breathingSOUL

I'm trying to respond to your topic but it won't let me.

So here's my response....

I find them rather sexy also. Just some kind of charm they have about them. For one thing they are a challenge and that's what some of us women like, at least I know I do.

Anyhow, they are serious and they also play games but in a weird way. They will test you to see if they can trust you, etc. Tests can vary and they will do it in a nonchalant way. They appear rather unemotional sometimes, just depending, because all cappies are not the exact same. You have to make sure that you have a lot of patience when dealing with them. Do not go off on them. If they act weird, just sit back and let it pass.

Another thing is the initiating part. Has ur cappie taken you out on a date? Did he initiate it? Does he call a lot or ask you to do things with him a lot. Some cappies take the initiative at the beginning of the relationship and then sort of back off and expect us to pick up the initiative on doing things.

You just have to be very careful.

more analyzing than what we want to deal with OneFineAquarius....dealing with my Cappy was more thinking in a week than I did in a whole year!! That's a bit extreme, but u know what I mean! I have never analyzed something so much, or ever cared to analyze something so much...I had so many scenerios going on in my head that it wasn't even funny. I thought I was going crazy! They are definetely a crazy bunch of men to deal with...if you want someone who keeps you thinking all the time, they are your MEN for sure!

All sounds familiar... Back when I was first getting to know him and it'd only been 2 weeks, he was saying things like, "you're basically my girlfriend, do you want to just make it official?" and I just didn't answer and laughed it off. He was always joking. But now, you gotta wonder if it was testing the waters. I didn't really believe at the time that he wanted me to say, "yes"- It's like I knew and sensed that it was a game. Yea, "make you crazy" is no understatement. I believe that he analyzed it from his side quite a bit too though. He always remembered everything I told him and could quote me back nearly verbatim. And would ask probing questions, not even trying to hide his curiosity about what was going on in my life. But heck- there was no end in sight to the rollercoaster ride, no predictability, reliability, stability. And Capricorns are big on that- well I know I am! The trust was always hanging in the balance, and I could never just give in to him as I wanted (yes, THAT way) bc. I feared being played.

Sorry-- didn't mean to piss on your thread, MyCap and Soul! They ARE interesting guys. I'm just too darn impatient, demanding and controlling! WheretomyLady--- did your sister have those issues of her own, in trying to deal with a male Cap.-- i.e. the Cap-Cap dynamic?

OneFineAquarius,

Don't worry ur not the only crazy one...at least I'm there with ya!! And I thought I was the only crazy one until I came across this site of Capricorn men and thought hey, thank God, it's not just me! I seriously thought I was having issues...lol!

I do naturally analyze lots of things too, just my nature, it's what keeps me alert and going...but I can really stress myself out sometimes with it tho. I just have to tell myself to relax and take a break.

I cuddled, held hands, etc. with mine too and it was the same as urs, we were still pretty much nothing, or not 'exclusive' I should say. I thought, what the hell. At least I knew it was his problem and not mine!! ha

CapGirl,

That was a good one catching on to his little test on what u'd say after he said that. Wish I still would have known more about Caps before entering on this ride!

Mine remembered everything I told him too. I didnt realize it until one time I hadnt heard from him for a couple of days, and wanted to contact him, knew he was working, but didnt want to make it obvious that I was wondering why I hadnt heard from him. So I sent a random text to him, pretending that I was sending it to a friend, but accidentally sending it to him. Which I got what I wanted, which was a reply and he actually kept texting me...I told him oops disregard that message....and then he was 'curious' so kept texting...anyhow, fast forward a couple months and I get a random text from him, and I replied with 'what' then he said 'oops disregard that'...it shocked the heck out of me bc it was the exact same thing I had replied to on that day. I couldn't believe he remembered my exact words, but he did and a couple other times he remembered stuff beyond my belief...and all the while he acted like the words i was saying to him were going thru one ear and out the other, they just arent emotional, or show any kind of response or intrigue, are just laid back men. But they are really just like others, just don't appear to be on the outside. Amazing, really. Don't judge a book by its cover, right?

It's ok, CapGirl, you didnt piss on our thread, it's all good!

I bet we scared the new girl...lol...just kidding!

Hey guys!

Mycap, you asked me a few Q's before: Has ur cappie taken you out on a date? Did he initiate it?

So I met him (moved near my neighbourhood) and was making lots of eye contact so we ended up sitting outside his place (I walked over and said Hi) & having a few beers. Next time I see him he takes me out cruising on his bike and walking around downtown. At the end of the long day he takes his helmet off as I do (ugh! helmet hair!!!) and gives me a kiss. Now, the problem is he works out of town a lot and won't be back for a few months and I think I just really want to know if this is something that would be right. I can't stop thinking about him and yet I hardly know him! We talked about anything and everything but I just don't know. I can't base anything on his sign I know, and he is just amazing but I also know he is out of town so much and it's hard to build something in a short time, but like you guys said - PATIENCE! I'll just sit back for now I guess.

OneFineAquarius,

Sounds as if we are too much alike...lol! Which is a good thing, right!! Of course! They are very unpredictable, half the stuff he did, did really suprise me, it kept me on my toes. He had a very peculiar sense of humor too, which I loved by the way. Man, talking about him is making me miss him even more.

breathingSOUL,

He sounds so sweet! They r sweet guys, but u just have to know how to 'get to' them if you know what I mean. Patience, is the key, don't forget it, even if you do get so stressed out and angry! Just vent to yourself, not to him. Im sorry he has to go away. I couldn't stop thinking about mine every second of the day for the whole 7 mos I was with him, there still isnt a day that goes by that I dont think about him now, even when I didnt hardly know him either, as you said! I know what u mean.

Yeah don't base it on his sign, even tho it's good advice on here on how to deal with the cap man!

So do you think the cappi's fall in and out of love easily, do they get bored? How serious are they or real is it when they like a girl?

OneFineAquarius,

No we aren't together anymore, which I hate by the way! There sense of humor is crazy! It makes them more intriguing.

breathingSOUL,

No Caps don't fall in love easily, and when they do fall in love, they don't fall out of love easily. They are confusing creatures! Just as ONeFineAquarius said, you do have to stir things up or they get bored. You don't have to go overboard with it, but just keep them in suspense sometimes. And be suprising to them. They like it when u keep them wondering what u are going to say/do next. Sometimes I'd be sweet, and other times I'd go off on him. He didn't like the going off on him part, but he said I'm very unpredictable and he never knew what I was going to do next. I think I went a little overboard because I kind of went psycho on him. Not really, but he took it that way. I was just overly pissed one time. Oh well.

After all, Id have to say they are great guys. If I had a chance to do it all over again, I would. They are just a lot of work tho.

I guess it's going to open another door for something better. I still just wish that things could have worked out. I guess everything happens for a reason tho. I have to move on with my life and make the best of it!

Do capricorns fall in love easily? Do they get bored easily?
I think cappys fall hard and fast the first time, than they get their hearts broke and are wrecked for anyone else...So moral of the story is to hook up with a young, innocent cappy and treat him right and don't break his heart.
Capricorns are very earthy, possessive people, once they have something they are afraid they will loss it so they either hold on too tighly or let it go before it does any damage. They need reassurance, loyalty and someone with a lot of patience!

Bored?
I don't think so, like everyone else they like to be stimulated. Sometimes I have to drag my cappy out of the house by being a little mean, but once he gets out he always enjoys himself. I have been with men who are really into going out all the time and I don't really care for that. So I guess no balance for me!

Good OneFineAquarius, I'm very happy for you. Hope things continue getting better!

Thanks...I can only take it one day at a time...and SLOW!

See that's what I'm afraid of doing to any guy. If I'm not truly over the Cap then I can't be with anyone else until I know for sure that I'm over him. I have done that in the past to a couple of guys and I just ended up hurting them. I know it's not fair to the 'nice' guys.

But I'm sorta back with my Cap now so I'm not having to worry about it right now at this point.

Thanks. I don't know if seeing him again was a smart move or not. So far it's not. I'm already regretting it.