daisy57
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Posted by rmactavish
Why you gotta make loners like me jealous? 🙄



Posted by rmactavish
Why you gotta make loners like me jealous? 🙄


Posted by LadyLuna19
Honestly, caps keep to themselves and never really want you to see their hardship or get to know you unless there's a benefit. So the fact he wants to talk and express freely is rather warm hearted. Why analyze something simple unless you want something more?
Posted by UnwordingPosted by daisy57
Hi,
Would anyone like to answer my query. I am trying to know why would a Capricorn guy crave to talk to you everyday?
He told me I am a great conversationalist (Taurus girl here) but he likes to keep up the conversation, be it not talking about anything particular.
He simply likes talking to me. We don't flirt/love each other. But he sometimes would text wassup late night and we talk for hours talking about general stuff - this happened or that, what you/I feel about certain world affairs. It's never romantic. And I have no problem with that.
Sometimes if I am bummed about something, he tries to cheer me up and vice versa. I really see him as my good friend who cares for me in depth. But there has not been a time that we stop talking even for a day. If he has nothing to say he will send an emoji and we will resume talking and it goes for weeks.
Sometimes he likes to share his personal life, which I feel he does with people he trusts. He is a reserved person but I am all goofy. But its crazy how I have someone who wants to talk to me everyday even if there is nothing to talk about 🙂
Thanks.
You answered your own question.click to expand

Posted by truecap
I don’t really understand the point of the question.
Are you trying to figure out if he likes you more than a friend? Or are you complaining that someone is your friend and wants to talk to you?
Just feels like there is an underlying reason for this post.
Posted by TxOgal
what's his mercury?
getting to know a cap man, he wants to talk alot .. but it is because we are getting to know eachother and its like his goal now to get to know me and me him .. I'm a taurus too
Posted by LadyLuna19
Honestly, caps keep to themselves and never really want you to see their hardship or get to know you unless there's a benefit. So the fact he wants to talk and express freely is rather warm hearted. Why analyze something simple unless you want something more?
Posted by truecap
As to him getting mad.....did you ask his opinion and advice, then not take it?
Posted by starlordPosted by LadyLuna19
Honestly, caps keep to themselves and never really want you to see their hardship or get to know you unless there's a benefit. So the fact he wants to talk and express freely is rather warm hearted. Why analyze something simple unless you want something more?
Really agree to the "unless there is a benefit".
Maybe she is wondering what benefit he is getting out of all of this and talking every day, because it is not clear to her🤷🏼♀️click to expand
Posted by daisy57Posted by starlordPosted by LadyLuna19
Honestly, caps keep to themselves and never really want you to see their hardship or get to know you unless there's a benefit. So the fact he wants to talk and express freely is rather warm hearted. Why analyze something simple unless you want something more?
Really agree to the "unless there is a benefit".
Maybe she is wondering what benefit he is getting out of all of this and talking every day, because it is not clear to her🤷🏼♀️
Maybe. How would you react when you know he is at the airport with his friends flying for a vacation but instead of hanging out there, he is opting to text me? I told him I am busy, stopped replying and asked him to enjoy his time off with his friends but I felt his obsession. We had an argument. I do not want him to be obsessed to talk to me.click to expand
Posted by sweetpea2977
There are multiple ways we can stimulate one another, no matter the type of relationship.
In this particular FRIENDship, you've stimulated him intellectually.
I have multiple friends but there is only one whom I could talk with EVERY 👏 damn 👏 DAY. It's more than great-convo. He's like the best friend I've always subconsciously desired because even his LISTENING skills are beautiful and calming.
Just enjoy what you have together 🙂
Posted by LadyNeptune
Is he long distance?
If he lives far away could be he’s keeping things platonic because your not in the same place.
Or he’s a catfish wasting your time.
How did you meet him? And have you met face to face?
Posted by PurplePassion38Posted by daisy57Posted by starlordPosted by LadyLuna19
Honestly, caps keep to themselves and never really want you to see their hardship or get to know you unless there's a benefit. So the fact he wants to talk and express freely is rather warm hearted. Why analyze something simple unless you want something more?
Really agree to the "unless there is a benefit".
Maybe she is wondering what benefit he is getting out of all of this and talking every day, because it is not clear to her🤷🏼♀️
Maybe. How would you react when you know he is at the airport with his friends flying for a vacation but instead of hanging out there, he is opting to text me? I told him I am busy, stopped replying and asked him to enjoy his time off with his friends but I felt his obsession. We had an argument. I do not want him to be obsessed to talk to me.
He's into you. Are you interested in more than friendship with him?click to expand
Posted by starlordPosted by daisy57Posted by starlordPosted by LadyLuna19
Honestly, caps keep to themselves and never really want you to see their hardship or get to know you unless there's a benefit. So the fact he wants to talk and express freely is rather warm hearted. Why analyze something simple unless you want something more?
Really agree to the "unless there is a benefit".
Maybe she is wondering what benefit he is getting out of all of this and talking every day, because it is not clear to her🤷🏼♀️
Maybe. How would you react when you know he is at the airport with his friends flying for a vacation but instead of hanging out there, he is opting to text me? I told him I am busy, stopped replying and asked him to enjoy his time off with his friends but I felt his obsession. We had an argument. I do not want him to be obsessed to talk to me.
Oh no, is that the way you fear it is going?
What did he say to that?click to expand
Posted by daisy57Posted by sweetpea2977
There are multiple ways we can stimulate one another, no matter the type of relationship.
In this particular FRIENDship, you've stimulated him intellectually.
I have multiple friends but there is only one whom I could talk with EVERY 👏 damn 👏 DAY. It's more than great-convo. He's like the best friend I've always subconsciously desired because even his LISTENING skills are beautiful and calming.
Just enjoy what you have together 🙂
That's amazing to have intellectual conversations with someone and find a friend who can also give logical reasons.
I like his brain but I am not attracted to him, his body or his life.
My manager(a Scorpio) also mentioned that he enjoys having conversations with me but there is nothing more than that. I want to have similar rapport with my Capricorn friend.
Is your everyday-conversation friend a Capricorn? 🙂click to expand
Posted by sweetpea2977Posted by daisy57Posted by sweetpea2977
There are multiple ways we can stimulate one another, no matter the type of relationship.
In this particular FRIENDship, you've stimulated him intellectually.
I have multiple friends but there is only one whom I could talk with EVERY 👏 damn 👏 DAY. It's more than great-convo. He's like the best friend I've always subconsciously desired because even his LISTENING skills are beautiful and calming.
Just enjoy what you have together 🙂
That's amazing to have intellectual conversations with someone and find a friend who can also give logical reasons.
I like his brain but I am not attracted to him, his body or his life.
My manager(a Scorpio) also mentioned that he enjoys having conversations with me but there is nothing more than that. I want to have similar rapport with my Capricorn friend.
Is your everyday-conversation friend a Capricorn? 🙂
He's an Aquarius. Crazy thing is, I'm not physically attracted to him either. He's definitely NOT my type. But yes, I truly enjoy the range of dialogue I can share with him.click to expand
Posted by PurplePassion38Posted by daisy57Posted by PurplePassion38Posted by daisy57Posted by starlordPosted by LadyLuna19
Honestly, caps keep to themselves and never really want you to see their hardship or get to know you unless there's a benefit. So the fact he wants to talk and express freely is rather warm hearted. Why analyze something simple unless you want something more?
Really agree to the "unless there is a benefit".
Maybe she is wondering what benefit he is getting out of all of this and talking every day, because it is not clear to her🤷🏼♀️
Maybe. How would you react when you know he is at the airport with his friends flying for a vacation but instead of hanging out there, he is opting to text me? I told him I am busy, stopped replying and asked him to enjoy his time off with his friends but I felt his obsession. We had an argument. I do not want him to be obsessed to talk to me.
He's into you. Are you interested in more than friendship with him?
No 😢 I do not want to hurt him
Sounds like you're afraid to let him in. Does he know that you don't want anything more than friendship? I feel like he's trying to take it slow, hoping for more. You might need to be direct.click to expand
Posted by daisy57Posted by sweetpea2977Posted by daisy57Posted by sweetpea2977
There are multiple ways we can stimulate one another, no matter the type of relationship.
In this particular FRIENDship, you've stimulated him intellectually.
I have multiple friends but there is only one whom I could talk with EVERY 👏 damn 👏 DAY. It's more than great-convo. He's like the best friend I've always subconsciously desired because even his LISTENING skills are beautiful and calming.
Just enjoy what you have together 🙂
That's amazing to have intellectual conversations with someone and find a friend who can also give logical reasons.
I like his brain but I am not attracted to him, his body or his life.
My manager(a Scorpio) also mentioned that he enjoys having conversations with me but there is nothing more than that. I want to have similar rapport with my Capricorn friend.
Is your everyday-conversation friend a Capricorn? 🙂
He's an Aquarius. Crazy thing is, I'm not physically attracted to him either. He's definitely NOT my type. But yes, I truly enjoy the range of dialogue I can share with him.
Are we sapiosexual?click to expand

Posted by daisy57Posted by TxOgal
what's his mercury?
getting to know a cap man, he wants to talk alot .. but it is because we are getting to know eachother and its like his goal now to get to know me and me him .. I'm a taurus too
I do not know anything else except his birth date. 8 January. Does your Capricorn also talks a lot?
We have met few times and it was mostly talking but over texts/IMs he is on. He has started to visit me in my dreams (non-romantic) and I mentioned that to him jokingly and he got really interested in knowing what dream I see.
I was not sure if I should talk to him yesterday(Valentine's Day vibes) but he texted me early morning, talking casual. And he asked me what gift I would like to have, for my birthday (which is in May!!)click to expand

Posted by daisy57Posted by truecap
I don’t really understand the point of the question.
Are you trying to figure out if he likes you more than a friend? Or are you complaining that someone is your friend and wants to talk to you?
Just feels like there is an underlying reason for this post.
I know how Capricorns are reserved people. And he is a reserved person, he told me how less he talks and he hardly meets anyone. With me its a mix, he wants to talk, never end the conversation. I do not have interest in him romantically. I like him as a friend. I am not complaining anything, just mentioning how I am getting in his consciousness. I am seeing a different side of him from what internet says. A lot of times he is goofy, sarcastic and loves my witty responses.click to expand

Posted by daisy57Posted by truecap
As to him getting mad.....did you ask his opinion and advice, then not take it?
I guess, yes. Someone sexually assaulted me in the past and I mentioned it to him to which he suggested me to go to a therapist and I directly said No to him.click to expand

Posted by daisy57Posted by truecap
As to him getting mad.....did you ask his opinion and advice, then not take it?
I guess, yes. Someone sexually assaulted me in the past and I mentioned it to him to which he suggested me to go to a therapist and I directly said No to him.click to expand

Posted by Capricorn91
Are you a late Taurus(cusper)? I am Jan 8 too and I love talking to my Taurus sister (mostly listening as she talks a lot lol) a lot, she is May 17. But I have a Taurus friend who is very quiet and with her it is difficult to talk to since I am the one doing most of the talking.
Posted by xoxflutePosted by daisy57Posted by PurplePassion38Posted by daisy57Posted by starlordPosted by LadyLuna19
Honestly, caps keep to themselves and never really want you to see their hardship or get to know you unless there's a benefit. So the fact he wants to talk and express freely is rather warm hearted. Why analyze something simple unless you want something more?
Really agree to the "unless there is a benefit".
Maybe she is wondering what benefit he is getting out of all of this and talking every day, because it is not clear to her🤷🏼♀️
Maybe. How would you react when you know he is at the airport with his friends flying for a vacation but instead of hanging out there, he is opting to text me? I told him I am busy, stopped replying and asked him to enjoy his time off with his friends but I felt his obsession. We had an argument. I do not want him to be obsessed to talk to me.
He's into you. Are you interested in more than friendship with him?
No 😢 I do not want to hurt him
If he's into you, there's no way you can go about this without hurting him. If it is the case, the most effect way with the least amount of damage would be to just tell him, should the situation warrant such.
But he has not done anything that explicitly shows that, aside from wanting to talk to you everyday. So I would just keep going as you were, until he does something otherwise.
IMOclick to expand

Posted by Capricorn91
Are you a late Taurus(cusper)? I am Jan 8 too and I love talking to my Taurus sister (mostly listening as she talks a lot lol) a lot, she is May 17. But I have a Taurus friend who is very quiet and with her it is difficult to talk to since I am the one doing most of the talking.
Posted by xoxflutePosted by daisy57Posted by xoxflutePosted by daisy57Posted by PurplePassion38Posted by daisy57Posted by starlordPosted by LadyLuna19
Honestly, caps keep to themselves and never really want you to see their hardship or get to know you unless there's a benefit. So the fact he wants to talk and express freely is rather warm hearted. Why analyze something simple unless you want something more?
Really agree to the "unless there is a benefit".
Maybe she is wondering what benefit he is getting out of all of this and talking every day, because it is not clear to her🤷🏼♀️
Maybe. How would you react when you know he is at the airport with his friends flying for a vacation but instead of hanging out there, he is opting to text me? I told him I am busy, stopped replying and asked him to enjoy his time off with his friends but I felt his obsession. We had an argument. I do not want him to be obsessed to talk to me.
He's into you. Are you interested in more than friendship with him?
No 😢 I do not want to hurt him
If he's into you, there's no way you can go about this without hurting him. If it is the case, the most effect way with the least amount of damage would be to just tell him, should the situation warrant such.
But he has not done anything that explicitly shows that, aside from wanting to talk to you everyday. So I would just keep going as you were, until he does something otherwise.
IMO
I don't know if he is into me. We do not flirt but talk a lot. Every 5-10 minutes a text is exchanged for whole day. We are discussing about my career since last three days. I do not have any romantic feelings for him hence does not want to say anything to plant in his head or make it awkward. His opinion does matter to me.
I would just assume that he isn't, until he tells you otherwise (ie - asking you out, talking about having a future with you, etc.). On the off-chance that he isn't, you don't loose anything. If he does end up revealing that he is, I don't think it would be too late to tell him at that time.
IMO 🙂click to expand

Posted by daisy57Posted by Capricorn91
Are you a late Taurus(cusper)? I am Jan 8 too and I love talking to my Taurus sister (mostly listening as she talks a lot lol) a lot, she is May 17. But I have a Taurus friend who is very quiet and with her it is difficult to talk to since I am the one doing most of the talking.
No I am May 5. And in our case, I talk more and he listens more. He gives one word answers a lot of time and that suffices.
We still have a strong communication going on.click to expand

Posted by TxOgalPosted by Capricorn91
Are you a late Taurus(cusper)? I am Jan 8 too and I love talking to my Taurus sister (mostly listening as she talks a lot lol) a lot, she is May 17. But I have a Taurus friend who is very quiet and with her it is difficult to talk to since I am the one doing most of the talking.
This is the same way with the capricorn man I'm getting to know. Uh I wish I were more talkative with himclick to expand
Posted by Capricorn91Posted by daisy57Posted by Capricorn91
Are you a late Taurus(cusper)? I am Jan 8 too and I love talking to my Taurus sister (mostly listening as she talks a lot lol) a lot, she is May 17. But I have a Taurus friend who is very quiet and with her it is difficult to talk to since I am the one doing most of the talking.
No I am May 5. And in our case, I talk more and he listens more. He gives one word answers a lot of time and that suffices.
We still have a strong communication going on.
Maybe that is why he likes it. We need someone who talks more than us lol. He likes your energy, feels comfortable talking to you. Good that you accept him like it is.click to expand

Posted by daisy57Posted by Capricorn91Posted by daisy57Posted by Capricorn91
Are you a late Taurus(cusper)? I am Jan 8 too and I love talking to my Taurus sister (mostly listening as she talks a lot lol) a lot, she is May 17. But I have a Taurus friend who is very quiet and with her it is difficult to talk to since I am the one doing most of the talking.
No I am May 5. And in our case, I talk more and he listens more. He gives one word answers a lot of time and that suffices.
We still have a strong communication going on.
Maybe that is why he likes it. We need someone who talks more than us lol. He likes your energy, feels comfortable talking to you. Good that you accept him like it is.
That's all I seek. I think we are communication compatible. I do not want anything more than friendship anyway. 🙂click to expand
Posted by DeadInside
you a taurus he is a capricorn, just date together and stop to both lying to yourself
Posted by DeadInsidePosted by daisy57Posted by DeadInside
you a taurus he is a capricorn, just date together and stop to both lying to yourself
I do not like him. He is rude, cold to my emotions. He is good for being a friend but not to date. I am a lovey-dovey person, I like flowers, cherry and red wine. He enjoys getting me angry and annoyed.
Yes because this the road of rough sex. Enough you don't fool usclick to expand

Posted by daisy57
Okay something is brewing within my Capricorn friend.
Late night yesterday he not only called me cute but sent me a "face blowing a kiss" emoji and he told me that he wants me to be happy.
This went weird af, I would have to talk to him before he goes into a one sided feelings club.
Posted by Capricorn91Posted by daisy57
Okay something is brewing within my Capricorn friend.
Late night yesterday he not only called me cute but sent me a "face blowing a kiss" emoji and he told me that he wants me to be happy.
This went weird af, I would have to talk to him before he goes into a one sided feelings club.
Lol he likes you. Please do and just don't shut him out.click to expand

Posted by daisy57Posted by Capricorn91Posted by daisy57
Okay something is brewing within my Capricorn friend.
Late night yesterday he not only called me cute but sent me a "face blowing a kiss" emoji and he told me that he wants me to be happy.
This went weird af, I would have to talk to him before he goes into a one sided feelings club.
Lol he likes you. Please do and just don't shut him out.
Would a capricorn guy like to get intimate/jump in bed casually? We have communication compatibility and that's it. I am trying to know if getting intimate is your goal. I fear if he is ONLY sexually attracted or somethingclick to expand
Posted by Capricorn91Posted by daisy57Posted by Capricorn91Posted by daisy57
Okay something is brewing within my Capricorn friend.
Late night yesterday he not only called me cute but sent me a "face blowing a kiss" emoji and he told me that he wants me to be happy.
This went weird af, I would have to talk to him before he goes into a one sided feelings club.
Lol he likes you. Please do and just don't shut him out.
Would a capricorn guy like to get intimate/jump in bed casually? We have communication compatibility and that's it. I am trying to know if getting intimate is your goal. I fear if he is ONLY sexually attracted or something
Okay first of all what you said it hints you are interested in him too. Don't lie. And no he wouldn't make such sincere efforts just to get in bed with you. And he said "cute" and not "hot" and he said he wants you to be happy. If that doesn't indicate he likes you and really cares for you then you need to get new glasses lady.click to expand

Posted by daisy57Posted by Capricorn91Posted by daisy57Posted by Capricorn91Posted by daisy57
Okay something is brewing within my Capricorn friend.
Late night yesterday he not only called me cute but sent me a "face blowing a kiss" emoji and he told me that he wants me to be happy.
This went weird af, I would have to talk to him before he goes into a one sided feelings club.
Lol he likes you. Please do and just don't shut him out.
Would a capricorn guy like to get intimate/jump in bed casually? We have communication compatibility and that's it. I am trying to know if getting intimate is your goal. I fear if he is ONLY sexually attracted or something
Okay first of all what you said it hints you are interested in him too. Don't lie. And no he wouldn't make such sincere efforts just to get in bed with you. And he said "cute" and not "hot" and he said he wants you to be happy. If that doesn't indicate he likes you and really cares for you then you need to get new glasses lady.
He is on my social media and I posted a selfie yesterday and he responded "smart is sexy" to which I said "I know right" I think he is opening up. It used to be fun talking to him but now its all getting serious, it sucks. I see him as a friend but its like he is trying to make me see him more than a friend.click to expand
Posted by CheshPosted by daisy57
Thank you. Yes its time to straight up say things to him, just friends nothing else.
When I am taking charge and speaking with full confidence letting people know my emotions, they do get intimidated. I was only trying to avoid that situation as he will be scared to know how much a strong dominating personality I have inside a sweet fun loving girl.
Oh well its better this way than to get his heart broken later unknowingly.
If he's a good friend he will understand to tone down his behavior. I don't know many Capricorn men outside of my ex-husband and current boyfriend and workmates, but they seem like reasonable men that respect people's boundaries.click to expand
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Would anyone like to answer my query. I am trying to know why would a Capricorn guy crave to talk to you everyday?
He told me I am a great conversationalist (Taurus girl here) but he likes to keep up the conversation, be it not talking about anything particular.
He simply likes talking to me. We don't flirt/love each other. But he sometimes would text wassup late night and we talk for hours talking about general stuff - this happened or that, what you/I feel about certain world affairs. It's never romantic. And I have no problem with that.
Sometimes if I am bummed about something, he tries to cheer me up and vice versa. I really see him as my good friend who cares for me in depth. But there has not been a time that we stop talking even for a day. If he has nothing to say he will send an emoji and we will resume talking and it goes for weeks.
Sometimes he likes to share his personal life, which I feel he does with people he trusts. He is a reserved person but I am all goofy. But its crazy how I have someone who wants to talk to me everyday even if there is nothing to talk about 🙂
Thanks.