Posted by noname
Similar here. I have a few strong convictions but I don't care and pretty flexible for most other stuff. I secretly love it when someone can stand up to me and convince me that there is a better way. I think the mere fact that a person is able to stand still and not losing ground during the likely turmoil battling with my strong will is pretty impressive lol
Posted by Chance11
i think it's probably spread evenly between both genders..it might play better traditionally on the males though. it's one of the main reasons that i think cap women and cap men go better with different signs. a cap woman isn't going to relinquish control to a man with suspect judgement and stability..and even so, must be properly coaxed. with cap man, it's not even an issue because cap will lead regardless.
for me personally, i don't sweat the small stuff and am laid back so i am pretty flexible and overly accommodating on most issues..but on the ones that i feel are really important (which are very few in reality), i don't compromise as much. i give these issues a lot of thought so i feel competence, leadership, and track record should be trusted and respected unless otherwise proven incapable historically.
Posted by SangfroidPosted by truecap
I can be very stubborn especially if I feel I'm being bullied or pushed into something. I will do the opposite just to spite someone.
What if they're playing reverse psychology? My go-to response is to be predictably, unpredictable with them from then on but that's becoming a bit.....predictable.click to expand
Posted by CapintheHat
I'm usually stubborn when I'm sure about something. But I'm not just stubborn to be mean or to have my way at another person's expense.
Posted by truecap
I can be very stubborn especially if I feel I'm being bullied or pushed into something. I will do the opposite just to spite someone.
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