Cap baby mama drama

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by ubuntu888 on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 and has 22 replies.
I had no idea how crazy a cap girl can become when jealous. Me and this Cap girl share a baby's father who happens to be a Cap as well. Her child is older then mine by a few months. When I met Cap guy he had told me him and Cap girl were not together anymore and that they were expecting a baby together but he wasn't sure if it was his cause he found texts on cap girl's phone where cap girl and her ex were planning on having a baby together and how he wanted to do a DNA. It was a long distance relationship with me and Cap guy and they live in the same neighborhood, went to the same high school, but she now worked a bit far away from home. So in my mind I'm thinking the baby might not be his.. I'm well aware of how women use babies to control men as I had been in a similar situation where I got cheated on by my ex boyfriend and he got the girl pregnant, after forgiving him and continuing with the relationship he left me after the baby was born for his baby mama. So I was very sad to find out that again I was possibly gonna find myself in a similar situation... however a few months later I found out I was expecting Cap guy's baby and was happy cause I loved him and I wanted a baby, just hadn't found the right guy to procreate with before. I later found out Cap guy had been cheating on both me and cap girl with each other.. Cap girl gave birth to a boy and Cap guy said he was sure it was his and ghosted me while I was preggos and reappeared and disappeared throughout my pregnancy. Cap girl and Cap guy played happy family and Cap guy wasn't in the picture for the first 9 months of my baby's life. I was devastated as I was really inlove with the guy which is why I was even willing to bear his child. After 9 months he came back told me he was sorry for messing up and that he really wanted to be in mine and my baby's life and that Cap girl didn't want him in my baby's life and that's one of the reasons they didn't work out... cause Cap girl wasn't willing to accept the child he has with me. Cap girl told him should he be in my child's life she would move far away with his son so that he would never see him, He told me how she disrespected his mother and threatened his sisters cause the baby was visiting at his house and she felt like they were taking her son from her.. she worked far away and the baby was staying with her mother. After I let him prove himself for sometime I decided to give us a chance . Next thing I know I get voicenotes from cap girl saying I should stay away from her man, using his phone to text me and sending voicenotes screaming and cursing at me like a crazy person. me and cap guy had been planning for me and the baby to come over to his place and spend new years with him.. Cap guy booked sent money to book flight for me and baby to come so he could see her and we could meet his family and so that we could be together and spend some time and everything was set. while they were together at some event cap girl saw the texts.. then threatened me and said if I set my foot there she will kill me and that her baby is cap guy's favorite and that she and cap guy are still together and that I was nothing but a one night stand and cap guy never loved me. I told her to tell Cap guy to call me and confirm what she was saying.. she made him send me a voicenote saying he was choosing her over me and that he wanted to be with her... She was acting really crazy. Cap guy is obviously a coward and is afraid of her and to be quite honest I don't know how to handle this whole situation. Cap guy has moon in Gemini and Venus in Pisces. Cap girl has moon in Leo and Venus in Scorpio, I'm a libra and have moon in Capricorn and Venus in ScorpIO. Can someone shed some light regarding this crazy situation.
This is an essay can you summarize this?
My advice would be to cherish these precious moments with your little one and make sure you get child support money from him. Just focus on your child. Good luck
Posted by AquaNextDoor

My advice would be to cherish these precious moments with your little one and make sure you get child support money from him. Just focus on your child. Good luck
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Hug cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
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Posted by rejuvenatedheart

That Cap cunt's placements explain how insane she is, lmao. Short answer though, is that your baby daddy needs to be more assertive and stand his ground with both of you, but especially the Cap girl. She sounds legit insane.

This is just so retarded. The HeThot is looked at like he's perfectly fine cause Thots will just point the finger at another Thot.

I can't make this shit up yo.
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HeThot? Yes, God bless you. *adding new word to vocabulary*... it's so perfect.
Posted by EvatheDiva52

Posted by AquaNextDoor

My advice would be to cherish these precious moments with your little one and make sure you get child support money from him. Just focus on your child. Good luck
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Hug cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
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Haha you are the sweetest 😂😍
That man is trash and you are stupid for bringing a child into this world without a decent and stable father who wants to stand by you without all that drama. Stop being naïve and grow up - that child needs you. But not him, find a good man that wants to be with you and marry and raise a family with you and your present child.
Posted by elllle

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That man is trash and you are stupid for bringing a child into this world without a decent and stable father who wants to stand by you without all that drama. Stop being naïve and grow up - that child needs you. But not him, find a good man that wants to be with you and marry and raise a family with you and your present child.
This ^^^

Why women think men like this are some kind of prize.....it hurts my brain.
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the struggle is real
Her baby is a few months older than yours. Do the math...

He was fucking her at the same time he was fucking you.

Everything he put in your head about how evil and horrible she is is just lies. She’s just a mother fighting to get the father to step up and be a man.

Honestly the both of you should come together and drag his ass to court for child support.
Posted by Ellygant

You’re getting snowed. Focusing on how crazy the cap woman is and not putting any blame on the man.

She’s not stable for sure. But neither is he, since he cheats every chance he gets no matter who he is with. Given the timeline you laid out, it’s sounds as if he ran to you when she pushed him away. Then he ditches you multiple times without reason or responsibility to indulge with the other woman. She is unstable. He is unstable. And now you’re hitching your wagon to the both of them.

If you continue to pursue a relationship under these circumstance, you’ll be just as unstable as her given a little time. She’s you, just after having dealt with his fuckery longer. Worst of all, you’re child will come to believe that lies, cheating, isolation and toxic behaviors are normal and the way people express their love if you continue down this road.

Love is a mighty thing. I can empathize with loving someone who is no good for your life. It’ll drain away your soul and damage everyone around you tho if you accept drama into your life. Leave both the man and his other woman behind, save your heart and your child before it’s too late and the damage is done.
yes this - first sign of trouble was the question as to whether or not that baby was his - who the hell cares - that is just WAY too much DRAMA girl and you all up in the Koolaid - get straight and be right !
Posted by ubuntu888

Cap guy booked sent money to book flight for me and baby to come so he could see her and we could meet his family and so that we could be together and spend some time and everything was set. while they were together at some event cap girl saw the texts.. then threatened me and said if I set my foot there she will kill me and that her baby is cap guy's favorite and that she and cap guy are still together and that I was nothing but a one night stand and cap guy never loved me.

I told her to tell Cap guy to call me and confirm what she was saying.. she made him send me a voicenote saying he was choosing her over me and that he wanted to be with her...
Oh sweetie....

You do realize that she didn't pull that out of thin air. Those are the lies he's been telling her about you.

Just like the lies he's been telling you that they aren't together when they obviously are. He said that so you'd spread your legs and it worked like a charm.

He is playing you both.
First of all she didn’t “make” him send you a voice note. No one can make a Cap do anything, unless we want to.
Posted by rejuvenatedheart

That Cap cunt's placements explain how insane she is, lmao. Short answer though, is that your baby daddy needs to be more assertive and stand his ground with both of you, but especially the Cap girl. She sounds legit insane.
What Cap placements, would you be referring to?
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Posted by NostalgicCappyy

Posted by rejuvenatedheart

That Cap cunt's placements explain how insane she is, lmao. Short answer though, is that your baby daddy needs to be more assertive and stand his ground with both of you, but especially the Cap girl. She sounds legit insane.
What Cap placements, would you be referring to?
I said "The Cap cunt's placements," not "her Cap placements." Her Leo Moon and Scorp Venus.
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Yeah, I know what you said. I’m a Cap with a Leo Moon, and nothing like that. Get your facts straight, before you start saying things, that you have no idea what you’re talking about.

Thanks
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Posted by rejuvenatedheart

Posted by NostalgicCappyy

Posted by rejuvenatedheart

That Cap cunt's placements explain how insane she is, lmao. Short answer though, is that your baby daddy needs to be more assertive and stand his ground with both of you, but especially the Cap girl. She sounds legit insane.
What Cap placements, would you be referring to?
I said "The Cap cunt's placements," not "her Cap placements." Her Leo Moon and Scorp Venus.



Yeah, I know what you said. I’m a Cap with a Leo Moon, and nothing like that. Get your facts straight, before you start saying things, that you have no idea what you’re talking about.

Thanks
Generalizations aren't personal attacks on you.
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Yeah, that’s true. I don’t know why I got upset, I don’t even care about your opinion anyway.
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Posted by MacDaddyInfinite

Posted by rejuvenatedheart

That Cap cunt's placements explain how insane she is, lmao. Short answer though, is that your baby daddy needs to be more assertive and stand his ground with both of you, but especially the Cap girl. She sounds legit insane.

This is just so retarded. The HeThot is looked at like he's perfectly fine cause Thots will just point the finger at another Thot.

I can't make this shit up yo.
HeThot? Yes, God bless you. *adding new word to vocabulary*... it's so perfect.
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Right? Who is this retard @MacDaddyInfinite and where did he come from? Do you know? Anyone?

He count fucks!!! Moron...
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Posted by stillstillwater

Posted by MacDaddyInfinite

Posted by rejuvenatedheart

That Cap cunt's placements explain how insane she is, lmao. Short answer though, is that your baby daddy needs to be more assertive and stand his ground with both of you, but especially the Cap girl. She sounds legit insane.

This is just so retarded. The HeThot is looked at like he's perfectly fine cause Thots will just point the finger at another Thot.

I can't make this shit up yo.
HeThot? Yes, God bless you. *adding new word to vocabulary*... it's so perfect.
Right? Who is this retard @MacDaddyInfinite and where did he come from? Do you know? Anyone?

He count fucks!!! Moron...
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na i actually like HeThot because there are always quick names for promiscuous or out of the societal norm for women but hardly ever for men...so i like HeThot referring to men who just go around banging without responsibility of wearing a condom and have 10 kids with 10 different women. Worse are the men who openly lie about that stuff.
OP, I am not sure the Cap girl is crazy or jealous

he told her you were a one night stand and you got pregnant and that you are harassing him and chasing him

he is a liar you know first hand

so when the Cap girl had seen the texts that you are coming for a visit she obviously went berserk that you dont leave him alone, based on his evident lies

get him pay child support and maybe have a get together with the Cap girl and clear the air

but she will still believe him over you, its clear

they know each other for a long time since college, they live in the same place..... no brainer he chooses her

it seems they both cheated on each other, but they are trying to mend things..... she has him under her spell evidently

get child support

PS. It once happened to my work-collegue, the other girl wrote her abuse to let her man be.... she was stunned because she tought they broke up and that she is crazy..... I suggested to my collegue to meet up with her..... so both girls were fed the exact same thing about the other (he telling both of them the same: she is harassing me, she wants me, she woudnt leave me alone....)

I am really sorry this happened to you

Posted by UnusualVaginalDischarge

You need to move on, a cowardly male is not worth dealing with a crazy lady. You tell him if he wants to be in your babies life he has to be there for the child consistently and that you two are done and that you’re not dealing with the crazy lady, she might be dangerous
Bt...she...lvs...him...DONT YOU GET IT? Neither am I...bt...😭😭😭
Thanks everyone for your 2 cents on this situation...

For the sake of my daughter I shall remove myself from this toxic situation. This morning I saw a quote that said "when it seems like life is taking something from you it's actually giving you something... A possibility".. I felt this in my soul and it made me feel a whole lot better.