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There is this man that I play poker with that really gets my attention in the way his personality is ... his disposition is very cordial, warm, accommodating, pleasing ... with hints of silliness and teasing. But, the teasing isn't offensive because his heart is so warm, and the little smirk on his face .. just leaves me reeling with attraction for him.
I've been admiring him from a far for over 6 months now. We talk a lot, for we're poker buddies, so we interact quite a bit .. it's just I've never shown him how much I regard him because well ... I'm married, and he's married .. and that would just go against my principals and morals.
Last night, I finally asked him ... he was born December 28th.
Damn, I love CapMen, no question .. he isn't the first one to get my fancy like that.
If we were both single, lol .......
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Mar 11, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 967 · Topics: 41
LOL what an old slut. She's always criticizing everyone else's love life yet look at her.
No wonder she's so jealous of GF's love for her Aries man. As if it weren't obvious anyways.
Get divorced so you can do what you want. I feel bad for you. Living a fake love story.
I knew your old ass was in a miserable marriage.
P.S - Use some lubricants...you know since you are going through menopause and all.
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I'm not sure what it is about Cap and Pisces, Starfish .. but, there is definitely a connection. He thinks so, too, I think. I mean, he's always talking to me, and sitting next to me at the table.
Last night, everytime I went out to smoke .. he came to have a smoke with me, and just joked and teased until I was rolling laughing so hard.
He's special .. no doubt.
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Dec 31, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 218 · Topics: 26
P-Angel
Sounds like your playing with fire...I know you would never act upon any physical desires but sometimes emotional affairs are just as damaging...Perhaps it's time to take a poker break..
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No way, we're having an emotional affair .. an emotional affair would consist of talking to each other about each other.
My only purpose in this thread was to express how much I adore CapMen, with an example of one that I know.
I adore a lot of people in much the same fashion .. in fact, tonight is another poker night and I will be having dinner with a Gemini man friend of mine = just friends, as is CapMan, just a friend.
There's no fucking way my emotions could have control over me ..
< has the ability to emotionally disconnect at will
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Dec 31, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 218 · Topics: 26
All affairs start somewhere...Usually with a small attraction and before you know it...
P-angel I am not saying that is going to happen, but you did say that you have an attraction to him, enjoy talking to him, and you obviously think of him outside poker as you brought him to the board...You could have expressed how much you adore Capmen without discussing your attraction for him..
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Feb 10, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 757 · Topics: 56
I have a cap guy lol he is nucking futs to say the least. But he's fun to hang around. However he's BRUTALLY honest sometimes I just want to slap him in face for it lol, but I know he means well.
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"You could have expressed how much you adore Capmen without discussing your attraction for him"
Hurt-heart, I am attracted to him .. why would I describe my adoration without outlining what about him is attractive for me to adore? That doesn't make sense.
What bothers you? That I can feel for another person very deeply while still maintaining my dignity and respect for myself and husband by NOT acting on it?
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Gangsta .. this CapMan is honest too .. sometimes he says things that just knock me over .. I guess because I love people who shoot-straight.
I know when I was married to my first husband, his brother was a CapMan I also loved very much .... and after my divorce, for a long time I wondered whether I was really in love with my husband, or his brother.
Something about these men just make me dreamy-eyed, I want them all.
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"Gangsta .. this CapMan is honest too .. sometimes he says things that just knock me over .. I guess because I love people who shoot-straight"
- yea my cap friend has me speechless sometimes. lol
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Mar 11, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 967 · Topics: 41
You do not have dignity and respect for your husband. Otherwise you would not feel attraction towards another man.
Obviously, you are not in love with your husband. That isn't real love.
Seems to be a pattern.
Maybe you marry men who can support you financially and you get stuck with them.
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It's perfectly normal to be attracted to others when you are in a relationship. The whole point of commitment is that you do not take it further than acknowledging it's there. You can love one person and be attracted to another - it's human.
Oh no it's not.
Only people who have never really been in love can say that.
When it does happen.......it's obviously not real love.
When I love someone I have no eyes for anyone else.
-You can love one person and be attracted to another - it's human.
This is the stupidest thing I've ever heard. I take it that you haven't found real love yet. Good luck in your search.
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I'm sure you will find real love one day starfish. Then you will change your mind.
Oh and I don't know what human nature you are talking about. It's not in my nature.
So I would say you are wrong about that.
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but other ppl can be found attractive rather one is married or not
thats human nature...
And again I tell you....you are wrong because I am not one of those. Has it gotten into your head yet? I see girls who wet their panties easily over any man's face and well sorry to break the news to you but just because you do it....doesn't mean I do.
You see you talk about physical. I'm talking emotional and spiritual love.
What makes you think every man looks at a woman?
A lot of my male friends don't even turn their heads and look at other women. No matter how gorgeous they are. Of course I have male friends that do. That doesn't mean every man does it.
That's why you are wrong. You base every thing on your experience and now swear everyone just stares at cock and ass all day.
You will grow up eventually and realize what the true meaning of love is one day.
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lol ... you have no idea how naive you make yourself look by saying that ... however, please don't stop.
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Sometimes, I think these people in here parading around as women are just little high-schoolers, for real.
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MD is AM, Starfish ... so, her responses don't come as a surprise to me.
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Mar 11, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 967 · Topics: 41
I've blocked her...makes life easier. Who needs that negativity in your life?
*SMH LOL life?
This is an internet forum lady. When you turn off your computer........that's life...the real world. You are pathetic.
Oh god sagi goat. I just saw that you have Sun Capricorn / Moon Aquarius.
What a night mare LOL
You dykes make me laugh.