Posted by PiscesGuy12All the best!
Thanks for the advice!
So like I said, I work in a large company (10,000 people on campus) so I never expected anything to happen. I only recently found out some of this information because I realized we have a mutual friend/coworker who was able to tell me her name. I know she's not married, but my friend isn't close enough to her to ask her if she's seeing someone.
As far as why I've waited? My relationships in the past have always been of the friend variety, people I knew who I could ask out. I've never approached a complete stranger and pursued them. I guess the crush has gotten so strong that now I'm worried about the rejection.
We have made eye contact, she is aware I exist but really don't know if she finds any sort of attraction towards me. I guess I'll have to put my balls out there and just go for, and it'll be the first for me.
Posted by PiscesGuy12Hi Pisces guy
Hi All,
So some background. I'm a pisces (March 12 if you care) and for nearly a year I have been immensely attracted to this girl who I just found out was a capricorn (january 5th). She is a coworker, but really not in my department, just someone I see around. I'm not a love at first sight guy at all, but from the moment I saw her, I felt a magnetic attraction that hasn't left me since. Since then, we do randomly cross paths with one another, and for some reason my feelings have gotten stronger.
So here's the kicker, I've never actually spoken to her and I don't know if she has any of that attraction towards me. All these feelings could be for naught, but I would be remiss if I didn't at least chance it. As a pisces, I don't usually approach people I don't know and I value friendships. I just have no idea how to get noticed by her or how to even introduce myself to her without seeming so shady. I mean, this is just a weird feeling I have, based off of not knowing anything about her.
Am I crazy? Should I pursue it? Any advice?
Thanks!
Posted by pooface222Hi Pooface,Posted by PiscesGuy12Hi Pisces guy
Hi All,
So some background. I'm a pisces (March 12 if you care) and for nearly a year I have been immensely attracted to this girl who I just found out was a capricorn (january 5th). She is a coworker, but really not in my department, just someone I see around. I'm not a love at first sight guy at all, but from the moment I saw her, I felt a magnetic attraction that hasn't left me since. Since then, we do randomly cross paths with one another, and for some reason my feelings have gotten stronger.
So here's the kicker, I've never actually spoken to her and I don't know if she has any of that attraction towards me. All these feelings could be for naught, but I would be remiss if I didn't at least chance it. As a pisces, I don't usually approach people I don't know and I value friendships. I just have no idea how to get noticed by her or how to even introduce myself to her without seeming so shady. I mean, this is just a weird feeling I have, based off of not knowing anything about her.
Am I crazy? Should I pursue it? Any advice?
Thanks!
I'm guessing that as a Pisces you are quiet & shy?? Only asking as the Pisces guys I've met are. And I LOVE it. I am Capricorn myself (Jan 19th).
I've had a Pisces guy or 2 in the past approach me, 6th first one I approached him. The second one he approached me.
I prefer being approached to be honest. The way the 2nd guy did it was slowly and with subtlety. He would come near me to catch my eye and when looked in his direction he smiled. He kept doing this which sent me into butterflies in my tummy!
As a Cap I like a man to be a gentleman and be charming too and most importantly not to rush! But I think you need to start making some moves on her as it's been a while.
So my advice is to try to be near her, catch her eye and smile but smile in a way that says you like her. Then start to talk to her casually about her work, and gradually find out more about her that way. Just keep being near her and maybe have a unchanged break with her?
Offer to help with something too. I love it when guys make an effort to be near me xx so cute!click to expand