Advice on a Capricorn?
This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by gummytaurusbear on Tuesday, September 24, 2013 and has 6 replies.
Okay. So, I have been friends with this Capricorn guy for a few months now.
The relationship began normally. But then I began to experience feelings for him. These feelings are rather obvious, and I'm 99.9% sure he knows I like him. (I over heard him and his friend talking about it in class one time.) Oddly enough, he hasn't been acting weird about it. If anything, we might've grown closer.
I have read around and found that many Capricorns are very serious about they're personal space? And that they will only let you in it if they truly care about you? My cap tends to get very close to me. He will always whisper things to me, moving in closer than completely necessary. Sometimes, he'll even whisper when there's no need to. He also does this thing where he'll put his feet up on my chair, right behind my back. He also high fives me often (Ex: I get a good grade on my test, he high fives me).
Is this normal?
He also tends to copy my work a lot. And when I say a lot, I mean A LOT. Every single day, when I walk into class I just hand him the homework so he can copy it. Its like a habit.
What bothers me about this is that we both know he is capable of completing the homework. He is extremely intelligent. So why would he be copying mine, when he does great and understands all the material? I know he has time for it also.
Could he be using me, possibly because I like him? Would a Capricorn do this? I'm aware that not all Capricorns are the same, but just in general.
Don't get me wrong, I don't mind helping him out. I love it. And he is extremely appreciative. He always saying "please", "thank you", and "you're the best." He also has the tendency to call me "honey" and "his girl." One time he offered to pay for my help and I declined and he said that he "needs to take care of his girl."
What's with the "his girl"? Is this a Cappy possessivness thing?
One event that has happened recently was that his friends were annoying me so much in class. I had quite enough, so I was going to ask the teacher if I may move might seat. My cap, literally, begged me not to move, saying he didn't want to sit next to anyone else, and that he would get his friends to stop. He made me pinky swear (1-pinky swear? 2-again with the breech of his personal space) not to leave. I told him okay, promised not to leave, but being the person I am, felt the need to add in "Though, you probably only want me here to copy my work," to which I received a "That's not true"
The relationship began normally. But then I began to experience feelings for him. These feelings are rather obvious, and I'm 99.9% sure he knows I like him. (I over heard him and his friend talking about it in class one time.) Oddly enough, he hasn't been acting weird about it. If anything, we might've grown closer.
I have read around and found that many Capricorns are very serious about they're personal space? And that they will only let you in it if they truly care about you? My cap tends to get very close to me. He will always whisper things to me, moving in closer than completely necessary. Sometimes, he'll even whisper when there's no need to. He also does this thing where he'll put his feet up on my chair, right behind my back. He also high fives me often (Ex: I get a good grade on my test, he high fives me).
Is this normal?
He also tends to copy my work a lot. And when I say a lot, I mean A LOT. Every single day, when I walk into class I just hand him the homework so he can copy it. Its like a habit.
What bothers me about this is that we both know he is capable of completing the homework. He is extremely intelligent. So why would he be copying mine, when he does great and understands all the material? I know he has time for it also.
Could he be using me, possibly because I like him? Would a Capricorn do this? I'm aware that not all Capricorns are the same, but just in general.
Don't get me wrong, I don't mind helping him out. I love it. And he is extremely appreciative. He always saying "please", "thank you", and "you're the best." He also has the tendency to call me "honey" and "his girl." One time he offered to pay for my help and I declined and he said that he "needs to take care of his girl."
What's with the "his girl"? Is this a Cappy possessivness thing?
One event that has happened recently was that his friends were annoying me so much in class. I had quite enough, so I was going to ask the teacher if I may move might seat. My cap, literally, begged me not to move, saying he didn't want to sit next to anyone else, and that he would get his friends to stop. He made me pinky swear (1-pinky swear? 2-again with the breech of his personal space) not to leave. I told him okay, promised not to leave, but being the person I am, felt the need to add in "Though, you probably only want me here to copy my work," to which I received a "That's not true"
and a surprised look.
I am really not sure what to makevof all of this. I could be looking to much into it. I probably am. But I hate to be confused. Just do you guys know, if he does like me, I am prepared to wait. I'm just trying to figure out whether he likes me as a friend, more than a friend, or he justblikes to use me.
By the way, our signs are:
Mine- Sun: Taurus
Ascendant: Aquarius
Moon: Cancer
Venus: Cancer
Mars: Libra
His- Sun: Capricorn
Ascendant: Aries
Moon: Cancer
Venus: Capricorn
Mars: Libra
Sorry if this was really long. I wanted to be thorough.
(This was continued, wouldn't fit).
I am really not sure what to makevof all of this. I could be looking to much into it. I probably am. But I hate to be confused. Just do you guys know, if he does like me, I am prepared to wait. I'm just trying to figure out whether he likes me as a friend, more than a friend, or he justblikes to use me.
By the way, our signs are:
Mine- Sun: Taurus
Ascendant: Aquarius
Moon: Cancer
Venus: Cancer
Mars: Libra
His- Sun: Capricorn
Ascendant: Aries
Moon: Cancer
Venus: Capricorn
Mars: Libra
Sorry if this was really long. I wanted to be thorough.
(This was continued, wouldn't fit).
And thanks champranger. Wasn't sure 
.
.So basically it depends on the person?
I do meet some kind of guy with u, he gave me so many compliments as well. But u know, I guess we read too much about those capricorn staff, just hang out with him like other guys, see whats really going on!! I think if you spend enough time with him and figure out how he thinks!!
I totally understand your situation, but it takes time to figure everything out, nobody could tell me whether I should go with this guy or not but myself!!! Just give a shot!
I totally understand your situation, but it takes time to figure everything out, nobody could tell me whether I should go with this guy or not but myself!!! Just give a shot!
Stop volunteering your homework. He's a big boy he can do his own. You're allowing him to be lazy and not doing him any favors. If he gets mad about it, you'll know he's using you. It's okay to help him, but don't volunteer it freely. Make him do something in return for you -- uh, a snack after school? 
*pushes mom mode aside*
It can go either way with this one, but I'm kinda curious about any interaction you have with him outside of this class. If he makes a point to be around you outside of class, then he probably likes you. Otherwise, he might be just using you.
Another question. When his friends were annoying you, did he step in to calm them down? That would say something there. Like if he made an effort to protect you or took up for you that would say something, too.
*pushes mom mode aside*
It can go either way with this one, but I'm kinda curious about any interaction you have with him outside of this class. If he makes a point to be around you outside of class, then he probably likes you. Otherwise, he might be just using you.
Another question. When his friends were annoying you, did he step in to calm them down? That would say something there. Like if he made an effort to protect you or took up for you that would say something, too.
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