easily when talking about emotions...
2)I don't know about hat, I'm not that experienced b_t my personal belief is this...There should be love.
3)I'd love to look I can do it myself, and I'd love to "help, protect" my partner
4)Thats not about being a capricorn I guess Big Grin
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cooperative cancer - if you read my posts, this is the reason why I finally broke it off with my Cap, who, funnily enough, was 9 years older than me.
I'm a Libra, generally quite independant (own career, own house etc) - but it got to the point where I felt my love wasn't reciprocated - I just felt I was there for convenience.
They don't cahnge - mine told me I was the love of his life, but was "busy" every 2nd weekend or so and basically wanted to do his own thing whenever he pleased.
Whilst initially, that was what attracted me to him (I do not like overly needy guys) - when you want to settle and have a future with someone, I needed him to be more available. Scares em to think that he'd be like that if we would've had children etc.
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