Cant get away from Cap girls

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by BoomShakalakaBoom on Monday, January 14, 2013 and has 32 replies.

Damn damn damn
Just came back from a club I frequent on monday nights, was going on my merry way, suddenly this one girl coming my way slips, falls on the floor pretty badly (the floor was wet) she kind of hurt herself a bit, obviously I helped her getting up and "took care of her" for a moment, asked her if she was ok, etc, she said she was fine, then we got into a convo, she said she was about to go home but I insisted in having a drink with her, she accepted, I bought her a drink and then we talked for like half an hour, it seems we felt very comfortable in each other's company, so comfortable that we started making out, then she tells me it was her birthday today LMAO, so yeah thats how I knew she was a Capricorn, then she told me she actually has a boyfriend..whooops!!!!
Im also seeing a Taurus at the moment though we are not exclusive yet so I didnt really cheat. Anyway there was obviously a moment of awkardness after she told me that, I told her Im not looking into destroying relationships so we just agreed to stay cool. She's HAWT though, damn.
TongueTongueTongue more like a helpless flirt, that sometimes gets out of control heh
Dang, she fell like that on her birthday lmao?! I had a big accident the day before mine and had to leave work sick the day of. Our luck smh.
That was sweet of you to help her up and make her comfortable after the embarrasment.
Posted by LoversInLove3
Get away or stay away?


Yeah, both I guess smile either way maybe I just react strongly to the "Cap force"!
Posted by lnana04
Dang, she fell like that on her birthday lmao?! I had a big accident the day before mine and had to leave work sick the day of. Our luck smh.
That was sweet of you to help her up and make her comfortable after the embarrasment.


Hahah yeah cappies are a bit unfortunate at times, arent they?
You know whats funny? After I helped her up and made sure she hadnt hit her head badly or something, I just felt this inexplicable urge of hugging her and kissing her head..and I did, somehow she didnt mind at all :/
Posted by CluelessCancer
What do you find sexxy about Capricorn women? What vibe do they give you that makes you interested in them?


They have a certain magnetic quality that is not totally obvious to everybody, which I can detect and find extremely sexy. Like they radiate a composed and classy sensuality. Its easy for me to talk to them too and if they like you they are not shy in showing genuine interest for you.
Do you think maybe, your strong Leo placements make you want those Capricorn women? smile
Leo energy really loves Saturn energy it seems. Just something I've observed.
I recall Linda Goodman saying something like that too, that Leo NEEDS Saturn. And Saturn Needs the Sun energy.
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Posted by lnana04
Dang, she fell like that on her birthday lmao?! I had a big accident the day before mine and had to leave work sick the day of. Our luck smh.
That was sweet of you to help her up and make her comfortable after the embarrasment.


Hahah yeah cappies are a bit unfortunate at times, arent they?
You know whats funny? After I helped her up and made sure she hadnt hit her head badly or something, I just felt this inexplicable urge of hugging her and kissing her head..and I did, somehow she didnt mind at all :/
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Yes lol.
Aww, thats sweet Shaka and LoL at you hugging and kissing her head....d $ mn! She probably fell in love for a sec. Someone that cared about her that much at that moment AND probably made her forget the fall even happened. Thats pretty priceless.
Stillwater, Shaka is a Virgo. Im confused here lol.
lol! Well you can always start a thread about your Taurus on here. Im sure those who have a little experience wont hesitate to participate in it.
I love reading good things about the compatible signs.
Shaka is making me want to slip and fall in front of a Virgo lol.
Posted by Gandalf
I also love how you refuse to highlight NEED for saturn with respect to sun. yeah okay. That overly proud attitude of saturn is not going to win any respect from me. self reliance and all that bs is not going to fly with us sorry. we are equally proud and powerful with a lot less snobbery.



Ohhhh i forget to highlight that. Big Grin Freudian slip?
awww come on. The rest of the zodiac signs really love you guys secretly. Or hate/love Big Grin
did you get he number?
herrrrrrr
Posted by lisabethur8
Do you think maybe, your strong Leo placements make you want those Capricorn women? smile
Leo energy really loves Saturn energy it seems. Just something I've observed.
I recall Linda Goodman saying something like that too, that Leo NEEDS Saturn. And Saturn Needs the Sun energy.


Astrologically speaking, it is actually quite the oppposite Tongue Leo falls in Capricorn's 8th solar house, which means Capricorns in theory have a strange fascination with Leos or Leo energy for that matter. My attraction to Capricorn women is probably best explained by my Sun, moon and Merc in Virgo, probably also my MC in Cancer (Libra rising) I like to take care of people and Cap girls love to be taken care of Tongue
The attraction that I have with Cap girls is of a different kind than with fire sign girls (which I have a fatal attraction to, especially Sags) usually with fire sign girls, the way I get things started romantically is by doing fun stuff together, Im very impulsive and impatient in love so this goes perfectly with fire signs. When I feel attracted to a Cap girl, everything feels less urgent, though not less strong, the fascination is still pretty consuming because of how unintentionally mysterious Cap girls can appear and still be sexy and genuintely interested at the same time.
Posted by msmarilynmanson
Ah yes shacks, the magnetic pull between a cap and a virgo in a crowded room. Some sort of subconcious connection.


Yup, its like everything else stops for a moment and the only elements in that world are Virguy and Cap girl.
Posted by aquapiscescusp
did you get he number?


haha but of course
Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Posted by lisabethur8
Do you think maybe, your strong Leo placements make you want those Capricorn women? smile
Leo energy really loves Saturn energy it seems. Just something I've observed.
I recall Linda Goodman saying something like that too, that Leo NEEDS Saturn. And Saturn Needs the Sun energy.


Astrologically speaking, it is actually quite the oppposite Tongue Leo falls in Capricorn's 8th solar house, which means Capricorns in theory have a strange fascination with Leos or Leo energy for that matter. My attraction to Capricorn women is probably best explained by my Sun, moon and Merc in Virgo, probably also my MC in Cancer (Libra rising) I like to take care of people and Cap girls love to be taken care of Tongue
The attraction that I have with Cap girls is of a different kind than with fire sign girls (which I have a fatal attraction to, especially Sags) usually with fire sign girls, the way I get things started romantically is by doing fun stuff together, Im very impulsive and impatient in love so this goes perfectly with fire signs. When I feel attracted to a Cap girl, everything feels less urgent, though not less strong, the fascination is still pretty consuming because of how unintentionally mysterious Cap girls can appear and still be sexy and genuintely interested at the same time.

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thanks for that, shaka. I noticed too that my Sag sister, she has strong earth planets, with a scorpio venus. But most of her planets are earth and fire. And her Virgo man is definitely a Leonine type. And my father in law was married to a Capricorn woman. It didnt work out and he ended up with a Gemini woman for a long long time and loves her/vice versa. The thing is, the Gemini woman has strong earth placements and definitely VENUSIAN. I get a strong taurus venusian from her. As my father in law has Scorpio mars /Scorpio venus/scorp merc. So there's alot going on with the trine and opposite energy in the charts that make them "stick" and never boring kind of thing. So interesting. I didnt check out their chinese zodiac signs though. That also helps alot!
Haha thats funny what you mentioned about your Sag sister and her man indeed, my last true all-consuming, super intense relationship (though short-lived) was with a Sag girl a few months ago, she also had Venus in Scorpio, Moon in Pisces and strong Earth influence as well. The sex was absolutely out of this world.
Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Haha thats funny what you mentioned about your Sag sister and her man indeed, my last true all-consuming, super intense relationship (though short-lived) was with a Sag girl a few months ago, she also had Venus in Scorpio, Moon in Pisces and strong Earth influence as well. The sex was absolutely out of this world.


intensity is nice, but it's also nice to have some grounding and equal goals together. smile
sorry that it was short-lived, though. Maybe in the future you'll find eachother again if it was meant to be and you both are not in a relationship. Who knows.
my sister and her virgo have a family together, baby and house and everything. So it got very serious.
i guess it all boils down to, how much do both want to make it work (beyond the initial stages of passion)
We probably would still be together if it wasnt for the long-distance issue Winking Shes from the US, a bit far from Europe yeah Tongue
Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
We probably would still be together if it wasnt for the long-distance issue Winking Shes from the US, a bit far from Europe yeah Tongue


aw too bad she couldnt stay on longer to be with you. And yes that's very far and a very difficult decision for her to make a move if she wanted to stay.
I do feel great about the way things have been going for the past year and a half, as far as not being in a serious/long-term relationship, last one lasted 3 years. All these short affaires with many different girls work out pretty nicely for me right now Tongue Im not closing myself for the opportunity to have something long-lasting with a girl right now, Im just not looking for it. If it happens, it happens smile
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
We probably would still be together if it wasnt for the long-distance issue Winking Shes from the US, a bit far from Europe yeah Tongue


aw too bad she couldnt stay on longer to be with you. And yes that's very far and a very difficult decision for her to make a move if she wanted to stay.
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Yeah, even if we are both pretty wild people, we are still sensible enough to realise there's too many things to consider before making such a big move. The timing wasnt right for that, its ok though, she's happy now and Im happy too smile
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Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
We probably would still be together if it wasnt for the long-distance issue Winking Shes from the US, a bit far from Europe yeah Tongue


aw too bad she couldnt stay on longer to be with you. And yes that's very far and a very difficult decision for her to make a move if she wanted to stay.


Yeah, even if we are both pretty wild people, we are still sensible enough to realise there's too many things to consider before making such a big move. The timing wasnt right for that, its ok though, she's happy now and Im happy too smile
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it's good you are happy, shaka smile
my sister's virgo, he had MANY girls chase after him too. You guys are a hard one to catch. Lol.
What can I say? Tongue You probably know this better than anyone but Virgos with lots of fire are the best breed hehehe (your hubby is also one, no?) but no Im not hard to catch at all. Im NEVER afraid of going all the way with someone if I feel strongly for her, I just romantically speaking, never waste time with someone I dont feel enough chemistry with, all of my significant relationships have started either as one-night stands or just pretty quickly.
Yeah in the end I never seem to attract Earth or water sign men. Mostly air signs and that too Aqua and gemini. Esp. gemini. I do find fire sign guys attractive but they only seem to mildly return my interest. I tried making it work with a scorpio guy but in the end he was a verbally abusive jackass. But gemini men, they seem to chase me. Even when I tell them I'm not interested or don't show much interest, they still chase after me. Eventually I gave in. :/
I met a Sept 8th Virgo at the train station today. He kept asking me for my number, but I dont give my number out to guys...Rule#2 on how to stay single forever...and that was that. I promised him Id see him around.
I notice one thing about us earth signs, we'll focus in on you when interested. I think I made him a little nervous at first, and he definitely started to make me nervous how he was looking at me while asking for my number.
Posted by capgirl75
Why don't you give out your number?



Weird. Ive never given my number to a random person that asked, nor am I a fan of a random person showing interest. It all makes me extremely nervous and a bit uncomfortable. A guy HAS to either go, or pretend to go, the friend route with me first. Its like I have to warm up without initially knowing, or being sure, there's interest there.
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Posted by lnana04
Posted by capgirl75
Why don't you give out your number?



Weird. Ive never given my number to a random person that asked, nor am I a fan of a random person showing interest. It all makes me extremely nervous and a bit uncomfortable. A guy HAS to either go, or pretend to go, the friend route with me first. Its like I have to warm up without initially knowing, or being sure, there's interest there.



Well, it sounds like you have an issue there. One should always be open to possibilities, in order to increase the chances of any success. You're limiting yourself to guys pretending to be your friend, for the sake of your own insecurities. Don't you realise how self-defeating your statement sounds? If you're attracted to a man, quit making them jump through hoops before you've even started conveying that you're interested in them.
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An issue? There's a ton of issues, I wont lie. Ive been single forever though...so its all I know. Ive never desired a full relationship(only small parts), and I still dont, and if I do happen to enter one in the future I want to feel complete, which is currently not how I feel. Way too many other things I need to focus my energy on. Dating is currently number #249 on my priority list of #250.
I understand Inana, though remember that life is what happens while we are busy making plans. You said you dont desire a full relationship, but Im sure you do desire love and romance, maybe it is the denying yourself of these things which prevents you from feeling complete?
Blocking ourselves from our natural desires causes suffering.

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