Cap man asked me to take plan b after a weekend of sex

Posted by Capz
what is plan B

Posted by Capz

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Capz
what is plan B

sounds like its the "morning after pill" which is odd considering I think you need to take it within 72 hours and wont really help if they spent 4 days together.

that capricorn guy is weird

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Posted by capricorngirl25
I started talking to this cap man about a month ago, he was initially very bad at having a conversation with me. We met online and it seemed like I was the one doing more of the talking. I almost seemed like I was bothering him. But he would respond to my questions and sometimes ask things back. So we continued to talk like this almost everyday. Then he asked for my number and we texted. He lives about an hour airplane ride away from me but he travels a lot. He ended up being close to where I live so one day he asked to meet. We hung out for a couple hours we got along great. Then we talked everyday for about a week. He flew me out to go see him and we hung out for the last 4 days together shared same hotel and everything. We had sex 2-3x a day for the last 4 days and he came inside every time. He was very nice to me and a gentleman but he did have his moments where he would say things to me without sugar coat and came off as a dick. Anyway so I left him today and he said he will see me in 2 weeks again when he's back in town. He was super sweet when I left. Then after my flight he texted if I got back ok and I was like wow he's really nice. But then he texted "we had sex a lot this weekend and maybe you should get a plan b I'll pay for it if you want" it just made me feel cheap and used. And to be honest now looking back i kind of feel like he only wanted me for sex. Any Capricorn men advice? For when you start dating a girl? What are you looking for? And how do I get out of the sex zone and for him to see me more as a potential mate.

Posted by MissM
Are you on the pill or anything? Did you tell him that you weren't before you had sex. I think its very immature of both of you to not say anything about it... also if you weren't on the pill, you weren't planning on taking plan B which is the morning after pill and can only be taken 72 hours afterwards... You barely know the guy. Move on and find someone else who actually respects you and who you can talk to about birth control.

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Posted by capricorngirl25
I started talking to this cap man about a month ago, he was initially very bad at having a conversation with me. We met online and it seemed like I was the one doing more of the talking. I almost seemed like I was bothering him. But he would respond to my questions and sometimes ask things back. So we continued to talk like this almost everyday. Then he asked for my number and we texted. He lives about an hour airplane ride away from me but he travels a lot. He ended up being close to where I live so one day he asked to meet. We hung out for a couple hours we got along great. Then we talked everyday for about a week. He flew me out to go see him and we hung out for the last 4 days together shared same hotel and everything. We had sex 2-3x a day for the last 4 days and he came inside every time. He was very nice to me and a gentleman but he did have his moments where he would say things to me without sugar coat and came off as a dick. Anyway so I left him today and he said he will see me in 2 weeks again when he's back in town. He was super sweet when I left. Then after my flight he texted if I got back ok and I was like wow he's really nice. But then he texted "we had sex a lot this weekend and maybe you should get a plan b I'll pay for it if you want" it just made me feel cheap and used. And to be honest now looking back i kind of feel like he only wanted me for sex. Any Capricorn men advice? For when you start dating a girl? What are you looking for? And how do I get out of the sex zone and for him to see me more as a potential mate.

i am just curious, this man is a stranger to you. You know nothing about him. You are not scared of catching a disease???? and did you even think to take plan b. I mean he did come in u

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Posted by MissM
Are you on the pill or anything? Did you tell him that you weren't before you had sex. I think its very immature of both of you to not say anything about it... also if you weren't on the pill, you weren't planning on taking plan B which is the morning after pill and can only be taken 72 hours afterwards... You barely know the guy. Move on and find someone else who actually respects you and who you can talk to about birth control.

Posted by pinkbird03
ask him to be exclusive if you're going to continue sleeping together. See what he says. That will give u a lot of insight

Posted by Freetobe007
I am going to be brutally honest with you out of a place of care and concern.


You cannot win a man's heart with your vagina. There are plenty of women (especially now days) with open arms and open legs...and an open mouth. ? Some of whom are more conversationally captivating than you appeared to have been to him. Sexual encounters are not the memories that are going to make you surpass other romantic prospects. And if sex is the foundation, then some other woman can and will come a long with a stronger foundation. If you want to be viewed as a potential mate, you've got to bring your A-game in a multitude of ways. You can't just wait for bedroom encounters to delight him. Also, it's best to be very particular about what man you give the chance to dickmatize you. Am I wrong or am I sensing that you're a little too eager to give this guy excessive credit?

Posted by ItsMeRoman
I think that's incredibly irresponsible for both of you.

Why wouldn't you want to take a plan B since you clearly don't know this person?

I don't think it's an asshole move. I think it's realistic but you both are idiots for rawdogging the whole weekend without knowing one another and meeting online.


Also plan B won't work lol just FYI. You have to take it within a specific time period.


I wouldn't feel offended but I'd be worried as fuk how often he does this. Do you have unprotected sex often with randoms?

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Posted by Capz
what is plan B

sounds like its the "morning after pill" which is odd considering I think you need to take it within 72 hours and wont really help if they spent 4 days together.

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Posted by Montgomery
"... his moments where he would say things to me without sugar coat and came off as a dick."


He kind of *is* a dick.


After a MONTH of talking, he knew what you


wanted out of this, I imagine.


And yet... it didn't seem to matter.


We can blame you for going to bed with him,


but he knew what he was doing.


I wonder why you'd want to date someone who


disregarded your feelings so easily.


Poor character... him.

Posted by Freetobe007
@capricorngirl On the topic of plan B...


Let's just be real: Neither of you know each other well enough to embrace the other as parent material. Have you experienced enough of this man's everyday behavior, patterns, life style , and character to choose him as a parenting partner? How can you logically expect him to be comfortable with you possibly carrying his child if he hasn't either? And to be entirely honest, it is EXTREMELY irresponsible for you to put your future at risk like that over a good dicking. This man could have HIV for all you know. It's not unrealistic if he usually just has risky sex with women he barely knows.


Anyhow, point being: try not to be so offended by the plan B mention. And....?...more bluntness ahead...


Be careful about assigning yourself a place in his heart/life that you genuinely may not have. And don't assign him a place in your heart and life that he may not even be qualified for. I hate to say it, but based on your words, the odds are that your place to him is an attractive, fuckable woman who's company he enjoys on a premature level. Unless he's put in effort to actually enjoy/experience your company without sex? Flying a woman out is nothing for some guys. Don't gas yourself up over that detail alone

Posted by capricorngirl25
We had sex 2-3x a day for the last 4 days and he came inside every time.


But then he texted "we had sex a lot this weekend and maybe you should get a plan b I'll pay for it if you want" it just made me feel cheap and used.

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Posted by MissM
Are you on the pill or anything? Did you tell him that you weren't before you had sex. I think its very immature of both of you to not say anything about it... also if you weren't on the pill, you weren't planning on taking plan B which is the morning after pill and can only be taken 72 hours afterwards... You barely know the guy. Move on and find someone else who actually respects you and who you can talk to about birth control.

Yes I take birth control regularly and he knows this I told him this. Also we were both tested before having unprotected sex and we shared the results with one another. He wanted me to also take plan b as extra precaution in addition to being on the pill.

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Posted by capricorngirl25

Posted by MissM
Are you on the pill or anything? Did you tell him that you weren't before you had sex. I think its very immature of both of you to not say anything about it... also if you weren't on the pill, you weren't planning on taking plan B which is the morning after pill and can only be taken 72 hours afterwards... You barely know the guy. Move on and find someone else who actually respects you and who you can talk to about birth control.

Yes I take birth control regularly and he knows this I told him this. Also we were both tested before having unprotected sex and we shared the results with one another. He wanted me to also take plan b as extra precaution in addition to being on the pill.

So if your already taking the pill why did you get offended that he suggested plan b. Its serving the same purpose. I don't get your logic...

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Posted by capricorngirl25

Posted by MissM
Are you on the pill or anything? Did you tell him that you weren't before you had sex. I think its very immature of both of you to not say anything about it... also if you weren't on the pill, you weren't planning on taking plan B which is the morning after pill and can only be taken 72 hours afterwards... You barely know the guy. Move on and find someone else who actually respects you and who you can talk to about birth control.

Yes I take birth control regularly and he knows this I told him this. Also we were both tested before having unprotected sex and we shared the results with one another. He wanted me to also take plan b as extra precaution in addition to being on the pill.

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Posted by Fortuna

Posted by Fortuna
Never have sex without a condom. Before having sex, make sure you both are on the same page about where the relationship stands.


if you could go back what would you have done differently? What can you take from this experience? Hopefully you learned something from this experience.

Btw, just because you were tested does not mean you are clean of diseases. Some diseases take time to appear. Also, with the evolution of diseases, I am sure there are some that cannot be found via tests at this time. Be cautious and protect yourself, regardless if you're on the pill and what the results say.

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