Cancer and capricorn

This topic was created in the Cancer and Capricorn Compatibility forum by softy on Sunday, January 4, 2009 and has 14 replies.
It could be the same problem than with pisces. Like cappywench said it's promising and passionate in the beginning. Then pisces realizes that he doesn't know what he wants. Maybe the same with cancerians.. I don't know, never had a relationship with any cancer man. But it seems to me that pisces and cancer men have always been very passive with me. That's why I leave them alone. I'd rather have a man who takes ME than a man who waits for me to tie them up and carry them to my cave.. Haha.. smile
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One pisces guy would have been a horny case too. But I told him to stop whining. I want a man who knows what he wants. We Caps can't stand a partner who has dreams but don't do anything to make them true. If I ever take a pisces he has to show me he's a MAN.
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@cappywench: yes, I think a Scorp would take me to his cave and wouldn't wait me to take him to mine.. smile
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cappywench.. Aren't you an Aries rising like me? What's your moon sign?
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Maybe it's your virgo moon-aries rising combo why you don't get along with scorp men.. Just guessing.. smile Who knows it better, please tell it to us. I have cancer moon.. smile To me it seems scorps can get closer to me than any other sign. And as friends they are great too.
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Oh and I just love it! The passion and intensity! smile
Yeah.. Virgo moon can be a romance killer.. lol.. j/k smile And I am so damn romantic, maybe my cancer moon does it for me.. Winking
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Yes, but imagine passion and romance in the same package.. Wow.. That is something.. If I could once more experience that.. smile
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"to me romance isn't candles and flowers, but real respect for someone that I'm also passionate about & for them to feel the same way. So I guess to me real love is romance, but not fluffy, frothy stuff that goes with it."
I don't like too much flowers and candles too. Those are for people with no real emotions. I agree with what you said about respect. That is the base for everything in relationship. To me romance is spending time together, holding hands, looking to each other's eyes, cuddling and showing your love to each other.
I remember many romantic moments I had with someone.. One was in a nice little restaurant when we feed each other, hold hands and just saw each other. We just had our own world there. That is romance for me.. smile
But those moments can't be experienced with everyone.. I only had one so far.
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"That's the problem, it's so fleeting. One minute it's romance and everything is perfect, the next you realise the knight in shining armour has reverted to neanderthal status."
LOL! smile
I had one who didn't become a neanderthal. There were other reasons. Life isn't so simple. But we can learn from all experiences. Some experiences are painful. And some are full of joy.. smile
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i've said it before: i'm not a big fan of the cancer/cap love dynamic. friends-wise, awesome. it's nice to have someone around that wears their everything on a sleeve so you never have to worry about feeling as though you are loosing control over anything. a few cancers have fallen madly in love with me and i thought the whole thing was trite and annoying. they really put their all into relationships which can impede cappy's pursuits otherwise.
i've found that cancers and geminis go well together (imho). gems are perfectly communicative so you don't have to worry about a cappy being distant or cold or whatever even if it has nothing to do with you. although gems can be kind of "heartless" sometimes, they never shut up, so at least it will make a cancer feel more secure than being with a cap. caps need backbone.
it all comes back to the scorpio.
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those damn scorpios.
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haha. thanks.
i don't know...seems to be a lot of folks like me going on around certain boards on here.
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"That's the problem, it's so fleeting. One minute it's romance and everything is perfect, the next you realise the knight in shining armour has reverted to neanderthal status."
LMAO!@neanderthal status..priceless statement
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I agree too with whats being said..cap&cancer...however I think they can be very theraputic to a caps soul if you work with one or are friends with one. They always want to take care of you if someone hurts you or has wronged you. They are there with open arms and love. Unconditional love totally. I have called upon 2 in my life and presently a third I saw this in who I just met few months back. Very compassionate souls they are. Around them I learn to be more open emotionally. Where Im usually more guarded around like other signs.
I dated a Cancer guy in HS years back; a very affectionate and wonderful guy. We were always together, people thought we were great together. yet...I almost felt smothered at one point though. I think their ability at times to sensitive and communicate their feelings emotionally work well to melt the capricorns emotional iceberg we seem to have to verbal affirmations to the one we love at times in the beginning of relations. I felt like he gave me reassurance to trust in him by his expressions of love and feelings for me.
However the other I dated same story, yet I agree, the sulking is a major annoyance. I would just leave and go out and he thought I fell off the earth if I said I needed to go out for a drive and have some alone time when he was like this. He flipped out often and if you dont answer when they call you then...Oooooh boy watch out, MELTDOWN and totally drama act!
My Leo pal dated a Cancer gal...she was sulky and annoyed the bonkers out of him for it with the up's and downs always.
My cap pal is dating on now, they are great together but her too would say, the over-emotional-ness is a bit much for Cappy to be happy I feel long run.
I do feel an almost weird soulmate connection around them. Extreme chemistry...where and how??!! I wanna know!....Very intuitive, however I find it weird since I don't consider us the same beings, like if we were with our Virgo or Taurus counterparts in relating and other caps how we seem to be more similar..


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