Cap confession
This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by taurus36 on Wednesday, April 12, 2006 and has 5 replies.
After dating Caps for a long period of time. I thought I knew them. Man, they can come out of nowhere with there emotions. One minute they are cold and the next they are all in your face and wanting to be huggy kissy.
My Cap works 2 full time jobs, so time with him is limited. But get this, I asked him is it true that Cap men love you more when they are away from you. He said YES! I was like what? He said that he doesn't understand it but he has always been that way in his relationships and he loves to fantisize about the next time he will see me. Scarey cat! He did also admit that because of his last relationship, he's a little afraid to take the plunge. That's cool. He said he was really possessive and so was she. He is possessive.
He also likes it when I scold him or boss him around. Don't ask me why. PLEASE initiate the sex. They love it! Caps won't initiate much of anything unless it's about them and we all know that Cap men are all about SELF!
I cook for my Cap a lot and it was getting expensive, so I told him "Look, if I am going to cook, you have to contribute to the fund" He had no problem with it and now gives me money on a weekly basis to buy food. Sometimes I think we as women are afraid if we stand up to them because we think they will run away, oh they will run away, but only to think about what was said and then act as though nothing has ever happened. I've learned you only have to tell a Cap man something one time. He will remember it.
Caps hurt with there actions. But when they are not with you, they are ALWAYS thinking about you. ALWAYS. They are always thinking of ways to make you happy, even in the very smallest of ways.
My Cap and I are going to SoBe next month for my B-day. GREAT ACCOMPLISHMENT! I actually got the man who said he would NEVER go out of town with another woman, to swallow his words and go with me. LOL!!!!!! And he offered to pay for it LOL!!!
Lastly, Cap men ARE SLOOOWWWWW to make decisions. So be patient, they are going to take you through the ringer emotionally, just to see how much you are dedicated to them and the relationship. I'm sure you all know this by now HAAA!!
I am not out of the woods yet and probably won't be for awhile. But hey, I'm taking what I can get, great sex, a free trip, a little companionship, flowers every few weeks and a few laughs LOL! What the heck!
Take care everybody!
My Cap works 2 full time jobs, so time with him is limited. But get this, I asked him is it true that Cap men love you more when they are away from you. He said YES! I was like what? He said that he doesn't understand it but he has always been that way in his relationships and he loves to fantisize about the next time he will see me. Scarey cat! He did also admit that because of his last relationship, he's a little afraid to take the plunge. That's cool. He said he was really possessive and so was she. He is possessive.
He also likes it when I scold him or boss him around. Don't ask me why. PLEASE initiate the sex. They love it! Caps won't initiate much of anything unless it's about them and we all know that Cap men are all about SELF!
I cook for my Cap a lot and it was getting expensive, so I told him "Look, if I am going to cook, you have to contribute to the fund" He had no problem with it and now gives me money on a weekly basis to buy food. Sometimes I think we as women are afraid if we stand up to them because we think they will run away, oh they will run away, but only to think about what was said and then act as though nothing has ever happened. I've learned you only have to tell a Cap man something one time. He will remember it.
Caps hurt with there actions. But when they are not with you, they are ALWAYS thinking about you. ALWAYS. They are always thinking of ways to make you happy, even in the very smallest of ways.
My Cap and I are going to SoBe next month for my B-day. GREAT ACCOMPLISHMENT! I actually got the man who said he would NEVER go out of town with another woman, to swallow his words and go with me. LOL!!!!!! And he offered to pay for it LOL!!!
Lastly, Cap men ARE SLOOOWWWWW to make decisions. So be patient, they are going to take you through the ringer emotionally, just to see how much you are dedicated to them and the relationship. I'm sure you all know this by now HAAA!!
I am not out of the woods yet and probably won't be for awhile. But hey, I'm taking what I can get, great sex, a free trip, a little companionship, flowers every few weeks and a few laughs LOL! What the heck!
Take care everybody!
Way to go..me liking your style ..
You must be an angel! Thank you so much for this post.........and please come back 
Remember with a cap man its always . If you cant lov the one you lov, lov the one your with.
You got it!
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