Cap Males- How fast is too fast?

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by Awakenawarness on Wednesday, November 1, 2017 and has 13 replies.
When it comes to liking someone or wanting a relationship with someone. I'm curious. {^_^}

This Cap has me in a weird place. He compliments me often and we've hung out a couple times.. he tells me he's into me but idk in what way. We've talked for hours(about 7-9 the first night) the texts are the most bland thing but when we talk over the phone, video chat, meet in person, he's a completely different person. He's told me his life story just about and I've only know him for less than a week. He says he might have to "boo me up" and that he likes everything I'm about. He hasn't tried anything sexually but he admits he's defiantly thought about it but respects me.

Idk if he's just being a charmer or what his play is. I haven't met a Cappy who acts like this so quickly.

(I mean this other, much older Cap from 3 years ago still hasn't told me he likes me even though his friends have told me he does.)

The pace your on right now seems to be working. Why are you overthinking things? Is something bothering you?
Posted by pinkbird03
The pace your on right now seems to be working. Why are you overthinking things? Is something bothering you?
I'm just cautious by nature. Nothing is really bothering me but the pace seems fast in my opinion. From what I know about Cappy is that they are equally slow, if not slower haha
I think it really depends on their mindset.

I dated a Capricorn man for two year who was hesitant at first but within a month we were exclusive and living together.

Dated another who was in a weird mental space came in super hot, then backed all the way off because he was unsure of himself and his wants.

One thing I do know... If they feel they cant give their all, they prefer to give nothing.
It depends on their placements.

I'm Pisces, Cap and Aries dominant and I consider 1 month a decent speed while for others it might be a few months or even a year.
although he's coming on fast, he also said he respects you and that would mean a lot if he truly means it

so what, date him and give him 6 months at least to get to know him and see how that goes

that will tell all you need to know
Posted by Awakenawarness
Posted by pinkbird03
The pace your on right now seems to be working. Why are you overthinking things? Is something bothering you?
I'm just cautious by nature. Nothing is really bothering me but the pace seems fast in my opinion. From what I know about Cappy is that they are equally slow, if not slower haha
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What’s his venus sign? Sometimes that makes a big difference.

Posted by pinkbird03
Posted by Awakenawarness
Posted by pinkbird03
The pace your on right now seems to be working. Why are you overthinking things? Is something bothering you?
I'm just cautious by nature. Nothing is really bothering me but the pace seems fast in my opinion. From what I know about Cappy is that they are equally slow, if not slower haha


What’s his venus sign? Sometimes that makes a big difference.

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I didn't ask his exact bday because it's still pretty fresh haha. But I'll ask.

I thought caps moved slower than es cargo
Can anyone tell me the difference between younger vs older Capricorn men? Jw. I'm curious.
For some it's too fast, for some it's too slow...seems it's just hard to get it right with people smile he might be aries moon or rising cause h sounds just like me lol
He's Jan 6 bday that's all I know so far haha
you can get his less accurate chart with date of birth and birth place