StrawberryJam
@StrawberryJam
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It means he is becoming comfortable with you. It's pretty funny because a couple days ago I felt like my cap was detaching so I had a discussion with him. He was worried I was trying to break up with him and reassured me he had no intentions of doing so. I'd lightly bring up the discussion to your cap. More than likely you are overanalyzing it.
Secondly, he must feel exhausted from the trip not only from work, but endeavors with you and making sure you're enjoying your time. Let him breathe.
The only part I'd be concerned about is him logging into a dating website. Has he told you he deleted his login info or what not?
Secondly, he must feel exhausted from the trip not only from work, but endeavors with you and making sure you're enjoying your time. Let him breathe.
The only part I'd be concerned about is him logging into a dating website. Has he told you he deleted his login info or what not?
@rindadoo @virgorean
I thought he was just busy / getting comfortable. Until I heard he logged into a dating site 2 weeks ago.
We already had lots of deep talk in the trip. I was hoping our next catch up will be light and fun.
Anyway I will let him contact me for time and place. If he let it slide then I know where I stand with him. Cos you don't forget to see someone you truly cares about
I thought he was just busy / getting comfortable. Until I heard he logged into a dating site 2 weeks ago.
We already had lots of deep talk in the trip. I was hoping our next catch up will be light and fun.
Anyway I will let him contact me for time and place. If he let it slide then I know where I stand with him. Cos you don't forget to see someone you truly cares about
Posted by VirgoreanHe told me he has almost all dating site / app but nothing works for him and I'm the only person he met from sites. He said he also had tinder talked to a few but never met any. Anyway this site I just found out is not the site we met. He said he is not looking anymore. Who knows why he logged in 2 weeks ago
It means he is becoming comfortable with you. It's pretty funny because a couple days ago I felt like my cap was detaching so I had a discussion with him. He was worried I was trying to break up with him and reassured me he had no intentions of doing so. I'd lightly bring up the discussion to your cap. More than likely you are overanalyzing it.
Secondly, he must feel exhausted from the trip not only from work, but endeavors with you and making sure you're enjoying your time. Let him breathe.
The only part I'd be concerned about is him logging into a dating website. Has he told you he deleted his login info or what not?
Just curious how did you bring it up with your cap? I'm interested in how to bring it lightly
You'd have to ask him, but give it a few days for him to recuperate fromy his trip. And when you ask, avoid going on full confrontation mode. Ask in a casual and polite manner.
Instead of making accusatory assumptions I asked him if anything had been bothering him as of late. Then when he responded with no and inquired on my asking I then informed him how I realized his detachment and it flowed into a good discussion. He was very understanding and we bridged the gap of the disconnect.
Instead of making accusatory assumptions I asked him if anything had been bothering him as of late. Then when he responded with no and inquired on my asking I then informed him how I realized his detachment and it flowed into a good discussion. He was very understanding and we bridged the gap of the disconnect.
Posted by VirgoreanHe just booty called me... it;s late afternoon where I'm at. he asked hy how is your day? will you be hone later today> can I come adn visit? x
You'd have to ask him, but give it a few days for him to recuperate fromy his trip. And when you ask, avoid going on full confrontation mode. Ask in a casual and polite manner.
Instead of making accusatory assumptions I asked him if anything had been bothering him as of late. Then when he responded with no and inquired on my asking I then informed him how I realized his detachment and it flowed into a good discussion. He was very understanding and we bridged the gap of the disconnect.
surely if he cares he would have confirm prior and also if he wants to spend time he could have take me to dinner then back to my palce...
If it were to clear out or disable his dating profile, then that would be an acceptable reason for him having logged onto it.
If everything on the profile is intact, then that's a red flag. I'm shocked that most of the posts so far don't mention it as such.
If everything on the profile is intact, then that's a red flag. I'm shocked that most of the posts so far don't mention it as such.
@Noni05 @Ophiuchus
We were supposed to meet today but he never confirmed like he used to... then he text me late afternoon...
he said Hi sj, how is your day?Will you be home later today? can I come and visit? x
My respond was "Hi nice to hear from you, I didn't think we were still meeting today as we didn';t communicate as much and no confirmation prior. I will have to be jome to sleep for sure but 2 hot ppl get together late at night screams for touble 😉 x
Let's definitely get together when we have more time to catch upx"
he wrote back hello, sorry for the late notice. it's a bit last minute indeed, My apology. Let me know when convenient to catch up, sleep well tonight xx
I wrote back and say i miss his sexy voice and he asked him to video call me later. He hasn';t responded ... will see if he calls..
I see this as a red flag.. like he is not investing emotionally and no effort. like may be he thinks he doens't want to purseu the relationship further but he still likes my body and trying to use me until next best thing comes along...
We were supposed to meet today but he never confirmed like he used to... then he text me late afternoon...
he said Hi sj, how is your day?Will you be home later today? can I come and visit? x
My respond was "Hi nice to hear from you, I didn't think we were still meeting today as we didn';t communicate as much and no confirmation prior. I will have to be jome to sleep for sure but 2 hot ppl get together late at night screams for touble 😉 x
Let's definitely get together when we have more time to catch upx"
he wrote back hello, sorry for the late notice. it's a bit last minute indeed, My apology. Let me know when convenient to catch up, sleep well tonight xx
I wrote back and say i miss his sexy voice and he asked him to video call me later. He hasn';t responded ... will see if he calls..
I see this as a red flag.. like he is not investing emotionally and no effort. like may be he thinks he doens't want to purseu the relationship further but he still likes my body and trying to use me until next best thing comes along...
Posted by StrawberryJamYou're on self district mode. You just want to see the negative every single time. Anytime something happens or he says something that doesn't match YOUR way of thinking or doing things you assume the bad in him every time.
@Noni05 @Ophiuchus
We were supposed to meet today but he never confirmed like he used to... then he text me late afternoon...
he said Hi sj, how is your day?Will you be home later today? can I come and visit? x
My respond was "Hi nice to hear from you, I didn't think we were still meeting today as we didn';t communicate as much and no confirmation prior. I will have to be jome to sleep for sure but 2 hot ppl get together late at night screams for touble 😉 x
Let's definitely get together when we have more time to catch upx"
he wrote back hello, sorry for the late notice. it's a bit last minute indeed, My apology. Let me know when convenient to catch up, sleep well tonight xx
I wrote back and say i miss his sexy voice and he asked him to video call me later. He hasn';t responded ... will see if he calls..
I see this as a red flag.. like he is not investing emotionally and no effort. like may be he thinks he doens't want to purseu the relationship further but he still likes my body and trying to use me until next best thing comes along...
With regards to this dating site it could be a perfectly innocent explanation but I would definitely address it.
This guy has proved himself every single time and if it wasn't for dxp I don't think you'd have got this far. You jumped down my throat last time but I stand by what I say you allow your own insecurities and past relationships to influence how you act/view this relationship.
Posted by WonderWoman14We both have insecurity issues, we both are needy and I know that, but he is better at hiding it.. he was telling me may be you need a guy your age who has more energy. I said you are breaking up wtih me? H goes no you crazy? i'm just looking for compassion. I said how many more times do I need to tell you I'm really into you? He goes no. He also said I'm old and fat (skinny fat) I said you are fishing again? he goes yes. I'm not annoyed. I'm just saying we both are human and we both have our insecurities.Posted by StrawberryJamYou're on self district mode. You just want to see the negative every single time. Anytime something happens or he says something that doesn't match YOUR way of thinking or doing things you assume the bad in him every time.
@Noni05 @Ophiuchus
We were supposed to meet today but he never confirmed like he used to... then he text me late afternoon...
he said Hi sj, how is your day?Will you be home later today? can I come and visit? x
My respond was "Hi nice to hear from you, I didn't think we were still meeting today as we didn';t communicate as much and no confirmation prior. I will have to be jome to sleep for sure but 2 hot ppl get together late at night screams for touble 😉 x
Let's definitely get together when we have more time to catch upx"
he wrote back hello, sorry for the late notice. it's a bit last minute indeed, My apology. Let me know when convenient to catch up, sleep well tonight xx
I wrote back and say i miss his sexy voice and he asked him to video call me later. He hasn';t responded ... will see if he calls..
I see this as a red flag.. like he is not investing emotionally and no effort. like may be he thinks he doens't want to purseu the relationship further but he still likes my body and trying to use me until next best thing comes along...
With regards to this dating site it could be a perfectly innocent explanation but I would definitely address it.
This guy has proved himself every single time and if it wasn't for dxp I don't think you'd have got this far. You jumped down my throat last time but I stand by what I say you allow your own insecurities and past relationships to influence how you act/view this relationship.click to expand
Wonderwoman he might just have made a crappy deicision today... however it's still a red flag.. let see if he puts more effort in the next time I see him. anwyay i asked him to call tonight.. if he planned to visit means he is free. So I don't think asking him to call is too unreasonable. Those who avoid calls are those who doens't want emotional connection.. unless they are genuinely busy which its not his case for this time.. he ahsn;t say yes or no to the call. he might just call at my proposed time.. who knows
Posted by torothebull02If I knew this I wouldn't have gone for the trip.. I only find out yesterday that he logs in 2 weeks ago.
Grow some balls and dump him he's no into you if he's logging back in seeing the other options don't play yourself
Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by WonderWoman14We both have insecurity issues, we both are needy and I know that, but he is better at hiding it.. he was telling me may be you need a guy your age who has more energy. I said you are breaking up wtih me? H goes no you crazy? i'm just looking for compassion. I said how many more times do I need to tell you I'm really into you? He goes no. He also said I'm old and fat (skinny fat) I said you are fishing again? he goes yes. I'm not annoyed. I'm just saying we both are human and we both have our insecurities.Posted by StrawberryJamYou're on self district mode. You just want to see the negative every single time. Anytime something happens or he says something that doesn't match YOUR way of thinking or doing things you assume the bad in him every time.
@Noni05 @Ophiuchus
We were supposed to meet today but he never confirmed like he used to... then he text me late afternoon...
he said Hi sj, how is your day?Will you be home later today? can I come and visit? x
My respond was "Hi nice to hear from you, I didn't think we were still meeting today as we didn';t communicate as much and no confirmation prior. I will have to be jome to sleep for sure but 2 hot ppl get together late at night screams for touble 😉 x
Let's definitely get together when we have more time to catch upx"
he wrote back hello, sorry for the late notice. it's a bit last minute indeed, My apology. Let me know when convenient to catch up, sleep well tonight xx
I wrote back and say i miss his sexy voice and he asked him to video call me later. He hasn';t responded ... will see if he calls..
I see this as a red flag.. like he is not investing emotionally and no effort. like may be he thinks he doens't want to purseu the relationship further but he still likes my body and trying to use me until next best thing comes along...
With regards to this dating site it could be a perfectly innocent explanation but I would definitely address it.
This guy has proved himself every single time and if it wasn't for dxp I don't think you'd have got this far. You jumped down my throat last time but I stand by what I say you allow your own insecurities and past relationships to influence how you act/view this relationship.
Wonderwoman he might just have made a crappy deicision today... however it's still a red flag.. let see if he puts more effort in the next time I see him. anwyay i asked him to call tonight.. if he planned to visit means he is free. So I don't think asking him to call is too unreasonable. Those who avoid calls are those who doens't want emotional connection.. unless they are genuinely busy which its not his case for this time.. he ahsn;t say yes or no to the call. he might just call at my proposed time.. who knows
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If he feels comfortable enough to tell you about his own insecurities then he trusts you. Caps don't like to show people their vulnerable side.
You say he made a crappy decision but maybe in his eyes he'd already told you that he'd see you today, did you ask what time at that point? If it was important for your schedule.
I'm just trying to get you to look at the situation from a different angle other than your own.
If you asked him to call then I'm sure he will.
Posted by WonderWoman14I will let you know if he calls.Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by WonderWoman14We both have insecurity issues, we both are needy and I know that, but he is better at hiding it.. he was telling me may be you need a guy your age who has more energy. I said you are breaking up wtih me? H goes no you crazy? i'm just looking for compassion. I said how many more times do I need to tell you I'm really into you? He goes no. He also said I'm old and fat (skinny fat) I said you are fishing again? he goes yes. I'm not annoyed. I'm just saying we both are human and we both have our insecurities.Posted by StrawberryJamYou're on self district mode. You just want to see the negative every single time. Anytime something happens or he says something that doesn't match YOUR way of thinking or doing things you assume the bad in him every time.
@Noni05 @Ophiuchus
We were supposed to meet today but he never confirmed like he used to... then he text me late afternoon...
he said Hi sj, how is your day?Will you be home later today? can I come and visit? x
My respond was "Hi nice to hear from you, I didn't think we were still meeting today as we didn';t communicate as much and no confirmation prior. I will have to be jome to sleep for sure but 2 hot ppl get together late at night screams for touble 😉 x
Let's definitely get together when we have more time to catch upx"
he wrote back hello, sorry for the late notice. it's a bit last minute indeed, My apology. Let me know when convenient to catch up, sleep well tonight xx
I wrote back and say i miss his sexy voice and he asked him to video call me later. He hasn';t responded ... will see if he calls..
I see this as a red flag.. like he is not investing emotionally and no effort. like may be he thinks he doens't want to purseu the relationship further but he still likes my body and trying to use me until next best thing comes along...
With regards to this dating site it could be a perfectly innocent explanation but I would definitely address it.
This guy has proved himself every single time and if it wasn't for dxp I don't think you'd have got this far. You jumped down my throat last time but I stand by what I say you allow your own insecurities and past relationships to influence how you act/view this relationship.
Wonderwoman he might just have made a crappy deicision today... however it's still a red flag.. let see if he puts more effort in the next time I see him. anwyay i asked him to call tonight.. if he planned to visit means he is free. So I don't think asking him to call is too unreasonable. Those who avoid calls are those who doens't want emotional connection.. unless they are genuinely busy which its not his case for this time.. he ahsn;t say yes or no to the call. he might just call at my proposed time.. who knows
If he feels comfortable enough to tell you about his own insecurities then he trusts you. Caps don't like to show people their vulnerable side.
You say he made a crappy decision but maybe in his eyes he'd already told you that he'd see you today, did you ask what time at that point? If it was important for your schedule.
I'm just trying to get you to look at the situation from a different angle other than your own.
If you asked him to call then I'm sure he will.click to expand
What happened was while we were together he refused to play turth or dare. I said why not? its fun and we can get to know each other!!
He said we have plenty of time to get to know each other. I said true but I don't even know when will I see you. he said just relax I'm in front of you right now! I'm back on Sat so I guess i will see you sometime on Sunday?
When he wants to see you. he would confirm again 3 days before like still good for that day? I will say yes then the day before he will pick a time. then the day he pick the location. this time none of that...
Posted by StrawberryJamMaybe he feels like you're suffocating him. That might be why he's gone a little distant. It sounds like emotionally you are trying to move to fast for him. He wants the relationship to evolve organically.Posted by WonderWoman14I will let you know if he calls.Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by WonderWoman14We both have insecurity issues, we both are needy and I know that, but he is better at hiding it.. he was telling me may be you need a guy your age who has more energy. I said you are breaking up wtih me? H goes no you crazy? i'm just looking for compassion. I said how many more times do I need to tell you I'm really into you? He goes no. He also said I'm old and fat (skinny fat) I said you are fishing again? he goes yes. I'm not annoyed. I'm just saying we both are human and we both have our insecurities.Posted by StrawberryJamYou're on self district mode. You just want to see the negative every single time. Anytime something happens or he says something that doesn't match YOUR way of thinking or doing things you assume the bad in him every time.
@Noni05 @Ophiuchus
We were supposed to meet today but he never confirmed like he used to... then he text me late afternoon...
he said Hi sj, how is your day?Will you be home later today? can I come and visit? x
My respond was "Hi nice to hear from you, I didn't think we were still meeting today as we didn';t communicate as much and no confirmation prior. I will have to be jome to sleep for sure but 2 hot ppl get together late at night screams for touble 😉 x
Let's definitely get together when we have more time to catch upx"
he wrote back hello, sorry for the late notice. it's a bit last minute indeed, My apology. Let me know when convenient to catch up, sleep well tonight xx
I wrote back and say i miss his sexy voice and he asked him to video call me later. He hasn';t responded ... will see if he calls..
I see this as a red flag.. like he is not investing emotionally and no effort. like may be he thinks he doens't want to purseu the relationship further but he still likes my body and trying to use me until next best thing comes along...
With regards to this dating site it could be a perfectly innocent explanation but I would definitely address it.
This guy has proved himself every single time and if it wasn't for dxp I don't think you'd have got this far. You jumped down my throat last time but I stand by what I say you allow your own insecurities and past relationships to influence how you act/view this relationship.
Wonderwoman he might just have made a crappy deicision today... however it's still a red flag.. let see if he puts more effort in the next time I see him. anwyay i asked him to call tonight.. if he planned to visit means he is free. So I don't think asking him to call is too unreasonable. Those who avoid calls are those who doens't want emotional connection.. unless they are genuinely busy which its not his case for this time.. he ahsn;t say yes or no to the call. he might just call at my proposed time.. who knows
If he feels comfortable enough to tell you about his own insecurities then he trusts you. Caps don't like to show people their vulnerable side.
You say he made a crappy decision but maybe in his eyes he'd already told you that he'd see you today, did you ask what time at that point? If it was important for your schedule.
I'm just trying to get you to look at the situation from a different angle other than your own.
If you asked him to call then I'm sure he will.
What happened was while we were together he refused to play turth or dare. I said why not? its fun and we can get to know each other!!
He said we have plenty of time to get to know each other. I said true but I don't even know when will I see you. he said just relax I'm in front of you right now! I'm back on Sat so I guess i will see you sometime on Sunday?
When he wants to see you. he would confirm again 3 days before like still good for that day? I will say yes then the day before he will pick a time. then the day he pick the location. this time none of that...click to expand
Caps are like snails they like to take their time and not rush things.
Posted by WonderWoman14fair enough, I can take it slow.. but the booty call today is really less than ideal.. If he still wants to deepen things he should at least have dinner with me instead of saying can I come visitPosted by StrawberryJamMaybe he feels like you're suffocating him. That might be why he's gone a little distant. It sounds like emotionally you are trying to move to fast for him. He wants the relationship to evolve organically.Posted by WonderWoman14I will let you know if he calls.Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by WonderWoman14We both have insecurity issues, we both are needy and I know that, but he is better at hiding it.. he was telling me may be you need a guy your age who has more energy. I said you are breaking up wtih me? H goes no you crazy? i'm just looking for compassion. I said how many more times do I need to tell you I'm really into you? He goes no. He also said I'm old and fat (skinny fat) I said you are fishing again? he goes yes. I'm not annoyed. I'm just saying we both are human and we both have our insecurities.Posted by StrawberryJamYou're on self district mode. You just want to see the negative every single time. Anytime something happens or he says something that doesn't match YOUR way of thinking or doing things you assume the bad in him every time.
@Noni05 @Ophiuchus
We were supposed to meet today but he never confirmed like he used to... then he text me late afternoon...
he said Hi sj, how is your day?Will you be home later today? can I come and visit? x
My respond was "Hi nice to hear from you, I didn't think we were still meeting today as we didn';t communicate as much and no confirmation prior. I will have to be jome to sleep for sure but 2 hot ppl get together late at night screams for touble 😉 x
Let's definitely get together when we have more time to catch upx"
he wrote back hello, sorry for the late notice. it's a bit last minute indeed, My apology. Let me know when convenient to catch up, sleep well tonight xx
I wrote back and say i miss his sexy voice and he asked him to video call me later. He hasn';t responded ... will see if he calls..
I see this as a red flag.. like he is not investing emotionally and no effort. like may be he thinks he doens't want to purseu the relationship further but he still likes my body and trying to use me until next best thing comes along...
With regards to this dating site it could be a perfectly innocent explanation but I would definitely address it.
This guy has proved himself every single time and if it wasn't for dxp I don't think you'd have got this far. You jumped down my throat last time but I stand by what I say you allow your own insecurities and past relationships to influence how you act/view this relationship.
Wonderwoman he might just have made a crappy deicision today... however it's still a red flag.. let see if he puts more effort in the next time I see him. anwyay i asked him to call tonight.. if he planned to visit means he is free. So I don't think asking him to call is too unreasonable. Those who avoid calls are those who doens't want emotional connection.. unless they are genuinely busy which its not his case for this time.. he ahsn;t say yes or no to the call. he might just call at my proposed time.. who knows
If he feels comfortable enough to tell you about his own insecurities then he trusts you. Caps don't like to show people their vulnerable side.
You say he made a crappy decision but maybe in his eyes he'd already told you that he'd see you today, did you ask what time at that point? If it was important for your schedule.
I'm just trying to get you to look at the situation from a different angle other than your own.
If you asked him to call then I'm sure he will.
What happened was while we were together he refused to play turth or dare. I said why not? its fun and we can get to know each other!!
He said we have plenty of time to get to know each other. I said true but I don't even know when will I see you. he said just relax I'm in front of you right now! I'm back on Sat so I guess i will see you sometime on Sunday?
When he wants to see you. he would confirm again 3 days before like still good for that day? I will say yes then the day before he will pick a time. then the day he pick the location. this time none of that...
Caps are like snails they like to take their time and not rush things.click to expand
Posted by StrawberryJamDid you suggest going out for dinner? You said you are now both comfortable with each other. Maybe he's just tired and wanted a chilled night in?.Posted by WonderWoman14fair enough, I can take it slow.. but the booty call today is really less than ideal.. If he still wants to deepen things he should at least have dinner with me instead of saying can I come visitPosted by StrawberryJamMaybe he feels like you're suffocating him. That might be why he's gone a little distant. It sounds like emotionally you are trying to move to fast for him. He wants the relationship to evolve organically.Posted by WonderWoman14I will let you know if he calls.Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by WonderWoman14We both have insecurity issues, we both are needy and I know that, but he is better at hiding it.. he was telling me may be you need a guy your age who has more energy. I said you are breaking up wtih me? H goes no you crazy? i'm just looking for compassion. I said how many more times do I need to tell you I'm really into you? He goes no. He also said I'm old and fat (skinny fat) I said you are fishing again? he goes yes. I'm not annoyed. I'm just saying we both are human and we both have our insecurities.Posted by StrawberryJamYou're on self district mode. You just want to see the negative every single time. Anytime something happens or he says something that doesn't match YOUR way of thinking or doing things you assume the bad in him every time.
@Noni05 @Ophiuchus
We were supposed to meet today but he never confirmed like he used to... then he text me late afternoon...
he said Hi sj, how is your day?Will you be home later today? can I come and visit? x
My respond was "Hi nice to hear from you, I didn't think we were still meeting today as we didn';t communicate as much and no confirmation prior. I will have to be jome to sleep for sure but 2 hot ppl get together late at night screams for touble 😉 x
Let's definitely get together when we have more time to catch upx"
he wrote back hello, sorry for the late notice. it's a bit last minute indeed, My apology. Let me know when convenient to catch up, sleep well tonight xx
I wrote back and say i miss his sexy voice and he asked him to video call me later. He hasn';t responded ... will see if he calls..
I see this as a red flag.. like he is not investing emotionally and no effort. like may be he thinks he doens't want to purseu the relationship further but he still likes my body and trying to use me until next best thing comes along...
With regards to this dating site it could be a perfectly innocent explanation but I would definitely address it.
This guy has proved himself every single time and if it wasn't for dxp I don't think you'd have got this far. You jumped down my throat last time but I stand by what I say you allow your own insecurities and past relationships to influence how you act/view this relationship.
Wonderwoman he might just have made a crappy deicision today... however it's still a red flag.. let see if he puts more effort in the next time I see him. anwyay i asked him to call tonight.. if he planned to visit means he is free. So I don't think asking him to call is too unreasonable. Those who avoid calls are those who doens't want emotional connection.. unless they are genuinely busy which its not his case for this time.. he ahsn;t say yes or no to the call. he might just call at my proposed time.. who knows
If he feels comfortable enough to tell you about his own insecurities then he trusts you. Caps don't like to show people their vulnerable side.
You say he made a crappy decision but maybe in his eyes he'd already told you that he'd see you today, did you ask what time at that point? If it was important for your schedule.
I'm just trying to get you to look at the situation from a different angle other than your own.
If you asked him to call then I'm sure he will.
What happened was while we were together he refused to play turth or dare. I said why not? its fun and we can get to know each other!!
He said we have plenty of time to get to know each other. I said true but I don't even know when will I see you. he said just relax I'm in front of you right now! I'm back on Sat so I guess i will see you sometime on Sunday?
When he wants to see you. he would confirm again 3 days before like still good for that day? I will say yes then the day before he will pick a time. then the day he pick the location. this time none of that...
Caps are like snails they like to take their time and not rush things.click to expand
I think your boundaries must have been unclear to him
When i start to see someone, i tell them if they want to see other people, they don't see me....i don't share...it seems these days, dating has become wishy washy
Speak out and be heard by him....if he doesn't like it, then he aint the one for you
When i start to see someone, i tell them if they want to see other people, they don't see me....i don't share...it seems these days, dating has become wishy washy
Speak out and be heard by him....if he doesn't like it, then he aint the one for you
Posted by StrawberryJamOuch... nextPosted by VirgoreanHe just booty called me... it;s late afternoon where I'm at. he asked hy how is your day? will you be hone later today> can I come adn visit? x
You'd have to ask him, but give it a few days for him to recuperate fromy his trip. And when you ask, avoid going on full confrontation mode. Ask in a casual and polite manner.
Instead of making accusatory assumptions I asked him if anything had been bothering him as of late. Then when he responded with no and inquired on my asking I then informed him how I realized his detachment and it flowed into a good discussion. He was very understanding and we bridged the gap of the disconnect.
surely if he cares he would have confirm prior and also if he wants to spend time he could have take me to dinner then back to my palce...click to expand
Posted by WonderWoman14it is possible... however he could have suggested dinner. doesn't have to be dinner date at resturant.. can be take out or dlievey to my place...Posted by StrawberryJamDid you suggest going out for dinner? You said you are now both comfortable with each other. Maybe he's just tired and wanted a chilled night in?.Posted by WonderWoman14fair enough, I can take it slow.. but the booty call today is really less than ideal.. If he still wants to deepen things he should at least have dinner with me instead of saying can I come visitPosted by StrawberryJamMaybe he feels like you're suffocating him. That might be why he's gone a little distant. It sounds like emotionally you are trying to move to fast for him. He wants the relationship to evolve organically.Posted by WonderWoman14I will let you know if he calls.Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by WonderWoman14We both have insecurity issues, we both are needy and I know that, but he is better at hiding it.. he was telling me may be you need a guy your age who has more energy. I said you are breaking up wtih me? H goes no you crazy? i'm just looking for compassion. I said how many more times do I need to tell you I'm really into you? He goes no. He also said I'm old and fat (skinny fat) I said you are fishing again? he goes yes. I'm not annoyed. I'm just saying we both are human and we both have our insecurities.Posted by StrawberryJamYou're on self district mode. You just want to see the negative every single time. Anytime something happens or he says something that doesn't match YOUR way of thinking or doing things you assume the bad in him every time.
@Noni05 @Ophiuchus
We were supposed to meet today but he never confirmed like he used to... then he text me late afternoon...
he said Hi sj, how is your day?Will you be home later today? can I come and visit? x
My respond was "Hi nice to hear from you, I didn't think we were still meeting today as we didn';t communicate as much and no confirmation prior. I will have to be jome to sleep for sure but 2 hot ppl get together late at night screams for touble 😉 x
Let's definitely get together when we have more time to catch upx"
he wrote back hello, sorry for the late notice. it's a bit last minute indeed, My apology. Let me know when convenient to catch up, sleep well tonight xx
I wrote back and say i miss his sexy voice and he asked him to video call me later. He hasn';t responded ... will see if he calls..
I see this as a red flag.. like he is not investing emotionally and no effort. like may be he thinks he doens't want to purseu the relationship further but he still likes my body and trying to use me until next best thing comes along...
With regards to this dating site it could be a perfectly innocent explanation but I would definitely address it.
This guy has proved himself every single time and if it wasn't for dxp I don't think you'd have got this far. You jumped down my throat last time but I stand by what I say you allow your own insecurities and past relationships to influence how you act/view this relationship.
Wonderwoman he might just have made a crappy deicision today... however it's still a red flag.. let see if he puts more effort in the next time I see him. anwyay i asked him to call tonight.. if he planned to visit means he is free. So I don't think asking him to call is too unreasonable. Those who avoid calls are those who doens't want emotional connection.. unless they are genuinely busy which its not his case for this time.. he ahsn;t say yes or no to the call. he might just call at my proposed time.. who knows
If he feels comfortable enough to tell you about his own insecurities then he trusts you. Caps don't like to show people their vulnerable side.
You say he made a crappy decision but maybe in his eyes he'd already told you that he'd see you today, did you ask what time at that point? If it was important for your schedule.
I'm just trying to get you to look at the situation from a different angle other than your own.
If you asked him to call then I'm sure he will.
What happened was while we were together he refused to play turth or dare. I said why not? its fun and we can get to know each other!!
He said we have plenty of time to get to know each other. I said true but I don't even know when will I see you. he said just relax I'm in front of you right now! I'm back on Sat so I guess i will see you sometime on Sunday?
When he wants to see you. he would confirm again 3 days before like still good for that day? I will say yes then the day before he will pick a time. then the day he pick the location. this time none of that...
Caps are like snails they like to take their time and not rush things.
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Posted by MyStarsShineWe already agree to be exclusive...
I think your boundaries must have been unclear to him
When i start to see someone, i tell them if they want to see other people, they don't see me....i don't share...it seems these days, dating has become wishy washy
Speak out and be heard by him....if he doesn't like it, then he aint the one for you
Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by MyStarsShineWe already agree to be exclusive...
I think your boundaries must have been unclear to him
When i start to see someone, i tell them if they want to see other people, they don't see me....i don't share...it seems these days, dating has become wishy washy
Speak out and be heard by him....if he doesn't like it, then he aint the one for youclick to expand
Well if he is messing around, you need to meet him and look him in the eye and ask him what's going on....
...and agreeing to be faithful to someone in this day and age means very little
Posted by MyStarsShineI will, when we are meeting in publicPosted by StrawberryJamPosted by MyStarsShineWe already agree to be exclusive...
I think your boundaries must have been unclear to him
When i start to see someone, i tell them if they want to see other people, they don't see me....i don't share...it seems these days, dating has become wishy washy
Speak out and be heard by him....if he doesn't like it, then he aint the one for you
Well if he is messing around, you need to meet him and look him in the eye and ask him what's going on....
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Posted by StrawberryJamIn public? In front of other people? I would find somewhere quiet to meet and ask him outright....no distractionsPosted by MyStarsShineI will, when we are meeting in publicPosted by StrawberryJamPosted by MyStarsShineWe already agree to be exclusive...
I think your boundaries must have been unclear to him
When i start to see someone, i tell them if they want to see other people, they don't see me....i don't share...it seems these days, dating has become wishy washy
Speak out and be heard by him....if he doesn't like it, then he aint the one for you
Well if he is messing around, you need to meet him and look him in the eye and ask him what's going on....
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Posted by MyStarsShineif ti's in prviate at home he might sweet talk me with cuddles and I will be clouded by judgement...Posted by StrawberryJamIn public? In front of other people? I would find somewhere quiet to meet and ask him outright....no distractionsPosted by MyStarsShineI will, when we are meeting in publicPosted by StrawberryJamPosted by MyStarsShineWe already agree to be exclusive...
I think your boundaries must have been unclear to him
When i start to see someone, i tell them if they want to see other people, they don't see me....i don't share...it seems these days, dating has become wishy washy
Speak out and be heard by him....if he doesn't like it, then he aint the one for you
Well if he is messing around, you need to meet him and look him in the eye and ask him what's going on....
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Posted by StrawberryJamI meant a private place but where you can both be quiet togetherPosted by MyStarsShineif ti's in prviate at home he might sweet talk me with cuddles and I will be clouded by judgement...Posted by StrawberryJamIn public? In front of other people? I would find somewhere quiet to meet and ask him outright....no distractionsPosted by MyStarsShineI will, when we are meeting in publicPosted by StrawberryJamPosted by MyStarsShineWe already agree to be exclusive...
I think your boundaries must have been unclear to him
When i start to see someone, i tell them if they want to see other people, they don't see me....i don't share...it seems these days, dating has become wishy washy
Speak out and be heard by him....if he doesn't like it, then he aint the one for you
Well if he is messing around, you need to meet him and look him in the eye and ask him what's going on....
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Yes you are right, don't go to his home
Posted by MyStarsShineThe only private place I can think of is mine or his.. and neither are good LOLPosted by StrawberryJamI meant a private place but where you can both be quiet togetherPosted by MyStarsShineif ti's in prviate at home he might sweet talk me with cuddles and I will be clouded by judgement...Posted by StrawberryJamIn public? In front of other people? I would find somewhere quiet to meet and ask him outright....no distractionsPosted by MyStarsShineI will, when we are meeting in publicPosted by StrawberryJamPosted by MyStarsShineWe already agree to be exclusive...
I think your boundaries must have been unclear to him
When i start to see someone, i tell them if they want to see other people, they don't see me....i don't share...it seems these days, dating has become wishy washy
Speak out and be heard by him....if he doesn't like it, then he aint the one for you
Well if he is messing around, you need to meet him and look him in the eye and ask him what's going on....
Yes you are right, don't go to his home
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so I thought dinner would be good
Posted by StrawberryJamSounds good 🙂. Sit opposite him so you can see his eyes...stay strong and get some answersPosted by MyStarsShineThe only private place I can think of is mine or his.. and neither are good LOLPosted by StrawberryJamI meant a private place but where you can both be quiet togetherPosted by MyStarsShineif ti's in prviate at home he might sweet talk me with cuddles and I will be clouded by judgement...Posted by StrawberryJamIn public? In front of other people? I would find somewhere quiet to meet and ask him outright....no distractionsPosted by MyStarsShineI will, when we are meeting in publicPosted by StrawberryJamPosted by MyStarsShineWe already agree to be exclusive...
I think your boundaries must have been unclear to him
When i start to see someone, i tell them if they want to see other people, they don't see me....i don't share...it seems these days, dating has become wishy washy
Speak out and be heard by him....if he doesn't like it, then he aint the one for you
Well if he is messing around, you need to meet him and look him in the eye and ask him what's going on....
Yes you are right, don't go to his home
so I thought dinner would be goodclick to expand
What is your sign?
Posted by blackmoonregarding the log in may be.. cos I almost canceled the trip but i did agree to go after he called me..
Tell him you are going outside, and if he would meet you outside instead. Then bring it up casualIy... keep it light
Maybe he doesn't feel appreciated? Thats not typical behaviour of a cap imo
during the trip he pull away emotionally. which someone said he could feel suffocated.. however AI did give him lots of compliments like you are such a guy. He deflect it by syaing i'm a guy with bad back. I also praised him for his masculinity. told him masculinty is not measured by msucle mass. he is on the slim side...May be I can call him slim shady now...
Posted by MyStarsShineI'm virgo libra cuspPosted by StrawberryJamSounds good 🙂. Sit opposite him so you can see his eyes...stay strong and get some answersPosted by MyStarsShineThe only private place I can think of is mine or his.. and neither are good LOLPosted by StrawberryJamI meant a private place but where you can both be quiet togetherPosted by MyStarsShineif ti's in prviate at home he might sweet talk me with cuddles and I will be clouded by judgement...Posted by StrawberryJamIn public? In front of other people? I would find somewhere quiet to meet and ask him outright....no distractionsPosted by MyStarsShineI will, when we are meeting in publicPosted by StrawberryJamPosted by MyStarsShineWe already agree to be exclusive...
I think your boundaries must have been unclear to him
When i start to see someone, i tell them if they want to see other people, they don't see me....i don't share...it seems these days, dating has become wishy washy
Speak out and be heard by him....if he doesn't like it, then he aint the one for you
Well if he is messing around, you need to meet him and look him in the eye and ask him what's going on....
Yes you are right, don't go to his home
so I thought dinner would be good
What is your sign?
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Posted by StrawberryJamI sensed Virgo. I think he feels a little overpowered by you and somehow doesn't feel *good* enough....also he doesn't seem ready for a committed rship....just my gut feelingPosted by MyStarsShineI'm virgo libra cuspPosted by StrawberryJamSounds good 🙂. Sit opposite him so you can see his eyes...stay strong and get some answersPosted by MyStarsShineThe only private place I can think of is mine or his.. and neither are good LOLPosted by StrawberryJamI meant a private place but where you can both be quiet togetherPosted by MyStarsShineif ti's in prviate at home he might sweet talk me with cuddles and I will be clouded by judgement...Posted by StrawberryJamIn public? In front of other people? I would find somewhere quiet to meet and ask him outright....no distractionsPosted by MyStarsShineI will, when we are meeting in publicPosted by StrawberryJamPosted by MyStarsShineWe already agree to be exclusive...
I think your boundaries must have been unclear to him
When i start to see someone, i tell them if they want to see other people, they don't see me....i don't share...it seems these days, dating has become wishy washy
Speak out and be heard by him....if he doesn't like it, then he aint the one for you
Well if he is messing around, you need to meet him and look him in the eye and ask him what's going on....
Yes you are right, don't go to his home
so I thought dinner would be good
What is your sign?
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You may have to let this one go
Posted by MyStarsShineyes he did tell me many times he feels like I'm too sexy for him, and he can tell everyone are looking at him like he is punching way above his weight. If this is how he feels he should really focus on building better connection wtih me as I am with him.... During the trip I did ask him this question. You are successful and amazing. why are you 46 and never married? He goes you know I moved here from France with my ex. 7 years relationship she dumped me cos she was out of love. Then after this it took me awhile to move on. Then I had a 5 years relationship, first 2 years was normal. then 3 years of long distance cos the girl moved away. then he wants to end things nad she moved back. he bought a house for them to live togther but she dind't want to then move to another country.Posted by StrawberryJamI sensed Virgo. I think he feels a little overpowered by you and somehow doesn't feel *good* enough....also he doesn't seem ready for a committed rship....just my gut feelingPosted by MyStarsShineI'm virgo libra cuspPosted by StrawberryJamSounds good 🙂. Sit opposite him so you can see his eyes...stay strong and get some answersPosted by MyStarsShineThe only private place I can think of is mine or his.. and neither are good LOLPosted by StrawberryJamI meant a private place but where you can both be quiet togetherPosted by MyStarsShineif ti's in prviate at home he might sweet talk me with cuddles and I will be clouded by judgement...Posted by StrawberryJamIn public? In front of other people? I would find somewhere quiet to meet and ask him outright....no distractionsPosted by MyStarsShineI will, when we are meeting in publicPosted by StrawberryJamPosted by MyStarsShineWe already agree to be exclusive...
I think your boundaries must have been unclear to him
When i start to see someone, i tell them if they want to see other people, they don't see me....i don't share...it seems these days, dating has become wishy washy
Speak out and be heard by him....if he doesn't like it, then he aint the one for you
Well if he is messing around, you need to meet him and look him in the eye and ask him what's going on....
Yes you are right, don't go to his home
so I thought dinner would be good
What is your sign?
You may have to let this one go
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After this when he was 40 he dated a girl who was only 24. lasted a year and she dumped him saying she is too old. Since then he probably only had casual relationship. he goes i can never see myself ebing with a woman my age. i'm so immature.. i think it's more like him being shallow.. cos I said jennifer lopez is hot as hell. he goes nah she is too old. I said she is 47 with eternal hotness lol
anyway the discussion went like this. ok does that mean if I get that far with you and you will dump me when I'm at my 40s? he goes no one knows the future. I said idk i jsut don;t think you are ready for relationshi. he asked me why? i said it's your vibe he goes interesting..
Posted by blackmoonPosted by StrawberryJamI think you are rushing things right now.. if you break up right awayPosted by blackmoonregarding the log in may be.. cos I almost canceled the trip but i did agree to go after he called me..
Tell him you are going outside, and if he would meet you outside instead. Then bring it up casualIy... keep it light
Maybe he doesn't feel appreciated? Thats not typical behaviour of a cap imo
during the trip he pull away emotionally. which someone said he could feel suffocated.. however AI did give him lots of compliments like you are such a guy. He deflect it by syaing i'm a guy with bad back. I also praised him for his masculinity. told him masculinty is not measured by msucle mass. he is on the slim side...May be I can call him slim shady now...
Give him space and enjoy life. Maybe he is tired and exhausted after the trip, I know I dont want to talk to the person I saw for a long time when im in this mode.
Yeah the log in.. yeah his mind is fluctuating right. Just let him make the next step and seat back in your seat and relax too
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when he landed he text me to say his friend surpsied him at the aiport and picked him up and they were handing for brunch. then he asked hows my weened going. I responded and no reply and then he booty call me today.. he';s been like this for the entire week... text me, i reply, then he ignored. 2 days later start a new convo
Posted by StrawberryJamHe sounds extremely shallow and immature. What age are you Virgo?Posted by MyStarsShineyes he did tell me many times he feels like I'm too sexy for him, and he can tell everyone are looking at him like he is punching way above his weight. If this is how he feels he should really focus on building better connection wtih me as I am with him.... During the trip I did ask him this question. You are successful and amazing. why are you 46 and never married? He goes you know I moved here from France with my ex. 7 years relationship she dumped me cos she was out of love. Then after this it took me awhile to move on. Then I had a 5 years relationship, first 2 years was normal. then 3 years of long distance cos the girl moved away. then he wants to end things nad she moved back. he bought a house for them to live togther but she dind't want to then move to another country.Posted by StrawberryJamI sensed Virgo. I think he feels a little overpowered by you and somehow doesn't feel *good* enough....also he doesn't seem ready for a committed rship....just my gut feelingPosted by MyStarsShineI'm virgo libra cuspPosted by StrawberryJamSounds good 🙂. Sit opposite him so you can see his eyes...stay strong and get some answersPosted by MyStarsShineThe only private place I can think of is mine or his.. and neither are good LOLPosted by StrawberryJamI meant a private place but where you can both be quiet togetherPosted by MyStarsShineif ti's in prviate at home he might sweet talk me with cuddles and I will be clouded by judgement...Posted by StrawberryJamIn public? In front of other people? I would find somewhere quiet to meet and ask him outright....no distractionsPosted by MyStarsShineI will, when we are meeting in publicPosted by StrawberryJamPosted by MyStarsShineWe already agree to be exclusive...
I think your boundaries must have been unclear to him
When i start to see someone, i tell them if they want to see other people, they don't see me....i don't share...it seems these days, dating has become wishy washy
Speak out and be heard by him....if he doesn't like it, then he aint the one for you
Well if he is messing around, you need to meet him and look him in the eye and ask him what's going on....
Yes you are right, don't go to his home
so I thought dinner would be good
What is your sign?
You may have to let this one go
After this when he was 40 he dated a girl who was only 24. lasted a year and she dumped him saying she is too old. Since then he probably only had casual relationship. he goes i can never see myself ebing with a woman my age. i'm so immature.. i think it's more like him being shallow.. cos I said jennifer lopez is hot as hell. he goes nah she is too old. I said she is 47 with eternal hotness lol
anyway the discussion went like this. ok does that mean if I get that far with you and you will dump me when I'm at my 40s? he goes no one knows the future. I said idk i jsut don;t think you are ready for relationshi. he asked me why? i said it's your vibe he goes interesting..click to expand
..and often when a guy thinks the woman is too *good* for him, he wont work on building on the rship, he will sabotage it by finding someone else
I have seen that lots of times
Laziness
I have seen that lots of times
Laziness
@wonderwoman he is not calling. He just text me saying he is going to bed now and he didn;t get to sleep too well the last tow nights and he has a migraine. lets catch up soon. sleep well, nite nite x
Posted by MyStarsShineI'm 33.; he kept telling me I look way younger so ppl probbaly think I was too young for him.
..and often when a guy thinks the woman is too *good* for him, he wont work on building on the rship, he will sabotage it by finding someone else
I have seen that lots of times
Laziness
I asked him to call and he is not calling.. . He just text me saying he is going to bed now and he didn;t get to sleep too well the last tow nights and he has a migraine. lets catch up soon. sleep well, nite nite x
Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by MyStarsShineI'm 33.; he kept telling me I look way younger so ppl probbaly think I was too young for him.
..and often when a guy thinks the woman is too *good* for him, he wont work on building on the rship, he will sabotage it by finding someone else
I have seen that lots of times
Laziness
I asked him to call and he is not calling.. . He just text me saying he is going to bed now and he didn;t get to sleep too well the last tow nights and he has a migraine. lets catch up soon. sleep well, nite nite xclick to expand
I think you know what to do
Wishing you much luck with this
*hugs*
Posted by blackmoonPosted by StrawberryJamYeah just ignore him from now on, relog into that website or meet a mutual friend..To date. Keep options open and if he comes back.. analyze and see where it leadsPosted by blackmoonPosted by StrawberryJamI think you are rushing things right now.. if you break up right awayPosted by blackmoonregarding the log in may be.. cos I almost canceled the trip but i did agree to go after he called me..
Tell him you are going outside, and if he would meet you outside instead. Then bring it up casualIy... keep it light
Maybe he doesn't feel appreciated? Thats not typical behaviour of a cap imo
during the trip he pull away emotionally. which someone said he could feel suffocated.. however AI did give him lots of compliments like you are such a guy. He deflect it by syaing i'm a guy with bad back. I also praised him for his masculinity. told him masculinty is not measured by msucle mass. he is on the slim side...May be I can call him slim shady now...
Give him space and enjoy life. Maybe he is tired and exhausted after the trip, I know I dont want to talk to the person I saw for a long time when im in this mode.
Yeah the log in.. yeah his mind is fluctuating right. Just let him make the next step and seat back in your seat and relax too
when he landed he text me to say his friend surpsied him at the aiport and picked him up and they were handing for brunch. then he asked hows my weened going. I responded and no reply and then he booty call me today.. he';s been like this for the entire week... text me, i reply, then he ignored. 2 days later start a new convo
I dont think you should stress about this, I know its easier saying it then it actually is. If you stress yourself, nothing can achieved.. treat yourself and pamper yourself
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we don't have mutual friends, he did brag about me to his friends befoer this trip. pretty sure he was bitching about me yesterday instead of bragging. I'm sure they asked about me.
anwyay he just text me to say he is going to bed now saying he hasn't had good sleep and got mirgiane.. lets catch up soon. sleep well night nite x
Posted by MyStarsShinemy instinct tells me he is avodiing emotional connections... if he really is sick wtih migraine he woudln't be thinking of visiting before...Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by MyStarsShineI'm 33.; he kept telling me I look way younger so ppl probbaly think I was too young for him.
..and often when a guy thinks the woman is too *good* for him, he wont work on building on the rship, he will sabotage it by finding someone else
I have seen that lots of times
Laziness
I asked him to call and he is not calling.. . He just text me saying he is going to bed now and he didn;t get to sleep too well the last tow nights and he has a migraine. lets catch up soon. sleep well, nite nite x
I think you know what to do
Wishing you much luck with this
*hugs*
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Posted by StrawberryJamYou know sometimes we need to speak it out our write it down to make it real.....Posted by MyStarsShinemy instinct tells me he is avodiing emotional connections... if he really is sick wtih migraine he woudln't be thinking of visiting before...Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by MyStarsShineI'm 33.; he kept telling me I look way younger so ppl probbaly think I was too young for him.
..and often when a guy thinks the woman is too *good* for him, he wont work on building on the rship, he will sabotage it by finding someone else
I have seen that lots of times
Laziness
I asked him to call and he is not calling.. . He just text me saying he is going to bed now and he didn;t get to sleep too well the last tow nights and he has a migraine. lets catch up soon. sleep well, nite nite x
I think you know what to do
Wishing you much luck with this
*hugs*
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I had the strangest thought...it is said the Messiah was 33 when he was killed ~ don't let this guy crucify you, i am not getting any good feelings about him at all and i think he would hurt you very much if you gave him the pleasure of being with him
Keep us posted, Virgo
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Posted by blackmooni never flirt infornt of anyone infront of him. he knows guys were hitting on me at gym. we planned on training together but he was sleeping in... he also can see ppl are non stop staring at me when we out for dinner.. men and womenPosted by StrawberryJamDid anything happen during the trip, that he might have not liked?Posted by blackmoonPosted by StrawberryJamYeah just ignore him from now on, relog into that website or meet a mutual friend..To date. Keep options open and if he comes back.. analyze and see where it leadsPosted by blackmoonPosted by StrawberryJamI think you are rushing things right now.. if you break up right awayPosted by blackmoonregarding the log in may be.. cos I almost canceled the trip but i did agree to go after he called me..
Tell him you are going outside, and if he would meet you outside instead. Then bring it up casualIy... keep it light
Maybe he doesn't feel appreciated? Thats not typical behaviour of a cap imo
during the trip he pull away emotionally. which someone said he could feel suffocated.. however AI did give him lots of compliments like you are such a guy. He deflect it by syaing i'm a guy with bad back. I also praised him for his masculinity. told him masculinty is not measured by msucle mass. he is on the slim side...May be I can call him slim shady now...
Give him space and enjoy life. Maybe he is tired and exhausted after the trip, I know I dont want to talk to the person I saw for a long time when im in this mode.
Yeah the log in.. yeah his mind is fluctuating right. Just let him make the next step and seat back in your seat and relax too
when he landed he text me to say his friend surpsied him at the aiport and picked him up and they were handing for brunch. then he asked hows my weened going. I responded and no reply and then he booty call me today.. he';s been like this for the entire week... text me, i reply, then he ignored. 2 days later start a new convo
I dont think you should stress about this, I know its easier saying it then it actually is. If you stress yourself, nothing can achieved.. treat yourself and pamper yourself
we don't have mutual friends, he did brag about me to his friends befoer this trip. pretty sure he was bitching about me yesterday instead of bragging. I'm sure they asked about me.
anwyay he just text me to say he is going to bed now saying he hasn't had good sleep and got mirgiane.. lets catch up soon. sleep well night nite x
Maybe you flirted or got attention from someone
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Posted by MyStarsShineit's spooky that you mentioned about the 33 thing.. it's thunder and windy here... and he also metnioned oh age 33 something similar to what you said when we on first date...Posted by StrawberryJamYou know sometimes we need to speak it out our write it down to make it real.....Posted by MyStarsShinemy instinct tells me he is avodiing emotional connections... if he really is sick wtih migraine he woudln't be thinking of visiting before...Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by MyStarsShineI'm 33.; he kept telling me I look way younger so ppl probbaly think I was too young for him.
..and often when a guy thinks the woman is too *good* for him, he wont work on building on the rship, he will sabotage it by finding someone else
I have seen that lots of times
Laziness
I asked him to call and he is not calling.. . He just text me saying he is going to bed now and he didn;t get to sleep too well the last tow nights and he has a migraine. lets catch up soon. sleep well, nite nite x
I think you know what to do
Wishing you much luck with this
*hugs*
I had the strangest thought...it is said the Messiah was 33 when he was killed ~ don't let this guy crucify you, i am not getting any good feelings about him at all and i think he would hurt you very much if you gave him the pleasure of being with him
Keep us posted, Virgo
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I'm having goose bumps now... I already got crucified by one ex before him.. that guy lied about many things.. idk.. I think i will just leave it for tonight..
After all he is 46 not an ideal guy for me. He has to be amaaaaaazzzzing for me to be with, which he is not now
Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by MyStarsShineit's spooky that you mentioned about the 33 thing.. it's thunder and windy here... and he also metnioned oh age 33 something similar to what you said when we on first date...Posted by StrawberryJamYou know sometimes we need to speak it out our write it down to make it real.....Posted by MyStarsShinemy instinct tells me he is avodiing emotional connections... if he really is sick wtih migraine he woudln't be thinking of visiting before...Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by MyStarsShineI'm 33.; he kept telling me I look way younger so ppl probbaly think I was too young for him.
..and often when a guy thinks the woman is too *good* for him, he wont work on building on the rship, he will sabotage it by finding someone else
I have seen that lots of times
Laziness
I asked him to call and he is not calling.. . He just text me saying he is going to bed now and he didn;t get to sleep too well the last tow nights and he has a migraine. lets catch up soon. sleep well, nite nite x
I think you know what to do
Wishing you much luck with this
*hugs*
I had the strangest thought...it is said the Messiah was 33 when he was killed ~ don't let this guy crucify you, i am not getting any good feelings about him at all and i think he would hurt you very much if you gave him the pleasure of being with him
Keep us posted, Virgo
x
I'm having goose bumps now... I already got crucified by one ex before him.. that guy lied about many things.. idk.. I think i will just leave it for tonight..
After all he is 46 not an ideal guy for me. He has to be amaaaaaazzzzing for me to be with, which he is not nowclick to expand
Yes, spooky is my middle name lol
He is too old for you....i doubt he will be able to get it up soon 😛
Get a slightly younger, braver one
He is a coward
Posted by MyStarsShinehaha whats your sign? are you virgo too?Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by MyStarsShineit's spooky that you mentioned about the 33 thing.. it's thunder and windy here... and he also metnioned oh age 33 something similar to what you said when we on first date...Posted by StrawberryJamYou know sometimes we need to speak it out our write it down to make it real.....Posted by MyStarsShinemy instinct tells me he is avodiing emotional connections... if he really is sick wtih migraine he woudln't be thinking of visiting before...Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by MyStarsShineI'm 33.; he kept telling me I look way younger so ppl probbaly think I was too young for him.
..and often when a guy thinks the woman is too *good* for him, he wont work on building on the rship, he will sabotage it by finding someone else
I have seen that lots of times
Laziness
I asked him to call and he is not calling.. . He just text me saying he is going to bed now and he didn;t get to sleep too well the last tow nights and he has a migraine. lets catch up soon. sleep well, nite nite x
I think you know what to do
Wishing you much luck with this
*hugs*
I had the strangest thought...it is said the Messiah was 33 when he was killed ~ don't let this guy crucify you, i am not getting any good feelings about him at all and i think he would hurt you very much if you gave him the pleasure of being with him
Keep us posted, Virgo
x
I'm having goose bumps now... I already got crucified by one ex before him.. that guy lied about many things.. idk.. I think i will just leave it for tonight..
After all he is 46 not an ideal guy for me. He has to be amaaaaaazzzzing for me to be with, which he is not now
Yes, spooky is my middle name lol
He is too old for you....i doubt he will be able to get it up soon 😛
Get a slightly younger, braver one
He is a coward
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LOL you are funny about him not able to get it up soon. the first time we did it it was 3 times in 24 hrs. When i arrived at his hotel on this trip. we did it right away then slept for a bit then went for breakfast. he got hard again before he goes to work so we did it and he was late to work haha then twice on sat. and none on Sunday and monday. he hurt his back.
he has lots of health issue. constabt migrain. imsonia, crooked nasal canals even his nose look perfect from outsidfe.. crooked spine according to xray and also small jaw and has to move the jaw forward by wearing something in his mouth.
Posted by MyStarsShinevirgo or scoprio?Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by MyStarsShineit's spooky that you mentioned about the 33 thing.. it's thunder and windy here... and he also metnioned oh age 33 something similar to what you said when we on first date...Posted by StrawberryJamYou know sometimes we need to speak it out our write it down to make it real.....Posted by MyStarsShinemy instinct tells me he is avodiing emotional connections... if he really is sick wtih migraine he woudln't be thinking of visiting before...Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by MyStarsShineI'm 33.; he kept telling me I look way younger so ppl probbaly think I was too young for him.
..and often when a guy thinks the woman is too *good* for him, he wont work on building on the rship, he will sabotage it by finding someone else
I have seen that lots of times
Laziness
I asked him to call and he is not calling.. . He just text me saying he is going to bed now and he didn;t get to sleep too well the last tow nights and he has a migraine. lets catch up soon. sleep well, nite nite x
I think you know what to do
Wishing you much luck with this
*hugs*
I had the strangest thought...it is said the Messiah was 33 when he was killed ~ don't let this guy crucify you, i am not getting any good feelings about him at all and i think he would hurt you very much if you gave him the pleasure of being with him
Keep us posted, Virgo
x
I'm having goose bumps now... I already got crucified by one ex before him.. that guy lied about many things.. idk.. I think i will just leave it for tonight..
After all he is 46 not an ideal guy for me. He has to be amaaaaaazzzzing for me to be with, which he is not now
Yes, spooky is my middle name lol
He is too old for you....i doubt he will be able to get it up soon 😛
Get a slightly younger, braver one
He is a coward
click to expand
Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by MyStarsShinehaha whats your sign? are you virgo too?Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by MyStarsShineit's spooky that you mentioned about the 33 thing.. it's thunder and windy here... and he also metnioned oh age 33 something similar to what you said when we on first date...Posted by StrawberryJamYou know sometimes we need to speak it out our write it down to make it real.....Posted by MyStarsShinemy instinct tells me he is avodiing emotional connections... if he really is sick wtih migraine he woudln't be thinking of visiting before...Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by MyStarsShineI'm 33.; he kept telling me I look way younger so ppl probbaly think I was too young for him.
..and often when a guy thinks the woman is too *good* for him, he wont work on building on the rship, he will sabotage it by finding someone else
I have seen that lots of times
Laziness
I asked him to call and he is not calling.. . He just text me saying he is going to bed now and he didn;t get to sleep too well the last tow nights and he has a migraine. lets catch up soon. sleep well, nite nite x
I think you know what to do
Wishing you much luck with this
*hugs*
I had the strangest thought...it is said the Messiah was 33 when he was killed ~ don't let this guy crucify you, i am not getting any good feelings about him at all and i think he would hurt you very much if you gave him the pleasure of being with him
Keep us posted, Virgo
x
I'm having goose bumps now... I already got crucified by one ex before him.. that guy lied about many things.. idk.. I think i will just leave it for tonight..
After all he is 46 not an ideal guy for me. He has to be amaaaaaazzzzing for me to be with, which he is not now
Yes, spooky is my middle name lol
He is too old for you....i doubt he will be able to get it up soon 😛
Get a slightly younger, braver one
He is a coward
LOL you are funny about him not able to get it up soon. the first time we did it it was 3 times in 24 hrs. When i arrived at his hotel on this trip. we did it right away then slept for a bit then went for breakfast. he got hard again before he goes to work so we did it and he was late to work haha then twice on sat. and none on Sunday and monday. he hurt his back.
he has lots of health issue. constabt migrain. imsonia, crooked nasal canals even his nose look perfect from outsidfe.. crooked spine according to xray and also small jaw and has to move the jaw forward by wearing something in his mouth.click to expand
Spooky Scorpio 😛
Sounds like he is desperately hanging on to his youth and in the midst of a mid life crisis....yikes! lol
Posted by MyStarsShineI guessed Scorpio cos of your intuition and I had similar rapport with some of the scopes.Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by MyStarsShinehaha whats your sign? are you virgo too?Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by MyStarsShineit's spooky that you mentioned about the 33 thing.. it's thunder and windy here... and he also metnioned oh age 33 something similar to what you said when we on first date...Posted by StrawberryJamYou know sometimes we need to speak it out our write it down to make it real.....Posted by MyStarsShinemy instinct tells me he is avodiing emotional connections... if he really is sick wtih migraine he woudln't be thinking of visiting before...Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by MyStarsShineI'm 33.; he kept telling me I look way younger so ppl probbaly think I was too young for him.
..and often when a guy thinks the woman is too *good* for him, he wont work on building on the rship, he will sabotage it by finding someone else
I have seen that lots of times
Laziness
I asked him to call and he is not calling.. . He just text me saying he is going to bed now and he didn;t get to sleep too well the last tow nights and he has a migraine. lets catch up soon. sleep well, nite nite x
I think you know what to do
Wishing you much luck with this
*hugs*
I had the strangest thought...it is said the Messiah was 33 when he was killed ~ don't let this guy crucify you, i am not getting any good feelings about him at all and i think he would hurt you very much if you gave him the pleasure of being with him
Keep us posted, Virgo
x
I'm having goose bumps now... I already got crucified by one ex before him.. that guy lied about many things.. idk.. I think i will just leave it for tonight..
After all he is 46 not an ideal guy for me. He has to be amaaaaaazzzzing for me to be with, which he is not now
Yes, spooky is my middle name lol
He is too old for you....i doubt he will be able to get it up soon 😛
Get a slightly younger, braver one
He is a coward
LOL you are funny about him not able to get it up soon. the first time we did it it was 3 times in 24 hrs. When i arrived at his hotel on this trip. we did it right away then slept for a bit then went for breakfast. he got hard again before he goes to work so we did it and he was late to work haha then twice on sat. and none on Sunday and monday. he hurt his back.
he has lots of health issue. constabt migrain. imsonia, crooked nasal canals even his nose look perfect from outsidfe.. crooked spine according to xray and also small jaw and has to move the jaw forward by wearing something in his mouth.
Spooky Scorpio 😛
Sounds like he is desperately hanging on to his youth and in the midst of a mid life crisis....yikes! lol
click to expand
Haha mid life crisis is the impression I got but I didn't tell it to his face. I made joke out being 69 years old. He goes that too old. I said well our age together is above that. He goes I can be 29 you can be 40. It's a joke but it reflects his fear of ageing.
He admit to me that when he was 40 he was feeling depressed cos he is still renting in a small condo (I find it weird cos he earns a lot, may be he spends too much) he also felt bad cos all his friends are married except him. And he doesn't drive a nice car. I know he still drinksa lot but he probably is not admitting it. I say that cos he has plenty of alcohol at home.
During the trip I said may he time to quit alcohol cos of your migraine. He goes I used to binge drink but not anymore. I said french often have wine at dinner so I guess it's normal in your culture? He goes yea but they don't drink a lot. Hen I added not saying it's right or wrong to drink but ppl who binge drink often have unresolved issue? He looked away and said yes.. then we changed the subject.
I'm very honest and totally not judging him but it might have came off that way
Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by MyStarsShineI guessed Scorpio cos of your intuition and I had similar rapport with some of the scopes.Posted by StrawberryJam🙂 Witchy ScorpsPosted by MyStarsShinehaha whats your sign? are you virgo too?Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by MyStarsShineit's spooky that you mentioned about the 33 thing.. it's thunder and windy here... and he also metnioned oh age 33 something similar to what you said when we on first date...Posted by StrawberryJamYou know sometimes we need to speak it out our write it down to make it real.....Posted by MyStarsShinemy instinct tells me he is avodiing emotional connections... if he really is sick wtih migraine he woudln't be thinking of visiting before...Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by MyStarsShineI'm 33.; he kept telling me I look way younger so ppl probbaly think I was too young for him.
..and often when a guy thinks the woman is too *good* for him, he wont work on building on the rship, he will sabotage it by finding someone else
I have seen that lots of times
Laziness
I asked him to call and he is not calling.. . He just text me saying he is going to bed now and he didn;t get to sleep too well the last tow nights and he has a migraine. lets catch up soon. sleep well, nite nite x
I think you know what to do
Wishing you much luck with this
*hugs*
I had the strangest thought...it is said the Messiah was 33 when he was killed ~ don't let this guy crucify you, i am not getting any good feelings about him at all and i think he would hurt you very much if you gave him the pleasure of being with him
Keep us posted, Virgo
x
I'm having goose bumps now... I already got crucified by one ex before him.. that guy lied about many things.. idk.. I think i will just leave it for tonight..
After all he is 46 not an ideal guy for me. He has to be amaaaaaazzzzing for me to be with, which he is not now
Yes, spooky is my middle name lol
He is too old for you....i doubt he will be able to get it up soon 😛
Get a slightly younger, braver one
He is a coward
LOL you are funny about him not able to get it up soon. the first time we did it it was 3 times in 24 hrs. When i arrived at his hotel on this trip. we did it right away then slept for a bit then went for breakfast. he got hard again before he goes to work so we did it and he was late to work haha then twice on sat. and none on Sunday and monday. he hurt his back.
he has lots of health issue. constabt migrain. imsonia, crooked nasal canals even his nose look perfect from outsidfe.. crooked spine according to xray and also small jaw and has to move the jaw forward by wearing something in his mouth.
Sorry to laugh but i am going to make a checklist for you (very Virgo hey)? so you can look at what you have in this guy
* potentially chasing other (younger) women
* drink issues?
* health issues
* avoids being honest with you
* old and thinking he is young lol (refusal to grow up)
* doesn't give you any assurance about a future together?
* immature, acting like an overgrown teen
Will i go on......?
Maybe you study the list and then think about your options
Have to go !
xx
Spooky Scorpio 😛
Sounds like he is desperately hanging on to his youth and in the midst of a mid life crisis....yikes! lol
Haha mid life crisis is the impression I got but I didn't tell it to his face. I made joke out being 69 years old. He goes that too old. I said well our age together is above that. He goes I can be 29 you can be 40. It's a joke but it reflects his fear of ageing.
He admit to me that when he was 40 he was feeling depressed cos he is still renting in a small condo (I find it weird cos he earns a lot, may be he spends too much) he also felt bad cos all his friends are married except him. And he doesn't drive a nice car. I know he still drinksa lot but he probably is not admitting it. I say that cos he has plenty of alcohol at home.
During the trip I said may he time to quit alcohol cos of your migraine. He goes I used to binge drink but not anymore. I said french often have wine at dinner so I guess it's normal in your culture? He goes yea but they don't drink a lot. Hen I added not saying it's right or wrong to drink but ppl who binge drink often have unresolved issue? He looked away and said yes.. then we changed the subject.
I'm very honest and totally not judging him but it might have came off that wayclick to expand
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