advice from the ladies

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by Illmatic on Thursday, February 16, 2006 and has 28 replies.
Trying for a kiss on the first date: no - try expressing enjoyment of the date
and ask for another.
Capricorns are reserved and very socially conscious. It isn?t always
obvious if a Capricorn is attracted to you. Either they will approach you in
a direct and usually simple manner or expect you to. Capricorns are not
impressed by anything silly or frivolous and making a scene is unforgivable
to them. They are not easy to get to know but their reservedness can be
intriguing and there is almost always something classy and graceful about
these people. Capricorns tend to be well mannered and considerate of
others. They are very turned off by any lack of manners. They also tend
to be traditionalist but can also be very aggressive once they decided on a
course of action.
First date suggestions for a Capricorn: fancy restaurants, concerts, plays,
theater, an event hosted by you, and exclusive social gatherings
Hints: Capricorns are impressed by status, social connections and grace

so is it somewhat true especially the part status, social connections and grace?
I think some cappies go through a stage in their life when they are very impressed with status, money and power, I know mine was, but he is over it, has much more earth now
Yes, it's pretty right on. I like the ballet, opera, theatre, and the "see and be seen" events once in a while. Etiquette/manners, upbringing is important. I'm not looking for some pretentious ivy-leaguer though. I don't like pompous a $ $ es, or intellectual snobs. Understated class is nice, but I live by my own rules and if I want to be crazy and break others' rules, I sometimes will do that. Social connections and status... not such a big deal, but it probably could be for some Cap. women. I'm a bit off-beat, bc. I make good money, have a career, and my family has money, so I don't need or am not as impressed with status/power.
ladies if you like da guy would you napproach them or "observe" them for a while?
ok sorry typo
ladies if you liked a guy would you approach them or "observe" them for a while?
"ladies if you liked a guy would you approach them or "observe" them for a while?"
I would observe them not just for a while but quite a while smile
If I like a guy I either observe them till I find out if they are to keep as friends or if I like them more. I definitely don't show my interest on them. They might see that but I will never do it in purpose. Does that make any sense? LOL I have never been with a guy who I was really attracted to and that's because I saw in them something that I thought is not good for me. There have been many very goodlooking and hot guys interested in me too but I have never picked them. I have always picked the guy who I thought would be a good person. Unfortunately all those guys have not been what I thought them to be. Before I met my husband I was still very optimistic but now.. He made me think that why I even tried to find the love of my life coz when I was still 16 or 17 I gave a damn about guys and all I was interested was my future career. But at least it gave me a big lesson. I will not believe in love before I meet someone who proves me wrong. Sorry to be pessimistic but that's the only thing I am pessimistic for, still very optimistic in other areas smile
S&S
love wise im pretty much on the same level and its not pessimistic its realistic. i got a venus in aqua so im very dead emotionally for a pisces.
what if i approached her?
do you think she will mind?
i tink this cap has a bf too. sigh just my luck in 3 months and 3 girls with bfs.

My veus is in sag, i don't know what that means..
I think you should take your chance, go talk to her, first as a friend and find out if her relationship is serious or not. If it's not serious then make sure she knows that you are interested in her. If it's serious and she's happy then leave it there. If she's interested in you then she knows that at least that you are interested in her too. Good luck! smile
Theres the sexual astrology topic on the scorp board for that answer Sweet&sour,its not a purtty one for me but I think thats because of my leo mars and taurus moon while the sag venus is only 0.13 in degrees.Im kinda too conservative for it to be true,just the sex being fun and light hearted stuff.
Or conservative as in has to be lovey,dovey to an extent and not just "like a sport" lol.
S&M
spank you for the idea
im wondering say hypothetically you were still dating someone for 4 or more years and another person caught your eye. so wold you still be open to the idea of flirting with him or not?
and another question
shaved or scruffy?
nothing much its 1 am and im writing economics notes and wondering about the male ego and low self esteem.
just pondering
how about you?
did you do anything fun like find a pot of goldortake over the world and claim yourself almighty ruler and commander?
what happened to the leprechaun?
"S&M
spank you for the idea
im wondering say hypothetically you were still dating someone for 4 or more years and another person caught your eye. so wold you still be open to the idea of flirting with him or not?
and another question
shaved or scruffy?"
was this suppose to be for me?? :O I don't know any S&M here LOL
well S&S sorta resembles S&M
thats my new nickname for you
unless you prefer sweet and tangy
"unless you prefer sweet and tangy" LOL
so you have any advice S&M
So the cappy girl who caught your eye has a bf for 4 years or more now..? You just gotta go for it. I don't know her so difficult to say. If you really want her then do something.
"and another question
shaved or scruffy?"
LOL Which you prefer? And ask her not me, lol
OFA
...MURDERER!!!!
S&M
well i just found that she had a bf. i was totally thinking she didnt have a guy with the way she was talking.she could be open. sigh.

OFA
Oh well, there's plenty of 'em. they're nasty little buggers anyway...
thats true but is committing leprcide the right thing to do
i always thought they were midgets in green
whast with the short responses?
"well i just found that she had a bf. i was totally thinking she didnt have a guy with the way she was talking.she could be open. sigh."
Depends how long you have known her. If you don't know her well, then probably she doesn't wanna share her personal life with everyone.. and when you know her better then she will be more open.. Just what I think.
S&M
is it just me or are cap girls ridiculously elusive?
OFA
"distraction...i've been thinking about something lol"
this is no time to think of geminis
"S&M
is it just me or are cap girls ridiculously elusive?"
If it's ridiculous then I'd say it's just you, lol, otherwise I'd say it's just the name of the game smile
S&M
"If it's ridiculous then I'd say it's just you, lol, otherwise I'd say it's just the name of the game"
probably is
her math class is next to mines but she leaves like 5 minutes earlier than me due to my windbag virgo teacher who never lets me out. anyway thanks for the help.
you don't have to say anything to her, just make sure that she knows you have seen her.. so maybe if she shows any interest on you, you can make a move on her.. maybe first to become friends.. I'd prefer that..
"you don't have to say anything to her, just make sure that she knows you have seen her.. so maybe if she shows any interest on you, you can make a move on her.. maybe first to become friends.. I'd prefer that.."
you should write a book

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