am i the only cap that does this?

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by SheDevil77 on Saturday, November 12, 2011 and has 4 replies.
it seems like the more im interested in someone, the colder or more distant i may act. it REALLY sends off the wrong msg's. i heard its really common in female cap moons. i have a leo moon. so i seem sunny and warm and social to most people. but usually once they try to get close, and this applies to friends, fam, and SO's, i get distant and cold. i always try to play it cool. even when there's nothing to play it cool about! wtf is that? lol. ive been called emotion-less more times than i can count! im sure my venus in aqua is of no help. sometimes i swear im going to be the old lady living alone in a shoe if i dont learn to let ppl see me sweat from time to time. my big gigantic leo moon ego has to go. well not really, i love my moon :-P but u get the idea! right?
I'm like that. If I really like you, expect some extreme stand-offish behavior. I don't know what that's about either, but I turn to ice when I'm crazy about someone.
Such mixed signals I send because it's easy for a guy to think I like him by my behavior of smiling, being friendly etc, when that's a que that I'm not feeling you like that.
Yes in the beginning of meeting someone new i really like. Once I am comfortable with them, get to know them, I am a big mush bag, laugh more with them, etc. I let that wall down so to speak...
im right with capbaby above.
i used to be really icy ard someone i like. and give off very nervous/uncomfortable vibes. with abit of practice over the years, ive managed to hide alot of that. its still there, but its well-hidden and usually i try to be chatty and warm from the outset. i still do get nervous though haha.
but the great thing is the more you know a cap, the more they open up to you and you see sides of them you've never seen before and its all really fascinating Winking

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