I'm asking because my cap would only enter a serious relationship with what he considers a 'good girl'. His ex was a virgin and not flirtatious, cheater, a bitch, etc. None of the bad qualities you would think of I guess. Although he slept with MANY girls. They were on/off and finally broke up because she was very clingy and mistrusting.
Anyway, maybe caps really do have high standards because my cap liked me for the things we have in common (like our finickiness, ambition, desire to be rich, family being number 1, conservativeness, blah blah blah) but also because no guy has ever had me before. He would consider me 'used' if I had an ex.
Wait-a-minute...that boy is too young for this foolish. He's already started his sadistic cap qualities. When you and him are through, he'll be on the hunt for another virgin. This process will be going on till he's about 40....and the girls will be younger of course.
Mine too. I was not a virgin and far from perfect. But I do have respect for myself and I am independent. We are the oposite of dear diary though. He was the one in long relationships my longest was 3 months at most. I have had 2 relationships That lasted longer then 9 months. His longest is 6 years with another woman though. We have been together 3 and half years now.
bad girls are only for using, people who end up, and stay with bitches are usually insecure, or tricked into staying with one. good girls, depends on the definition of good.
if she meant a dudley doright type woman, depends on the guy. for me, i like low maintenance. if i was an ass chaser, i'd still like low maintenance. but no, i don't particularly like women who are wild, or curse as much as me. double standard? maybe, but I find having someone who is almost opposite, but appreciative to be quite complementing. also considering that 2 people who are too like minded often encourage each other. so if i'm the aggressive side, and she encourages that, then well, that may lead to trouble. but that akins to the low maintenance. i like someone reliable, and who will be there. someone i don't have pour concrete into her snatch to stop her from fucking other guys. even then there are ways to bypass that, and isn't worth the effort.
some caps may like femme fatales, but they piss me off. "i'm so good i don't need any man, I'm all for me, blah blah blah blah blah quack quack. I will make sure i compete with you, for dominance and finance". i'm like good, go get a vibrator and stfu. i'm not for competition. never have liked it. I just like winning.
Cap men, on the other hand, arent usually in the business of making h0es into housewives. They have way too many trust issues to even consider doing so.
its because of bitches and whores we tend to be extra suspicious and careful. neither do i see no purpose of putting a long term lease on a whore. i see no purpose for a whore either. sluts have them beaten hands down. why pay anything for something i can get for free, and with much less commitment.
he used the word 'used'. but I also think he means, "the fewer partners the better" everything with less mileage, and tread wear tends to be better. i rather break something in myself. but doesnt mean that preowned (public relations here), is necessarily a bad thing. if he passed you up because you've been tapped, then he's an ass. unless you show desires to be with the ex.
forgive me i'm slightly bias. forgiven, you're not the first woman to have sand in their vagina about a capricorn guy. some are really bad. just don't over generalize.
Be yourself...dont hide and be something your not. If they discover you've been playing a lie...you'll be dropped in seconds with a "NO RETURNS" policy. actually, it's more like we want a refund. such behavior would be false advertisement, and that is swindling someone. so by all rights, they should be entitled to a refund. capricorns aren't the nicest/safest people when they have a grudge against someone.
Wow this quote really says a lot for the emancipation of women. Ladies remember these words before you let a man into your bed ....this is how noughties men really think! Forget sexual liberation, this is the reality.
i have equal respect/contempt for women as i do for men. if someone is promiscuous, then so be it. but i don't see the purpose in staking claims on it. there is a difference between slut, whore, and someone who has sex outside of marriage. sluts tend to be people who, much like men, are just so hot in the ass they want to fuck often. i don't care about the morality, or religious bullcrap. it's just not my style , and any woman/guy practicing that shouldn't be upset about people not staying long enough to hear their problems. nor should they be upset if people utilize the resources they so readily offer. that includes skimpy clothing. woman shows ass, men see ass. men want ass, and she's bragging she has one up for grabs. want more specific targets, then flash that ass to the target, not to the world. anything broadcasted will be viewed.
if someone is peddling ass, then that's their business. but don't expect everyone to sing cheers about it. if they are selling something, provide the product, and keep business minded about it. meaning don't fall in love with the customer, keep the customer happy, and know how to move the product.
but something that's public, has no reason to be claimed personally. guys who do so are stupid, so are the women who do. but many people don't mean to be stupid.
if a girl has had many people in her past, then, eh. basically whatever terms are in the relationship agreement should be met and honored, if not it is a breach of contract.
yes, bad history is a little offsetting. and a trail of men or women tends to imply something is wrong. not so much the slut stigma, but the whole, i can't stay stable, or control myself type thing. or worse yet, i know what i'm doing, and i'm going to do it to you too.
yes, becareful of people who want to misuse others. but, if a woman wants to fuck, a guy does, then whatever. just try not to throw out more morons. dont need anymore of those. having had multiple partners in the past doesn't make a person a slut or a whore. being a slut or a whore does.
what a man wants, good, bad or whatever varies greatly.
me for instance. if i want ass, i'll get a slut\trick. i don't give a flying fuck if she knows nuclear physics, and has a black belt in everything marital arts. don't care, i'm in it for the ass. cruel, but true. much like anything else. w/o emotional attachment, anything done is just self gratification. luckily for me, i'm too apathetic to go into this scenario. too many bad results possible for my taste, such as diseases and unplanned pregnancy.
if i was the type to buy pussy, i want just that. pussy. no talk, no weeping, or self pity. same as with the slut portion, i don't want know what bill needs to be paid. just get the job done, and hand me the bill for the services.
if i want a loving wife, a mother for my children, someone to help manage my home, then that's what ill get. she's the one ill actually give a damn about. the only one who can make demands of me, and as such, i expect top notch service in return. i give her me, she gives me her. she has an ass, and other parts as well, and each part has equal interest to me. those parts include her mind and feelings.
i would want a refund if i married a slut or whore by accident. my woman is for me, so no slutting allowed, and i'd sell/stab other peoples babies, or do the most evil, disgusting jobs, if i had to to never ever have my woman whore herself. and ffs, i would hope she never tries to whore herself to me. like, use her body to get presents.
in none of these situations should any thievery take place. fair exchange for services. so make no mistake, i don't give a flying fuck about morals. i don't care about what are the limits between one job and the other. but, a slut/trick should not expect the benefits of wife. falling for a trick is stupid. women do similar things to men too. maybe women worry more about the connotation than they do of how they feel. if they feel dirty, then don't fucking do it. easy to say i know.
My vagina is none of your concern...maybe your fathers. but not yours. there is a 100% chance that neither of us are worried about it. merely responding to bs capricorn bashing. but i have no quarrel with you. just try not to get trapped in blind stereotyping. i find hating any group to be silly, unless they all really do suck.
eh, i know i probably come across as some mysongnous person. but that's quite wrong. i haven't read it, but seems to deal with poor relationships between men and women, and corruption.
i don't dislike women. i used to have that whole christian bullcrap about everything is pure and golden, but that was when i was like 3. i then realized people are people. sluts, jackasses, kings, queens, can all be the same people. (flame off for any religious rants)
i don't like competition from men or women. not from the fear of losing, but it's not what i want. i want to win. i feel that if 2 people are 'together' they should work for a common goal. not piggy back on each other waiting to hop to the finishing line. granted, that goes against my chinese sign, but they weren't running that race with a partner.
i acknowledge the behavior good or bad. i believe while there are many good people, i also believe that such people are targets of abuse. despite how much i talk about ass chasing, i don't particularly enjoy it. ass is too much of a common material for it to be held in any high esteem. women on the other hand should not misunderstand, or intertwine themselves with the word ass. body parts are just like money, some people only want that. sexual activity does not necessarily indicate if a person is not trust worthy, or valuable.
but, everyone is worthless in some fashion. don't flame me, just read on. we are worth much to a few people, our closest true friends, maybe employers, and some family. but to many, and i do mean many more, we mean nothing to them. i can see from the womans point of view, if she was expecting a relationship, and here comes a man just wanting sex or money. sadly that's life. people set their asking price. whether it be blood, gold or loyalty. sadly for us, others will not honor the asking price every single time. probably is why so many are so easily dispensable.
i also believe, that many people fail to understand human nature, or social structures. morality is an ever changing length of a rope around us. but, reactions are a formula unto themselves. i know, if i use money as a main selling point for myself, i will likely attract gold diggers, and con-artist. i'll attract some innocents too. but i know what else will come into my waters to visit. as such, i believe many women don't understand, the actual ramifications of their behavior. the risk for all behavior, whether considered socially good, or bad, have their own costs. what they want to do, and are willing to put up with is their business. so i say, fuck what people say about what's right or wrong, show me proof per situation, and then explain results. but those results must involve the thoughts of others, sadly.
i might just buy the book for kicks, looks odd though. then again i'm already behind on a few books i have. but can squeeze one more in the IN pile. btw, not knocking you satyr, just spouting off about the stuff i read when researching the book.
so, to re answer the initial posts question. bad, good, or whatever, i like one that doesn't cause me trouble. i dislike anything that brings discord into the home.
ja ja, i know im ranting, im bored and sleepy. so don't like it, hit the page down key. 😛.
dude, lighten up. lol, rather odd how people mistake me as actually being disturbed or upset by this.
..., there is a huge confused morality in the mind of men when it comes to women & sex. I think this is based on what goes on in men's heads when it comes to sex. It's a completely different ballgame. Men are even more confused than they used to be in the olden days, when the world was divided into girls who wait until they are married and sluts.
more like, the world labeled anyone who didn't wait to marriage sluts. lol, i think women are just as confused as men. perception, not intention, is what is important. women want to be fucked, and men want to fuck, and billions will deny it. women seem to confuse sex with love. to pop a nut requires no contract. screwing is the staple crop of life. partially why many animals have 'seasons' in which they go into heat. because if not, the female would practically always be attached to the male. not exactly same for humans. much how women treat men, men treat women. whatever they want, they want. if they just want sex, then that is all they want. it's not about being scared of one sex or another. its that someone wants to get their rocks off and go on with their lives. if women are worried about being respected by every man, hunt the gold diging lying bitches. those are the ones really doing damage to you. them and porn stars. but mostly the gold digging lying ones. if there were any that have ever disheartened me against the female of the species its them. luckily i can process that not all are like that. just an insane amount are. PEOPLE (not just women) are just meat with too much to say, but occasionally, there is a jewel, that actually has something worth saying. diggers/porn/super sluts, only seem to strive to prove that i'm wrong.
just remember, a woman turning her tail to the side doesn't always make a guy want to commit, i'd say 99% of the time it just makes him want to fuck. granted, a hard dick is very compliant to get its needs fulfilled. some guys just want ass, some want wives, some want ass for wives, just pick a role, or no role, and move on. hell some women get off being sex slaves.
so i say, most men, don't probably care, or even make the connection (sometimes of course), about love, or respect associated with sex. dont have to have either to bust a nut. and honestly, those 2 things are reaaaaaaally fucking annoying when trying to get off. can't just get in and out?
people in general should be more careful. some women do similar things. easy marks are prime targets. just don't expect every guy to know or care about a woman, just because it's morally right.
hmm, lady m is quite entertaining.
If people act like animals they will be treated accordingly. humans are animals, just on top of the food chain and handle machines. hell humans steal/share 98% of their source code from chimpanzees.
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