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Cancer/ Capricorn regardless of gender...please share experiences...i posted in relationships AND Astrology a thread as well...
The sex is good.... 🙂
It is amazing indeed 😉 i felt as if i was taken outta this galaxy...BUT he had a baby on the way by another girl...so i read in between lines to come to a conclusion
I feel as tho lover boy will be back by Sunday tho...right now i believe he wanted to do the noble move...devoted family guy...but hearts not even there
In one case, there was compatibility in most areas.
Several things didn't work. A couple I won't talk about, but the one I will is that she just "couldn't let go", in the sense that she was afraid of losing control.
Several things didn't work. A couple I won't talk about, but the one I will is that she just "couldn't let go", in the sense that she was afraid of losing control.
Posted by SILVERDOLLARPIECE334
It is amazing indeed 😉 i felt as if i was taken outta this galaxy...BUT he had a baby on the way by another girl...so i read in between lines to come to a conclusion
i experienced a similar situation. good sex tho.
The control issue is something i noticed blows a few minds...i have issues with it as well...but the bed room since its private would be the one place it did happen...i think this match would teach us Capricorns to loosen up and cancers to gain more self control...he just text my phone asking where am i at...i don't even know should i respond cuz he hurry me so bad
Spell check made my typo all...hurt not hurry lol
I like cancers. Its a comfortable Co - existence. Easy conversation and fun. I dated two in college and a couple after my divorce. The last one got all needy and pouty on me. Needless to say he made me run and wouldn't listen when I tried to break it off. I think that wss just him though. The most irritating thing about the others is how they dodge answering questions. Other than that I enjoyed the relationships. I had a lot of fun with them.
Posted by KittenLaRougePosted by SILVERDOLLARPIECE334
It is amazing indeed 😉 i felt as if i was taken outta this galaxy...BUT he had a baby on the way by another girl...so i read in between lines to come to a conclusion
i experienced a similar situation. good sex tho.click to expand
So it's not just me that has this retarded situation...you truly understand...and how'd yours turn out
Posted by truecap
I like cancers. Its a comfortable Co - existence. Easy conversation and fun. I dated two in college and a couple after my divorce. The last one got all needy and pouty on me. Needless to say he made me run and wouldn't listen when I tried to break it off. I think that wss just him though. The most irritating thing about the others is how they dodge answering questions. Other than that I enjoyed the relationships. I had a lot of fun with them.
I promise you that's the exact same issue i suffer from with this one AND its urking my nerves...i just responded to his text message...he asked where i was...then asked what was i doing...i said I'm Just lying in bed thinking...he fled...as if he's running from conflicting situations
But he wanted to know just to igg...Smgdh...i cried instantly...
Posted by truecap
The most irritating thing about the others is how they dodge answering questions.
Yeah. The Cancerian counterpart to the Cappie control thing.
The trick to that is asking direct and calling on it when the dodge happens.
Don't know how to break the control thing though. Is it writing down a set of rules to live by and signing in blood?
I actually did always catch him On his bs BUT we have the issue of i be thinking,we on the same page...then we REALLY don't be...i feel him AND i noticed he feels ME which is odd...cuz we intuitively connect...he knew i was hurt AND is trying to make amends...BUT he's confused AND i don't like getting hurt
Posted by SILVERDOLLARPIECE334
So it's not just me that has this retarded situation...you truly understand...and how'd yours turn out
dunno, he got fired from our job and disappeared. we were attracted to each other tho, big time 😛
WoW...seems like they don't like dealing with the confrontation of separation and avoids it at All costs...i must have hit a sensitive area with him because he stopped texting all together just then...i understand that attraction CAN spook each sign but Capricorns are curious about it which leads to the meshing around...the eye contact is the hardest part of it all...plus my lilth is in cancer so it's like i have the intuitive power to feel out his next move
Posted by CancerOnTheCuspPosted by truecap
The most irritating thing about the others is how they dodge answering questions.
Yeah. The Cancerian counterpart to the Cappie control thing.
The trick to that is asking direct and calling on it when the dodge happens.
Don't know how to break the control thing though. Is it writing down a set of rules to live by and signing in blood?click to expand
They wanted me to be open and tell them stuff, but then they refused to do the same.
Posted by SILVERDOLLARPIECE334
It is amazing indeed 😉 i felt as if i was taken outta this galaxy...BUT he had a baby on the way by another girl...so i read in between lines to come to a conclusion
He has a baby on the way with another girl?
My advice is to run. Avoid this headache and messy situation. You're always going to have baby momma drama and cancers aren't good about standing their ground in this type of situation. She's going to be able to guilt trip him all the time and he will let her because he will do whatever it takes for his kid. Which he should, but do you really want to deal with the drama?
If you choose to stay, then please, please, please pay attention to how he deals with this situation because if it becomes you with a baby on the way, the way he treats this woman is the way he will treat you.
It's a good match, but with a few challenges, some of which trucap has already mentioned.
It was my best relationship match up to this point.
Considerably better than my serious relationships with Aqua and Pisces.
It was my best relationship match up to this point.
Considerably better than my serious relationships with Aqua and Pisces.
Posted by truecapPosted by CancerOnTheCuspPosted by truecap
The most irritating thing about the others is how they dodge answering questions.
Yeah. The Cancerian counterpart to the Cappie control thing.
The trick to that is asking direct and calling on it when the dodge happens.
Don't know how to break the control thing though. Is it writing down a set of rules to live by and signing in blood?
They wanted me to be open and tell them stuff, but then they refused to do the same.click to expand
I'd almost think it was a concern on their behalf on how you would handle the information.
I take it that it was stuff of a personal nature?
Posted by CancerOnTheCuspPosted by truecapPosted by CancerOnTheCuspPosted by truecap
The most irritating thing about the others is how they dodge answering questions.
Yeah. The Cancerian counterpart to the Cappie control thing.
The trick to that is asking direct and calling on it when the dodge happens.
Don't know how to break the control thing though. Is it writing down a set of rules to live by and signing in blood?
They wanted me to be open and tell them stuff, but then they refused to do the same.
I'd almost think it was a concern on their behalf on how you would handle the information.
I take it that it was stuff of a personal nature?click to expand
It was just about anything that involved a range from a true opinion about something or anything that involved a personal history or personal point of view.
It was like a question would come up say "what do you think about.....say, a restaurant/the paranormal/the president/abortion/religion/anything" and I would answer and when I would turn the same question back around for their turn to answer, they would either answer very politically correctly or duck and dodge as if their life depended on it. I am supposing they had an opposite point of view and were too afraid to share it. All I wanted was their true opinion. I'm open minded to different points of views and I would explain that and they still wouldn't answer.
So my thought is, if you can't talk about this, how are we EVER going to talk about anything serious?
Made me want to stop being truthful with them. And, there goes the beginning to the end of a relationship.
Posted by truecap
Made me want to stop being truthful with them. And, there goes the beginning to the end of a relationship.
Cancer's secretiveness really bothered me a lot.
We lived together for several years, and I always felt like I was in the dark, and some sort of covert operation (about nothing) was going on right under my nose.
I found it annoying, baffling, and fostering an environment of mistrust -- for absolutely no reason whatsoever.
Strange .....
Posted by truecapPosted by CancerOnTheCuspPosted by truecapPosted by CancerOnTheCuspPosted by truecap
The most irritating thing about the others is how they dodge answering questions.
Yeah. The Cancerian counterpart to the Cappie control thing.
The trick to that is asking direct and calling on it when the dodge happens.
Don't know how to break the control thing though. Is it writing down a set of rules to live by and signing in blood?
They wanted me to be open and tell them stuff, but then they refused to do the same.
I'd almost think it was a concern on their behalf on how you would handle the information.
I take it that it was stuff of a personal nature?
It was just about anything that involved a range from a true opinion about something or anything that involved a personal history or personal point of view.
It was like a question would come up say "what do you think about.....say, a restaurant/the paranormal/the president/abortion/religion/anything" and I would answer and when I would turn the same question back around for their turn to answer, they would either answer very politically correctly or duck and dodge as if their life depended on it. I am supposing they had an opposite point of view and were too afraid to share it. All I wanted was their true opinion. I'm open minded to different points of views and I would explain that and they still wouldn't answer.
So my thought is, if you can't talk about this, how are we EVER going to talk about anything serious?click to expand
Interesting. There wasn't an incidence where they did answer and maybe your reaction was not (at minimum) neutral?
It's possible. But does it really matter? When you're looking at a relationship you have to know what people really think. Otherwise how do you know if you're compatible. If they aren't being honest with their thoughts and opinions, then how do you get to them the core of them?
Like I said, it made me want to get out of the relationship.
Like I said, it made me want to get out of the relationship.
Posted by truecap
It's possible. But does it really matter? When you're looking at a relationship you have to know what people really think. Otherwise how do you know if you're compatible. If they aren't being honest with their thoughts and opinions, then how do you get to them the core of them?
Like I said, it made me want to get out of the relationship.
I don't blame you on the latter part. I'm not a big fan of dishonesty in communication in the context of a relationship.
It sounds like the individuals in question didn't feel very secure. Yes, that is mainly on them.
But there is the adage of "it's not what you say, but the way you say it", along with the reinforcement/feedback mechanisms in communication.
I think it that sense it does matter. For example, say you are in a business meeting looking for ideas, you (in the general sense) bring something up, and it gets dismissed out of hand or worse shot down with a disparaging comment. How likely would you be willing to volunteer your opinions the next time around? I don't think it's necessarily a sign related thing, but just the way humans are.
"it's not what you say, but the way you say it"
Is that the Cancer mantra, or something? ^^^^
Jeez, I bet I heard that a thousand times. My reply was always "It's not how I said it, it's how you perceived it." Went over like a lead balloon.
Also, communicating in business is an entirely different animal than communication in romantic relationships. Who wants to tiptoe around another's feelings, and carefully craft every word said, while sitting on the couch watching TV in your PJ's?
With my Cancer, every word spoken had a "feeling" attached to it. Murder......
Is that the Cancer mantra, or something? ^^^^
Jeez, I bet I heard that a thousand times. My reply was always "It's not how I said it, it's how you perceived it." Went over like a lead balloon.
Also, communicating in business is an entirely different animal than communication in romantic relationships. Who wants to tiptoe around another's feelings, and carefully craft every word said, while sitting on the couch watching TV in your PJ's?
With my Cancer, every word spoken had a "feeling" attached to it. Murder......
Posted by CapTenn
"it's not what you say, but the way you say it"
Is that the Cancer mantra, or something? ^^^^
Jeez, I bet I heard that a thousand times. My reply was always "It's not how I said it, it's how you perceived it." Went over like a lead balloon.
Also, communicating in business is an entirely different animal than communication in romantic relationships. Who wants to tiptoe around another's feelings, and carefully craft every word said, while sitting on the couch watching TV in your PJ's?
With my Cancer, every word spoken had a "feeling" attached to it. Murder......
I just spotted three examples of what I was getting at in my business analogy in your response.
Can you?
Posted by CancerOnTheCuspPosted by CapTenn
"it's not what you say, but the way you say it"
Is that the Cancer mantra, or something? ^^^^
Jeez, I bet I heard that a thousand times. My reply was always "It's not how I said it, it's how you perceived it." Went over like a lead balloon.
Also, communicating in business is an entirely different animal than communication in romantic relationships. Who wants to tiptoe around another's feelings, and carefully craft every word said, while sitting on the couch watching TV in your PJ's?
With my Cancer, every word spoken had a "feeling" attached to it. Murder......
I just spotted three examples of what I was getting at in my business analogy in your response.
Can you?click to expand
Yeah, they're pretty clear cut examples.
It's still apples and oranges.
Posted by TwirlingStrawberryPosted by KittenLaRougePosted by SILVERDOLLARPIECE334
So it's not just me that has this retarded situation...you truly understand...and how'd yours turn out
dunno, he got fired from our job and disappeared. we were attracted to each other tho, big time 😛
*serial cunt*click to expand
it's not my fault guys at work want to fuck me, i'm innocent 😛
Posted by KittenLaRougePosted by TwirlingStrawberryPosted by KittenLaRougePosted by SILVERDOLLARPIECE334
So it's not just me that has this retarded situation...you truly understand...and how'd yours turn out
dunno, he got fired from our job and disappeared. we were attracted to each other tho, big time 😛
*serial cunt*
it's not my fault guys at work want to fuck me, i'm innocent 😛click to expand
How many guys? Guys love sharing that kind of info... it gets around-- then everyone wants in on the action.
I just laughed at the last two posts...and totally can relate to everybody wanting to fuck... i viewed Mr cancer as the lesson learned to get back with many kids dad...he actually text today wanting to come home...i told him sure...cuz every relation since him had flopped...AND we owe it to our babies to at least try for their sake...plus our babies start for the very first time next month...i viewed the cancer man as one of the souls that came down with my group of soul mates AND my kids dad is the twin to my soul... he's a Leo by the way,which my twelfth house exists in...i his Venus is in Virgo while mines is in Sagittarius...but my moon is in Virgo...and we were like best friends here used to make me so jealous to the point of no return tho AND that was just his way of getting attention
Typo at many kids dad...courtesy of touch screen...i meant my NOT many
Oh i apologize...my babies start school for the very first time next month...i didn't realize the phone went back over that word leaving out school 😉
Posted by CancerOnTheCuspPosted by CapTenn
"it's not what you say, but the way you say it"
Is that the Cancer mantra, or something? ^^^^
Jeez, I bet I heard that a thousand times. My reply was always "It's not how I said it, it's how you perceived it." Went over like a lead balloon.
Also, communicating in business is an entirely different animal than communication in romantic relationships. Who wants to tiptoe around another's feelings, and carefully craft every word said, while sitting on the couch watching TV in your PJ's?
With my Cancer, every word spoken had a "feeling" attached to it. Murder......
I just spotted three examples of what I was getting at in my business analogy in your response.
Can you?click to expand
What he said made perfect sense to me and I don't see any errors in his communication style .
I think capricorns are too blunt for cancers. In general, we don't want to take the time and effort to "soften" up our communication just to keep from hurting somone's feelings. Oh, we don't mean to be harsh with people, but they have to learn us and how to perceive us. We say what we mean in the most concise way possible, for the most part. It gets taken a lot harsher than what we mean.
It takes A LOT of compromise for a cancer/capricorn relationship to work for the long term. Each has to be considerate and accepting of the other's ways.
Posted by KittenLaRougePosted by TwirlingStrawberryPosted by KittenLaRougePosted by SILVERDOLLARPIECE334
So it's not just me that has this retarded situation...you truly understand...and how'd yours turn out
dunno, he got fired from our job and disappeared. we were attracted to each other tho, big time 😛
*serial cunt*
it's not my fault guys at work want to fuck me, i'm innocent 😛click to expand
Haha ^
That's funny!
Silverdollar, what are you talking about? Hard to follow.
That's funny!
Silverdollar, what are you talking about? Hard to follow.
I do like cancers though, one of my BFFs is a cancer and we get along great. She has such a sweet, soft, loving and nurturing side to her that I really admire.
Posted by truecapPosted by KittenLaRougePosted by TwirlingStrawberryPosted by KittenLaRougePosted by SILVERDOLLARPIECE334
So it's not just me that has this retarded situation...you truly understand...and how'd yours turn out
dunno, he got fired from our job and disappeared. we were attracted to each other tho, big time 😛
*serial cunt*
it's not my fault guys at work want to fuck me, i'm innocent 😛
click to expand
lmao! great gif.
Caps and cancer have this magnetism which draws them in to each other. When it's good it's fab n dreamy n u can't get enough. When it's bad there are tantrums, selfishness, staying away until the other has forgotten what they argued about.
Are there enough good qualities to outshine the bad? Only you can decide. The cancer provides love, nurturing and caring with their whole heart. The cap provides what the cancer lacks
Are there enough good qualities to outshine the bad? Only you can decide. The cancer provides love, nurturing and caring with their whole heart. The cap provides what the cancer lacks
Posted by SamCancerGirl
Caps and cancer have this magnetism which draws them in to each other. When it's good it's fab n dreamy n u can't get enough. When it's bad there are tantrums, selfishness, staying away until the other has forgotten what they argued about.
Are there enough good qualities to outshine the bad? Only you can decide. The cancer provides love, nurturing and caring with their whole heart. The cap provides what the cancer lacks
Good synopsis. I agree.
Great ups, and huge downs.
It seems the longer Cap and Cancer are together, the less they know each other.
I've been thinking about starting something with this Cap girl at my job for awhile now. Could never explain why I was so attracted to her, it was very instinctual.
Posted by aquapiscescuspPosted by KittenLaRougePosted by TwirlingStrawberryPosted by KittenLaRougePosted by SILVERDOLLARPIECE334
So it's not just me that has this retarded situation...you truly understand...and how'd yours turn out
dunno, he got fired from our job and disappeared. we were attracted to each other tho, big time 😛
*serial cunt*
it's not my fault guys at work want to fuck me, i'm innocent 😛
How many guys? Guys love sharing that kind of info... it gets around-- then everyone wants in on the action.click to expand
i don't think its that, some guys just think i'm sexy 😛
Of course they do... ^
Posted by truecapPosted by CancerOnTheCuspPosted by CapTenn
"it's not what you say, but the way you say it"
Is that the Cancer mantra, or something? ^^^^
Jeez, I bet I heard that a thousand times. My reply was always "It's not how I said it, it's how you perceived it." Went over like a lead balloon.
Also, communicating in business is an entirely different animal than communication in romantic relationships. Who wants to tiptoe around another's feelings, and carefully craft every word said, while sitting on the couch watching TV in your PJ's?
With my Cancer, every word spoken had a "feeling" attached to it. Murder......
I just spotted three examples of what I was getting at in my business analogy in your response.
Can you?
What he said made perfect sense to me and I don't see any errors in his communication style .
I think capricorns are too blunt for cancers. In general, we don't want to take the time and effort to "soften" up our communication just to keep from hurting somone's feelings. Oh, we don't mean to be harsh with people, but they have to learn us and how to perceive us. We say what we mean in the most concise way possible, for the most part. It gets taken a lot harsher than what we mean.
It takes A LOT of compromise for a cancer/capricorn relationship to work for the long term. Each has to be considerate and accepting of the other's ways.click to expand
My concept of blunt may be a little different.
Let's break it down.
The "Cancer mantra" crack was the first method of dismissal.
Unwarranted, and immaterial to the core argument.
The apples and oranges picture of the business analogy is also incorrect.
In order to keep productivity high and buy in from those who would also be the ones to implement a business plan (based on an ideas session, encouraging input is a very useful practice. Ideas can be discarded, but on the basis of how they fit within the goals of the organization. Take that into a relationship which is a partnership to achieve a common goal.
If the input from one partner is routinely belittled or discarded, similar to the business scenario sooner or later the aggrieved partner is either going to quit contributing, walk away (move to ano
Anothr company if you will) or possibly actively working against the partnership (sabotage).
The "perceive" comment was also a dismissal and suggests a tin ear. Not a good recipe for success.
The "perceive" comment was also a dismissal and suggests a tin ear. Not a good recipe for success.
None of the above is based on feelings, but it does take into consideration that one is dealing with other human beings.
As far as not meaning to be harsh and being concise, see the "Cancer mantra" comment.
Added beyond the core subject matter, unnecessary, and intentionally harsh.
As far as not meaning to be harsh and being concise, see the "Cancer mantra" comment.
Added beyond the core subject matter, unnecessary, and intentionally harsh.
Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
None of the above is based on feelings, but it does take into consideration that one is dealing with other human beings.
As far as not meaning to be harsh and being concise, see the "Cancer mantra" comment.
Added beyond the core subject matter, unnecessary, and intentionally harsh.
LOL. It's definitely about feelings. You just confirmed it.
My "Cancer Mantra" comment was referencing what my ex used to say to me all the time. I made that clear, yet you've obviously personalized it in true Cancer fashion. It wasn't about YOU specifically, you just happened to echo EXACTLY what she used to say to me -- and you happen to be a Cancer -- like her. I found it humorous, while you obviously took it the wrong way. There goes my tin ear again....dadgummit. (That last comment I made there was abrasive -- barely).
And intentionally harsh? Pffttt....that's harsh? Good thing I was being playful and nice, eh? Sheesh.
I wasn't being harsh and certainly not intentionally harsh (as stated above), so your perception is off again. Reading Caps ain't your game. It wasn't my ex-GF's either, which was kinda my entire point in my original "harsh" post.
Beyond the subject matter, yes. I'll give you that. I interjected myself into the convo, and expected to get a laugh out of it. Ummm, obviously not. I was just spinning off into a personal story, while using your phraseology as my springboard. Please accept my apologies for butting in.
Forgive any sloppy sentence structure or clumsy wording.....I was in a hurry.
Well now we all kno how this zodiac pairing pair out...I'm NOT sticking around to find out the ending results...like i started earlier,he got a baby COMING into this world next month...lesson learned from him was basically about my kids dad and myself...men are gonna DO whatever they want whenever they WANT...if I'm gonna allow any man to do this to me it should be the one i got offsprings with instead of a complete stranger i haven't a clue if it'll work out or NOT...all the roads lead to disaster like started by someone in a previous post on this thread...my kids dad ready to come back...AND the lessons I've learned to be able to resume that relationship was to Just DO whatever i wanna cuz he'll doo whatever he wants to...cancer man may just still get fucked just cuz i learned this lesson...Hell,his baby mama AND my babyday CAN fuck for all i give a dam...I'm just sick of how none of these mfs kno how to keep it as one hundred as us Capricorns CAN and DO...I'm one of the realistically blunt CAPS y'all kno AND hate...I'm learning how to change what's wrong each day at a time...the cancer actually taught me I should speak in a softer tone which is hard as fux for me to do
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