cap male in need of help.
This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by Joetingbo23 on Monday, May 1, 2017 and has 7 replies.
I greet u all in the name of the Goat.
I'm nt entirely sure of my exact birth details.. For sad reasons.
So I'm just a cap nd I relate to most of the topics here.
My problem is that I tend to put up an of a very warm nd talkative, social guy when around people. Only for it to delete my energy later.
I fear that if I be or apply my 'silence cappy trait' I myt nt B accepted in environment, as well as society.
Now the problem is people hv already gotten used to that, but genuinely I was only trying to give them a good time, but it's tiring nd depletes so much energy that my self crashes when Im alone.
After reading a few topics here, I feel empowered to know that there's many like me out there.
Always thought I had sum robot genes sumwhere.. Sumhw
How do I b my true, silent self nd talk only when necessary
Without fear of losing colleagues, friends ppl, etc.
I'm nt entirely sure of my exact birth details.. For sad reasons.
So I'm just a cap nd I relate to most of the topics here.
My problem is that I tend to put up an of a very warm nd talkative, social guy when around people. Only for it to delete my energy later.
I fear that if I be or apply my 'silence cappy trait' I myt nt B accepted in environment, as well as society.
Now the problem is people hv already gotten used to that, but genuinely I was only trying to give them a good time, but it's tiring nd depletes so much energy that my self crashes when Im alone.
After reading a few topics here, I feel empowered to know that there's many like me out there.
Always thought I had sum robot genes sumwhere.. Sumhw
How do I b my true, silent self nd talk only when necessary
Without fear of losing colleagues, friends ppl, etc.
I greet u all in the name of the Goat.
I'm nt entirely sure of my exact birth details.. For sad reasons.
So I'm just a cap nd I relate to most of the topics here.
My problem is that I tend to put up an of a very warm nd talkative, social guy when around people. Only for it to delete my energy later.
I fear that if I be or apply my 'silence cappy trait' I myt nt B accepted in environment, as well as society.
Now the problem is people hv already gotten used to that, but genuinely I was only trying to give them a good time, but it's tiring nd depletes so much energy that my self crashes when Im alone.
After reading a few topics here, I feel empowered to know that there's many like me out there.
Always thought I had sum robot genes sumwhere.. Sumhw
How do I b my true, silent self nd talk only when necessary
Without fear of losing colleagues, friends ppl, etc.
I'm nt entirely sure of my exact birth details.. For sad reasons.
So I'm just a cap nd I relate to most of the topics here.
My problem is that I tend to put up an of a very warm nd talkative, social guy when around people. Only for it to delete my energy later.
I fear that if I be or apply my 'silence cappy trait' I myt nt B accepted in environment, as well as society.
Now the problem is people hv already gotten used to that, but genuinely I was only trying to give them a good time, but it's tiring nd depletes so much energy that my self crashes when Im alone.
After reading a few topics here, I feel empowered to know that there's many like me out there.
Always thought I had sum robot genes sumwhere.. Sumhw
How do I b my true, silent self nd talk only when necessary
Without fear of losing colleagues, friends ppl, etc.
There was a young Cancer who could do this. People would accept her moods whether she was quiet or talkative. I kind of envied that.
I guess the way to get others to accept you is to accept yourself first. I can relate, especially having a Leo moon. I'm initially bright and bubbly but that wears off in two seconds, and I feel bad when I retreat and settle into my normal self.
My advice is to just be you. People tend to be observant and as long as you are consistent being on/off that's what they will come to know.
I guess the way to get others to accept you is to accept yourself first. I can relate, especially having a Leo moon. I'm initially bright and bubbly but that wears off in two seconds, and I feel bad when I retreat and settle into my normal self.
My advice is to just be you. People tend to be observant and as long as you are consistent being on/off that's what they will come to know.
I do this and I have been keeping quiet lately for probably about three months and everyone always asked me was wrong with me but it's just it's who I am now I'm quieter and more serious. Just be yourself you're not going to lose anyone you don't need to lose because if you're really supposed to be surrounded by those people they will be there people who stick around or those who stick around for a reason either they see your value in you as a person or they see what you have to offer as a colleague. As long as you're not rude about it there's no problem with being yourself and there shouldn't ever be
Posted by RindarooIt does thank u.
I am dominant Cap, but sun sign Sag. You know just be you. People will adjust & learn to accept you as you are. It is far better to live life as your true self than trying to be someone else so people will like you. I'm pretty quiet until I get to know people. I think that is my Cap Venus. Lots of times people tease me for being so quiet because it makes them uneasy. But really it means I am overwhelmed or unsure of them. It's alright though, I'm not really concerned about what they think. They tend to forget I'm quiet when I'm all comfy with them. Lol. I also love my quiet alone time & have activities I enjoy related to that. It feeds the soul ( writing & playing piano). Socializing I need some, but it gets old.
At work, are you talking socially with colleagues? If so, it's okay. If it's work related, well there are times to step up so you do a good job.
Hope this helps a little.
At work iv put on a "strictly business" kinda vibe. nd '"nothing personal'" (-let's nt cross personal boundaries, I know u as name, period-), as I don't trust, nor am I comfortable with any1 there.
I read a quote that spoke of caps : once we c a person as not trustworthy, we disqualify them for good.
I'm just the hard working robot they don't understand.
I must praise our work part of life , we're figuratively (or literally) the animals.. at/of work (nd work environments).
Posted by lnana04Thank u
There was a young Cancer who could do this. People would accept her moods whether she was quiet or talkative. I kind of envied that.
I guess the way to get others to accept you is to accept yourself first. I can relate, especially having a Leo moon. I'm initially bright and bubbly but that wears off in two seconds, and I feel bad when I retreat and settle into my normal self.
My advice is to just be you. People tend to be observant and as long as you are consistent being on/off that's what they will come to know.
Posted by ladylibra21
I do this and I have been keeping quiet lately for probably about three months and everyone always asked me was wrong with me but it's just it's who I am now I'm quieter and more serious. Just be yourself you're not going to lose anyone you don't need to lose because if you're really supposed to be surrounded by those people they will be there people who stick around or those who stick around for a reason either they see your value in you as a person or they see what you have to offer as a colleague. As long as you're not rude about it there's no problem with being yourself and there shouldn't ever be
Ure right. It's nt like I hv to live up to people's standards, or societies..
We clearly just Dnt fit in.
I guess that's the strongest character abwt caps, we design nd invent our own circumstances.
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