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Jul 17, 2018Comments: 1 · Posts: 117 · Topics: 14
I had no idea how crazy a cap girl can become when jealous. Me and this Cap girl share a baby's father who happens to be a Cap as well. Her child is older then mine by a few months. When I met Cap guy he had told me him and Cap girl were not together anymore and that they were expecting a baby together but he wasn't sure if it was his cause he found texts on cap girl's phone where cap girl and her ex were planning on having a baby together and how he wanted to do a DNA. It was a long distance relationship with me and Cap guy and they live in the same neighborhood, went to the same high school, but she now worked a bit far away from home. So in my mind I'm thinking the baby might not be his.. I'm well aware of how women use babies to control men as I had been in a similar situation where I got cheated on by my ex boyfriend and he got the girl pregnant, after forgiving him and continuing with the relationship he left me after the baby was born for his baby mama. So I was very sad to find out that again I was possibly gonna find myself in a similar situation... however a few months later I found out I was expecting Cap guy's baby and was happy cause I loved him and I wanted a baby, just hadn't found the right guy to procreate with before. I later found out Cap guy had been cheating on both me and cap girl with each other.. Cap girl gave birth to a boy and Cap guy said he was sure it was his and ghosted me while I was preggos and reappeared and disappeared throughout my pregnancy. Cap girl and Cap guy played happy family and Cap guy wasn't in the picture for the first 9 months of my baby's life. I was devastated as I was really inlove with the guy which is why I was even willing to bear his child. After 9 months he came back told me he was sorry for messing up and that he really wanted to be in mine and my baby's life and that Cap girl didn't want him in my baby's life and that's one of the reasons they didn't work out... cause Cap girl wasn't willing to accept the child he has with me. Cap girl told him should he be in my child's life she would move far away with his son so that he would never see him, He told me how she disrespected his mother and threatened his sisters cause the baby was visiting at his house and she felt like they were taking her son from her.. she worked far away and the baby was staying with her mother. After I let him prove himself for sometime I decided to give us a chance . Next thing I know I get voicenotes from cap girl saying I should stay away from her man, using his phone to text me and sending voicenotes screaming and cursing at me like a crazy person. me and cap guy had been planning for me and the baby to come over to his place and spend new years with him.. Cap guy booked sent money to book flight for me and baby to come so he could see her and we could meet his family and so that we could be together and spend some time and everything was set. while they were together at some event cap girl saw the texts.. then threatened me and said if I set my foot there she will kill me and that her baby is cap guy's favorite and that she and cap guy are still together and that I was nothing but a one night stand and cap guy never loved me. I told her to tell Cap guy to call me and confirm what she was saying.. she made him send me a voicenote saying he was choosing her over me and that he wanted to be with her... She was acting really crazy. Cap guy is obviously a coward and is afraid of her and to be quite honest I don't know how to handle this whole situation. Cap guy has moon in Gemini and Venus in Pisces. Cap girl has moon in Leo and Venus in Scorpio, I'm a libra and have moon in Capricorn and Venus in ScorpIO. Can someone shed some light regarding this crazy situation.
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Jun 19, 2014Comments: 161 · Posts: 1869 · Topics: 31
This is an essay can you summarize this?
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Feb 08, 2015Comments: 88 · Posts: 2780 · Topics: 55
My advice would be to cherish these precious moments with your little one and make sure you get child support money from him. Just focus on your child. Good luck
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Aug 20, 2018Comments: 3863 · Posts: 2108 · Topics: 3
That man is trash and you are stupid for bringing a child into this world without a decent and stable father who wants to stand by you without all that drama. Stop being naïve and grow up - that child needs you. But not him, find a good man that wants to be with you and marry and raise a family with you and your present child.
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Oct 21, 2015Comments: 11066 · Posts: 36034 · Topics: 110
Her baby is a few months older than yours. Do the math...
He was fucking her at the same time he was fucking you.
Everything he put in your head about how evil and horrible she is is just lies. She’s just a mother fighting to get the father to step up and be a man.
Honestly the both of you should come together and drag his ass to court for child support.
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Jan 12, 2018Comments: 72 · Posts: 468 · Topics: 15
First of all she didn’t “make” him send you a voice note. No one can make a Cap do anything, unless we want to.
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Oct 14, 2015Comments: 826 · Posts: 2348 · Topics: 15
OP, I am not sure the Cap girl is crazy or jealous
he told her you were a one night stand and you got pregnant and that you are harassing him and chasing him
he is a liar you know first hand
so when the Cap girl had seen the texts that you are coming for a visit she obviously went berserk that you dont leave him alone, based on his evident lies
get him pay child support and maybe have a get together with the Cap girl and clear the air
but she will still believe him over you, its clear
they know each other for a long time since college, they live in the same place..... no brainer he chooses her
it seems they both cheated on each other, but they are trying to mend things..... she has him under her spell evidently
get child support
PS. It once happened to my work-collegue, the other girl wrote her abuse to let her man be.... she was stunned because she tought they broke up and that she is crazy..... I suggested to my collegue to meet up with her..... so both girls were fed the exact same thing about the other (he telling both of them the same: she is harassing me, she wants me, she woudnt leave me alone....)
I am really sorry this happened to you
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Jul 17, 2018Comments: 1 · Posts: 117 · Topics: 14
Thanks everyone for your 2 cents on this situation...
For the sake of my daughter I shall remove myself from this toxic situation. This morning I saw a quote that said "when it seems like life is taking something from you it's actually giving you something... A possibility".. I felt this in my soul and it made me feel a whole lot better.