Are Unhealthy Capricorn Men All Hypocrites

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by Marmotini on Monday, October 15, 2012 and has 30 replies.
As in "do as I say, not as I do"????
I used to be friends with this guy and we talked every day, and he made comments on my photos and things to get my attention at first and even when we got into arguments, he would like track me down on other web sites, or bug me on facebook until I chatted with him on AIM again.
Over time I naturally grew attached to him, as we talked for hours every day for nearly two years, but when he decided *he* was pissed off, and I contacted him the way he did me, suddenly I was "stalking" him.
What a crock of shit, really. This guy wouldn't leave me alone for the longest time, and suddenly he says I'm stalking him, because he's the one who got pissed off this time?
I also noticed that he would feel free to pick on me sometimes or say mean things, but if I said things of the same kind in return, he would get all upset and butthurt, and tell me I was a bitch and a whore and the meanest person in the world.
Overall, I can sum him up as "dishes it out but can't take it."
WTF. I'm just guessing he's an unhealthy Capricorn and some kind of control freak?
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You're "attached" to a guy who calls you a stalker and bitch and a whore, and posting on DXP to try figuring him out?! What's healthy about THAT??
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Well, admittedly I called him a stalker first. So did various other people. In fact, on one particular web site where we met, he's known by some people as my stalker, and as soon as he started having trouble with his last gf, he mysteriously started contacted me again; we talked for a while, now he's mad because I told him he's a narcissist and he has a drinking problem.
We have a long history of trading insults, but he just said something so baffling and bizarre to me that it actually made me laugh; like dude, you can't be serious, after all you've done to me? Would you like to be laughed right off of the Intertardz, silly Capricorn Man?
He actually said something that I know doesn't logically make sense either, like he was just talking out of his ass. I think he might be embarrassed. Or maybe he's concerned his ex gf won't take him back if he doesn't call me a stalker.
It's just weird, his behavior has been baffling since the day I began speaking to him practically. I have no desire to "stalk" anyone, in reality, it was more like playfully reaching out to him, but if he's going to be like this, I'd rather not talk to him, because he's just being a hypocrite.
I do think he's some kind of control freak and he can't take what he dishes out.
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HE WAS JUST SEEING IF HE COULD PULL SOME ASS. YOUR BETTER OFF RID OF HIM.
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HOW OLD AM I PHYICALY 36
MENTALY 15
REAL AGE 45
SO WHAT ARE YOU 12 OR 108?
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Posted by 8835Pisces
lol, Capricorn is the father of the zodiac.
you know when like your father tells you not to eat in the living room, & then he brings a bunch of snaks to watch his shows,eats and makes a mess. same with capricorns. even the healthy ones.
"Do as I say, don't do as I do"




I think if people kept this in mind, Cappies being the father of the zodiac, things would make so much more sense.
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TO BAD I'M NOT A PED O FILE.
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Posted by 8835Pisces
lol, Capricorn is the father of the zodiac.
you know when like your father tells you not to eat in the living room, & then he brings a bunch of snaks to watch his shows,eats and makes a mess. same with capricorns. even the healthy ones.
"Do as I say, don't do as I do"





Posted by lnana04
Posted by 8835Pisces
lol, Capricorn is the father of the zodiac.
you know when like your father tells you not to eat in the living room, & then he brings a bunch of snaks to watch his shows,eats and makes a mess. same with capricorns. even the healthy ones.
"Do as I say, don't do as I do"




I think if people kept this in mind, Cappies being the father of the zodiac, things would make so much more sense.
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You know I used to like this fatherly quality he has when we were getting along. He would like help me in some ways, listening to me patiently, trying to motivate me or be protective to the point of sounding bossy sometimes (you can't let these people do this to you! you've got to move now!) ...and at that point I felt cared for when he acted that way.
I also admire his sense of order and so forth, so I'm not knocking his normal Capricorn qualities.
I just feel like he's being really mean and unreasonable about this, and I thought, maybe he's just really angry or his feelings are hurt, or maybe he's really done with me, but this is an awfully crazy, strict mentality he has about it (he acted like I was doing something shocking by messaging him on another web site when he's done the same thing over and over again to me, to the point of being extremely persistent in his case) ...and I thought "what an asshole, how dare he talk to me this way or view me in this light."
The thing is that I have no need to "stalk" him. I'm actually seeing two men casually at the moment, I've had a Libra FWB for nearly a year off and on, and I've gone out on a few dates with a nice Aries. I don't have a serious boyfriend, and the last time I checked, he wasn't with his ex anymore, so I'm going to express to him that sometimes I miss him and I still care about him; it's one of those things where I always wondered how close we would have gotten if we lived in the same city or some
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Posted by james tate
HE WAS JUST SEEING IF HE COULD PULL SOME ASS. YOUR BETTER OFF RID OF HIM.


Um yeah I don't think he was just trying to "pull some ass" talking to me for hours every day for over 18 months, and I've actually known him for going on three years now. We live 400-500 miles apart.
But thanks for the unhelpful comment.
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Nope! It is do as I say...
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I think you are missing the point they were talking about in terms of father of zodiac. I think It is more like this ...
If the father is angry with his kid, the kid usually gets solitude (ie grounded, go to your room ...) for a period of time. If the kid is angry with his father, the father will usually do everything on his power to try to talk to his kid (or get them talking) as soon as it happens.
Plz correct me if I'm wrong.
When he had wanted to talk to you, he will find every means possible to achieve this. But if he wants to be hidden, he doesn't want to be found by you. I think his complaint was more about how easily YOU found him, rather than how not hidden he was.


That makes sense. Like if I'm the kid and I'm mad and I slam the door (and as a Gemini and an xxFP in MBTI he surely sees me as a kid almost in the extreme) then he does everything he can to get through that slammed door, even if that means breaking a window.
But if I'm being sent to time-out bc he's pissed, and I come out, he just gets angrier that I'm not obeying him because it doesn't suit his authority.
So yeah, an angry or hurt control freak, basically.
Or he knows it's the ultimate evil troll fest to say that to me, just to see how I'd react.
However, from a logical standpoint, what he said doesn't make sense, so it just seems like he's hurt and angry and speaking from a place from emotion rather than being fully rational.
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Posted by EusiveSoulll
^^^ What happens when the other party doesn't do so? (serious question)


Depends on the circumstances...
I say, don't sleep with other women and you do, I cut your balls off
I say, don't spend so much money on "whatever", I cut your money off
I say, don't pee your pants again or your not going tricker treating, then I'm not taking you tricker treating
(I went from easiest to worst)
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Posted by Marmotini
That makes sense. Like if I'm the kid and I'm mad and I slam the door (and as a Gemini and an xxFP in MBTI he surely sees me as a kid almost in the extreme) then he does everything he can to get through that slammed door, even if that means breaking a window.
But if I'm being sent to time-out bc he's pissed, and I come out, he just gets angrier that I'm not obeying him because it doesn't suit his authority.
So yeah, an angry or hurt control freak, basically.
Or he knows it's the ultimate evil troll fest to say that to me, just to see how I'd react.
However, from a logical standpoint, what he said doesn't make sense, so it just seems like he's hurt and angry and speaking from a place from emotion rather than being fully rational.


That's just it though. Just because they have appear to be far off and distant, and everything about them looks okay outside, doesn't mean they are as cool as a cucumber on the inside.
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Oh believe me, I know that about this one, especially.
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tis me when I was 35 ten years ago now im old but still in shape work out 3 to 5 hours a day except when i am on the road.
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"Tricker treating?" Really? :/

This guy is classic immature Cap. They hold ridiculous double standards. I had the same problem with a former Cap friend of mine, hence "former" friend. It was all a bunch of bullshit in the long run. That whole "I can but you can't," way of thinking just wasn't going to fly. He sure as hell didn't like it when I wouldn't tolerate it and he retreated like a puppy with his tail between his legs when I stood my ground.
They push to see what they can and can't get away with.
Also, get a fricken spine and tell his ass off when he calls you things like "whore." I don't care if you said something first. The fact that you're excusing such behavior explains why you're here asking such things about this little troll.
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Posted by JTG1984
Posted by rockyroadicecream
"Tricker treating?" Really? :/

This guy is classic immature Cap. They hold ridiculous double standards. I had the same problem with a former Cap friend of mine, hence "former" friend. It was all a bunch of bullshit in the long run. That whole "I can but you can't," way of thinking just wasn't going to fly. He sure as hell didn't like it when I wouldn't tolerate it and he retreated like a puppy with his tail between his legs when I stood my ground.
They push to see what they can and can't get away with.
Also, get a fricken spine and tell his ass off when he calls you things like "whore." I don't care if you said something first. The fact that you're excusing such behavior explains why you're here asking such things about this little troll.


Doubt it.
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Vague response is vague.
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...oookay crazy one.
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Kiss my tail, guy-who-this-thread-is-about.

You know who you are, and you know why.
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Posted by champranger
Posted by ellessque
Posted by Marmotini

However, from a logical standpoint, what he said doesn't make sense, so it just seems like he's hurt and angry and speaking from a place from emotion rather than being fully rational.


give this chic a fucking medal.
i double dog dare you to tell him that, video his response and put it on youtube.
i'd pay BIG bucks to see that.
hell, i'd sell my house to watch it in live stream.


I'm not sure I follow ...
except ... of course ... the part where Marmotini gets to make big bucks from his response video Tongue
Can you please explain a bit more? Thank you. smile
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lol Hi...and thank you.

Yes, it might be because of my Capricorn moon. I think the fact that I do see through his B.S. is what unnerves him.
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
"Tricker treating?" Really? :/

This guy is classic immature Cap. They hold ridiculous double standards. I had the same problem with a former Cap friend of mine, hence "former" friend. It was all a bunch of bullshit in the long run. That whole "I can but you can't," way of thinking just wasn't going to fly. He sure as hell didn't like it when I wouldn't tolerate it and he retreated like a puppy with his tail between his legs when I stood my ground.
They push to see what they can and can't get away with.
Also, get a fricken spine and tell his ass off when he calls you things like "whore." I don't care if you said something first. The fact that you're excusing such behavior explains why you're here asking such things about this little troll.


You are absolutely right. Thanks.
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Posted by JTG1984BETA
Posted by Marmotini
Posted by rockyroadicecream
"Tricker treating?" Really? :/

This guy is classic immature Cap. They hold ridiculous double standards. I had the same problem with a former Cap friend of mine, hence "former" friend. It was all a bunch of bullshit in the long run. That whole "I can but you can't," way of thinking just wasn't going to fly. He sure as hell didn't like it when I wouldn't tolerate it and he retreated like a puppy with his tail between his legs when I stood my ground.
They push to see what they can and can't get away with.
Also, get a fricken spine and tell his ass off when he calls you things like "whore." I don't care if you said something first. The fact that you're excusing such behavior explains why you're here asking such things about this little troll.


You are absolutely right. Thanks.


Yeah, he sounds like a handful and you should probably find someone that's nice and a little more your speed.
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Yeah, he's a handful alright.
More my speed? Yeah, maybe he's a little slow...maybe that's what the problem is.
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hypocrite hypocrite hypocrite even responding here in the first place
hypocrite hypocrite hypocrite telling me to STFU when you could have handled this via private PM, facebook, AIM, text or phone
hypocrite hypocrite hypocrite
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You've had two people ask you how old you are. Responses to everyone and everything except that. Why? Just curious. Seems like you're avoiding that question.
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Okay, you know what it/he is....now what are you going to do about it?
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I have no obligation to tell you guys anything except what I want to tell you!
Also, just know I don't think I'm perfect, clearly I have emotional issues of my own that I even allowed him to get close to me and still engage in contact with him.
I don't think either one of us are "crazy" though, I think we both probably have some emotional issues having to do with relationships in general. It's like there's a spectrum of people with emotional issues, and I'm on the expressive, histrionic, ourburst end and he's on the game-playing, withdrawn, manipulative end.
We probably both have Cluster B personality disorders.

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That's the last I have to say about this.
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LOL are you a troll? You won't take me seriously if I don't give you more personal details? ONOES!!!
Of course I wrote a novel about JTG. That was for JTG, not for you. You don't even comprehend my motives.

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Posted by Marmotini
LOL are you a troll? You won't take me seriously if I don't give you more personal details? ONOES!!!
Of course I wrote a novel about JTG. That was for JTG, not for you. You don't even comprehend my motives.


Further proof that truecap is so on the money.
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Of course I wrote a novel about JTG. That was for JTG, not for you.


No. It was for everyone. You felt you had something to prove so you put on a show (which was rather tasteless to begin with.) Then it fell apart. And all this defensiveness on your part only raises more questions. Not just about him, but about you as well.
You're right, we "don't even comprehend your motives", because you'd like to plead the 5th on them. JTG might not be innocent in all this, but you aren't either.
If you don't want to have to explain yourself, don't air your dirty laundry online. Because the more you do, the more it just doesn't pass the nose test:


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Um didn't I say I'm not perfect and I have issues of my own? DID I NOT ALREADY SAY THAT?
I also am telling the complete truth, and you can go fuck yourself if you think I'm lying, because JTG knows I'm telling the truth, and that's all that matters.
Herp derp derp.
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I am not sure I have ever encountered people so willing to jump into me and JTG's drama. This shit never happened on Type C. What is wrong with you people?
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"I am not sure I have ever encountered people so willing to jump into me and JTG's drama. This shit never happened on Type C. What is wrong with you people?"
Are you KIDDING!???!!! Go back to Type C then. You posted, hoping for someone to comment, then complain that people commented? Just because you're not getting the feedback you wanted, now you think something is wrong with us?????
*smh*
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Posted by seraph
Posted by truecap
You've had two people ask you how old you are. Responses to everyone and everything except that. Why? Just curious. Seems like you're avoiding that question.


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Good point.
Posted by Marmotini
I have no obligation to tell you guys anything except what I want to tell you!


That's fine. In which case people are under no obligation to take you seriously. If you have no problem engendering suspicion in others due to non-disclosure of common details (whereas you have no problem giving out the personal details of others), then you should also have no problem with others treating you with suspicion. It's *your* online experience, after all. But given the fact that you wrote what's virtually a novel about JTG, it's assumed you'd like others to take you seriously, amirite?
Or you could just be really paranoid. Which also doesn't throw too favourable a light on your "expos?" about JTG. Instability isn't too hot for credibility.
You get what you give.
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JTG just might be the healthy one.
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