cap females recieving flowers?

Not yet dating, still courting. Dunno what shes thinking lately, shes been so detached. Just want to remind her I'm still thinking about her.

She's the shy conservative cap type of female.

Yes or no? Thinking bout sending her fave color this memorial day.

I'm not sure what to write tho on the note suggestions? Pisces in me is telling me to leave it blank so its more romantic and mysterious lmao.

Posted by cheekyfaerie
Yeah... I'm shite with words. Sorry. 😢

Butter or better? Hohoho.

Flowers are awesome! Especially if you can show them off to your coworkers!

Try writing:

"thinking of you"
or
"For you, something to brighten your day"
or
"I wanted to brighten your day like you brighten mine"
or
refer to something she said like about her favorite color, a short memory that goes with the flower, etc. Something personal.

Flowers out of the blue are GREAT. Flowers for a reason (e.g., Valentine's day) not so great in my book. YES, surprise her 🙂

REally, a plant that will last is a much more efficient way to spend the money and it's something she can keep forever. But, it's just not very romantic. So send the cut flowers!

I'd prefer a little potted plant since it lasts much longer. Plus, every time she takes care of the plant (e.g. waters it, prunes it, etc.) she probably start thinking about you! 🙂

I'm thinking about sending a huge big teddy bear instead. a 40 inch one. too much? I feel that the flowers will just wither away eventually... and she's not the planting type.

do you guys think it's too much... -,-;;

Teddy bears are super cute, but what is she going to do with a bear that size? She might not have anywhere to put it and over time it'll start collecting dust. A smaller bear is less likely to become an inconvenience.

Posted by CapintheHat
Teddy bears are super cute, but what is she going to do with a bear that size? She might not have anywhere to put it and over time it'll start collecting dust. A smaller bear is less likely to become an inconvenience.

Hump it while thinking of him? 😛
(sorry, couldn't resist)

Posted by Metoo
Basically don't EVER stop yourself from a genuine heartfelt gesture and don't second guess it, because if a girl gets scared off by that or doesn't appreciate it then this isn't the girl for you anyways. If whatever you want to say or do is genuine do it regardless of what she may think and if she is gonna run let her run cause it seems a shame not to express yourself to her the exact way you want to for fear of how it might come off. Be 100% u. Caps see candidness and honesty as a sign we can trust you more. We love that.

Thanks for all the advice, especially this one! 🙂