Broke up with a Capricorn man

Hey Im a 31 year old Leo woman dating a 31 year old Capricorn man for almost three years. Were not officially together and I recently told him I couldnt con't because its been years and not even a girlfriend status. I have one child from previous relationship. Funny thing is he acts like were actually together, a couple. But when I pose the "relationship label" he says he's not the relationship kind. I miss him and want him back. Will he come back and what are the chances things change if he does? Ladies or Gents PLease HELP!

He will be back.. but do you really want him when he is looking for someone "better" than you?

hes obviously focused on other things or had bad relationships. Caps can be so absorbed in their fulfilling their dreams and ambitions. Especially guys cos they dont have sex discrimination or lack of muscle and health blocking them as much. Find out what his dreams and ambitions are. It could be he feels he cant develop with you for some reason. I ended it with a guy once because he lived in a town where I wouldnt be able to fulfil my lifes goals and he wouldnt consider ever moving anywhere else.

If this guy really is the one I would try supporting and showing you can help with his ambitions. Ask him what he thinks is blocking the dreams he has. Show interest in his projects so then he will feel more like you COULD be soulmates rather than just companions.

If hes just a guy then I would move on because hes only attractive in the sense that he can provide things any other guy can provide you with.

are you sure hes not dating another woman?

If after 3 years of —dating?? this guy still won't acknowledge the 2 of you as being in a relationship I would have to wonder what his true agenda is. In your shoes I would question whether he is 1) dating other people 2) is with you until —the one?? shows up or 3) is a huge commitmentphobe who enjoys all the perks of a relationship-like involvement but without the responsibility that comes with truly committing to you or anyone alone else.

The bigger issue isn't getting this guy back but rather what you will be getting from him if and/or when he does. Was he upset that you broke things off with him? Did he offer any other explanation besides —he's not the relationship kind?? to sway you from deciding it was time to walk away? Yes, Cap men can be painfully slow in making that leap to total commitment. However, if you are truly the one for them they don't hold back and will do everything in their power to keep you a permanent fixture in their lives.