Be Without You

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Needless
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16 Years

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Hi there ...I'm pretty much new here so this is my first posts on the Capricorn forum *hehe* anyways my sign is a Pisces with Leo moon and the person I've been in love for so long with childhood memories is a Capricorn with Moon in Aries so match made in heaven right? Hmm anyways I've been getting along with him for sometime shared the same pain and laughter and lots of things in common before until I told him all my feelings and personal pasts in e-mail and the stalker things I did to get him LOL, I know I shouldn't have cause I can't confront him directly cause am afraid of getting hurt, but now his been so distance to me he only looks at me in the eye and tries to make me jealous? I think? He tells me to get out his room and avoids me every time I see him, I ask him if his mad at me but no responses, I tried kissing him in the cheek privately but he pushes me back I tried holding or touching him but then he goes in the washroom and takes a long shower? I finally found a job because of him because he give me his old resume long before this accident happens I tried changing for him and his been so distance more he block me in all his social profiles but I can't forget him am not ready because this is the first time I fell in love? I know he still loves me but can't expresses it in words and can't do it in action either, Can anyone give me any feedback or tips, thank you.
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BeoWulf
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anyways my sign is a Pisces with Leo moon and the person I've been in love for so long with childhood memories is a Capricorn

I think the keyword here is "childhood". I sense that the problem here is NOT that he doesn't like you it's just that he is in shock when you revealed your feelings for him after so many years. I don't think he expected that from you.

After so many years (since 'childhood') it must have come as quite a shock to him that you --all of a sudden-- told him about your love for him. I think he is temporarily shutting you out from his life because he is trying to process his feelings for you. He needs time to sort out his own feelings before committing himself to you. And he can't sort out his feelings when you're always there in front of him.

My suggestion would be to leave him alone for a while and give him space. But let him know in subtle ways that you're there for him. Use your "stalker techniques" ( LOL! ) to keep track of him but keep out of his sight for a couple of weeks. Let's say, for example, you find out from his friends that he is sick or injured, let him know that you're concerned (bring him chicken soup or something) but don't bring up any relationship issues. Cap men appreciate a woman who's there to support them but doesn't rush them into relationships.

Cap men take a little longer to sort out their feelings because they've been self-conditioned since young to be survivors rather then being the 'touchy-feely' sorts. They've been conditioned by life's hardships to deny their own feelings and get the job done. So my best advice is to give him some time to sort out his feelings but at the same time let him know that you're there for him.

I hope things work out for you because Pisces-Capricorn couples often have a beautiful aura about them. It's like they're so in-tune with each other.
I'm a big supporter of the Pisces woman+Capricorn man coupling because I've seen it so often. And it's often so beautiful.

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eric11
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Needless, the best way to get rid of a cappy is to stalk him. I am not sure why you don't pick up on his cues that he wants to be left alone? If you love him then give him the space he needs to come to terms with the revelation you told him. If you continue to force your emotions on him he will eventually lash out and cut ties for good.

You need to leave him alone.

First loves can become obessions if you are not careful so you need to guard yourself from that.

All the best.