Are Capricorn men really true with their words?

Hi I am a cancer female and recently my Capricorn boyfriend of 2 months broke up. I know that doesn't seem like a long time, but we were together everyday because I was living with him. Everything was great we never argued until this girl who was my friend for nearly a year took of her shirt infront of both of us. He claims he didn't see anything. Mind you she has a boyfriend who she cheats on. I stopped being her friend because I simply couldn't trust the situation and after that night she took off her shirt she started bringing me down so I cut her off. I then told him I don't.feel comfortable with him hanging.out with her because of how she is and he took it as if I didn't trust him, and also told me he can't be controlled which is not something I.was trying to do.in the first place. All.I wanted was for.him.to.respect me. Anyway from then things got worst. We broke up and got back together at least 2 times
. We lived together which made things hard but we were just still so cool because of the relationship we had. The second breakup we had he said he was final his mind was made up. I needed to change how I am not just for the relationship but for myself, he told me he just couldn't be with someone so.insecure as I am. A few days before I moved back to Texas his sister and him got into an altercation and he came to me to lay his head on my chest like old times. We slept together and cuddled and the next morning nothing had changed. I had given him money to have his phone turned back on and some money for food because I wanted him to be ok before I moved left his place. He kissed me and I told him I loved him although he probably wouldn't say it back but he told me he.loved me back. I then left his house and said i love you one last time and he said I love you to babe. In the beginning of our relationship (even after the sex) he told me he had never felt what he felt for me for Any other female. He cooked for me every day what ever I wanted. Although I was the first to tell.him I loved.him. he Told me he loved me after he knew it was real. Well yesterdAY when I got.back to.Texas I called him and told him I wasn't going to be with any other guy like that he asked why? I told him I was going go wait for him. He told me he couldn't lie to me and tell me he wasn't going to be with any other girl and with time I would get over it. I told him I couldn't be his friend because its just not fair to me as I still.have feelings for him and he understood. My quest

Yes we are. Or at least I am.

Her zodiac sign is cancer... she's a July 10 cancer though I am June 24.

He "obviously" doesn't want to be with me. But says he loves me the day I leave. Then tells me he'll be with other girls. Fuck him. He used me. He fucking used me.

Cancers! Smh

Your insecurity ruined this relationship. Caps are trustworthy and you insulted his integrity. I would have done the same thing. You accused him of actions he didnt do. If a cap is with you it is by choice. You offended him with your accusations and mistrust. You just assumed he would do your friend because of how she is, rather than believing in his integrity. You got what you deserved because of your damned insecurity.

And this is why I wont date another cancer.

So let me ask you something you would trust the situation if this had been your friend who takes off her shirt and your boyfriend wants to continue hanging around her. It has nothing to do with zodiac at this point it has to do with person. -true cap (you're just plain rude)

Thanks clueless cancer. I made her feel like shit I'm pretty sure. I called her and asked why she would cheat on her boyfriend all the time and why she feels the need to change infront others boyfriends. I told her the reason we broke up was because of her and she was like ew he's not even my type I don't care about him or if I ever see him again

Cow puncher- I agree with you completely, and its not like I cut her out my life 100% after she did that I pulled away a little and after that she started to bring me Down telling me I wasn't pretty enough without makeup and had back problems, when.I was a child I had a big forehead. Seems to me jealousy was In the air. On the other hand. I told him I loved him when I was leaving his place and he told me he loved me back. I know caps are true with their words but if you want other girls why tell me you love me when u know I truly love you.

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Posted by misscancenmini
Cow puncher- I agree with you completely, and its not like I cut her out my life 100% after she did that I pulled away a little and after that she started to bring me Down telling me I wasn't pretty enough without makeup and had back problems, when.I was a child I had a big forehead.

With friends like that who needs enemies.

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How stupid of me to give him $ 60.00 for his phone bill and food and had the nerve to.use my card number to.order food when I wasnt even there because he was hungry. After I.found this out last night all he could say was sorry .. so I told.him I'm.just gonna get my suitcases and he won't have to worry about hearing from me again. He told me he doesn't understand why it has to.be like this because he has no beef towards me. Honestly how can I keep.someone like that in my life. He just said ok. Now he's acting like an asshole. What's the best way to.go.about forgetting someone?? Should I change my number or maybe even block his

I read your post again and I stand by what I said, rude or not. Just because your friend is one way, doesnt mean he's going to cheat with her. She's probably far from his type. He said he didn't notice anything and you went all off on him when he did nothing. You live with him, you should know his character and whether he would cheat or not. I would be offended if accused of something I had no intention of doing. Questioning my character like that would hurt the soul of my being.

However, if he doesn't have his act together and can't pay his own bills and has to use your credit card to pay for food, then that indicates red flags for loser.

So after more information was shared perhaps he is not trustworthy afterall. Maybe I didnt have enough information from your first post.

Curious to why you have friends like her, but you know her better than we do. Just remember society judges us by the company we keep.

Hopefully you will feel more secure with the next guy.

Posted by misscancenmini
So let me ask you something you would trust the situation if this had been your friend who takes off her shirt and your boyfriend wants to continue hanging around her. It has nothing to do with zodiac at this point it has to do with person. -true cap (you're just plain rude)

well, I don't have friends like her. She is totally disrespectful to you and your feelings as well as your relationship. Your anger should be directed her as well if its not already.

I agree with truecap. If I'm in a relationship with you then it wasn't an overnight decision. I'm completely invested in the relationship so I wont cheat. If things aren't working out like I thought it would then I would just break up with you instead of cheat. I would've broken up with you too if you're going off on me about something your friend did then have the nerve to tell me to stop hanging out with her. That should be my decision and not yours. All of your anger should've been with your friend. I would feel so overwhelmed by your insecurity so early in the relationship that I wouldn't want to deal with it in the future. It will take awhile to move on but it's the right decision for you.

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Honestly, I think he just used it as an excuse tobreak up with you.

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I agree!

Two months was too soon.

But very beneficial.

The OP didn't do anything wrong.

The Cap just wanted out!

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Posted by misscancenmini
He "obviously" doesn't want to be with me. But says he loves me the day I leave. Then tells me he'll be with other girls. Fuck him. He used me. He fucking used me.

Earth signs, that's all they do. Not really worth the headache.

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Not true.
Earth signs love at their own pace...and with that one special person... & invest their time in getting to know this individual gradually.

For the OP...something tells me that she falls in love every time......with every individual who validates her need for reassurance.. and then things are prematurely set into motion.

Two months, in my opinion, was too soon.

The guy was definitely a asshole.

But she should have been a little wiser.

Just because it's "sunshine-blowing", it doesn't always mean it's genuine.

true cap - I agree with you to a certain extent. It would be completely different if in the beginning of the caps and I short term relationship I didn't ask him if he had ever been attracted to the girl that was my friend. His response was he used to have a baby crush on her before meeting me. Week after that she's in her bra In front of both of us. Which is why I was so damn insecure. He should've had enough respect for me to cease the friendship when they don't have that much in common anyway. He broke up with me yet I was still there with him through family issues and when I finally moved out to go back home I told him I loved him and he told me 'you know I love you to babe' why say all of that when hours later he tells me he can't lie to me and tell me he's not going to be with other girls after I told him I wouldn't be with other guys like that. Then I find out he fucking used my card to order food when we were broken up and all he said was srry he didnt want to talk on the phone about it but text about it. I told him he USED me, because that's what it seems. He asked me how is it that he used me. I was supporting us with food as he provided me with a place to stay until I moved home. I don't even know what I should text him back after telling him he used me. His response was what the hell is it I used you for........

Okay, okay. But you didn't put all that in your first post. It sounded like you were extremely insecure and he had enough of it. That's why I responded like I did.

Obviously, you're looking for reassurance that you were right and he was wrong. I have a hard time giving that because from the little I know, it seems you are both wrong. Yes, he should have respected your wishes. Yes, you should have trusted him. Regardless what she does, if you don't trust him, as far as a cap is concerned, the relationship is over because without trust, there is no future. Yall moved really fast and there were no foundations built, thus the trust factor kicked your butts.

Sounds like you two just aren't cut out to be. At least he was honest in telling you he will be seeing other girls. He loved you, but yall just aren't going to able to get along, so he is practical and realistic and knows yall are broken up and yes he's going to see other girls. You're both going to see other people eventually. Gotta give the guy credit for honesty.

Maybe the best thing to do is see other people, move on. Maybe you can look at things objectively and learn some lessons from this whole endeavor. Slow down. Build foundations of trust and friendship before jumping all gung ho into a relationship like most cancers do. Learn to be more secure. Learn to trust. Don't make assumptions. Have discussions in a calm, rational way and don't jump to conclusions. Make wiser choices in the friends you keep. Keep your credit card private.

All those things will help you grow as a person and that's what life lessons and life experiences are about aren't they?

I wanted to add, if you had allowed him access to use your credit cards before, then you really can't get upset that he thought it was okay this time. Yall did live together, so I'm sure money issues merged at some point. Maybe he thought yall would work it out. ??

Not sure whether you did or not, but it is something to consider.

I also want to add, it doesn't matter at this point what he did or didn't do. Now it is up to you to pick up from the ashes and see what you can learn from and what you can improve on. Doesn't matter who was right or wrong, but what can you do to grow from the experience?

That's where your focus needs to be now. Come to terms with it and work on your personal growth before you jump into another relationship.

Good luck girl.

I have to say the whole situations is disrespectful as hell. I would have played my hand into why your friend did it by testing her; I would have made her suck his dick in front of me; if he accept it then fine thats a man being a man if she did it thats a hoe being a hoe; then u know what to do from there. we caps are loyal an devoted when we love, we actually get obssessed bout our mate, I dont think trucapp was trying to be rude in that post i read up there explaining the situation cause thats how it is with our sign; bump signs for the situation tho, you right about having those feelings but Te way you handled those feelings was wrong to have done that way

Was with a Capricorn man for 7 years and we are still 'together' but it's complicated. They have trouble committing . Just have to let him come to you because forcing it won't work. They are stubborn and won't let anyone force them or persuade them to do anything. I'm a Capricorn too so I understand him but we've butt heads a lot in the past. But he'll always be in my life because they are loyal too. Idk..they are just weird...

We are...

This is funny you have a so-called friend (F1) who changed in front of another girls(G1) boyfriend(B1) and are dissing on the girl(G1) who had this happen too. You know who these two are, F1 and B1 they both be cheating with each other on G1 and apparently G1 is oblivious to this. Laugh alot to have this happen to ya. LMFAO.

And the funny thing is that G1 is spoton with how they reacted to this in the first place what would you do if you were in this situation be friends still with the two lying cheating idiots or diss them as they have done to her by this behaviour?

hahaha thats wat they all say hahaha 😆