Cap male professes to love me but won't commit

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by catherinecancerian on Tuesday, May 5, 2009 and has 2 replies.
STOP sleeping with him. He's taken you for granted. I know it'll be hard to keep in touch with him now and "just" be friends. However, this is NOT a capricorn thing, it's not a sign thing at all. You were always around for him as a friend. It was easy for him to blur that line b/w friend and lover b/c he was having a difficult time with his ex. However, you are responsible for not having maintained that line. You are the one that LET him walk over you like that. Now, I know you're in love and all but if you are not getting the respect that you deserve, he doesn't deserve you.
Honestly, he does care for you. He may have commitment issues since he broke up with his ex not that long ago. If he went out with her for two years this guy will need a few months to heal and seriously move on. He is comfortable with the relationship, so easing off a bit might be a good idea. He needs to feel like he has something to lose before he realizes what he has to gain. It's stupid I know, but we guys are illogical in that way. Things come easy to us, we panic, because we are use to persuing. Cap man in general take things slow. We can get comfortable with the status quo. To be a good partner to us, you need to challange us otherwise we will get lazy and not try to change things.
Don't be an ars and give up or think he is walking over you. His not.

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