Any Caps who've dated Taurus?

Guy girl it doesn't really matter. How did it go? Was it harmonious? Or was it terrible? My only experience was with one that was on the cusp. I don't if you consider April 20th Aries or Taurus, but I think she showed more Aries traits than Taurus ones. Anybody have a good experience with them?

April 20th would be considered Aries or Taurus depending on what year they were born.

My birthday is on April 22nd, I am a Taurus who is also on the cusp. (But I exhibit more Taurus traits than Aries).

What was your experience like?

Visit the Taurus Board, there were some Caps who posted advice about Taurus women.

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/taurus/confused-by-my-taurus-friend-4550167/
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/taurus/need-help-with-a-taurus-woman-4547272/

Posted by StillWater
Very simple, stubborn, and caring.

This is true 🙂

No, I haven't. I just imagine us butting horns. Both signs are stubborn.

When something bothers my friend he becomes passive aggressive. Ill definitely know he is bothered but he wont tell me what it is, which is frustrating because i dont like sweeping things under the rug.

Although we are "off"...*never really been on actually* Id say he was really sweet in the pursuit...ionno about now.

In my experience there is a lot of deep affection between the two signs, and it can feel right yet wrong at the same time, which is a red flag. I think both signs are very stubborn and need partners that are a bit more flexible.
It can become more of a frustrating experience on both ends than anything else...well, in my situation....but a bit of understanding is there, love and a lot of affection. The good has not outweighed the bad so far.

I can see the connection between the two. But both are stubborn, how would that work?

Well funny thing is...i think Im open. He told me that i only share what Im comfortable with, which i guess after more thought is true. I can say the same for him though.

Idk...but yeah, communication is definitely the biggest issue. Its as if a mediator, or someone in the middle is needed at all times. In my situation when we do talk we end up pushing eachother away cause we want the other to fight and prove...well thats what i think. Its tons and tons and tons of work BUT a learning experience. Im much more aware of my ways.

I think the last straw was him saying he would write a letter expressing what he feels after i asked. A few days later i jokingly asked if he started yet and he said yeah, then asked if I did. Huh— A letter from me wasnt in the plans, so this kind of upset him and it upset me as well. I feel ive said enough lol. So yeah, issues like this. I always feel im at fault in the end though.

Yes, and ...just like the rest, lack of communication. My need to make him feel comfy around me at the expense of my own comfort.
Really it was just both of us had a lot of issues with ourselves, that got in the way of us dealing with each other...

I've had a few good Taurus friends. But I could never date them. I dated one, and it ended very, very quickly because they assumed too much I was going to leave them for someone else. I don't like my loyalty questioned when I never provide any reason for it to be questioned. Afterward I learned they were with their ex as it was, though they told me they were definitely split.

I went on a couple dates with another Taurus and it just... eh. I wasn't into it. He's a good guy and all but there wasn't a spark. And he came on way too strong wayyy too quickly. Didn't help that my supervisor kept trying to subliminally hook us up.

I'm dating a Taurus man now and yes at the beginning was more than a challenge. I didn't know what to think or how to deal with the hot and cold behavior and the keeping everything in. But I backed away plenty of times to give him space and myself space also to figure out if this is what I wanted to deal and realized that is I chose to deal with him, I will have to muster up as much patience as possible and so finally at this stage, things seem to be working the way we both want them to. It does take patience, patience....did I say Patience (🙂) to deal with a Taurus becuase deep down they are afraid of getting hurt or making the wrong decision about someone. We caps are like that as well. But there has to be a balance I find when dealing with them. My best friend of 21 years is a Taurus also. Maybe it could be an age thing also being that I am older than he is. Who knows.