Can anyone tell me about a libra and Capricorn??
Maaannnnn this Capricorn is driving me crazy...
He's been im my life for about 10 years off and on.. We stopped talking back in '03 cuz i felt he was immature and yes because he has money, woman spoil him... He thinks that Im so big on myself,because I wont comply to his every request.. We started back up again last year and Maaaaaaaaaaaannnn it has been some ish... Capricorns hold this unecessary grugde over you, that only them who knows about it.. You 'll never know, until the games begin.. Testing,dissapearing acts, the putting you down to make themselves feel better about themselves...... Can yo believe taht we went out together one night and he actually stopped me to tell me... nakeish I know your hot, but just to let you know that I'm just as hot... really???? isnt that my line??? anyways I love him I dont know why,but #@ $ % ITS DRIVING ME BABNANAS.. i HAD HAD TO CONTACT MY DERVICE PROVIDER to block me from calling him or texting him.. Im a Libra so Im in love with the idea of being in love and thats hard for this Cappy
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May 30, 2010Comments: 21 · Posts: 741 · Topics: 54
Libras...my gosh. There's only one libra in my life that I actually understand...
The rest..i just do not get. They're amazingly awkward to be around, even though people are supposed to feel comfortable around them since they're so diplomatic. But this one libra is an amazing person...he doesn't realize that he's got so much potential, which I liked because he's really down to earth and family orientated. We had known each other for a while, as friends of friends, and then we had a 'thing'. In the end,he wanted a relationship, and i was not ready for one. Or rather, I didn't trust him, so I did not wana go there. He's a lady's man...always charming and flirting somewhere...which was a RED LIGHT for me to stop, and run!lol but yeah, he's a good person.
If you're a flirt, then cap is gonna hold so many darn grudges u won't know what hit you. so u better be good!lol
But it seems as though you've met your match 
Ya caps are mad selfish that way "if you flirt that's a red flag".. Pfffft why are u guys so insecure? Just cause we flirt doesnt mean we're gonna cheat. U caps love to jump to conclusions and think that everyone is after you (or after your bf). I dated a cap for 4 miserable years and I lost so many friends that I'll never get back. You guys are selfish, boring, opinionated, and insecure. Defiantly not libra material
Well that was just the cap I knew. I dunno if your all like that. Not tryn to drag anyone down
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May 30, 2010Comments: 21 · Posts: 741 · Topics: 54
Posted by SrgntLeebz
Ya caps are mad selfish that way "if you flirt that's a red flag".. Pfffft why are u guys so insecure? Just cause we flirt doesnt mean we're gonna cheat. U caps love to jump to conclusions and think that everyone is after you (or after your bf). I dated a cap for 4 miserable years and I lost so many friends that I'll never get back. You guys are selfish, boring, opinionated, and insecure. Defiantly not libra material
Then good for you honey. Stay away from caps,since we're not libra material. It'll do you good. wouldn't want you having more miserable years would we???Signed Up:
Apr 11, 2011Comments: 5 · Posts: 892 · Topics: 25
^ That's pretty funny because in the relationships i've had with capricorns, i had the same experience..dominance, needy, emotionally manipulative, killjoy and insecurity.
I think if both signs were evolved, or the signs had complimentary aspects, it could work out. The relationship has to have some degree of purpose as well, some type of goal to tie the relationship together. If not, it's a battle between egos..where one is incessantly trying to dominate the other whilst undermining each other. it's like the anti-ying-yang dynamic.
Does that make sense?
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Posted by Chance11
mainly due to vast differences in outlook and the uncanny ability to bring out each other's negative traits.
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I think the only time I've had 'peace' with talking to, and/or having a relationship with a capricorn is when the focus of the relationship was primarily on them.
I'm talking about their choice of conversation, their interests, their friends, their goals, their dreams, their way of doing things...they didn't want a partner, they wanted ethier a blank canvas, or a mirror or they would see me as such.
And hell, I could do it, at the expense of completely decimating myself...and in the end, I didn't want to, it would have killed me.
Now mind you, this is in reference to un-evolved signs of both..where you have the capricorn not seeing past themselves..and the libra who isn't self-sufficient enough to be able to assert oneself, or have an identity outside the relationship.
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Oct 25, 2010Comments: 2 · Posts: 8822 · Topics: 132
Posted by TheBeautifulStruggle
I think the only time I've had 'peace' with talking to, and/or having a relationship with a capricorn is when the focus of the relationship was primarily on them.
I'm talking about their choice of conversation, their interests, their friends, their goals, their dreams, their way of doing things...they didn't want a partner, they wanted ethier a blank canvas, or a mirror or they would see me as such.
And hell, I could do it, at the expense of completely decimating myself...and in the end, I didn't want to, it would have killed me.
Now mind you, this is in reference to un-evolved signs of both..where you have the capricorn not seeing past themselves..and the libra who isn't self-sufficient enough to be able to assert oneself, or have an identity outside the relationship.
I wanted to make a thread about this the other day actually. I'm a Capricorn, and my Capricorn friend manages to somehow silence me in conversations. He's very interesting to listen to because he's funny, but the conversations are always focused on him. It's like I'm an ear for him to release what he's currently working on, his relationship drama, goals etc. He's not as excited listening as he is talking lol.
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I'm always a bit curious as to why women are even attracted to these guys to be honest. I'm somewhat kidding lol, but I don't find them to be listeners at all. The perfect woman for a Capricorn is a mild-mannered silent one. Maybe it all gets better after they've accomplished what they've wanted too.
To chance11,
There's that opinionated cap shit again. It's funny how mad u got about the insecure thing ("where's ur integrity.. It's disgusting"). Most libra males don't have very much emotion or feeling so I can't really relate to what ur saying about self esteem stuff and inablility to be alone. In fact I enjoy being alone a great deal... I just like having somebody to talk to or have sex with every once and a while. The whole not having a back bone thing is way over board considering most of us libras are extremely loyal and good at sticking to our beliefs, and in general puting others needs before our own (which the caps I know are terrible at). Our in decision is only there when we think about starting something. And as u get older that shit disappears almost entirely (I've noticed this). For the boring thing ifeel I'm only half right about that because one cap chick I know(not the one I dated) has a great sense when it comes to good shows.. Although she watches the same things over and over again (which the cap i dated did also) which i find is a waste of time. Don't even think about callin all libras lazy though because all the caps I know hardly ever leave there house... Although that could be the insecure thing I mentioned and caring way to much about what people think (which is what u said libras do even though were known for being aloof to other people in public). I also work a little over 40 hours a week and go to the gym 3 times a week, so if i don't normally think of myself as lazy. As for the vain part how about this... With my dimples, abbs, and broad shoulders and big arms I'm willing to bet I'm not only better looking than u, but also stronger and faster (it's a shame we can't test my theory). Lets stop hiding behind your sign analysis and make this personal. I've also joined the military and am willing to die not only for my country, but basically anyone ( guess that's that libra savior god complex u were talkin about. Isn't it so selfish and disgusting). Guess my balls are bigger than urs too. Would u be willing to fight and die for your neighbor? Are u capable of putting up a good fight for them if you are?
But like most libras "I'm talking alot and saying nothing"... Just like snoop dogg does, just like eminem, lil wayne, and t.I all do. They just talk and say nothing which is why they make millions. Music must have no messages behind it right? Libras make up some of the best musicians on this planet... Can u
Didnt get to finish, but o well. U all probably know where I was goin with that. Try to fight your urges to lash out at me caps. I Know u have a great deal of trouble with that emotion called... What's it called again? Oh ya jealousy
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Posted by lnana04
I'm always a bit curious as to why women are even attracted to these guys to be honest. I'm somewhat kidding lol, but I don't find them to be listeners at all. The perfect woman for a Capricorn is a mild-mannered silent one. Maybe it all gets better after they've accomplished what they've wanted too.
Quintessential Capricorn Male Archetype...I am dead serious.
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^Yep, lol.
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May 30, 2010Comments: 21 · Posts: 741 · Topics: 54
I hate how our threads always turn into a war of the signs, it's the same pattern over and over... :-/
the one sign complains and cap ends up defending their honour... why do we take things so personally all the time...? I wish I was a walking robot,so that people could say anything left right and centre and I wouldn't even twitch an eye. But no...caps always gotta take it to heart. sigh
I think thats the biggest difference I've noticed with libras and caps.
Caps= or atleast the ones i knw...everything we say or do has a deeper meaning, we don't act,talk or commit to something if we're not 100% sure that it will work out,or it will last...we mean what we say, so if we're gonna talk at all, it has gotta be worth saying.
We're lazy,but smart enough to know when to work hard...great with time management.
Our heart is on our sleeve,thats why we work so hard to make sure it doesn't end up in the wrong hands,
We are either for it,or against it. Libras=balance=inbetween. And caps just do not understand that concept.
In general, libra and cap could work, but most of the time, cap needs something more soulful, a connection that inspires them. Libra is great,but its too light on the heart...the connection between libra and cap is too light for cap, who dreams of finding a soulmate who is in tune with their heartbeat. Okay what did i just say?l0l
Libra,for me,as a cap, is too shallow...
SrgntLeebz
I also work a little over 40 hours a week and go to the gym 3 times a week, so if i don't normally think of myself as lazy. As for the vain part how about this... With my dimples, abbs, and broad shoulders and big arms I'm willing to bet I'm not only better looking than u, but also stronger and faster (it's a shame we can't test my theory). Lets stop hiding behind your sign analysis and make this personal. I've also joined the military and am willing to die not only for my country, but basically anyone ( guess that's that libra savior god complex u were talkin about. Isn't it so selfish and disgusting). Guess my balls are bigger than urs too. Would u be willing to fight and die for your neighbor? Are u capable of putting up a good fight for them if you are?
Look at the way you talk about dying for your country,but its like you're talking about how great your lunch was. There is nothing there...it doesn't touch the soul. It's almost like you were talking about a few medals hanging on your wall...
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Posted by Chance11
sgrtleebz-
you get your knowledge from snoop dogg, lil wayne, and T.I...that explains a lot! not much to be jealous of, frankly.
A simple sentence, but with so much more vuma
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Nov 21, 2009Comments: 0 · Posts: 445 · Topics: 10
Tell you about capricorn & libra love match? Not much to tell really ... 
I get on great with libras as friends. But as lovers and custodians of a cappy heart? eek! Cappy11, people join the military to make a difference, so lol at ur "big business" thing. Your so quick to label somebody as having alterior motives. Do u trust anyone? I think your scared
And to lielaxx.... It's not supposed to touch your soul. It's to show that I can do more work than some forum nerd who thinks he's smart by hating on people through the Internet. You both try way to hard to hurt people... Sooo not Christian, I forgive you both for not only missing my point but forgetting what lifes about. Which is putting others before yourself.
It's never to late to change
And im willing to bet neither of you have listened to that much music written by any of the artists I mentioned.... Why do u have to write somebody off so quickly. Alot of rap has really good messages in it, I'm sorry if some of the lyrics make u feel uncomfortable. You should try something different for once instead of listening to your same music and watching your same movies. I believe people who have actually struggled in their life know alot more about what it means to be human than you do. Stop judging
But ya cap and scorp is the way to go.. My 2 really good friends are a scorp/cap couple and ive argued with them for hours. I find most of their views extremely negative though.. It's like they can't find a good thing to say about anyone or anything they don't agree with. I find that I'm not only much more willing to listen to what they have to say, but I am actually the only one in the room who is even considering somebody elses point. Most of the time it's like talking to a brick wall when I'm with them.. I've stopped inviting them out with me because everytime we're in a circle with other people and talking, they start competing with everyone else and basically "spewing garbage" that not only makes people uncomfortable but is for the most part inaccurate. They're a very standoffish and awkward couple in public... I can see why u want a "soulful" thing. Caps are very emotional and most of the time when I disagree with something my buds cap gf says she gets wicked red and laughs when she argues back as a way of discrediting me instead of being a mature adult and realizing that not everyone agrees on everything. All I can really say is good luck with your 'behavioral patterns'.. Not being able to listen to another person is an extremely destructive trait to have.. And emotions don't get jobs done, and with this shitty economy we can't be concerned with peoples feelings anymore. People need to suck it up and get to work. We're all in this together... Stop being selfish
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Feb 18, 2009Comments: 0 · Posts: 448 · Topics: 31
I don't KNOW how that Capricorn Bruised SgtLeebz but apparently he is having some kind of traumatic flashback. Geee Whizz LOL.
CHANCE, I LOVE YOU! LOl I think you laid it OUT Perfectly. I was sitting back saying Darn, The Male Version of ME.
Leila it is our nature we can't just be like robots, Sorry!
ABOUT LIBRAS: I LOATHE THEM, WELL ONE TO BE EXACT. I HAD SCUM BOSS WHO WAS A LIBRA AND A PATHOLOGICAL LIAR WHO TRIED TO MAKE LIFE A LIVING HELL FOR ME WHILE HE YET REALLY LIKED ME BUT HATED IT BECAUSE I DIDN'T CONFORM TO HIS CONSTANT EGO FEEDING BY OTHER TWITS IN OUR OFFICE.
Libras And Capricorns are like OIL and WATER- THEY Don't MIX !
Libras need a LOT of Attention and Ego stroking or they become upset and very immature and cynical. I Definitely wouldn't encourage any kind of relationship with one.
I wasn't bruised by anyone.. Way to jump to conclusions like all the caps I know. Stop looking for excuses to behave poorly. And not all libras need that ego shit. In my posts I continuously say "the caps I know". I don't think everyone born at that time is the same. As for your boss.. I'm sorry to hear that, it shows that maturity doesn't come through age or power.
I agree with everything said there. Me and my buds gf don't disagree on everything and I defiantly admire her intelligence and cautious outlook on most subjects. I wasnt trying to say we can't ever get along, infact Ive had some of the greatest laughs i can think of with the caps I've known. They can be very un-inhibited and clever.
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May 30, 2010Comments: 21 · Posts: 741 · Topics: 54
Posted by SrgntLeebz
And to lielaxx.... It's not supposed to touch your soul. It's to show that I can do more work than some forum nerd who thinks he's smart by hating on people through the Internet. You both try way to hard to hurt people... Sooo not Christian, I forgive you both for not only missing my point but forgetting what lifes about. Which is putting others before yourself.
It's never to late to change
lol! i was simply stating the difference between cap n libra...
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Apr 11, 2011Comments: 5 · Posts: 892 · Topics: 25
I swear, I think that people don't even bother reading my posts.
*sigh*
Damn this is some ish.... My relationship is all of this.... I just know that all that I lack he helps. Patience- I dont have and you need a lot of tha to deal with this sign...lol
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Posted by Chocokat
The rock vs. paper relationship the dynamic of my Libra uncle and Cap Aunt's relationship. They love to hate each other and hate to love each other. Such is love in an air/earth relationship. The only air sign I see with Caps are Gems, no bsing...Gems and Caps make a great duo.
I've been curious about Gemini's lately.
Gems are my fav. Super fun ppl
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Posted by Chocokat
The rock vs. paper relationship the dynamic of my Libra uncle and Cap Aunt's relationship. They love to hate each other and hate to love each other. Such is love in an air/earth relationship. The only air sign I see with Caps are Gems, no bsing...Gems and Caps make a great duo.
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You're just playing??
Darn! look at all that soul gone to waist...lol@Chance
Thanks.. I got so much from you all... I cant help it, I love his boring and I mean boring ass....
I noticed that he tests me a lot, but everytime our eyes make four, he is seriously staring harrrrrrd... What the hell is he thinking???
Posted by TheBeautifulStruggle
^ That's pretty funny because in the relationships i've had with capricorns, i had the same experience..dominance, needy, emotionally manipulative, killjoy and insecurity.
I think if both signs were evolved, or the signs had complimentary aspects, it could work out. The relationship has to have some degree of purpose as well, some type of goal to tie the relationship together. If not, it's a battle between egos..where one is incessantly trying to dominate the other whilst undermining each other. it's like the anti-ying-yang dynamic.
Does that make sense?
Perfect Sense.. Thank you LibraI'm a capricorn woman. My man is a libra. We tend to argue over silly topics that has got nothing to do with us. It's kinda funny when I think about it.
I have to be honest with you, my Libra tests me a lot too. And when he keeps testing me, I used to test him back. Now I don't test him anymore. I just let him be. I know he flirts a little, but I usually get compliments from other men here and there, and it drives him crazy. I get jealous of him too, because he's so sexy in my eyes.
Women usually love him because he's very polite with his words. But I think what makes us together is that we both proved to each other that we are loyal and trustworthy. This Libra might be a little bit unreliable, making promises that he wont keep, but will make up for it another day, which is fine with me, probably not fine for another Capricorn. The secret is perseverance, perseverance, perseverance. Whatever happens always go back to each other and ask each other's opinion. Bring down your walls once in awhile. Keep yourself busy, but always remember each other at the end of the day. At certain days, don't call at all. Just send a simple text. I usually just text him "Hi I'm sorry I've been busy the whole day. But as always, thinking about you all the time. Hope your day was good!" Hope this helps!